AUTHORTOPIA is a podcast of surprising stories told by the people who lived them. Each episode is a 20-30 minute one-on-one conversation with an author whose essays, autobiography, or memoir describes important and colorful events in their lives. The podcast will explore the impact these events have had on the author and the people who matter to them. AUTHORTOPIA is hosted by Frank Silverstein, a former network TV news producer.
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Why are we so scared of change? The second half of your life can be happier, sexier and more fulfilled, but you may need to blow some stuff up. To find out how, we're bringing you interviews and frank, irreverent, inexpert advice on everything from career and aging to sex and body image in what used to be called "middle age." Laugh, get honest, break the rules and stop caring what other people think. Join us, and we can be hot together!
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Making Room for Women's Voices in Hollywood with Melissa Silverstein
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If you’ve ever paid attention to female representation in Hollywood or the push for more women filmmakers in entertainment, you’ve likely encountered the work of Melissa Silverstein. As the founder of Women and Hollywood, one of the pioneering platforms advocating for gender diversity in the film industry, Melissa has been a driving force in this m…
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After The Rubble: Inventing Your Next Chapter with Producer Erica
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“I want you to know what your options are at this point in your life.” In this special episode, we’re breaking from our usual format to bring Hotter Than Ever producer, Erica, out from behind the scenes for a candid conversation with Erin about the podcast's journey and it’s future. Inspired by thoughtful feedback from our hottie listeners and Erin…
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Everything is a Love Problem and Only You Can Solve It with Sheri Salata (Re-Air)
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As part of our ‘slow roll summer’ on Hotter Than Ever, we’re revisiting one of our favorite early conversations with Oprah dynasty legend, author, producer and transformation doula Sheri Salata. In this episode, we explore self-love and renegotiating what life looks like after you’ve achieved your wildest dreams (hint: it’s not over!). We unpack wh…
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Inner Beauty and Aging in Hollywood with Makeup Artist Molly R. Stern
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In a world where beauty standards are constantly evolving and societal pressures can feel overwhelming, makeup artist Molly R. Stern brings a refreshing perspective to the conversation. With a career spanning over two decades and a client list that includes some of Hollywood's most iconic faces, Molly has witnessed firsthand the struggles women fac…
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“The job of life is to get good at change, because it never stops.” Why do so many of us resist change instead of embracing it? For our host Erin, life over the past few years has become almost unrecognizable, but in the best way possible. In this episode, she takes us through her journey of navigating and thriving through these shifts. From battli…
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4 Ways That Covid Changed Absolutely Everything with Lori Hamilton
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“I'm striving for excellence, but I'm not pretending to be perfect anymore.” The Covid-19 pandemic was a watershed moment of change for everyone, reshaping both personal and professional lives. For our host Erin, it catalyzed her divorce and sparked a career pivot that led to the birth of “Hotter Than Ever”. But what major trends emerged post-pande…
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Juggling Creative Careers and Motherhood with comedian Ophira Eisenberg
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Navigating modern life as a working mother and a creative professional is no small feat. In this episode, we dig deep into comedian and Mom Ophira Eisenberg's journey through comedy, storytelling, and podcasting. Ophira, a multi-talented comic, storyteller, and host of the podcast "Parenting is a Joke," shares her captivating story with humor, and …
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Your Authenticity is Your Secret Weapon with Kim Rittberg
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“Every single person is special, but most of us are too afraid to show up in the world and let them see how special we are.” In a world that often values polished presentations and corporate facades, finding and maintaining authenticity in professional and personal settings can feel like a daunting task. Yet, it's precisely this authenticity and vu…
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How To Attract Epic Love with Lilli Bewley
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"It's in vulnerability and self-love that we find our true strength." If you've been tuning into Hotter Than Ever, you know that while our host Erin offers plenty of dating advice, especially for those re-entering the scene after a marriage, her aim isn’t necessarily to find love herself. But regardless of whether you're skeptical about love or see…
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Advertising for Women Over 40, Made By Women Over 40! with Katie Keating
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Despite the fact that women make 85% of household buying decisions, the majority of women over 40 report feeling largely overlooked by the advertising industry. Even more striking, 82% of women in a recent survey felt cooler, stronger, and sexier than they ever expected at this age—so why aren’t advertisers targeting them? Enter Katie Keating, the …
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Advice: How Do I Juggle Dating Several Guys at the Same Time?
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“Are you being compulsive and chasing that dopamine hit of likes and matches like you're one of Pavlov's dogs?” Dating apps can be exhilarating, especially when exploring new connections for the first time after leaving a marriage. But what if swiping has left you with so many matches that managing them feels overwhelming? In this episode, Erin res…
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Why We Need Adult Sex Ed with Dr. Kelly Casperson
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For many women who’ve never had an orgasm, it’s easy to feel like there’s something wrong or that they’re broken, a sentiment shared by many of Dr. Kelly Casperson’s patients. However, as urologist and star podcaster Dr. Casperson explains in our latest episode, the issue isn’t with women—it’s our lack of good sex education. This lack hinders women…
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Advice: Should I Give This Guy a Second Chance?
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Getting your needs met is hot. What’s not hot is when your emotional or physical needs (or both!) are neglected. One listener is grappling with this issue, questioning whether to give a man a second chance after a real first date fail, especially as she navigates dating after a sexless marriage. In this episode, Erin is drawing from her own experie…
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How to Feel Less Exhaustion and More Joy with Victoria Albina
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“It's only when we come into the body that we can start to see our thoughts.” In the age of the internet and social media, we're constantly bombarded with pseudoscientific wellness trends that promise quick fixes for every aspect of our mental well-being. Beneath the noise, there exists a grounded, science-based, and holistic approach to wellness, …
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Are you a natural flirt, or do you consider yourself clueless when it comes to flirting or recognizing when you’re being flirted with? Our host Erin has experienced the entire spectrum, from being oblivious to flirting—both as a single and married woman—to embracing it as a powerful form of self-expression and connection post-divorce. In this episo…
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Choosing Mediation over Divorce When You Know It's Over with Paulette Rigo
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Half of marriages these days end in divorce, but did you know that 73% of divorces are initiated by women? In today’s episode we’re joined by Paulette Rigo, a credentialed private mediator and certified divorce coach, whose mission is to help couples avoid court and navigate their divorces more amicably. Paulette endured a grueling divorce litigati…
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'The Idea of You' is Midlife Rom Com Candy
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“Thank God for representations of real sex on screen.” A 40-year-old woman and an unbelievably hot 24-year-old man get together for an unexpected, steamy romance? Sign us up! It’s no wonder why everyone has been asking Erin what she thinks of the new movie “The Idea of You”, released earlier this year. In this episode, Erin breaks down the film and…
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How To Have Hot Sex for Life with Susan Bratton
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It’s no secret that many women don’t enjoy having sex. But the problem isn’t the women: it’s the sex we’re shown in the media and porn, which is dominated by patriarchal ideas and largely ignores women's pleasure. Amidst this dearth of sexual satisfaction for women emerges Susan Bratton, an intimacy expert and advocate for lifelong intimacy and pas…
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“I am willing to take on the uncomfortable feelings that it takes to be vulnerable. Are you?” When you’ve been raised as a fiercely independent Gen X-er and have been hurt by men in relationships (who hasn’t?), everything tells you not to be vulnerable. But in reflecting on her personal journey post-divorce, Erin shares how her efforts to become mo…
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You're Not Too F***ing Old! with Jen Marples
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“You're worthy of the life that you can envision for yourself.” When Jen Marples found herself unable to muster the energy to get out of bed, it was a stark wake-up call. A true go-getter, she had carved out a stellar career in marketing and PR, even launching her own thriving business, all while married with three children. Yet, amidst all of the …
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“My health, my well being was the catalyst for all of the radical reinvention that I am talking about here on this podcast.” What is your relationship like with your body? Feeling disconnected from our bodies is a common experience, and in today's digital age, it's often exacerbated by the constant barrage of fitness fads and wellness trends floodi…
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Are You Wired to Love a Narcissist? with Michelle Roberts PhD
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Have you ever found yourself in a relationship with a narcissist? Or maybe you were raised by one? Whatever the relationship might be, there’s a chance that it’s left a neurological impact on that is going untreated. In today’s episode, we’re joined by Michelle Roberts, investigative journalist turned psychotherapist, who specializes in narcissism.…
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“I want you to take action towards what you fantasize about.” On Hotter Than Ever, we've delved deep into the world of online dating, including strategies for crafting the perfect profile and navigating the digital landscape of romance. But what about the lost art of meeting people the old-fashioned way–in real life? In this episode, Erin shares he…
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Lonely At Work? How to Build Community and Connection with Ann Shoket
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“Loneliness is the thing that's keeping women from rising and I don't want to see that anymore.” As part of her research for The Li.st, Ann Shoket uncovered a staggering statistic: 80% of women in white collar careers are lonely because of their jobs. As heartbreaking as that is, it didn’t surprise Ann, who as the former editor of Seventeen and Cos…
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Advice: How Do I Make Time for a Sexual Awakening As A Single Mom?
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“You can be a good mom who is available to your kids and who is also experiencing a sexual becoming.” Starting your sexual awakening journey in midlife can sometimes feel like threading through a maze of practicalities, particularly if you're juggling kids and career. Luckily, Erin is here to take the reins, drawing from her firsthand experience, t…
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Sexual Coming of Age in the 90s with Tracy Clark-Flory
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Tracy Clark-Flory’s sexual exploration began at the age of 12, when she ventured into AOL chat rooms, seeking to discover what men wanted sexually. In her memoir, "Want Me: A Sex Writer's Journey into the Heart of Desire," Tracy details her personal sexual coming of age through the maze hyper-sexualized media, where she grappled with the conflictin…
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Advice: What Do I Do If I Can't Get Divorced For Logistical Reasons?
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Sometimes women get stuck in a marriage that is no longer working, but they’re unable to break free due to logistical constraints. Add a skyrocketing libido and an irresistible crush into the mix, and today’s caller has got herself one h*ll of a scenario. Fear not, because in this episode, we dive into the art of juggling desire and commitment when…
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How to Really Feel Your Feelings and Heal From Grief with Meghan Riordan Jarvis
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"Unresolved, unprocessed grief really lays a heavy tattoo inside your system." With more than two decades as a seasoned psychotherapist, Meghan Riordan Jarvis found herself unexpectedly thrust into the throes of her own grief upon the sudden loss of her mother. Through this profound personal journey, Meghan gained an intimate understanding of the v…
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Advice: Dating Again After a Bad Breakup - What Do I Need to Share About It?
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“Share information about your breakup with the new people in your life whenever it feels right” Breakups are universally painful, regardless of the circumstances. And after a long-term relationship, it can be daunting to dip your toes back into the dating pool. In today’s episode, we’re tackling a listener's question about reentering the dating sce…
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How To Buy Essentially Nothing with Elizabeth Chai
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“You don't find fulfillment in material things” You've heard the advice to "buy less" or "consume mindfully," but have you ever considered going cold turkey on buying altogether? As she chronicles in her book, "How to Buy Essentially Nothing for a Year,” Elizabeth Chai, a graphic designer by trade, did just that. For the past five years, Liz has re…
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Advice: Help! I'm SO Distracted By Sexy Apps (But I Love It)!
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“It really changes our lives when we give ourselves permission to have all the pleasure we deserve.” Are using dating apps the modern-day equivalent of juggling a part-time job? For one of our listeners, the allure of Pure, a sexting app, has sparked both a whirlwind of fun and distraction that begs the question: How long will it last? Join Erin on…
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Dishing About Domestic Labor with Eve Rodsky
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“How can I be the breadwinner and also the one who knows the name of my child's dentist?” When Eve Rodsky received a text from her husband that read, “I'm surprised you didn't get blueberries”, it sparked a revelation. It wasn't just about the fruit; it was about the deeper imbalance in their household dynamics. Fast forward over a decade, and Eve …
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Rethinking Modern Motherhood & Reclaiming Our Bodies with Amanda Montei
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Amanda Montei's fascination with understanding motherhood started long before she became a parent herself. However, it wasn't until she embarked on her PhD journey while welcoming her first child that she began to approach motherhood through a scholarly lens. In her illuminating book, "Touched Out: Motherhood, Misogyny, Consent, and Control," Amand…
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Advice: How Do I Approach Sex After 33 Years With My Ex-Husband? With Dr. Juliana Hauser
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Nothing gets us more excited than witnessing one of our listeners burst back onto the dating scene after a long marriage. Yet, as thrilling as this new chapter may be, it can also come riddled with uncertainties. How can I ensure my safety while exploring new sexual partners? How can I feel confident in my body as an older woman? Join us as we welc…
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Being a Doctor on Skid Row with Dr. Susan Partovi, Renegade MD
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Since she was a girl, Dr. Susan Partovi felt the pull toward a career in medicine. But it wasn't until a transformative journey to Tijuana, Mexico that her calling took on a deeper meaning, igniting a lifelong commitment to championing the health of marginalized communities. Now, after decades of serving people experiencing homelessness on the stre…
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Advice: How Do I Talk About My Sexual Needs? With Dr. Juliana Hauser
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“There's so much bravery in saying ‘my sex life matters’” Imagine this: you've just broken free from a decade-long relationship that didn't quite fit, and then you find someone new, someone exciting, and the text messages start heating up. But as you settle into the relationship, you realize your partner isn't quite on the same page when it comes t…
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A Comedian's Psychedelic Awakening with Negin Farsad
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“Mushrooms are for getting over your horseshit so you can move on with life.” Like most comedians, Negin Farsad was a self-described skeptic, especially when it came to the trendy world of "magic mushrooms" and psychedelic retreats sweeping the wellness scene. But when a writing assignment led her to participate in a psilocybin retreat, she found h…
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Advice: Mushrooms for Anxiety and Menopause? With Tracey Tee
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Have you ever wondered about the therapeutic potential of psilocybin or "magic mushrooms" for treating anxiety or menopause? Or perhaps you've heard of people swapping out alcohol for shrooms? In today's advice episode, we're thrilled to welcome back Tracey Tee, the founder of "Moms on Mushrooms" (M.O.M), to tackle our latest listener inquiry. Trac…
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Chasing Physical Pain and Discovering Tenderness with Margo Steines
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“Your identity and your life is lived through your body” In a time where many of us find ourselves disconnected from our bodies, Margo Steines relentlessly chased physical pain. As she recalls in her gripping memoir “Brutalities: A Love Story”, Margo pursued extreme experiences—drugs, sexual violence, and abusive relationships—as avenues to escape …
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Advice: What To Do When Your Boyfriend Dumps You
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“They don’t ever talk about what it feels like when the first relationship after your big relationship ends.” In this episode we’re giving advice to none other than Hotter Than Ever. Yes, you read that correctly. When Erin found herself blindsided by the sudden end of her relationship with her boyfriend, “The Marine”, she knew she had to open up ab…
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Cindy Gallop’s Vision for a Safe, Sexy Internet
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“We end rape culture by showing you how wonderful great consensual, communicative sex is in the real world.” Cindy Gallop never intended MakeLoveNotPorn to be a groundbreaking social sex tech platform. But when her original website went viral after Cindy’s TED talk in 2009, she knew she was being called to create something far bigger and more meani…
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Listener Mail: How Do I Stay Safe While Dating (and More)?
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Picture this: you’re 50, newly separated from your husband after 20 years of marriage, and diving into the world of casual dating and sex. How do you navigate sex safely as an older woman in the new world of dating app culture? You’ve come to the right place. In this week’s advice episode, we’re discussing our favorite topic: sex—how to talk about …
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When Your Whole Family Comes Out with Jessi Hempel
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Jessi Hempel is many things: an award-winning journalist, podcaster, author, and senior editor-at-large at LinkedIn. But despite her myriad accomplishments, she shies away from labeling herself as ‘successful’. For Jessi, her illustrious career as a technology and business journalist was always a stepping stone on the path to her childhood dream of…
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Listener Mail: Looking for a New Life in New England
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“If you get to the root of what it is that you care about, you will probably also find a path to meaningful work.” Ever found yourself at a crossroads, wondering what’s next after already pursuing your professional dreams? In this week's advice-packed episode, we're delving into the daunting, yet exhilarating realm of career transitions. Whether yo…
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How Gen X is Taking on Menopause with Stacy London
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“The more you fear aging, the harder it's going to be. You’ve got to lean in.” Happy 50th episode to Hotter Than Ever! We're thrilled to celebrate this milestone with you by sharing an incredible conversation with TV icon, Stacy London. You probably remember Stacy from TLC’s “What Not to Wear” where she turned fashion faux pas into fabulous looks a…
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Listener Mail: How Do I Get Over My Fear of Rejection and Be More Authentic?
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“How long are you going to let fear of other people's points of view dictate how you live your one and only life?” We all want to be the most authentic versions of ourselves, but how do we overcome the fear of judgment, criticism, and rejection that’s holding us back? In today’s advice episode, we hear from a listener who is struggling to share her…
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Getting Comfortable with Uncomfortable Transitions
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“Just because I'm uncomfortable with discomfort, it doesn't mean I'm not okay.” Ever been laid off? Experienced the gut-wrenching dissolution of a relationship? Or maybe you're just grappling with the uncertainty of what comes next in your career or love life. Whatever the case, Erin's here to remind you that amidst these difficult transitions lies…
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Listener Mail: How Can I Control My Mood And Not Be Affected By The Actions of Others?
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“I made it worse because I was not the master of my emotions.” Have you ever found yourself in a situation where someone hits that emotional button you never knew existed? Did you end up regretting something you said or did in the heat of the moment? We've all been there. In today’s advice episode, we’re delving into a listener's question on how to…
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Claiming Your Sexual Power in Midlife with Eva Clay
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Eva Clay is on a mission to make sex a spiritual practice. With two decades of expertise, Eva has helped countless women defy the misconception that perimenopause and menopause mark the end of a woman's sexuality. In this riveting conversation, discover how midlife can unfold as a magnificent era of sexual exploration, fostering healthier, empowere…
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Listener Mail: How Do I Start Dating Again After 60?
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“Change is often uncomfortable and is almost always good.” Today, we’re delving into a topic near and dear to our hearts: reentering the dating scene. This week, our hot listener is looking for Erin’s top three tips for women over 60 venturing back into dating. While the prospect of dating again may be uncomfortable, Erin is your trusty guide to tr…
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