1. It shows that you desire him When you initiate sex, your partner is reassured that you still find him hot enough to get all down and dirty with him. Men also suffer from insecurity issues and feelings of inadequacy about their sexual prowess. 2. He is not always clued in to your moods Your partner does not have a magic wand that lets him gauge your sexual interest. Even if you are all raring to go, he might genuinely not be able to pick up your sexual signals. So put both of you out of yo ...