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This podcast is for LDS women with a spouse addicted to pornography. I am Jolene Winn and I am an active member of the LDS faith, a certified Life Coach through The Life Coach School, and the wife of a wonderful man who was once addicted to pornography. I am now on a mission to go find other women who are in the same situation. Women who are struggling to address emotions and thoughts they've never had to face. Women who want to understand their situation, who want to love their husband like ...
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The Reframe is a podcast about life on a path of self-improvement and growth in the 21st century. You’ll find interviews, discussions, and conversations that will help you to learn from the experiences of others. Connect with Tres Winn here: https://linktr.ee/treswinn Connect with Tres here: https://linktr.ee/treswinn Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thereframewithtreswinn/support
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Do you know that the opposite of courage isn't fear? It's discouragement. And that's what today's episode is all about. What discouragement is, why it's there, and how to work past it so that you don't get stuck IN it. I'm sharing personal examples today and walking you through my journey. Whatever is making you feel discouraged right now, this is …
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DON'T SKIP THIS ONE! I have an announcment at the end that you won't want to miss! I'm renaming the podcast (among other things) and this will tell you all about it! Sometimes, ladies, we resist change. And we don't do the things we should...like buy ourselves new underwear because we are putting everyone else first. BUT I want to share that change…
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Every emotion that we feel and take action from creates a by product that shapes our life. Today I'm diving into what emotional by products are and why they're so important to understand and recognize in ourselves. This is a must listen! Click here to get full details for my in person retreat! 7 spots left to join me for an intimate, 3 day getaway …
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What are you UNWILLING to negotiate on? Are you sure that if he had an affair you would leave? Or the next time he relapses he has to move out? Today I'm talking about non-negotiables and what to do if you have them and why you actually DON'T need them... :) Tired of living with triggers? Sign up today for my "How To Eliminate Triggers" Masterclass…
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What do you do when you're not in the mood? Is there any way to GET in the mood? Today is all about that! And, trust me ladies, it's going to change everything! Listen in to discover WHY you're not in the mood, WHAT you're not in the mood for, and what to do about it! The answers are not what you think! Come join my live class on Thursday, Septembe…
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Want to create the life you want? The relationship you dream about with yourself, your body, your husband? This is how you do it. Today I'm breaking down WHY you have the results you currently have in your life AND how to change it. Today. Let's go. Register today for my FREE class: "How To Break Free From Your Husband's Pornography Problem" on Sep…
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Today I'm sharing a personal story. And how I'm letting go of it. I'm diving into what our stories are, why they are there, and what to do when they are no longer in our best interest. Come join me for my next FREE live event: How To Break Free From Your Husband's Pornography Problem! Thursday, September 12 @ 1pm EST! Click here to register! Ready …
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Do you feel uncomfortable, self conscious, insecure, or threatened by other women? This episode is for you! I am going to lead you through an exercise to help you uncover what's going on internally so that you can start to process through this AND change it! Click here to join me for the free Retreat Info Call on Thursday, August 22 @ 12pm est.…
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Ladies, this year's retreat will be more powerful than any I've done before. Because it's time to go on offense. In this episode I'm giving you all the details of what the retreat will be like and what you'll learn there. If you're ready to go on offense, come join us. We're going forward. Click here to sign up and save your seat at the retreat tod…
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Ladies, anger isn't just yelling and getting in fights. Sometimes, anger can be sneaky and we can be feeling it even when we think we aren't. Today I'm going over 5 common ways that anger is expressed incognito! AND why it's so important to become aware of them. Struggling with anger? Come join me for my brand new Anger Management Master Class! Aug…
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I used to yell at my kids A LOT. And I hated it. But I felt like I didn't know how to stop it. If you struggle yelling at someone in your life or getting in arguments, this is for you. I'm going to break down exactly how I stopped yelling and how you can too so that it stops creating a negative affect in your life. Come join me for Anger Management…
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Your primitive brain is keeping you alive. But today I'm going to teach you exactly HOW your brain is doing that-and how it can often be to your detriment. Not only will you learn more so that you can learn how to change it, it will also help you understand more about what's going on in your husband's brain too! Click here to join me for today's FR…
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A sunk cost is an investment you can't get back. Today I'm applying that idea to emotions and relationships and diving into what happens when you have an emotional sunk cost and what you should do about it. Join me next week for me FREE live, one day event! In this class 'How To Solve Your Husband's Pornography Problem" I am going to teach you how …
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If you don't feel confident in your body-this is for you! I am dissecting what confidence in your body truly is AND how to change it! p.s. You don't have to lose any weight to do it! Want to join for this week's Body Confidence Master Class? Click here! You'll get lifetime access to all the replays and be able to join us for any live calls! Join to…
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Did you know there are two types of body weight? There's the actual physical weight of your body that you measure. And then there's the emotional weight of your body that is added based on how you think and feel about your body. Today I'm talking about the second kind-how it affects us, and how to change it-along with why it's so important to do so…
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We are all full of potential energy. It's what's stored inside of us, waiting for us. It's what's possible in our lives. But we are often stuck there. Just in the potential. And today I'm talking about what's keeping you stuck in potential energy, what's preventing you from actually having what you want in your life-and how to change it! If you're …
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Do you ever get annoyed by all the text messages and emails from shops alerting you to sales and information? Yeah, me too. But, at one point, you opted in to receving them...and that's exactly what's going on in your brain too. Today I'm talking about how that happens with our thoughts and feelings and how you can change it! Also, it's Rob's birth…
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Do you feel resentment toward someone in your life? Maybe it's your spouse for his pornography problem, or your mom for making you take piano lessons, or your car because it's always unreliable...today I'm giving you a taste of what I taught in my "Healing Resentment" master class and going into what resentment is and the main causes of it! If you …
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Do you feel resigned to your situation? Like it's not something you can change and you just have to live with it? I get it. Today I'm diving into what resignation is and why it's a lie-yup. I said it! I'm going into the difference between resignation and acceptance and how to shift into acceptance! Come join me in coaching! Click here to get full p…
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It's time to celebrate! Over the last 6 months I have coached some incredible business clients inside an intimate business mastermind! And today I am honored to share with you Shelby's story! Not only is she an incredible coach who's personal story inspires me immensly (which she shares in this interview), she has also seen incredible growth over j…
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It seems like your husband's pornography problem is causing all of the issues you are facing...but what if that's not true? And what if that's the best news ever? Today I'm using my concepts from my Sociology degree and talking about the difference between when one thing CAUSES another to happen (and what that means) versus when one thing is CORREL…
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What if you want sex more than your husband? What if he wants sex more than you do? How do you navigate that? That's what today's episode is all about! Inspired by a conversation with a listener on Instagram, this is covering exactly how to handle this situation (and why it's so hard in the first place!) Come join me in coaching and let's get you m…
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Have you ever thought "When I'm a parent, I'm never going to do___" or maybe you've thought, "It's too hard to keep doing this in my marriage. I just have to stop". That's what today's episode is all about! This is what I call emotional overcorrecting. I'm diving into what it is, and why it's a problem so that you can actually get back to where you…
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Do you feel like you just don't care anymore about something? Maybe it's your husband's behavior, maybe it's your body, maybe it's a different relationship...what do you do then? Today I'm going to tell you exactly what to do and why this is happening. And how to change it. click here to see my Youtube channel! Ready to take all of this and start a…
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I am SO honored to have a guest and colleague Frank Rich on this episode! He is vulnerable and powerful in telling his personal story of how he went from being introduced to pornography at a young age to being addicted to it as an adult to finding freedom from it now! He now helps men conquer their own pornography addictions by helping change them …
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What is solid self love? And how do you develop it? And why do we even care if we do? Why is it important? Today I am asking (and answering) all of those questions with my friend and fellow coach Marci Owen! She is the self love coach and is launching her brand new container for coaching called the Self Love Lab tomorrow! If you resonate with her m…
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There are two types of grudges and today I'm teaching you both! Let's dive into what a grudge is, how to know if you are holding a grudge, and why it's so important to notice! If you want help letting go of your grudges, then come join me in my Healing Resentment Master Class. I am opening up a limited number of spots for this class and if this is …
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If you don't feel like your husband is an emotionally safe person for you to open up to-this is for you! Or maybe he USED to feel safe but now he doesn't...or perhaps you just don't feel safe feeling emotions in general. Today I'm talking all about what emotional safety is, why it's important and who the BEST emotional safety person is for you!…
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I reached an upper limit in my belief this week and I want to talk to you about it. I'm sharing the whole experience and teaching you what an upper limit is, how I worked through it, why our brain wants to create it, and sharing a HUGE breakthrough thought that will help you with your own. Happy Easter ladies! I love you! Join me for a week of FREE…
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Have you ever thought that you don't want to get your hopes up? Me too. Today I'm diving into what hope really is and why our brain doesn't want to get our hopes up. But I'm also going into how you can change it if you want to! Join me! Come join me for a week of free coaching! I am hosting Coach Week next week and I would love for you to come! Thi…
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This is a celebration episode! I asked y'all for YOUR wins and transformations and I am sharing your responses to help celebrate the progress and work you've done! THANK YOU for inspiring me each week and remember that it's important to not just focus on how far you have to go but how far you've come! Celebrate your wins daily and keep going! I lov…
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Maybe the bulk of the pain of a past experience is gone, but what happens when we don't deal with all of it 100%? That's when we have residual pain. Today I'm talking about what that is, why it's so important to realize, and the 3 main ways that it affects you if you don't deal with it in a healthy way. Come join me! Ready to let go of the residual…
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Last week we talked about responsibility...and here's part two. This is all about what YOU have responsibility for, what that looks like, AND why it's so imporant to understand! If you truly internalize this one concept, it can change everything about your life and your healing! Don't miss out on the details about upcoming master classes! Head to m…
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Today I'm bringing you a conversation I had with Jenn Zingmark-the resident divorce coach expert! This is where we talk about ALL things divorce and what the struggles are with it, why it's so important to work through your personal emotional stuff, and the best way to do it. She is so vulnerable and opens up about her own divorce journey and has s…
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How are pornography and sex connected? And what are you supposed to do if your husband's pornography problem is affecting your sexual relationship? Today I'm diving into what pornography is, what it is designed to do, how it's related to sex, and the two different cycles that someone watching pornography is going through. You'll also learn exactly …
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Our primitive brain is often generating a victim behavior without us really noticing it. Here's two ways it does and why it's so important to notice. Plus, a very popular (and socially acceptable) way you could be perpetuating a victim mindset without realizing it! Come join me for Valentine's Day! I am hosting a 3 day Galentine's Coach-A-Thon and …
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People pleasing is where you change yourself or do what you think other people want you to do so that you feel a certain way. People pleasing yourself is where you change yourself or do what you think you "should" do so that you feel a certain way. But let's dive into what that looks like and why that's a problem... For 3 days only I am offering 1:…
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What is faith? And where does it fit into all of this emotional work? And why does it even matter? Today might be my favorite episode yet. It's all about what you believe and the secret that creates transformations. Come join me in my coaching program this week for my brand new Faith Master Class! Monday-Thursday at 4pm est you can join me live as …
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Resolutions aren't actually about what we think they are. Today I'm diving into what they're about and how you can guarantee you'll always hit every resolution you set. If you're tired of setting the same resolutions every year, I have the perfect class for you! Inside my program this month I am hosting a brand new Master Class all about GOALS! Joi…
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What's the difference between letting go and giving up? And what if you feel like giving up? How do you switch? This week I had a few experiences that I'm sharing that have highlighted this for me and I want to share what I'm learning. I'm still learning how to let go. Join me. Merry Christmas ladies! If you want the best Christmas present ever, co…
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