Best Howtodate Podcasts (2024)

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Dating Climate Change and The Why Golden And Later Are Different 11:27

2d ago11:27

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If you have found value in The Later Dater Today podcast and if you believe that we need fun, relatable and useful content for dating during this part of life, please consider supporting Lakshmi and the show by buying her a coffee via the link below. https://www.buymeacoffee.com/later_Lakshmi Lakshmi was named among the "Best Guests of 2023" on tec…

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The Path to True Connection with Sarah and Caleb from Othered the Podcast 1:08:16

3d ago1:08:16

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Welcome to Dear Matchmaker! Join me in this special episode from the hosts of 'Othered" where we talk all things matchmaking, dating and connection! You can find Othered here: https://uploadmediagroup.com/othered And here: https://www.instagram.com/otheredthepodcast/

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"State of Date" Meditation/Prep Talk 5:35

14d ago5:35

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If you have found value in this podcast or in this meditation, please consider supporting and keeping The Later Dater Today ad-free here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/later_lakshmi Lakshmi was named among the "Best Guests of 2023" on tech and culture podcast PIVOT with Kara Swisher & Scott Galloway. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/best-friend…

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Rewriting the Love Script: Confronting Fear, Embracing Change with Jean Atman 54:13

21d ago54:13

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Welcome Jean Atman to Dear Matchmaker! Jean is a Soul Evolution Specialist and Quantum Healer. She assists purpose-driven women to embark on a soul-stirring journey of self-discovery, unearthing their true purpose and bravely confronting and releasing the shackles of their past. As they let go of old wounds, they free themselves to embody a brighte…

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#45 How to Get Into a "State of Date" 13:38

21d ago13:38

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Lakshmi is taking a one month hiatus. Want to support her milestone of 45 episodes and keep The Later Dater Today ad-free? Consider throwing her a few bucks. https://www.buymeacoffee.com/later_Lakshmi Stay tuned for a Bonus Episode with the meditation pulled out for easy use. Later Dater today episodes referenced in this meditation Everyone's a Mus…

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#44 How to Play the "Mid-Range" Game 17:44

28d ago17:44

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We assign moral judgment to ideas of how long or short a relationship goal is. But what if distance has nothing to do with whether or not a trip is worth it? A great companion episode to this is "Longer Doesn't Always Mean Stronger." Lakshmi was named among the "Best Guests of 2023" on tech and culture podcast PIVOT with Kara Swisher & Scott Gallow…

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Unveiling Online Dating Pet Peeves: Three Common Mistakes to Avoid 23:53

29d ago23:53

23:53

In this episode of "Dear Matchmaker," Cat addresses three key pet peeves in online dating. First, she advises against demanding confirmation on the day of a date, arguing that it stems from insecurity and fear. Second, Cat discourages putting pressure on potential future dates immediately after the first encounter, suggesting instead to give both p…

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#43 How To Do A "Crush Audit" 23:45

1M ago23:45

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The companion episode to this is Episode 19: The Death of The Crush Crushes are an incredibly important part our heart's history. As a Later Dater you may not have looked closely at people at moments where you developed a crush. It's worth taking a minute to look closely as these as you embark or keep on keeping on in your dating journey. Ditch the…

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#42 How to Set Yourself Up & The Lodge Line 11:50

1M ago11:50

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This episode includes tips on how to help the people who want to set you up, describe you in way that is about more than simply how great you are. One that paints a picture that might stick with someone long before they meet you. For more detail and color on crafting a set up story listen to Lakshmi's interview on the Pivot Podcast! Lakshmi was nam…

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#41 The Unlisted Approach 18:30

2M ago18:30

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It's understandable that we make lists to keep us organized and focused on what we want. But where does that kind of approach actually help and where is it actually inefficient? References in this episode Episode 39: Finding Connection In Contrast Lakshmi was named among the "Best Guests of 2023" on tech and culture podcast PIVOT with Kara Swisher …

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#40 "Will I Ever Feel That Way Again?": Listener Question from Gabe, 57 18:20

2M ago18:20

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After 20 years of marriage, Gabe, 57 is a year into his dating journey and he's wondering if he'll ever feel "that way" again. Let's get clear on all the kinds of experiences, moments and feelings that you have to look forward to as a Later Dater. Breaking these down and getting clear can change how you date. Mentioned in this episode: "I haven't d…

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#39 Finding Connection in Contrast and Differences 21:35

2M ago21:35

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Share this with anyone who thinks that they "must" date someone who has the same relationship history as them (divorced, kids, didn't marry, widowed) etc. The best part about Later Daters today is the diversity of choices that were made by people. Listen in as Lakshmi walks you through how you think about connecting even if you lived very different…

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#38 Ask For Focus Instead of a Relationship 16:08

2M ago16:08

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Be sure to follow on Instagram as we begin bringing concepts from the podcast to life. https://www.instagram.com/the_later_dater_today In this episode we'll walk you through a plan for how to ask for focus - which might actually make more sense in today's world where our attention can be splintered across devices, screens, thoughts and yes, people.…

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Valentine's Bonus: The Afterlife Set-Up 32:37

2M ago32:37

32:37

A much longer format and style than the Later Dater Today podcast, we bring you the true story of two 80 somethings who reconnected and fell in love during the pandemic after 40 years apart. This is more "Golden" than "Later" but a true and hopeful story has no age. Enjoy! To read more about the precursor podcast to The Later Dater Today, read Vani…

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#37 The Root of Finding the Right Person 13:06

3M ago13:06

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It's been a big week and it will be a big week. Why might it be more important to think of reasons to root for someone rather than trying to figure out if they're right for you? It's time to mention the relationship of the year without having them be the central spectacle. There is honestly something to be learned from the unfolding of their relati…

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#36 Signs of Success vs Signs of Striving 15:37

3M ago15:37

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Success seems like a quality we should look for in.people we date. But what is success and what if something like the quality of striving is more important now? Maybe you're wondering what striving is. Listen in as Lakshmi talks about the difference and offers tools on how to assess the degree to which someone is striving in their life. Mentioned i…

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#35 Artificial Intelligence And The Later Dater 22:55

3M ago22:55

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An important overview of what to expect as AI continues to unfold itself into modern dating culture. The Later Dater Today is about more than how to date today - it's also about understanding what's happening in dating and where it's headed so that you can navigate it all. To hear more in depth coverage of AI and the Future of Dating check out the …

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#34 The Issue With Dating "Goals" 16:38

3M ago16:38

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Listen in on a new way to think about the dating goals that matter today for a Later Dater. It was way less to do with how much you date but rather how you interact with the world - keeping your interaction and connection muscles strong. A few episodes are referenced to revisit and actually apply the lesson outlined in the episode in addition to si…

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#33 Go Ahead and Age Yourself 18:09

4M ago18:09

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Let's discuss one dimension of "age" culture around the idea of what it means to "age yourself". Lakshmi dives into these common expressions that can feel more like we should hide our rage rather than use it as a point of connection; especially between Later Daters. And you'll hear a practical way to rewire whatever you think about your age as she …

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Love in the New Year: Shifting Mindsets for Dating Success 35:14

4M ago35:14

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In this heartwarming episode of 'Dear Matchmaker,' your host, Cat, invites you on a journey to explore the transformative power of shifting your mindset when it comes to dating and relationships. With genuine warmth, Cat urges us to embrace the beauty of life's positives, encouraging us to leave behind the nagging thoughts of what we may lack. Cat …

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#32 Organic Connections Today and The Power of Tupperware 28:45

4M ago28:45

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Let's dive into the gradual decline of everyday organic moments instead of any "resolution" type content, This isn't meant to be a bummer, it's meant to remind you of things we've lost along the way. It's not just tech and the pandemic. And if we understand a bit more about what happened we can tap into some of our 20th Century wiring:) Lakshmi was…

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#31 Rethinking Wasted Time In Dating 21:30

4M ago21:30

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Conversations about modern dating can often revolve around an intense desire to "not waste time". Let's dig into it. As we get older, we might feel like time is not on our side, but maybe it's on our side in a new way. If you have some time to think more about time, we recommend Episode 15: "Longer Doesn't Always Mean Stronger" Lakshmi was named am…

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Do First Inpressions Matter On A First Date? 29:28

4M ago29:28

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In this episode of "Dear Matchmaker," Cat delves into the intriguing world of first impressions and the pivotal role that one's image plays on a first date. She explores the significance of appearance, clothing choices, body language, and grooming in shaping initial perceptions. Discover how these elements can influence attraction, chemistry, and t…

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#30 The Heartbreak Plan For Later Daters 26:49

4M ago26:49

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After many conversations with Later Daters, Lakshmi heard something to the effect of "I just can't get hurt or risk having my heartbroken as I date." We get it. So let's take a look at this common concern and talk about it before, instead of after, it happens. Lakshmi was named among the "Best Guests of 2023" on tech and culture podcast PIVOT with …

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#29 What Gen Z Understands About Dating, Why It Matters and Why They Love Gen X 14:15

4M ago14:15

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Between the introduction of Tinder and the 2020 pandemic we have a decade of swiping behind us. Tinder made its mark because it brought an influx of singles (20 somethings) into a dating pool that nobody ever thought they'd find themselves in. Now that same demographic but a different generation is rejecting it. What can we learn about how to bette…

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#28 What Do You Find Attractive...Today? 15:25

5M ago15:25

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Listen in as Lakshmi shares how Later Daters are rethinking and revisiting what they even think is attractive. This is about more than just exploring other "types" this is about taking a look at what might be attractive today...what attributes, traits and qualities matter to you more now? They may or may not be what they used to be. Lakshmi was nam…

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From Single To Married In 4 Steps with Kristin Sokol 55:54

5M ago55:54

55:54

In this enlightening episode of 'Dear Matchmaker,' we are thrilled to welcome Kristin Sokol, a seasoned Science-Based Dating Coach with nearly two decades of expertise in the field. Kristin, a graduate from the University of Texas with a specialization in coaching and holding a prestigious ICF Professional Certified Coach credential, brings a wealt…

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Do Age Gaps Really Matter in LTR? 23:40

5M ago23:40

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In this solo episode of 'Dear Matchmaker,' we take a heartfelt look into the nuanced world of dating with a significant age gap. Drawing from both personal insights and shared experiences, I delve into the complexities and challenges that couples face when there's a notable age difference between them. From navigating societal judgments to balancin…

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#27 Beyond "The Gratitude" Question: A Thanksgiving Episode 8:13

5M ago8:13

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Not to knock the tradition of asking "What are you grateful for?" at Thanksgiving but with all we now know about the importance of questions there's got to be something better. Lakshmi was named among the "Best Guests of 2023" on tech and culture podcast PIVOT with Kara Swisher & Scott Galloway. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/best-friends-of…

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Where Are All The Good Men At? 26:20

5M ago26:20

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In this eye-opening episode of 'Dear Matchmaker', we tackle the frequently voiced concern: "Why can't I find a good man?" Join us as we delve into the heart of this question, exploring the possibility that often, the right men might be right before our eyes. We discuss how societal changes are encouraging men to address their inner traumas and emot…

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#26 The Role of Place And Space On A Date 8:01

6M ago8:01

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Ever think: I need to come up with better date ideas? Before you begin googling "novel date ideas" first consider the role of space and how to make the circumstances around you work for you. In this short 9 minute episode Lakshmi discusses how environment might affect your ability to get to know people and how you can make this work for you. Lakshm…

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#25 It's Easy To Meet But Harder To Connect: A Key Later Dater Insight 17:38

6M ago17:38

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This simple but important insight lives at the center of The Later Dater Today: It's Become Easy To Meet But Harder To Connect. Later Dater Today Host, Lakshmi walks you through the difference between meeting and connecting and how simply understand this difference can make all the difference. Learn more at www.thelaterdatertoday.com Follow us on I…

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#24 Meg Ryan's New Movie and Reconnecting With Someone From Your Past 14:37

6M ago14:37

14:37

What Happens Later Trailer, Starring Meg Ryan & David Duchovny https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zceSigCGWSQ The Afterlife Set-up: Two 80-somethings reconnect in the pandemic after being set-up by a spirit from the beyond. Hear the incredible story here: https://www.pairedbythepeople.com/featuredepisodes/project-three-x6djm-dz7lj Who's a Later Dater?…

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#23 "I've Never Been Married And Feel Like It's A Mark Against Me": Listener Question from Susanna, 46 18:34

6M ago18:34

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Why you should listen to this episode: Not getting married isn't and shouldn't feel like a mark against you. But it's easy to feel or think that it is. But EVERY Later Dater can potentially feel like there is a label slapped on them (divorced, never married, widowed, married multiple times). It's what we make it mean that matters. Who's a Later Dat…

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Dating, Sex & Attachment Styles with Dean & Miles of The Legion Lifestyle 1:09:20

6M ago1:09:20

1:09:20

Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker! Join me for a unique episode as I get interviewed by Dean & Miles from The Legion Lifestyle Podcast where we discuss all things dating, sex, attachment styles and more! Want more information about Cat? Visit here: www.theheartagency.comBy Cat Cantrill

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#22 Don't Date Someone You Like 11:42

7M ago11:42

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Why you should listen to this episode: Being so focused on "liking" someone might actually be getting in the way of connecting with them. Who's a Later Dater? Anyone who feels they are dating later in life, or feels like they are just getting their head wrapped around how they want to date in today's world. Dating later in life has changed. And Lat…

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The Do's and Don'ts of Dating With Kids 22:58

7M ago22:58

22:58

Dear listeners, join me, Cat Cantrill, in a deeply personal exploration of what it means to step back into the dating world as a single mom in this week's episode of "Dear Matchmaker." In today’s heart-to-heart episode, I’ll be sharing stories and gentle advice from my own experiences, weaving through the joys and hurdles of merging the delicate wo…

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#21 Later Dater Labels and Stigmas 10:33

7M ago10:33

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Why you should listen to this episode: Stigmas can be ways that we label and categorize people and ourselves in the modern dating world. But what are stigmas really and how can they be something that might even bring you closer to people you meet? Who's a Later Dater? Anyone who feels they are dating later in life, or feels like they are just getti…

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Vanishing Acts: Unraveling the Ghosting Phenomenon 22:13

7M ago22:13

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Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker! Join us as we dive deep into the mysterious world of 'ghosting' – the unsettling act of ending a relationship by suddenly going silent without any explanation. In this introspective episode, we draw from personal anecdotes, listener experiences, and my own understanding to unpack the psychology behind …

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