Best DSD Podcasts (2024)

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214. When do you take your ex back to arbitration? 35:02

3M ago35:02

35:02

Listener asks the question of do I take her to arbitration again on minor stuff or just save my money? Show Notes Duane discusses a question a listener asks about when to go to court and when to fight the battle? He covers the topics of what do you really hope to accomplish? Will this action “move the needle”. You have to take a hard look at the re…

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213. Why are dad’s rejected? How to cope with the pain! 24:33

6M ago24:33

24:33

Father’s always seem to be rejected by children, we discuss the reasons and how to cope. Show Notes A common problem people experience in high conflict narcissistic divorces and custody is being rejected by your children. This is a very painful thing to experience and it is very hurtful when you feel your own children “rejecting” you. In this episo…

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212. Slower learner | Take your life back after narcissistic abuse 1:45:00

8M ago1:45:00

1:45:00

Slower learner | Take your life back after narcissistic abuse Show Notes DSD discusses the reality of it taking time to learn how futile it can be struggling to make a different in your life with a narcissistic ex. Duane shares how he continues to see people struggling with this concept. You get stuck in the mode EXPECTING justice and accountabilit…

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211. Taking care of yourself | hobbies are important! 1:36:11

9M ago1:36:11

1:36:11

Taking care of yourself | hobbies are important! Show Notes In this episode Duane talks about the importance of having a hobby or something that you enjoy doing. He also talks about the struggles when you are down, depressed, and beaten with ways to push yourself to break yourself out of that downward spiral. He then fields questions from others on…

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210. You MUST deal with the pain! 1:32:28

9M ago1:32:28

1:32:28

Dealing with the pain is the only way to get through this Show Notes In this episode DSD starts with a clip from Brad Pitt talking about his experience of running from the pain and ultimately how he worked through it to take his like back! Duane has a discussion with the audience about their experiences and ways to approach things Support the Chann…

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209. Letting go and update on civil case 2:02:43

9M ago2:02:43

2:02:43

A deep dive discussion on the struggles of letting go with an update and review of the redacted Order Sustaining Demurrer on my civil case. Show Notes In this episode DSD talks about the struggles and importances of learning to “let go”. We discuss how difficult it is to actually do, being forced to learn the “lesson”, recognizing when you’re being…

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208. Getting Past Your Past 1:33:21

9M ago1:33:21

1:33:21

A discussion on how difficult it is to let of the past Show Notes The Healing Path: Navigate the path to healing with practical tips and strategies. Discover effective coping mechanisms and self-care practices to nurture your mental and emotional well-being. Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! …

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207. Alex on the news again & dealing with the stress of family court 1:00:45

10M ago1:00:45

1:00:45

Alex on the news again & dealing with the stress of family court Show Notes Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website Table of Contents 🔗Links …

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206. Anxiety is a slow killer in narcissistic abuse 57:37

10M ago57:37

57:37

Anxiety is a slow killer in narcissistic abuse Show Notes In this podcast DSD talks about the effectives of the constant anxiety and stress these situation put you under. He covers different techniques he has used to help him and other in dealing with this reality. Later in the podcast he takes a caller working through severe parental alienation an…

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205. Showing up is more important than you realize! 57:41

10M ago57:41

57:41

Showing up is more important than you realize! Show Notes Although these situations are very complicated, stressful, and more frustrating then they really should be it is important to show up and be there for your children. In this podcast we discuss some examples of this with callers sharing their stories. Support the Channel Donate through PayPal…

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204. Handling when older kids are alienated 1:00:37

10M ago1:00:37

1:00:37

Handling when older kids are alienated Show Notes In this podcast DSD continues yesterday’s topic discussing the ways to deal with older children who are in the throws of parental alienation. He also takes the same caller to deep dive in his situation and talk through scenarios and ways to help his children Support the Channel Donate through PayPal…

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203. Don’t fall for the narc daughter-in-law’s trap! 1:00:38

10M ago1:00:38

1:00:38

Don’t fall for the narc daughter-in-law’s trap!Show NotesDon’t fall for the narc daughter-in-law’s trap!Support the ChannelDonate through PayPalDSD Channel MembershipsParticipate in the show!During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD websiteTa…

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202. Can you “disarm” a narcissist? 1:00:01

10M ago1:00:01

1:00:01

Can you “disarm” a narcissist? Show Notes In this podcast DSD tackles the question of HOW to disarm a narcissist or if it is even possible. He covers the blame shifting, understanding their “motivation”, no engaging and other techniques to minimize the effect of narcissistic attacks! Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships…

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201. Starting 2024 strong when dealing with Narcissists! 2:00:18

10M ago2:00:18

2:00:18

Starting 2024 strong when dealing with Narcissists! Show Notes Duane starts the new year with a BANG covering topics on perspective, getting them out of your mind, removing chaos in your life, using exercise to minimize stress, focusing on where you want to go and building your support network! We Also have a few callers talking about their experie…

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200. Dodging the narc rocks & taking your life back! 2:03:48

10M ago2:03:48

2:03:48

Dodging the narc rocks & taking your life back! Show Notes In this podcast DSD talks about how toxic narcissist person will continue to find ways to throw “rocks” at you and drag you back into the drama. It is important to recognize what is going on and to find ways to minimize the damage. Ultimately the best course of action is taking your life ba…

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199. Having an Un-Narc Christmas! 2:00:04

10M ago2:00:04

2:00:04

Having an Un-Narc Christmas! Show Notes Hang out for a DSD Christmas livestream - take your life back and make the most of this difficult situation! Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing You can…

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198. Don’t play the narc “what if” game 1:00:26

11M ago1:00:26

1:00:26

Don’t play the narc “what if” game Show Notes In this show DSD covers a question/comment a listener had about ruminating about the past and asking “what if” thinking they could have done something “different” to have a better outcome or to not having this nightmare experience Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Partici…

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197. When do you fight unilateral narc medical decisions? 57:36

11M ago57:36

57:36

When do you fight unilateral narc medical decisions? Show Notes When do you fight unilateral narc medical decisions? Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing You can also leave a voicemail through …

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196. Picking your battles with a narcissist 59:06

11M ago59:06

59:06

Picking your battles with a narcissist Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website Table of Contents 🔗Links Mentioned During Show DSD Discord DSD…

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195. Do we attracted narcissist? 55:06

11M ago55:06

55:06

Do we attracted narcissist? Show Notes Duane discusses the reasons why we seem to have so many toxic people in our lives. Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing You can also leave a voicemail thr…

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194. Supervised visitation and playing “the game” 52:31

11M ago52:31

52:31

Supervised visitation and playing “the game” Show Notes The main topic of the show is dealing with supervised visitation and playing the game with the “professionals” to start to eek back time and success. This is a very trying time and emotionally draining but it is important that you jump through the flaming hoops and demonstrate that you are NOT…

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193. Winning feels like losing with a narcissist 1:00:15

11M ago1:00:15

1:00:15

Winning feels like losing with a narcissist Show Notes When you're dealing with a toxic, drama-filled person, it can feel like even when you win, you lose. It's important to realize that going through this mess puts a ton of stress on you. Sometimes, we want a big, impressive victory to feel like things are finally turning around, but the emotional…

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192. Dealing with the impossible... 59:06

11M ago59:06

59:06

Dealing with the impossible dealing with a narcissist Show Notes In this podcast Duane discusses the reality of dealing with the impossible scenario when dealing with a high conflict narcissistic ex. DSD talks about how they push you to your breaking point, holding on to what you think should happen, trying to force the “system” to work the way you…

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191. The stressors of dealing with toxic and narcissistic people 1:43:18

11M ago1:43:18

1:43:18

The stressors of dealing with toxic and narcissistic people Show Notes In this podcast we discuss the unique stressors of dealing with toxic people and the catastrophic thinking we can find ourselves in. We can also find ourselves getting advice on “letting things go” which is just almost impossible in our situations. Duane talks about techniques h…

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190. The importance of boundaries 1:26:23

12M ago1:26:23

1:26:23

You have to set boundaries! Show Notes In this podcast Duane talks about the importance of having and setting healthy boundaries for yourself with toxic people AND your own children. He discusses the issues on how toxic people, including your children, will push and poke at you to “test” your boundaries or to even see if you have any at all. He als…

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189. Narcissist's Performance 1:07:00

12M ago1:07:00

1:07:00

A narcissist is always “performing” Show Notes In this show Duane discusses the realities of performances and how they can quickly adapt to changing responses to continue their narrative and illusion. We discuss the underestimated ability to “fake it”, how when corned in a lie they are able to “get out of it”, their abilities to manipulator and con…

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188. Trusting your gut when things don't feel right! 1:14:37

1y ago1:14:37

1:14:37

Trust your gut when you feel things just aren’t right! Show Notes Oftentimes we ignore the signs and red flags of toxic situations and relationships. When we “look back” you can start to see those signs and “remember” when your gut was telling you something was wrong. In this podcast we discuss the signs and ways to approach “listening to your gut”…

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187. No more "F's" to give! 1:05:22

1y ago1:05:22

1:05:22

Reaching the point where you have no more F’s and energy to give! Show Notes In this podcast DSD talks about reaching that point when you change your perspective and shift your energy and focus toward yourself AND making your life better. Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you …

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186. Pushed to your breaking point 1:12:56

1y ago1:12:56

1:12:56

Toxic narcissistic people thrive off of generating pain, misery, and controlling their target. Show Notes In this podcast we discuss how a toxic narcissistic relationship will push you to your breaking point. Even before the relationship ends the stress and torment can be too much to endure. Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Mem…

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185. Don't lose your sanity in a toxic divorce 1:26:38

1y ago1:26:38

1:26:38

A high conflict narcissistic divorce can make you start to question your sanity and in this show we discuss the realities of this and ways around it. Show Notes Duane discusses the hardships of going through a high conflict narcissistic divorce and ways to deal with it while focusing on maintaining your sanity. He then takes viewer questions about …

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184. Narcissists won’t stop | parental alienation is always a risk 57:14

1y ago57:14

57:14

A narcissist will always be looking for wedge issues to exploit. Parental alienation is always a concern Show Notes In this show Duane talks about the reality of how high conflict narcissistic ex’s will always be looking for wedge issues to exploit and use for parental alienation. Even when you feel like your relationship is strong with your childr…

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183. Jame Brashear verdict for the John Mast killing! 1:35:13

1y ago1:35:13

1:35:13

A discussion about the voluntary manslaughter conviction of James Brashear in the killing of John Mast. Show Notes In this discussion Duane discusses the jury verdict for Jame Brashear in the killing of John Mast during a scheduled custody exchange in February 6th 2021 in Lewiston Idaho. The discussion covers the charge for murder 1, murder 2, and …

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182. Validation is important but don’t stay a victim! 48:17

1+ y ago48:17

48:17

We discuss the live changing experience validation provides when we learn about the reality of personality disorders and their patterns of behaviors. Show Notes Validation is a very important part of the healing process after a high conflict narcissistic divorce with a person who shows all the patterns of behavior of a personality disorder. You go …

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181. Watch for narcissistic traps! 1:16:48

1+ y ago1:16:48

1:16:48

Discussion of the importance in watching for narcissistic traps in their search for narcissistic supply and control! Show Notes High conflict narcissistic people unfortunately. This is recurring issue that you will probably experience from personal relationships, ex spouses, family members, children, and work situations. In this video we talk about…

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180. How do you define success after a narcissistic toxic divorce? 26:12

1+ y ago26:12

26:12

A discussion on defining “victory” while going through a toxic narcissistic divorce. Show Notes This discussion starts with a look at perspective and how we look at things when we are going through a toxic narcissistic divorce. It really is a means of “how you look at it” and how you compare your current situation with your previous expectations. T…

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Ep.4: (Week 4) First date | Andrew Tate pt.2 23:03

1+ y ago23:03

23:03

This podcast is again really late and not for any good reason I was just procrastinating making it. Been busy this week its my final week in school before summer break officially starts and I still haven't found a steady job. I did however go on a date this week which I get into and I also went to a financial networking event that I actually forgot…

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Ep.3. (Week 3) Staying busy, Andrew Tate, Cold approaching women 19:35

1+ y ago19:35

19:35

On this episode I explain my week again how I've consciously chosen to take my life into my own hands. I talk about going to the gym consistently, no-fap (briefly), talking with new women, listening to Andrew and Tristan Tate, and keeping myself busy and purpose driven. This week was honestly a very good one and each morning I'm looking forward to …

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Ep.2: Week 2 14:33

1+ y ago14:33

14:33

This episode should've been uploaded last week but a wifi tower has been down in my neighborhood for the past week and a half so technology has not been my greatest ally for the last few days. Last week my mom went to Florida and left me the car I got into a little altercation with some guy from around my block. I wanted to act on my instincts and …

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179. Can everything actually work out? 1:36:57

1+ y ago1:36:57

1:36:57

Can everything actually work out?❋ Support the ChannelDonate through PayPal (https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=4XTY6LZGAFHUA)DSD Channel Memberships (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUXEHz3OECVwLz1X-SNM4lw/join)☎ 1-424-373-5483 or 1-424-DSD-LIVEInternational Calling use this for free calling❋ https://www.callinst…

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Ep.1 : Coming Back ?? 15:58

1+ y ago15:58

15:58

I been gone for a while, I explain it all why again here, What I've been up to, how I been doing, my circumstance, reasons for leaving, etc. Hope you enjoy.

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178. Stop second guessing why you fought for your kids 25:03

1+ y ago25:03

25:03

Stop second guessing why you fought for your kids☎ For one on one coaching - https://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/coaching/❋ Become a channel member! - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUXEHz3OECVwLz1X-SNM4lw/join📱Text "DSDLIVE" to 1-844-598-0012 for text notifications🏕Camping Channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTJroZvhxsDDjLi_kf9gd6A⚠️DISCL…

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177. Coping with narcissistic in-laws and their influence on our ex and lives! 1:11:20

1+ y ago1:11:20

1:11:20

Coping with narcissistic in-laws and their influence on our ex and lives!☎ For one on one coaching - https://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/coaching/❋ Become a channel member! - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUXEHz3OECVwLz1X-SNM4lw/join📱Text "DSDLIVE" to 1-844-598-0012 for text notifications🏕Camping Channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTJroZ…

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176. Getting close to summer vacation and graduations 1:34:30

1+ y ago1:34:30

1:34:30

Getting close to summer vacation and graduations☎ For one on one coaching - https://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/coaching/❋ Become a channel member! - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUXEHz3OECVwLz1X-SNM4lw/join📱Text "DSDLIVE" to 1-844-598-0012 for text notifications🏕Camping Channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTJroZvhxsDDjLi_kf9gd6A⚠️DISCLA…

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175. 🔥 Catastrophe Alert: Embrace Your Feelings and Overcome Them! 1:03:39

1+ y ago1:03:39

1:03:39

Catastrophic emotions can send you on a dark path! Show Notes Oftentimes when going through a narcissistic divorce you can fall into the trap of thinking and feeling everything is catastrophic. This is a dangerous place to be in and oftentimes things are not as bad as we see them. This discussion cover the importance of recognizing the “positive” i…

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174. Discussion in taking your life back and being done 2:20:44

1+ y ago2:20:44

2:20:44

Duane talks about almost being “done” with family court and how life is going to be afterward.Show NotesIn this improtu episode Duane discusses being “almost done” with family court, custody, and child support. The decade long experience is coming to an end in a few months and everything is going to change. All of his kids will be adults living the…

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173. Getting to the other side of a toxic narcissistic divorce 19:18

2y ago19:18

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Show Summary In this episode Duane discusses the difficulties of seeing a way through a high conflict divorce with a toxic narcissist person. Part of the problem Show Notes A discussion on how to get to the other side of a toxic relationship and finding a path to take your life back! In the early stages of this it can be almost impossible to see a …

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172. Being present in the moment and breaking the chaos 20:29

2y ago20:29

20:29

A discussion about how being present in the moment can be a catalyst to getting your life back Show Notes In this episode Duane discusses the topic of being present in the moment and how that can be a critical shift your perspective that gets your life back. This came up in a recent coaching session with a client. When you are stuck in the chaos yo…

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Ep 035 | Stefanie Lea Paulsen & European Goose Hunting 1:10:00

2y ago1:10:00

1:10:00

Stefanie Lea Paulsen joins us from half a world away to talk about some of the unique hunting opportunities in Europe. Stef hunts everything from Barnacle, Pink Foot and Graylag geese. She also goes over some of the big game hunting and fishing experiences. You can find Stef on instagram by searching for "hunting_stef".…

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171. What to do when they don’t pay their “half” 31:56

2y ago31:56

31:56

Toxic narcissistic abusive people will use the children’s medical bills to continue abuse Show Notes Duane receives a question about how I dealt with the continued finical abuse through medical billing. In this podcast Duane talks about the importances of understanding your emotions, what you can do, and how our perspective MUST change over time. S…

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170. Angie Atkinson Grief Stress and Healing 26:54

2y ago26:54

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YouTuber and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach Angie Atkinson passed away Sunday, November 27th Show Notes In this show Duane takes a moment to recognize the loss of Angie Atkinson and the impact she has had on the narcissistic abuse recovery community. Duane and Angie have previous guested on each other’s shows. Support the Channel Donate through …

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