Best Ezra Algos Podcasts (2024)

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The Path Through - Audio Book - Teaser 8:15

4M ago8:15

8:15

This is a set of 5 poems and painting descriptions from the audio version of The Path Through: A Book of Paintings and Poetry on the Subject of Trauma. The book is available in hard copy at amazon at the link below: The Path Through on Amazon Additionally there is an option to purchase a signed copy of the paperback with a custome inscription of yo…

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It's Not Goodbye Forever Episode 60 for the Ask Ezra Podcast 4:14

6M ago4:14

4:14

Join Ezra as he shares a big announcement about the future of the Ask Ezra Podcast. We are taking a break from posting new episodes for a little while. Thank you to all the dedicated listeners. Big thanks to all my guests and show supporters. Keep up on developments and upcoming events by following socials Intsagram: @Ask_Ezra_ and Twitter: @HouseO…

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Who is Coaching Who? Ep. 59 where Briana McCallum Coaches Ezra! 48:32

7M ago48:32

48:32

Join Ezra and Briana in a very special episode in which Ezra “switches”, taking a turn in the hot seat where they get coaching from Briana. Hear about Ezra’s current challenges with emotional availability, dating while kinky, dating while poly, and looking for a life partner while also not being on the old fashioned relationship escalator. Find out…

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What Do I Really Need in Relationship? Episode 58 with guest Angie of the So You Are Ready to Date Podcast 46:27

7M ago46:27

46:27

Join Ezra as he has a session with Angie of the So You Are Ready To Date Podcast about her experience processing shame and exploring interests. Learn what limitations Angie is facing and how that could be holding her back from processing shame. Additionally we talk about what has already worked for her in her journey to reduce the shame in her life…

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Am I punishing myself? Episode 56 of the Ask Ezra Podcast with guest Briana McCallum 53:52

9M ago53:52

53:52

Join Ezra as he chats with Briana McCallum, a fellow coach who specializes in neurodivergent life coaching. Briana shares about her work and about her experience as a survivor of childhood trauma. Hear how her trauma has impacted her intimate relationships in the past, how she has grown, and what work is still left to be done. We also talk about su…

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Learning To Let Go, Episode 55 of the Ask Ezra Podcast with Mike Brown of The Art Of Letting Go Podcast 37:58

10M ago37:58

37:58

Hear from Mike Brown and how he found a way to grow in his ability to let go through his podcast. Hear about his music and how he has come to have a greater sense of autonomy in relationships. We learn about the skills Mike developed through trial and error that has led him to be an exceptional communicator and to take responsibility for his own fe…

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Accountability and Integrity Episode 54 of the Ask Ezra Podcast 28:38

10M ago28:38

28:38

On this episode of the Ask Ezra Podcast we break from the mold and do things a little differently. Master Joshua A.K.A Sister Joshua takes the interviewer seat and leads Ezra through a discussion of integrity and accountability. They discuss when Ezra has been out of accountability and what they are doing to address it. Other topics include the for…

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Baby I’m a Drag Queen, Episode 53 of the Ask Ezra Podcast with Savannah Hauk 46:44

11M ago46:44

46:44

Join us as Savannah Hauk returns to the Ask Ezra Podcast for a second session. Savannah was a guest for episode 50 previously and we mostly spoke about her professional accomplishments. In this episode we get more personal with Savannah and discuss the challenges she is experiencing in her current relationship and historically. Learn about the chal…

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Pup Esquire, Leather Pup at Law Episode 52 of the Ask Ezra Intimacy Coaching Podcast with Pup Gideon 33:55

11M ago33:55

33:55

Join Ezra as he speaks with Pup Gideon, a family law attorney by day and a leather pup by night. We talk about the legality of BDSM, how sexuality and lifestyle choices play into divorce and custody and much more. Learn about how Pup Gideon feels like pup play helps him be himself, what is family law, legality of BDSM, what is deviance in the eyes …

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White Supremacy and Capitalism in relationships, Episode 51 of the Ask Ezra Podcast with Guest Christina Carlson 44:08

11M ago44:08

44:08

Join Christina Carlson as the latest guest of the Ask Ezra Podcast for episode 51! We talk about deconstructing, white supremacy and capitalism in relationships, coming back into relationship with your body, building emotional resilience and emotional self efficacy, making space for human rest and needs, accepting love because you know you can surv…

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Living With Cross Dressing Episode 50 of the Ask Ezra Intimacy Coaching Podcast 34:01

12M ago34:01

34:01

Join Ezra as he speaks with Savannah Hauk, author of Living With Cross Dressing - Defining A New Normal. Listen as they discuss, the experience of the fear Savannah had showing up in public spaces while crossdressing, the impact that it has had on relationships, and why relying on external validation can be challenging. We also discuss how having a…

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“Being all of me when I want to” Finn Deerhart Episode 49 of the Ask Ezra Intimacy Coaching Podcast 45:23

1y ago45:23

45:23

Join Ezra as he chats with Finn Deerhart LGBTQ+ Speaker, Writer, and AASECT Certified Sexuality Counselor. We chat about people are always projecting. What Finn’s coaching practice looks like. What parts trust and time plays in a coaching practice, how he makes space for clients and how hard things can be productive. We also talk about developing c…

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"I Did The Research Study” Episode 48 of the Ask Ezra Intimacy Coaching Podcast 51:43

1y ago51:43

51:43

Join Ezra as they talk with Azalea, who participated in the Radical Sexual Acceptance Research Study. In this first of its kind episode of the Ask Ezra Podcast, we will hear from a research participant before participating in the research project in the first half, then we will hear from her again after participating in the study. Learn about her t…

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Second Wind: Revisiting Fart Fetishism, Ask Ezra Episode 47 with Raj 43:09

1y ago43:09

43:09

Join Ezra as he talks again with Raj of the Fart Fetish Podcast. We talk about living with misconceptions from porn, cross over to all bathroom fetishes, humor to fetish pipeline, farts to reconnect with juvenility “ farting with friends”, humor from insecurity, helping people feel not alone, infrared goggles, cartoon facesitting, degradation and i…

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Error 404 Episode not found, Ask Ezra Episode 46 2:01

1y ago2:01

2:01

The 46th episode has been removed at the request of the guest for personal reasons. It is my policy to honor the wishes of the guest when they feel uncomfortable with an episode even after it airs. Instead of leaving a blank space or replacing it with another episode, I have decided to replace it with a brief explanation and a sneak peek at some up…

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Dealing with Jealousy and Mono Vs. Poly, Episode 45, Ask Ezra Podcast with Lily Danger 48:51

1y ago48:51

48:51

Listen as we meet Lily Danger, an audio porn actress, currently single and loving life. Lily has adopted a “Yes and” attitude and is working through her views on monogamy and what a partnership could really look like. We look as monogamy verses polyamory through a few analogies and also consider what role jealousy plays in her love life. reddit.com…

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Stuck Performing in the Bedroom, Ask Ezra Ep. 44 with Mark and Lynetta, The Soulmate Coaches 50:51

1y ago50:51

50:51

Join Ezra as he chats with Mark and Lynetta, the Soulmate Coaches. In this episode we learn about what Mark and Lynetta are dealing with in their relationship AND what they offer as coaches. We learn what soulmate coaches are and what is this soulmate? We learn about the four steps to love. Then Ezra asks: What’s getting in the way? Turns out there…

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Sadomasochistic Goth Girl and Golden Retriever Boy, Episode 43 Ask Ezra Podcast 36:54

1+ y ago36:54

36:54

Join Ezra as they talk with Sox, a sadomasochistic Goth who works as a dungeon monitor and plays with blood. Learn about Sox's relationships, sensual versus sadistic, Sox as a sub not bottom, blood play, hook suspension, needle play experience and cutting, what her relationships look like, how Sox meet her blood play partner, Sox‘s bottom, Vanilla …

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Interview with Dr. Patti Britton, Ask Ezra Episode 42 59:12

1+ y ago59:12

59:12

This episode follows an interview format with Dr. Patti Britton. Dr. Patti Britton has led 55 SAR programs over the past ten years in seven countries to over 1,500 people. She is the author of the only SAR training manual (Routledge Press, 2017). Britton is a nationally board-certified Clinical Sexologist and world renown as the Pioneer of the prof…

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Being Poly in a Monogamous Relationship Ask Ezra Podcast Episode 41 with David Chambers 49:39

1+ y ago49:39

49:39

Join Ezra as he chats with David Chambers of The Authentic Man Podcast about what it is like to go from polyamorous to monogamous and then open back up in the same relationship. We also talk about the expectation of flawlessness, David’s favorite client, what is David’s journey, challenges around podcasts, how David supported his partner and the wa…

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The 8 Forms of Intimacy, Ep. 40 of the Aske Ezra Intimacy Coaching Podcast with guest Dr. Bathurst 42:31

1+ y ago42:31

42:31

Join Ezra as they speak with Dr. Bathurst, a therapist, sexologist, coach, and holistic healer on episode #40 of the Ask Ezra Intimacy Coaching Podcast. Learn about Dr. Bathurst’s approach, what motivates them and other topics including: Ezra’s activation energy analogy, how Dr. Bathurst navigates the conflicting boundaries and expectations of the …

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What’s killing traditional marriage - Episode 39 with Dr. Eli Sheff 1:04:26

1+ y ago1:04:26

1:04:26

Join Ezra as he speaks with Professor and researcher Dr. Eli Sheff about topics including: polyamory family study, 70s research into non-monogamy, internet lead to an evolution in poly, kids of polyamorous families were born on third base with special advantages, this includes parents romantic freedom, expansion of childhood and lifespan leads to d…

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Daddy Dom TOO Possessive? Episode 38 with Curtis 57:47

1+ y ago57:47

57:47

Join Ezra for the 38th episode of the Ask Ezra Intimacy Coaching Podcast as he talks with Curtis. Learn about power exchange, Daddy Dom / little girl dynamics, polyamory, and having multiple concurrent partners. We also hear from Curtis and his experience with jealousy and possessiveness in relationships. Listen as we talk through what good boundar…

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Changing Libido and Dating After Divorce Ep 37 with Jesse 36:55

1+ y ago36:55

36:55

Join Ezra for episode 37 where he talks with Jesse James Sweed and how he came to be teaching English in South Korea and Spain. We learn about his experience as a language coach, his separation and divorce and his romantic ambitions. We hear about his experience with a transition in libido and the paradigm shift that comes as we get older. We hear …

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Learning to say no - Ask Ezra Episode 35 with Tim of the Sex Ed With Tim Podcast 51:09

1+ y ago51:09

51:09

Join Ezra as he speaks with Tim of the Sex Ed With Tim Podcast. They chat about emotional self regulation, observing your emotions like a bird watcher and not push them away or hold them close. They also talk about setting boundaries like saying no and establishing reasonable expectations of our partners. Lastly, they talk about practicing self com…

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“I can fix them” Playing the caregiver in relationships, Episode 34 with Kitten Michelle 35:30

1+ y ago35:30

35:30

Join Ezra as he speaks with Kitten Michelle who finds herself playing the caretaker role in her romantic and family relationships. Learn what can happen when boundary setting feels like a crime and caring for yourself feels like wasted time. We also practice setting and re-setting boundaries as well as envisioning a different kind of relationship.…

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My Kinks are Different From My Husbands - Episode 33 with Voyienne 28:05

1+ y ago28:05

28:05

In this episode we learn about power dynamics including top/bottom versus Dom/sub, and topping from the bottom as well as dynamics in three ways. We also learn about how we can use fantasy as a tool to explore possible power exchange dynamics, while minimizing the risk of hurt feelings . We also learned how one can tiptoe into the BDSM community to…

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Husband Is Kinky But Doesn’t Know It Episode 32 or the Ask Ezra Podcast with Dominique 41:30

1+ y ago41:30

41:30

Husband Is Kinky But Doesn’t Know It Episode 32 or the Ask Ezra Podcast with Dominique Join Ezra as he chats with Dominique who is also a sex coach. First we have a discussion about sex/intimacy coaching and then we have an intimacy coaching session. They discuss who is their ideal, their favorite and least favorite part about sex coaching, how Ezr…

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Sex Slave interview - Ask Ezra Episode 31 38:58

2y ago38:58

38:58

Join Ezra as they speak with Karma the “Sex Slave”. Karma goes into detail about what is valuable and challenging about the relationship she has built with her Master. Learn how surrendering power consensually and with agency can be an empowering experience. Also, hear about her book “Surviving Master Joshua” where she recounts her experience in ex…

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Navigating Total Power Exchange Relationships, Ep. 30 with DirtyLittleGirl 57:09

2y ago57:09

57:09

Join Ezra as he chats with DirtyLittleGirl who is interested in power exchange relationships such as Master/slave and owner/pet and consensual non-consent or force fantasy play. We talk about the fries acronym for consent, safe words, planning a kidnapping, what they learned from the book Mindfucking Mindfully, beliefs and Bombastic antithesis, com…

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Body Mapping and Body Literacy - Episode 29 44:03

2y ago44:03

44:03

In this episode we take a departure from our typical format of end to end intimacy coaching and instead Ezra talks with a fellow Intimacy Coach, Nora DeGrasse. Together, Ezra and Nora talk about their most and least favorite parts of coaching, what they work on with their clients and more. Towards the end of the episode Nora volunteers to practice …

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Getting Comfortable in Your Body - Ask Ezra Episode 28 with Michelle 41:43

2y ago41:43

41:43

Join us as we talked about how to navigate the swinger community as a couple, feeling confident in your own skin, strategies for using clothing to feel sexy, and much more… Askezra.info

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Beyond Hooking Up, Looking for Love when Intimacy is Scary - Ep. 27 with Tim of Sex Ed with Tim 1:03:50

2y ago1:03:50

1:03:50

Join Ezra as he speaks with Tim of the Sex Ed With Tim Podcast. We discuss why its easier to just be hooking up, hookup culture, how relationships tend to go according to where you met, having the “what are you looking for?” conversation, determining what you are needs are versus your wants, emotional codependency, ghosting, the fear of too much in…

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People Pleasing in Polyamory Ep. 26 with Daniel 48:32

2y ago48:32

48:32

Join us as we talk with Daniel a polyamorous BDSM player with a lot going on. With his main relationship and a number of play partners, Daniel has a lot of balls up in the air. We learn about holding boundaries and setting expectations. We also learn about some of the different models of polyamory. Daniel talks about his experiences in previous rel…

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Role Playing abusive situations Episode 25 - Lexi Part 2 22:17

2y ago22:17

22:17

Lexi explains that she has relatively little experience in the BDSM world. She asks “how can I push this along better?”. We discussed a wide variety of topics, such as toxic masculinity, role playing abusive situations, punishment versus "funishment", behavioral modification, power exchange, agency, holding a container for power exchange, safe word…

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Role Playing abusive situations Episode 24 - Lexi Part 1 26:52

2y ago26:52

26:52

Lexi explains that she has relatively little experience in the BDSM world. She asks “how can I push this along better?”. We discussed a wide variety of topics, such as toxic masculinity, role playing abusive situations, punishment versus "funishment", behavioral modification, power exchange, agency, holding a container for power exchange, safe word…

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disorganized attachment Ask Ezra Ep. 23 with Caroline 56:52

2y ago56:52

56:52

Join stress he speaks with Caroline. Ezra and Caroline met while both doing the Somatica Intimacy coaching training. Learn about attachment styles as Caroline shares her experience with the disorganized attachment style. Caroline also shares about her challenges when dating other fem women. There is a challenge she experiences around initiating or …

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The Journey and The Practice Episode 22 with Joshua Nieli 46:12

2y ago46:12

46:12

Join Ezra as he speaks with Joshua Neili, A fellow student in the Somatica Intimacy coaching program. Hear how they both found the experience of the Intimacy coaching program. Ezra also talks about his experience coming out as gender queer and non-binary. Joshua also discusses how intimacy coaching measures with his activism in ethical porn on the …

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Coming out as lesbian - Episode 21 with Tay 1:13:32

2y ago1:13:32

1:13:32

Join Ezra as he talks with Tay, an SW and POC exploring BDSM and her own sexuality. Tay discusses her journey and how societal pressure led her to think she was both straight and submissive. After much exploration and self discovery she now knows that she is more of a switch and identifies as a lesbian. https://linktr.ee/darktwistx?utm_source=linkt…

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Ezra gets vetted - Episode 20 with Caroline 46:47

2+ y ago46:47

46:47

Join Ezra as he has a conversation with Caroline. She gives him the third degree with a whole host of questions about his expereince and his intimacy coaching practice. Ezra discusses their gender exploration, the fear of rejection, advice for entering the BDSM community, other educators I like and much more. Fun fact: this was the first podcast ep…

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PTSD and Kink - Ask Ezra Podcast - Rob Rocket - Episode 19 1:05:29

2+ y ago1:05:29

1:05:29

Join Ezra as he speaks with Rob Rocket, a gay BDSM lifestyle player and professional living with PTSD. We talk about a wide range of topics including covid as an additional challenge, SSC vs. RACK or PRICK, mental health challenges as a subjective red flag, getting a trigger list for pro-clients, coping skills for daily anxiety, power exchange dyna…

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Ask Ezra - Episode 18 David - Looking back on a year of coaching part 2 19:23

2+ y ago19:23

19:23

Join me as we talk with David. We had been coaching for almost a year together when this podcast was recorded. We discuss such topics as, why did he pick me, wanting to avoid traumatizing people, practicing vulnerability, mentorship in the leather community, sex coaching is a limiting term, roleplay, conditional ask with explanation, Blade Runner q…

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Ask Ezra - Episode 17 David - A look back on a year of coaching part 1 19:25

2+ y ago19:25

19:25

Join me as we talk with David. We had been coaching for almost a year together when this podcast was recorded. We discuss such topics as, why did he pick me, wanting to avoid traumatizing people, practicing vulnerability, mentorship in the leather community, sex coaching is a limiting term, roleplay, conditional ask with explanation, Blade Runner q…

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Ask Ezra - Episode 16 Sister Joshua Part 2 - Working as a Pro Dom and Life Realignment Counselor 18:49

2+ y ago18:49

18:49

Join Ezra and Sister Joshua for part two of their session. They discuss things like holding on to anger, the power of acknowledging one's feelings, triggers as a way to feel safe, the temptation of conformity, hookup culture, as well as Sister Joshua's work as a professional dominant and as a life realignment counselor. They also discuss the value …

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Ask Ezra - Episode 15 Sister Joshua - Exploring Gender and Shame 19:15

2+ y ago19:15

19:15

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Ask Ezra - Episode 14 Shawn - Learning to say no and hold boundaries 16:39

2+ y ago16:39

16:39

Join us as we speak with Shawn, a young woman who is new to the BDSM community and navigating meeting new people. We discuss many topics such as, meeting people on fetlife, red flags, taking a break from finding a partner, finding community, the risk of connecting with a mentor with ulterior motives, taking classes, dominating without consent, sett…

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Ask Ezra - Episode 12 Charlie - Learning to say no and hold boundaries 29:59

2+ y ago29:59

29:59

Join Ezra as he talks with Charlie. Charlie is in a Master / slave relationship and struggles to hold boundaries, say no and stay present in their own body. Other topics discussed include: Should is a dangerous word, Level of submission is disappointing for them, Trouble letting go, Getting stuck in your head, Getting back into your body, Getting d…

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Ask Ezra - Episode 11 Naami part 2- teaching from the bottom 17:37

2+ y ago17:37

17:37

Join Ezra as he speaks with Naami (part 2) about teaching her Dom from the bottom, compartmentalizing and shadow work. The full list of topics include inexperienced partner issue, teaching her dom from the bottom, topping book and seeking guidance, you are not alone in teaching your dom, education through role play, 14 years friends with partner, s…

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Ask Ezra - Episode 10 Naami - teaching from the bottom 18:51

2+ y ago18:51

18:51

Join Ezra as he speaks with Naami about teaching her Dom from the bottom, compartmentalizing and shadow work. The full list of topics include inexperienced partner issue, teaching her dom from the bottom, topping book and seeking guidance, you are not alone in teaching your dom, education through role play, 14 years friends with partner, slap in th…

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Ask Ezra Intimacy Coaching Podcast episode 9, Raj part 2 21:01

2+ y ago21:01

21:01

In episode 9 of the Ask Ezra Intimacy Coaching Podcast we talked with Raj (part 2) who is an asexual fart fetishist. We discuss with him how shame impacts attractiveness and how negative self-talk can prevent us from experiences. Other topics we discuss are: Asexuality, labels for communication, demi-sexual, sex of verse, a wider definition of sex …

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