A podcast about two idiots who decided to watch MTV's Friendzone and then talk about it
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Aamber and Charlie understand that adulting as millennial black women in Los Angeles is not easy. These best friends started Ladies Doing Stuff Podcast so that women can know they are not alone in their desire for perfection, or even just for survival. After college graduation, the ladies simply picked up their high school friendship right where they left off; but they found that their adult lives were not that simple at all. Job losses, new marriages, and keeping friendships are just a few ...
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Unfiltered: The Reality of Being a Creator and Entrepreneur
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🙌🏾 Welcome to our first live episode of Ladies Doing Stuff with your hosts, Cheram and Aamber Aleyna! We’re super excited to dive into the wild ride of being a creator and entrepreneur, especially as women of color. In this episode, we’re getting real about the highs and lows we face in our creative and entrepreneurial journeys. We’ll share the thr…
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We're diving deep into the world of breakups—both romantic and professional. We've got an extra special treat for you on this episode of Ladies Doing Stuff! We're joined by our amazing friend and special guest, Chasity Saunders! Together, we'll navigate the twists, turns, and tears to find the perfect break up protocol.First things first Aamber and…
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That's what he said, now here's the TRUTH
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They say us Ladies are complex, emotional, and hard to figure out...but are we thoooooough?On more than one occasion, Cheram and Aamber have put in overtime trying to figure out what men ACTUALLY mean when they say things. When he says, "I ain't trippin" after you talk to his friend a little too long. Or when you're not dating exclusively and he sa…
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Are our bad habits really that bad? Is it too late for us to change? Cheram lives life as an i-n-d-e-p-e-n-d-e-n-t woman, and trusts no one. Aamber sees you trying, acknowledges your efforts, and reserves the right let you know it's not good enough. Is it really that big a deal? Alright, maybe life as unprotected Black women in a big city has left …
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Why is it that we always seem to get the apology we've been waiting for a little too late? We've already started the healing process, journaled about you, talked to our friends about every shady thing you've done and NOW you choose to write a 6-page letter with a half apology? Not that we're talking from experience or anything... Join in with Chera…
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The Ladies wanna know if there’s any good men left because our track record - more specifically Cheram’s track record - has yielded negative returns on investments when it comes to trying to find a partner. That means something is wrong with the world, right? There’s just a bunch of unloved and unhealed men who don’t know what it means to love anyo…
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"I don't know if you know this about us, but we're 30 something..." What's the difference between being in your 20s and being in your 30s? Low back pain out of nowhere and a good amount of life lessons, that's what. Cheram and Aamber look back at their 20-ish year old selves and ask "how were you feeling then versus now?" We've discovered a lot abo…
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Have you ever gone out on a date and felt that instant, undeniable, irresistible chemistry? You know, love at first sight! ❤️ Yeah, neither have we. That's why we made this episode. We've put guys in the friend-zone more times than we can count. And hey, once every blue moon, they've put us in the friend-zone too. What gets us there in the first pl…
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Ahhh, The Friendzone. We've all been there. In this live pre-show Cheram and Aamber show you all the ways NOT to land a high quality lady. For full details, listen to the upcoming episode, "How to be Friendzoned." This intro is just the beginning.Oh yeah, don't tell anyone but...the ladies have been friendzoned too. I know. Crazy right?! Who wouldn…
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People change. So do friendships. This episode proves that change is uncomfortable 😅 New Years resolutions are cute but the mic don't lie! It gets all too real when the Ladies dish about their relationship, their wins, and their losses this past year. Cheram shares how she really feels about who Aamber is becoming. Aamber asks Cheram if she feels l…
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Listen as we break girl code and chat about what ladies really want in the bedroom - Re-released for your listening pleasure. Of course, no one size fits all! Aamber has a checklist to complete before sex comes to mind, while Cheram will risk being late for work to get it in. That’s just the beginning! Learn what we expect from men during sex, and …
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Awww, we missed you too! During this live show, Cheram and Aamber recap Kiss & Tell, a previously released Ladies Doing Stuff episode about black female sexuality. Learn how the Ladies view their relationship with sex then and now! Be on the look out for a re-lease of Kiss & Tell 👀By Ladies Doing Stuff Podcast
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Recorded live! In keeping with the Ladies Doing Stuff Podcast tradition, Aamber and Cheram dive deep into their wins and losses for the year. No one is holding back this episode. 2021 sure didn’t! Hold on, you may need a mimosa for this one! 🥂By Ladies Doing Stuff Podcast
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Did the Ladies just have a fight? The only thing harder than building relationships is keeping them. This episode Charlie & Aamber learn even their connection is not immune to the work required to maintain friendships. We've come a long way since 2016 but who knew there is still work to be done! 🤦🏾♀️…
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Dating in Los Angeles is like having a picnic on the beach. It sounded like a good idea at the time! Next thing you know the wind picks up, your towel folds in, and you have a heavy helping of sand in your guacamole.We're back from summer break to ask you all a serious question: “Should I give up on dating?” Both of us have had our fair share of da…
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"I'm not where I want to be." Is there a millennial that can't relate? If you are that millennial, can I hold a dollar? Jk. No but really - This episode we explore how to cope when great expectations of life in Los Angeles meets harsh reality. Believe it or not, it's not all bad! We've grown. We've changed. Like a lot. 2020-2021 has shown us who we…
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Watch this episode on YouTube! If you know the Ladies, you know we are constantly in transition. The pandemic, new jobs, new relationships, new homes, it's exciting, and stressful, and...ah I just need a moment. It's a lot. We hit up Derek Lane, fellow podcaster (and big bro) to help us sort through it all. Change can be great! It could also be a t…
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Examples of creepy Craigslist room rental inquiry responses: These are real ⬇️ "U looking sexy want to be my live in girlfriend" "Are you open to a live in girlfriend situation? Free rent as long as you stay. Doesn't have to be only sexual but actually build something nice together or keep it simple. " "I don’t have a room for you, but I do have ca…
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Hindsight is 20/20 and 2020 is not what we pictured. The politics, the protests - it literally feels like the world is on fire. Come to think of it, California is. But hey, would you believe it if I told you we've come a long way?True, the world is crumbling a bit, but we've found a way to grow through it all. This episode the Ladies flashback and …
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Hear us out. 2020 is a good year! You just have to squint past the pandemic and the entire uprooting of life as we know it! *smiles nervously* In all seriousness, we’re learning to find the lessons in all the hardships that 2020 has thrown our way. Sudden transitions, new jobs, new anxiety, and new kitchen appliances are just the tip of the iceberg…
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*ALEXA! What are feelings?* To be fair, this previously unreleased episode was made in early 2019. Back in the day even when things weren't all COVID-Y, we were feeling so overwhelmed with a lack of emotion that we had to ask ourselves the question, "Can you feel anything?" In retrospect, we were probably depressed. So naturally, this episode consi…
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“Death is only the end if you believe life is about you.” We brought in Death Care expert and author of “Dear Grief, You’re a B*tch,” Shannan Guillory to educate us about death from an emotional and professional point of view. We saved this episode in the vault and now is the perfect time to share it with you. Before social distancing and self-quar…
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Situationships and friends with benefits are kind of the norm here in LA. Everyone is afraid of commitment and no one wants to miss out on the “perfect” partner. Swiping right for nightly thrills seems to be the new normal, but what if we took sex out of the equation? Before you roll your eyes and leave like Viola Davis, just hear us out. Charlie a…
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What Control Issues? I Don't Have Control Issues.
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We've been told that we're particular, opinionated, and maybe a tad bit controlling. Of course none of this is true but if it were, this is the episode we would make to address it. It doesn't matter if you're at home, in the workplace, or in a relationship. We're all battling for more control over our lives. Some of us (Aamber) more than others (Ch…
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You know that thing you've waited your whole life to do but never actually did? Oh, we're doing that thing today. This episode Charlie and Aamber talk one-on-one about those deep desires and wild, wild thoughts that have been buried by the weight of responsibility, full-time employment, and you guessed it...traffic. Sometimes growing up means setti…
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"We cater way too much to other people and we need to learn how to put ourselves first." We're getting a little bit selfish this episode and you know what, that's okay! Black women have it ingrained in their character that we should serve others before taking care of ourselves. Anxiety, depression, and suppressed emotions are just a few of the many…
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We’ve been working hard these last few months trying to keep it all together. Sometimes it feels like we’re going at it alone, but that’s just not reality. More Charlie and Aamber life-updates to come later this season, but for now, we’re just searching for answers! Our special guest and wellness expert Miana, reminds us that we can be our own best…
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You’ve heard America’s solution to anxiety, but we guarantee you haven't heard ours. Sure you can lay off the caffeine, look on the bright side, or take a pill, but does it ever really resolve the issue? The truth is, anxiety can revolve around one big issue or a hundred “little” pet peeves, either way it’s real. The Ladies speak on their everyday …
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“Shamone! Make that change.” No seriously. You should! This episode Charlie and Aamber sit down with our special guest Monnaa, to discuss how to make life-changing decisions. Monnaa has gone from working in DC politics to paving her own path in stand-up comedy. Natural career trajectory, right? We dive deep into the mindset that often stops us from…
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Yes, we’re talking about race. No, it’s okay! You don’t have to run. The Ladies check their prejudice at the door as they disclose some surprising and not-so-surprising truths about living and loving in a city that “doesn’t see color.” Deciding which [black] hairstyle to wear to meet [white] boyfriend’s family is only the beginning. Charlie sees pe…
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Ahh, To be young, gifted, and Black... in Hollywood. Charlie and Aamber are breaking into show business and they need all the dirt — I mean, help they can get. The Ladies learn the advantages and challenges that come with being a woman of color in the entertainment industry and explore the behind the scenes with Emmy nominated producer Kareem A. Co…
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We're bombarded with posts, likes, and read receipts. Staying present has never been harder. This episode The Ladies learn to let go of the ghosts of the past. Charlie comes to terms with 'unclaimed' baggage from past relationships, while Aamber learns that exes don't always make the best of friends. This one goes out to anyone grappling with the p…
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"Why can't we all just get along?" We'll tell you why. This episode the Ladies discuss what's worth fighting for and how to make peace with the past. Whether you're in a new relationship or waiting in line at the store, our peace of mind is tested daily. Charlie keeps the peace by letting it all "roll off her shoulders" while Aamber seems ready to …
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Is it better to be feared or liked? You tell us, because we're still trying to figure this one out. Whether we're giving money to strangers or time to those that don't deserve it, we often find ourselves being far too nice. But what's it all for? This episode the Ladies dive into the need women have to be liked, our efforts to be kind, and what it …
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Was that “the one that got away” or did you just dodge a bullet? Innocent or not, every romantic relationship starts with a crush. Charlie & Aamber flashback to their school days to find out what it really means to “play chase.” The Ladies discuss how they’ve approached guys in a place as picky as Los Angeles and dish about their failed attempts at…
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You don’t have to cry anymore, the wait is over! The Ladies return to celebrate another year of wins and growth in Los Angeles. No L’s allowed! Charlie describes her renewed passion for entrepreneurship and new-found need for type-A organization. Aamber shares what she learned about “having it all” as she continues to care less about having it at a…
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Remember, "Step on a crack and break your momma’s back?" That was our first introduction to superstition, but as we get older, we realize superstition can take form as spiritual beliefs, dream interpretations, and even cultural upbringing. Is it all just “hocus pocus” or is their some truth to superstition? On Ladies & Superstition, Charlie explain…
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It's not polite to discuss money, they say. But honestly, where has that gotten us as a community? This episode Charlie and Aamber talk about getting set up for financial success and dive into the perceptions and harsh realities of money management in the black community. The Ladies have had their share of financial misses and money missteps, but n…
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We’ve often heard that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but is that still true if I wear a natural hairstyle in corporate America? For a black woman, a hairstyle can mean the difference between getting noticed, intimidating the masses, or being ignored altogether. Forget beauty and hair care tips, this episode digs deep into what lies beneath …
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How many truth bombs can we drop in one episode? We lost count. Listen to the ladies on Single AF Podcast! Host Nick Chilkov reminds Charlie and Aamber what it’s like to date in 2018, a time when finding a date IRL -In Real Life- is a thing of the past (and apparently a well-known abbreviation). The Ladies are forced to rethink dating protocol and …
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Okay America, give us a break! One minute we’re “independent women” and the next we’re “damsels in distress?” Pick one! It’s no secret, there are some serious drawbacks when it comes to being a lady in Los Angeles. How often are we expected to be seen, sometimes touched, but not heard? Being “twice as good to get half,” isn’t just a line from a TV …
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Charlie & Aamber feature on The ThousandErrors, a fellow Los Angeles podcast. The ladies dive deep into discussion with best friends Juju and Shorts about self-love and controversial gender expectations. Producer Mike drops knowledge on IRA’s, money moves, and real estate. What a journey… you won’t believe what we learned!…
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We all want loyalty, but does it even exist anymore? This episode we invite fellow podcaster and newest BFF Derek Lane from “Last Word Podcast” to discuss where loyalty lies and where lies begin. From mysterious 6-hour gym sessions to 3-way calls gone wrong, listen as we find simple solutions to staying loyal in two-faced times.…
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It’s hard to say if we’re easy to please, but let’s be honest... Will Ladies in LA ever be satisfied? Charlie and Aamber discuss their ‘perfectly reasonable, not at all unrealistic’ expectations of themselves and their ‘bare minimum, perfectly achievable’ expectations of others. Spoiler Alert*** We're completely satisfied...with everything.…
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“Whoever said your 20's are your easiest years is a f**king liar.” The Ladies are kicking off season 2 with an unfiltered look into self-worth and self-love. Listen as Charlie and Aamber discuss their impulsive career decisions, Inception-like nightmares, and the importance of knowing when (and how) to stand up for your worth.…
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While we have a lot to be grateful for, that’s not stopping us from ragging on this past year. From Aamber’s newfound IDGAF attitude to Charlie’s sage and crystal obsession, we discuss our 2017 wins and losses, and almost-attainable goals for 2018.By Aamber & Charlie B.
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No time to listen to season one? Well, this about sums it up! The ladies highlight the best moments of season one and talk about what has changed - or stayed the same since starting Ladies Doing Stuff.By Aamber & Charlie B.
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Forgive & Forget. Never go to bed angry. Are these relationship rules or unrealistic clichés? The Ladies debate and discuss their experiences with forgiveness...or lack thereof.By Aamber & Charlie B.
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