Best NonGay Podcasts (2024)

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Hell, Toes and Unasked Questions 15:14

1h ago15:14

15:14

Talk about twists and turns... this weeks episode of A Gay And A NonGay spans spans from the afterlife to unexpected Grindr encounters in Bali. James and Dan kick off by pondering a fear of going to hell before talking about uncomfortable family dynamics and persistent questions from loved ones. They also tackle a listener dilemma about dealing wit…

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Failed Pop Stars & Dating Someone In The Closet 17:48

8d ago17:48

17:48

Pride Month might have come to an end... but every month is Pride Month on this show! Looking back at this years Mighty Hoopla, James talks about the relationship between gay people and 'failed' pop stars as well as the importance of safety and inclusivity at festivals. In this weeks advice segment, James and Dan explore the challenges faced by a l…

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How Do You Know... If You've Never Done It? 24:28

14d ago24:28

24:28

This week, James and Dan are tackling listener questions around challenging assumptions about sexuality. In this weeks "Non-Gays Can't Say", Josh from Glasgow asks a provocative question around how you truly know if you're gay... if you've never been with a woman. The discussion shifts to recent comments made by the Pope, leading to a conversation …

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Why We Still Need Pride Month 21:50

21d ago21:50

21:50

With the pendulum swinging and violence towards the LGBTQ+ community on the rise, this week James and Dan are discussing why Pride Month is still so important. They talk about issues ranging from violence to conversation therapy and discriminatory laws, whilst also delving into James' personal experience with domestic abuse and the challenges of sp…

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When Did "Just Sex" Stop Being Enough? 11:11

28d ago11:11

11:11

James and Dan are back with a bonus Dear Queerdrie episode, answering a listener's question: when did 'just sex' stop being enough? Let us know what you think on our socials @gaynongay or email us with your opinions and dilemmas - us@gaynongay.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Some Men In London: A Conversation with Peter Parker About Gay History 26:00

1M ago26:00

26:00

Happy Pride Month! In this episode, James and Dan are in conversation with writer and historian Peter Parker to discuss his new anthology series Some Men In London. The books explore discovered memoirs, letters and documents which depict what life was truly like for gay men in London between the 40s and late 50s. Both volumes are available to purch…

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How To Find Gay Friends In Your 30s 20:40

1M ago20:40

20:40

How do you go about making male gay friends as a man in your 30s? Are heterosexual people allowed to use terms like 'top/bottom' and 'pillow princess'? And how does a closeted Hip-Hop MC go about embracing who he really is without risking his career? James and Dan explore it all in this episode. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/…

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A Conversation with Eurovision's 2024 Winner Nemo 24:43

2M ago24:43

24:43

James and Dan caught up with the winner of 2024 Eurovision, Nemo. They chat about how the winning single was created, what's the tea on the dropped trophy and advice for anyone who is non-binary and struggling with their coming out. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy James Barr and Dan Hudson

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Can identity exist without labels? 23:45

2M ago23:45

23:45

James and Dan use a previous listener dilemma as a starting point for a wider discussion around labels and identity. They also answer the question of why gays and lesbians don't get along. Listen back to the chat with Helen Scott here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy James Barr and Dan Hudson

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Is it toxic for gays to be anti-pride? 18:10

2M ago18:10

18:10

Why are so many gays anti-pride? Is it internalised homophobia? Plus - are bisexuals just greedy? Dan ran the London Marathon in 3h 27! You can help him help Marie Curie here. Get tickets to see James’ new show at www.jamesbarrcomedy.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy James Barr and Dan Hudson

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Is monogamy a hoax? 22:28

2M ago22:28

22:28

James and Dan react to RuPaul saying that monogamy is a hoax. Is there such thing as monogamy with men, and is it a different script for gays and nongays? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy James Barr and Dan Hudson

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Who Is Joel Creasey's Front Runner For Eurovision? 23:27

3M ago23:27

23:27

Ahead of Eurovision, and James co-hosting Denmark's official pre party Malmohagen, Australian comedian and actor Joel Creasey joins James and Dan on this week's episode. Who will Joel be flirting with back stage at Eurovision? What was it like opening for Joan Rivers? And which Minogue sister would be amazing as a UK or Australian Eurovision entry?…

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Richard Gadd on Baby Reindeer (2019 Re-Release) 20:50

3M ago20:50

20:50

Netflix's 'Baby Reindeer' creator Richard Gadd had a chat with James and Dan back in 2019 at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival when it was first performed as a stage show. Trigger Warning - this episode does contain conversations about abuse and sexual violence. For help and guidance, you can find Survivors Network at survivorsnetwork.org.uk. Learn mor…

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Are 'TradWives' Progressive Or A Step Backwards? 19:11

3M ago19:11

19:11

Have you seen the TradWives movement? What do you think? In this episode James and Dan explore whether coming out will always be 'a thing', the boom of the TradWives movement and answer your pressing life dilemmas. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy James Barr and Dan Hudson

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Exploring Trans Love And Identity: 'Close To You' with Elliot Page & Dominic Savage 18:42

4M ago18:42

18:42

James and Dan share a deep conversation with Elliot Page and Dominic Savage, makers of the new film 'Close To You'. Sam (Elliot Page) has a chance encounter with an old friend (Hillary Baack) on his way home to a dreaded family reunion that forces him to confront long-buried feelings. They explore the creative process behind creating this film and …

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I Had To Have Tea With His Mum On The First Date 20:35

4M ago20:35

20:35

What would you do if you had to have tea with someone's mum on the first date? James and Dan are back and in this episode they explore whether online LGBTQ+ inclusivity posts actually do more harm than good... as well as responding to more of your pressing dilemmas! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Barbie needed The Gays 18:59

4M ago18:59

18:59

Happy Ken Day! ... But where were the gays in Barbieland? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy James Barr and Dan Hudson

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Crystal Hefner's Journey to Freedom: How to find strength after manipulation and control 21:15

4M ago21:15

21:15

Crystal Hefner sheds light on her time at the infamous Playboy Mansion, from the glamour of the mansion to the shadows of manipulation, abuse and control. James and Dan discuss Hugh Hefner's legacy and the dark underbelly of the Playboy empire. From the pressures of maintaining physical perfection to the emotional and financial exploitation. Crysta…

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Do All Men Reply Like That...? 20:07

4M ago20:07

20:07

Do you find yourself attractive? Would you put your honey where your mouth is and literally taste your own penis? James and Dan are back with a chat about self-image, arousal, and how to navigate intimacy in modern relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy James Barr and Dan Hudson

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Do Gay's Experience 'The Girlfriend Effect'? 20:14

5M ago20:14

20:14

Is the "girlfriend effect" real? Do straight men suddenly get their act together because of their girlfriends? Plus James wants to know if it's okay to filter your pics before sliding into someone's DMs? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy James Barr and Dan Hudson

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Crazy Celeb Rumours 19:40

5M ago19:40

19:40

James and Dan dive into the absurdity of rumors about Prince's alleged rib removal and an MP's peculiar habit. Plus what is docking? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy James Barr and Dan Hudson

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Jamie Dornan Reviews His 'Doppelgänger' Dan 25:49

5M ago25:49

25:49

It's finally happened. What does Jamie Dornan think of Dan moonlighting as a Jamie Dornan look alike? Jamie Dornan makes a surprise appearance to settle the score on Dan's Jamie Dornan lookalike status. Plus our listener shares his struggles with being mistaken for gay and wonders if there's something he's missing about himself. Get in touch with u…

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I think I fancy my best friend 22:03

5M ago22:03

22:03

James and Dan are back and we're answering your questions. Today, a straight man in his thirties, finds himself grappling with unexpected emotions for his friend who's about to tie the knot. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesBy James Barr and Dan Hudson

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Queer Love and Loneliness: A Conversation with Andrew Haigh, Director of 'All of Us Strangers' 25:28

6M ago25:28

25:28

James and Dan sit down with acclaimed filmmaker Andrew Haigh to dive deep into his latest film, "All of Us Strangers." The movie explores the complexities of love, loneliness, and the queer experience, taking viewers on a journey through time and emotion. Andrew shares his insights into the creative process, discussing the challenges of revisiting …

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Best of the Guests 2023 32:11

6M ago32:11

32:11

Join James and Dan for a trip through some of their favourite interviews from 2023. Highlights include our chat with Eva Echo after she sued the NHS over waiting times for trans patients, a lively debate with gay Tory Councillor Andrew Boff, our emotional conversation with the Real Jill Nalder from It’s A Sin, a chilling conversation about chemsex …

Podcasts Worth a Listen

NonGay Podcasts

Podcasts Worth a Listen

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A Gay and A NonGay

James Barr and Dan Hudson

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Hell, Toes and Unasked Questions 15:14

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Failed Pop Stars & Dating Someone In The Closet 17:48

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How Do You Know... If You've Never Done It? 24:28

1
Why We Still Need Pride Month 21:50

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When Did "Just Sex" Stop Being Enough? 11:11

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Some Men In London: A Conversation with Peter Parker About Gay History 26:00

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How To Find Gay Friends In Your 30s 20:40

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A Conversation with Eurovision's 2024 Winner Nemo 24:43

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Can identity exist without labels? 23:45

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Is it toxic for gays to be anti-pride? 18:10

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Is monogamy a hoax? 22:28

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Who Is Joel Creasey's Front Runner For Eurovision? 23:27

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Richard Gadd on Baby Reindeer (2019 Re-Release) 20:50

1
Are 'TradWives' Progressive Or A Step Backwards? 19:11

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Exploring Trans Love And Identity: 'Close To You' with Elliot Page & Dominic Savage 18:42

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I Had To Have Tea With His Mum On The First Date 20:35

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Barbie needed The Gays 18:59

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Crystal Hefner's Journey to Freedom: How to find strength after manipulation and control 21:15

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Do All Men Reply Like That...? 20:07

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Do Gay's Experience 'The Girlfriend Effect'? 20:14

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Crazy Celeb Rumours 19:40

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Jamie Dornan Reviews His 'Doppelgänger' Dan 25:49

1
I think I fancy my best friend 22:03

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Queer Love and Loneliness: A Conversation with Andrew Haigh, Director of 'All of Us Strangers' 25:28

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Best of the Guests 2023 32:11

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