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Strangers on the Internet

Irina Manta & Michelle Lange

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Want the academic take on dating in the modern world? Legal scholar Irina Manta and psychologist Michelle Lange bring you the latest on how to swipe your way through dating apps, find love, navigate complex relationships, and avoid narcissists and other predators. Come learn about cutting-edge research and find out how to make online dating work for YOU! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Aerial View is a phone-in talk show hosted by Chris T. and heard LIVE every Friday night, 6 pm ET on thehoundnyc.com, with replays Tuesday nights at 6 pm ET. Call 760-422-5528 and join in during the show... or leave a message any other time for playback on air. Aerial View is also available as a podcast from Amazon Music Podcasts, Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Spotify, Stitcher, SoundCloud and YouTube. Aerial View's Facebook page is here. Send email to aerialviewer@me.com. Aerial View tackles ...
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In this episode, Irina discusses all things interracial dating with Prof. Solangel Maldonado of the Seton Hall University School of Law. Solangel introduces listeners to her new book "The Architecture of Desire: How the Law Shapes Interracial Intimacy and Perpetuates Inequality." How have not only anti-miscegenation laws but also laws related to pr…
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Dr. Rebecca Davis, the Miller Family Early Career professor at the University of Delaware, recently completed the first major account of the history of sex and sexuality in America in three decades. She talks with Irina and Michelle about her new book "Fierce Desires," which complicates our understanding of how issues such as gender identity and se…
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On this episode, Irina speaks with clinician Dr. Christine Cocchiola and divorce coach Amy Polacko about their new book "Framed: Women in the Family Court Underworld." These coauthors describe the devastating consequences that many women experience when they try to leave their abusers and to protect their children during and after divorce. The podc…
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An Aerial View Archive from June 14 2016: The 2010 MERMAID PARADE. Originally heard over WFMU, this Aerial View documents Coney Island USA's 2010 Mermaid Parade IN STEREO (listen over headphones for a real thrill!). Recorded in high-quality by me from the central vantage point of the MC podium, you won't hear the Mermaid Parade quite like this anyw…
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In the fifth part of this coverage of the sexual misconduct allegations against ex-George Mason University (GMU) law professor and former FTC Commissioner Joshua Wright, Irina invites back Dilan Esper, an experienced litigator in areas that include defamation law and the First Amendment. Together, they analyze the most recent legal developments in …
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An Aerial View Archive from May 31, 2016, originally heard over WFMU and not since. Features a ton of archival Mid-1960s "Go-Go" era WABC-AM audio salvaged from the garbage and dubbed from reel-to-reel tapes. Includes mic breaks, news reports, commercials, stingers (including PAMS imaging) and garage rock via Cousin Brucie's Big Break contest. Stay…
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What are the neurobiological underpinnings of relationships? Irina and Michelle delve into that question and its implications with St. Louis University professor and director of SLU's relationships and brain sciences research laboratory Dr. Dixie Meyer. She explains how couples co-regulate their emotions and what can go awry in the process, whether…
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An Aerial View Archive from May 14, 1993, originally heard over WFMU and not since. Topics: • CLIPS FROM CHRIS T.'s SLEEP TAPE • SHOPPING MALL BIKE RIDING WITH CHRIS T.'s COUSIN J.D. • CHRIS T.'s OLD FRIEND GLENN • SUMMER FOOTWEAR, • FINDING FRIENDS THRU SUMMER FOOTWEAR • LOCATING OLD FRIENDS Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more informat…
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An Aerial View Archive originally heard May 21, 1993 over WFMU and not aired since. DISCUSSIONS INCLUDE: BECOMING AN OLD FART AND DYING ALONE. ARE YOUNG PEOPLE OLD FARTS, AND ARE OLD FARTS TODAY'S REBELS THE STEPS TOWARD BEING AN OLD FART. DIFFERENT THEORIES ABOUT WHAT CAUSES "OLD FARTNESS." AMERICA, AND THE WORLD AS BEING, YOUTH OBSESSED HOW A PER…
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One of the chief complaints of dating app users (and especially straight women) is that commitment phobia abounds in those they meet. Can people with commitment phobia ever change? And if so, can they ever be nudged into such change? What happens when someone commits out of fear of losing the other person? Irina and Michelle discuss all that and mo…
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On this episode, Arkansas State University philosophy professor Michele Merritt joins us from Tennessee with her engineer husband Paul Hiebing. The couple discusses meeting online and navigating life from dating in Florida to getting married, moving states twice, and adding both kids and pets. How have they weathered mental health challenges, inclu…
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According to recent data and media reports, Gen Z has some enthusiasm for dating in the workplace. Is that a good idea, however? Irina and Michelle dissect the pros and cons of finding a significant other at work. What happens if things fall apart and people have to keep collaborating after a break-up? And how might scenarios play out if there is a…
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On this episode, Irina and Michelle chat with psychotherapist and sex addiction specialist D.J. Burr. In recovery from sex addiction himself, D.J. explains the condition and the path toward improvement. He discusses how trauma connects to addiction, how dating apps cause special problems for those with addiction, and why he thinks porn can never be…
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It's a Good Friday miracle! Aerial View is LIVE tonight on the thehoundnyc.com, 6 PM ET taking YOUR CALLS at 760-I-CALL-AV. What are we talking about? Here's a starter list: Jesus died (for someone else's sins but not mine) Someone else died (and I need to get rid of their stuff) I'm dead (tired and I wish I could spend a month asleep) Hosted on Ac…
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An Aerial View Archive from April 23, 2010, originally heard over WFMU. Shut Up Weirdo was a one-hour talk show hosted by Frangry & Michelle is the only time I ever filled in for the show. I'm not sure if I was on the schedule with my own program at the time but this was an interesting turn of events. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more…
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"Opposites attract," the old adage goes. Is that really true, however? Irina and Michelle delve into the ways that disparities are a drawback versus advantage in relationships. What are some of the Dating Professors' personal habits and preferences that they think would cause conflict if a mate was diametrically different? Come listen to an explora…
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An Aerial View Archive from March 8, 2016, originally heard over WFMU. Friend and guitar teacher Keith Hartel returned to delve into the work of Rick Nielsen of Cheap Trick. We learned how to play Surrender and a bit of I Want You To Want Me. As usual, the conversation with Keith goes all over. This was my favorite lesson and I hope you enjoy it ev…
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On this episode, Irina and Michelle talk to German visual artist Sebastian, whom Irina met on a long train ride in Europe over a decade ago. He is a photographer, comic artist, graphic designer, illustrator, silk-screen printer, painter, and musician who has lived as a digital nomad for some time. From photographing Iggy Pop to having his work appe…
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When and how should you intervene in loved ones' romantic relationships? The Dating Professors address the issue in this episode. Irina and Michelle talk about the things that make them uncomfortable to watch in other couples, and discuss various attempts to help. How did Michelle react when a friend butted in as she was preparing to enter a real e…
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Cassie, a NYC professional in her 40s, did not see her live-in partner's cheating coming. She tells Irina and Michelle about the way her 49-year-old boyfriend--whom she met in a physical therapist's office at the start of the pandemic--betrayed Cassie with a 27-year-old mutual friend! Find out how Cassie's dog played a key role in sniffing out the …
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Is there hope for finding love late in life, including after being widowed or divorced? The Dating Professors explore in this episode the stereotypes and true challenges--but also advantages--of looking for a match in one's later years. Irina and Michelle discuss the higher degree of self-knowledge present in one's senior years, the complications t…
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Aerial View returns LIVE for the first time since July 2023! It's "The Door to 2024" show with special guest Ken Katkin, Professor of Constitutional Law at Salmon P. Chase School Of Law and proprietor of Trash Flow Radio. We'll talk Trump Crimes, SCOTUS and so much more. I'll also update you on all that's happened since last we met. Hosted on Acast…
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Season 3 begins with the feel-good tale of how Rutgers emergency physician Dr. Aislinn Black and Cornell information law scholar Prof. James Grimmelmann met in the early days of social media. Learn how 19th century Danish philosopher Soren Kierkegaard played a key role in their connecting and how Aislinn initially tried to matchmake James with a fr…
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Irina and Michelle guide listeners through a retrospective of the "Strangers on the Internet" podcast on the occasion of the show's 50th episode. What lessons have the Dating Professors learned from their guests and conversations? Our hosts discuss societal loneliness and disconnection, the state of the dating apps, and the key traits and situation…
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Award-winning screenwriter and author L.L. Kirchner takes Irina and Michelle through the whirlwind of her life in this episode you will not want to miss. While living in Qatar, L.L. received a phone call from her husband announcing that he wanted a divorce. Afraid that she would spiral back into substance addiction, L.L. promptly decided to take a …
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On this episode, Irina and Michelle interview marketing consultant Serise Lange, who moderates the popular Facebook group Women's Personal Finance. How do finances impact dating, and how do we figure out who should pay for what? What does Serise think about folks who send out a Venmo request after a date did not go as desired? And what exactly are …
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Why is being single so frustrating sometimes? Irina and Michelle explore both the emotional and practical side of single life. In addition to dealing with feelings of loneliness, single people--and frequently especially single women--face tasks that are difficult or even impossible to accomplish on one's own. Michelle talks about the lawn mower she…
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Historically, dating has been deeply entwined with going out for a drink. But what happens if one of the two dating parties has opted for a life of sobriety? And what are the pros and cons of replacing substance use with romance, or what is the effect of infatuation on the brain? Irina and Michelle discuss with California-based social worker and ad…
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While a cute pet picture can attract someone to your dating profile, pets can also be a major hindrance in romance. What happens when a significant other's pet prevents spontaneous travel or acts up jealously when someone comes over? What are reasonable expectations for how pet owners and non-owners should adapt to each other in relationships? Irin…
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Irina and Michelle sit down with sexual abuse and online harassment expert Prof. Mary Anne Franks from the George Washington University Law School to take stock of the state of Internet safety (or lack thereof) today. Mary Anne explains why "revenge porn" is generally a misnomer, why women are particularly at risk in a variety of online settings, a…
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Comedian Allison (Alli) Goldberg is on a mission to make dating fun again. Once named one of the top 10 funniest women in NYC by Time Out NY, the now-Los Angeles based performer delights her public both on the stage and on the air. A friend of previous SOTI podcast guest Talia Lerner, Alli tells Irina and Michelle why dating provides such fertile m…
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