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Welcome to the Expedition Marriage Podcast! We’re glad you’re here! We're Chris and Jamie Bailey, and we are Christian counselors and marriage coaches. We’re here to help you put God in the center of your marriage by sharing some solid biblical truth, along with some practical marriage tips. So, no matter where you’re at in your marriage, start getting excited, because we’re here to help you Enjoy the Journey!
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Does your spouse refuse to grow? Or maybe it’s you who struggles with change? Regardless, none of us are created to remain the same, and we should constantly pursue growing and becoming more and more like Christ every day. On this episode, we’re talking about the reasons why growing in marriage is a must, as well as how to know the difference betwe…
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We all want a strong marriage, but that doesn’t mean we know how to build one. On this episode of Building a Strong Marriage, we’re sharing the exact building blocks you’ll need to make sure your marriage has a firm foundation that will be able to withstand any storm. Find our show notes at https://expeditionmarriage.org/post/podcast/ep-104-buildin…
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We live in a world that glorifies busyness, where our calendars are constantly packed, and our to-do lists seem never-ending. From demanding careers to family responsibilities and social commitments, it's easy to feel overwhelmed. And that's exactly what we're exploring today - when life becomes so hectic that it's hard to find balance, maintain yo…
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If you and your spouse seek to strengthen and protect your marriage by fighting against the Enemy, this episode is for you. We share invaluable insights and actionable advice to help you maintain your love, trust, and unity. Tune in and discover all the ways you can protect your marriage starting today. Find our show notes at https://expeditionmarr…
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You’ve probably heard about the consequences of divorce, but have you ever thought that if there are consequences of divorce, there must be benefits of marriage? On this episode, we’re chatting about the many amazing benefits of marriage, and we’re confident some of them will surprise you. Click play and give it a listen! Find our show notes at htt…
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Have you ever been caught in a cycle of disagreements? The disagreements where you never find a resolution and one or both of you are so sure of your rightness that there’s no room for listening to the other’s side or perspective? Well, it’s no surprise as we also seem to be living in a world that is just like that. But what if there was a more lov…
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Has your sex life or romantic life fizzled? Are you wondering how in the world you can ever keep those sparks alive with all the busyness, work, parenting, or stress? Well, you want to join us on this episode as we give you some practical ways to keep those sparks alive for years to come! Find our show notes at https://expeditionmarriage.org/post/p…
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Is your marriage lacking joy? When is the last time you’ve done something fun just because? How long has it been since you’ve chosen joy or even chosen to rejoice in a hard season? If you’re like most couples, it’s probably been a while. On this episode, we’re talking about all things joy and, more importantly, why living a joy-filled life is one o…
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If you’re living with a grumpy spouse you know how frustrating it can be. Everything is just fine until you hear those grumbles or see that all-too-familiar grimace. It’s really hard to not walk on eggshells around your beloved grump, but doing that is not helping them or you! Tune in today to learn all about what you can do to help make a differen…
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Have you ever wondered if any of the problems in your marriage would cause your marriage to end? In this episode, we will be sharing our thoughts, as Christian Counselors, on what others have determined to be signs your marriage is over. We have so much to say that this will be part one of a two-part series. Don’t miss it! Episode 82 - Say It Like …
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Have you ever wondered if any of the problems in your marriage would cause your marriage to end? In this episode, we will be sharing our thoughts, as Christian Counselors, on what others have determined to be signs your marriage is over. We have so much to say that this will be part one of a two-part series. Don’t miss it! Find our show notes at ht…
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If we offered you a bowl of stew would you give us your entire inheritance, assuming you were left a whole lot? Of course not! That would be a ridiculously bad trade. But believe it or not, someone in scripture did just that. Before you go judging, check out this episode to see if you might be making some bad trades yourself in your marriage. Join …
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Join us for Part 2 of this two-part series as we help you uncover those sins of erosion in your marriage that may be deceiving you into thinking that they’re not a big deal while slowly but surely they eat away at your marriage. Find our show notes at https://expeditionmarriage.org/post/podcast/ep-93-sins-in-marriage-does-your-marriage-have-them-pa…
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Would you be able to identify the sins that are in your marriage if you were asked what they were? Many people would struggle with this question and that’s because so many of these sins get brushed off as normal or no big deal, but the truth is, sin is sin and God wants it out of your marriage and your life. Join us today as we uncover what we refe…
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If any form of pain has entered your marriage then you’ll know that it’s sometimes hard to forgive. You’ll also know that it can be even harder to move forward in that forgiveness. On today’s episode, we’re talking about how to get on the best path to finding your joy again as a couple once betrayal or an injury of any kind has happened. Click play…
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You vowed your life to your spouse, but you also love your kids tremendously and are meant to protect them with your life. So who do you put first? That decision may not be as difficult as you think. In fact, if you want to know how you can do BOTH, then listen to this episode today! Find our show notes at https://expeditionmarriage.org/post/podcas…
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A common complaint we hear in the marriage ministry field is that husbands aren’t praying with their wives. With something as powerful as prayer, it begs the question, why not? Well, perhaps it’s BECAUSE prayer is so powerful, and we have an enemy who doesn’t want us involved in anything that is as life-changing and glorifying to God as prayer. If …
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If you’ve ever had the difficult thought about what you would do if you ever lost your spouse, you’re not alone. The downside to being in love is sometimes the immense fear that can come with it. Great love and great grief often travel together. On this episode, we’re talking about the most important thing you can give one another from here until e…
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Are there things you’re withholding in marriage? Do you feel like your marriage could be more connected or go a little deeper? If so, this episode will help you gain clarity and find encouragement as we continue our conversation on things you should be sharing with one another. Need Financial Help? https://ramseycoach.com/leah-adams-coaching Find o…
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Is there ever anything you hold back from your spouse? Or do you ever feel they’re holding things back from you? On this episode we’re sharing with you what we think you should be sharing with one another. Join us for this casual but impactful marriage changing conversation Find our show notes at https://expeditionmarriage.org/post/podcast/ep-86-th…
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Have you ever heard the word helpmate and thought that it seems like an inferior role in your marriage? If so, you’re not alone. The truth is that couldn’t be further from the truth. A wife who understands what it means to be a helpmate, and who takes that role seriously holds amazing power and influence in the life of her husband. Listen in on thi…
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Have you ever called your husband to have him not answer and your mind suddenly goes to thoughts of him being in an accident or something else awful happening? Have you ever seen your wife upset and instantly stress out wondering what you must have done? These are just a couple of negative thoughts that can not only take over your life but also the…
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Are you a spender married to a saver, or perhaps the other way around? Do you usually agree on your Christmas spending budget, or do you think your spouse buys for too many people? So many marriages struggle with these kinds of financial issues, especially around the holidays. On this episode, Julie Baumgardner, Certified Family Life Educator and S…
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When you stood at the altar and said your vows, do you think you really knew what you were saying? Did you have anything in mind for what the worse of the better or worse would look like? Our daughter recently got married, and their vows were hard hitting, biblically rooted, deeply desirable, and tear-jerking reminders of what marriage should truly…
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Have you ever asked your spouse a simple question and they respond with a sharp tone as if you’ve personally attacked them? Does it sometimes seem that no matter what you say it gets taken the wrong way as if you’re out to get your spouse, except you’re really not at all? Tune in to this episode if you want to understand your defensive spouse so yo…
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Having a spouse who doesn’t easily share with you can be challenging. It can feel so personal and make you wonder why they don’t want to talk to you or maybe why they don’t trust you enough to share with you. It might surprise you to know that often their lack of sharing has nothing to do with you! You’re not wrong for pursuing connection with them…
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Do you ever wonder if great sex and intimacy will still be possible once the kids are grown and out of the house? The answer is YES! But maybe you’re finding yourself in the empty nest and it’s feeling a lot emptier in the bedroom, and you need some hope. The truth is that physical intimacy takes some work, and a lot of things change during those e…
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Are you in the throws of parenting? Feeling the drain from meeting needs all day, giving baths, sitting in car line, or going back and forth to sports practices and games? These can be some fun, yet equally challenging years, and if you’re not intentional, all that fatigue and running around will zap your sex life! On today’s episode we’re having a…
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Are you struggling in your marriage and aren’t sure if it’s time to call it quits or not? While divorce can be biblical and can be protective, it’s not meant for every situation. There are many marriage problems that can be fixed and redeemed, so before you decide to pull the plug on your marriage, give this episode a listen and see if there might …
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Goals and the motivation to go after them are great for your marriage, but it’s your daily habits that will truly get you where you want to be. It’s very likely that you have a bunch of little habits in your life that are shaping your marriage that you may not even be aware of. Join us on this episode to learn new and intentional habits for your ma…
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“My husband isn’t a spiritual leader.” “He never prays with me.” “He won’t do a devotion with me or the kids.” These are some common complaints we hear from wives, and while they seem very valid, we don’t want either of you to miss the true heartbeat of spiritual leadership. There very well might be some room for growth, but there also might be som…
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Have you ever been triggered in your marriage? Or have you ever been on the opposite end of a trigger where suddenly you’re receiving strong reactions that just don’t make sense to you? If your answer is yes to either, then this is the episode for you. Join us as we talk about common triggers, why we have them, and what to do about them. Find our s…
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Do you ever find yourself battling dread over everything you have on your schedule? Are you finding it hard to slow down and enjoy your family? On today’s episode we’re going to help you identify when you might need to take a break, clear more of your schedule, and start adding in things that are most important to YOUR family. You should be living …
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Do you know someone, or perhaps you are that someone, who keeps going back or staying with an abuser? It’s not uncommon, but it’s always unhealthy. On this episode we’re talking with Dr. David Clarke, Christian Psychologist, and author of 20 Lies That Keep You With Your Abuser. Tune it to understand Christian codependency, biblical truths that allo…
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Is your marriage healthy? What even are the signs of a healthy marriage? Happiness, great sex, laughter? Or is there more to it than that? It’s not uncommon to be settling in your marriage and have no idea that you are. The things you may have become used to can often become normal, but normal doesn’t always equal healthy. Tune in today as we share…
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Have you ever wondered if what goes on in your marriage is just dysfunctional or is it toxic? Do you sometimes know for sure that how you’re being treated is not okay, but then you begin to second guess it? Maybe you give your husband excuses for his behavior, or you tolerate it because you want to be a Godly wife. Maybe you don’t want to break you…
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Knowing God’s word is important, but applying it is what it’s all about. This can be an area that you may be tripping up on in your marriage—knowing the word but not knowing what do with it. On this episode we’re going to take you through some scriptures and tell you exactly what they look like lived out in your marriage. There aren’t just a few sc…
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When is the last time you questioned what difference your marriage was making in the world? Did you even know it was designed to be making an impact? If your desire is to find your unique calling as a couple and understand the power of impact your marriage has been given by God, then you want to listen to this episode. What your marriage has to off…
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Does the idea of sharing your marriage problems, or problems in general, with people horrify you? Are you concerned with what they would think if they only knew the truth about your life? On this episode we’re going to share with you why according to scripture you just might have that all wrong. What if sharing your problems made you, your marriage…
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What comes to mind when you hear the word nagging? Maybe it’s conviction, justification, blame, or perhaps exhaustion? On this episode we’re having an honest, “tell it like it is” conversation on the topic of nagging and complaining. And we’re going to be talking to you wife… AND you, husband! Join us if you want the truth, some understanding, and …
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Has anything in your marriage ever blindsided you? Have you ever thought at one point in time that this is just not what you signed up for? Yea, marriage caught us by surprise too! Come take a stroll with us down memory lane today back to where it all began at the moment of our engagement. Find out the good, the bad, and all the in between stuff th…
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You want your marriage to thrive, right? We do too! For that to happen, you must be very intentional and on guard. That sometimes means doing things you don’t want to do and not doing things that you do. Join us on this episode where we’re giving you a solid heads up on what to look out for so you can avoid and deal with all the things that will co…
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Have you ever wondered why you or your spouse is so hair triggered or easily overwhelmed? While there can be some issues that need to be dealt with, sometimes this happens because of a genuine personality trait known as high sensitivity. Tune in today to see if this might be affecting your marriage. This episode has the potential to be a huge marri…
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Have you ever gotten exhausted by thinking about and constantly dealing with all the problems in your life and marriage? While there’s merit to dealing with problems, there’s also a reason why making them your primary focus is so tiring. Focusing on your problems will anchor you down in the past and therefore make moving forward much more difficult…
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Chronic pain can take a toll on a person, but it can also take a toll on a marriage. There’s a learning curve to handling it well as a couple. The needs in a relationship where chronic pain is present are very different than your typical able-bodied marriage. On today’s episode, Jamie shares her own story of chronic pain and what our relationship d…
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What do you do when you feel disconnected in your marriage? How do you even know if disconnection is what’s even happening? On today’s episode, we will be answering both questions. Tune in and find out how significant dealing with disconnection in your marriage can be. Find our show notes at https://expeditionmarriage.org/post/podcast/ep-60-are-you…
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Do you struggle with always wanting the win? Do you find it tough to be wrong, or even tougher to allow your spouse to be wrong without correcting them? We used to struggle with this too. Well, we’re here to tell you that there is a better way; a way where instead of being pinned up against one another, you’re actually getting a win for your marria…
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Are you frustrated because you seem to be the only one willing to work on your marriage? Are you wanting to get some help but have a husband who refuses to? Before you get upset or angry with them, give this episode a listen as we shine some light on where their no might actually be coming from. We’re here to help you set your marriage up to get th…
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Have you ever wondered how bad do things need to get before we reach out for help? Do you know the difference between what normal problems are versus what real, we need help, problems are? On this episode we’re getting real and honest as we share 8 signs that your marriage may need some professional help. Trust us when we say that this is informati…
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Are you or your spouse facing a hard time? Has life just been rough for one or both of you lately? If so, you’ll want to tune in for this episode. We’re sharing some encouragement and some practical tips on how to show up in times of need for one another. Don’t miss it! Find our show notes at https://expeditionmarriage.org/post/podcast/ep-56-how-to…
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