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Adult content. Grabby award winner and GayVN award nominee Robert Black is the host, and he's on a mission to destigmatize and demystify many aspects of sexuality within the gay, bisexual, and solosexual male community. Robert has been an adult entertainer for 25 years; he also has a master's in education and a bachelor's in nursing. His diverse array of guests will inform, entertain, and inspire you to embrace and fulfill your own sexual desires.
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When A Guy Has A Really F***ed Gender: the lovechild of Magnus Hirschfield and Joe Rogan. Each week, Jolene (she) talks to a guest about their gender, using their personal experience and interests as a springboard for further conversations about gender, sex, and sexuality.
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Jolene is joined by James Frankie Thomas to discuss his life, his transition, and his novel, Idlewild. Topics include: bookstores, the quality of desire both on and off T, divorce, the Animorphs, and, of course, the fetishization of gay men. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tinytach…
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The third episode of the reading series! Unfortunately, this reading series is going on hiatus so Jolene can work on some other projects. There was still another recorded before she decided to do that, though, so there'll be one more upload of a reading group discussion in the coming weeks. Also, stay tuned to the feed for a Classic WAGHARFG episod…
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Jolene is joined by François·e Charmaille for a jaunt through the history of European sciences and sexes, for a discussion that begins with Hildegard of Bingen's analysis of humouric imbalances, and ends with François·e's proposal for a new understanding of the medieval concept of sodomy. Check out more of François·e's academic work here: https://w…
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Video version for patrons here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/clown-fetish-109703384 Barney, aka the muckle Stoater, joins us to talk about the wonderful world of clown fetish. Find all of Barney's profiles and podcast at: https://linktr.ee/themucklestoater Chapters: 00:00:00 - Patreon Readouts00:01:12 - Interview00:04:38 - The Basics of Clown Play…
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The second episode of the reading group, When A Guy Writes, on Gertrude Stein's The Autobiography of Alice B Toklas. August 4th, 1 PM CST: Kate Bornstein's A Queer and Pleasant Danger: https://discord.gg/D4JDKzpTPh?event=1254870250487545988 The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tinytach…
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Adam returns with new guest Mndfcuk to talk about their experiences and knowledge of Hucows, people doing cow and Bull roleplay. Video version can be found at: https://www.patreon.com/posts/106500804 Thanks to our good boys Aorchis Harry S. Ryan G. Dr Scott Mark L Greg GDstPete Stuart John N. Jim Thiktool splemb Orsetto Christian C. Kelly B MARK G.…
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This week, Jolene is joined by Alexis to talk about her essay in the Trans Marxism special issue of TSQ, as well as: Remy Boydell and Michelle Perez's The Pervert, Jolene's opinions on Car Seat Headrest, just what happens at furry conventions, the erotics of Finnster, and the worst cover on an academic anthology ever. Read Alexis' essay here: https…
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Jolene hosts a reading group for Herculine Barbin's memoir! S/o to Rhea, Harper, and Logan for joining, discussion was lovely. You can join us for the next meeting on June 23rd, at 1PM CST for a discussion of the Autobiography of Alice B Toklas by Gertrude Stein, or for the meeting after that, a discussion of Fun Home by Alison Bechdel, on July 7th…
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Unlocked from our bonus feed for all listeners Scottish leather boy Adam returns to discuss gender Thanks to our good boys Aorchis Harry S. Ryan G. Dr Scott Mark L Greg GDstPete Stuart John N. Jim Thiktool splemb Orsetto Christian C. Kelly B MARK G. Daniel M. Silas S. Ergo Juha N. Off Knotty Texan paul f. Patrick M Kris S Jack Deco V.…
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Jolene is joined by Judas for a conversation about the there and back again and back again that is transition, detransition, and retransition. It's also kinda sorta like transgender Fun Home but with indie rock instead of modernist literature. Check out Judas' writing here: https://nicejewishboy.neocities.org/ The intro and outro music is by Lynn J…
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Jolene is joined by Kay for a story of there and back again: detransition. Tune in for a story of wolfaboos, drag queen babysitters, colonialism, and more! Also, at the end we get excited about the upcoming WAGHARFG reading group! Join here: https://discord.gg/tDkukGxgS3?event=1229990512560443423 The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can l…
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This episode was a patreon only episode, but I decided to throw it up on the main feed by way of apology for falling behind on putting out episodes. Don't worry patreons, there's another one for you coming in just another day or two (or three, apologies). Jolene is joined by repeat guest Ilya to discuss his essay, out a few weeks ago in Gender and …
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Join the WAGHARFG Reading Group Discord: https://discord.gg/TTESqMNENt I'm sorry about the dog sounds in the background of my beginning spiel; I didn't think you'd be able to hear it through the mic. Jolene is joined this week by Lev, a different Lev than ever before, to talk through hir life, bouncing around the digital landscape of niche feminism…
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Craig and David Give a beginners guide to gay saunas/bathhouses. They go over what you can expect, and how pickup etiquette functions, and how to navigate the space. Leather Edge's guides to cruising https://tchicktchick.com/video-category/cruising-a-quick-guide-to-a-dying-art/ Sources used for history section https://historicengland.org.uk/researc…
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Does what it says on the tin. Jolene is joined by Vanya this week to discuss woundfucking. It is exactly what it sounds like. Also some discussions of sex work, brain tumors, Ehlers-Dahnlos, the endorphin system, and more. Also: Jolene was on another podcast last week. I talk about it at the start, but here's a link to the episode: https://open.spo…
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Chris and Pup Catalyst joins Craig this episode to give an introduction to polyamory. We cover the basics of polyamory, what is it? The types of relationships models are there and what communication skills might be needed. video version: https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-unedited-98320429 Chapters (00:00)Intro (02:40)Polyamory (12:29)What is poly…
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This week, Jolene is joined by Jay (@trans_catboy on twitter) to discuss the omegaverse. Tune in to find out what the hell is secondary sex, and how it was birthed from the inflamed libidos of sci-fi fans who got a hold of some bad wolf science, and how it fits into Jay's life and transition. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can liste…
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FIRST EPISODE OF 2024!!! Jolene is joined by Lua to talk mostly about noise music, transition and blackness, and eventually, raceplay. Also featured: gossip, some censorship (sorry), and sissies. Check out Lua's music: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vlxYb3JaACE https://open.spotify.com/artist/60KplDAZ1mE9UINmtP6r3d?si=g4ScSPkjSYep-r44qpERJQ The in…
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We come together to discuss the current state and trajectory of the kinky internet. (00:00:00)start (00:01:15)The Interview we discuss state of the apps 2024 (00:08:31)Twitter we talk about whats happened with twitter over the past year (00:11:51)Where People are going we discuss mastodon, buluesky weighing up the pros and cons for each and what so…
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EDIT: There are a couple places in here where my guest says something and then says he'd prefer it omitted from the recording. We talked more off-mic, and Jamie ultimately decided he was fine with putting out what all is in here. Jolene is joined by Jamie for a discussion that ranges across: cis4pay sex work, agender lesbianism to transfaggotry, ra…
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Jolene is joined by Professor Megan Massa of Emory University to talk about neuroendocrinology! We talk about hormones, their affects on behavior, scientific narratives around this, how those narratives interact with popular narratives, and more! This is a really jam packed episode and one I'm really proud of. Enjoy! The paper Megan co-authored wit…
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I am joined by friends and fellow members of the London leathermen to discuss our experiences with the club. We candidly talk about the highs and lows of helping to run a club. London leathermen’s website: londonleathermen.co.uk Support the show Patreon subscription: patreon.com/kinkyboyspod One time Donation: paypal.me Good boy patrons Dr. Scott Z…
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Jolene is joined by Roxana to talk about her transition, spurred in part by the transition of her daughter! Other topics include: the importance of bisexual Wiccan girls to a healthy ecosystem, how gay fighting games are, gender-neutral parenting, and more! Here's the Iranian poet Roxana mentions towards the end: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Forug…
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Subscribe to the Patreon to hear the full episode: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 Jolene is joined by Lyn of Make the Golf Course a Public Sex Forest (which you can order here: https://maitlandsystems.bigcartel.com/product/make-the-golf-course-a-public-sex-forest) to discuss some books by the great Joanna Russ and Samuel Delany! Check out …
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Jolene is joined by Natalie and Louane to talk about their relationship (trans motherhood), fatness, f*ggotry, weird medical stuff, abuse, trauma, extreme sex acts, and more. Jolene would also like to apologize for using the word "traumatophilia" incorrectly. This is what I get for trying to talk about a book I've never read. Just replace "traumato…
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Jolene is joined by Alice for the first discussion of many about Guy Hocquenghem, a gay French guy (Guy) who wrote some provocative theory. This series will be released primarily on Patreon, with some episodes getting public releases. This episode is on Homosexual Desire, which you can read here: https://files.libcom.org/files/Hocquenghem%20-%20Hom…
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This week, Jolene is joined by Cody to discuss some art they made, centering around masculine performances of misogyny. Watch Rabbithole here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9zYEJQ1kqv8&t=1s (Content notes: Contains a lot of misogyny, obviously, as well as footage of someone masturbating). Some stuff Cody referenced: Angry White Men: https://www.h…
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Sorry that episodes are still slow coming. Here's some bonus content by way of apology. An episode where Jolene is joined by Talia to discuss some fun animal facts! Tune in to learn about mourning geckos, barnacles, mole salamanders, and more! Talking about biology gets fascistic fast. Content warning for some discussion of sexual violence. (There …
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Listen to jolene and ichor talk about: creatures, goblins, ghouls, self-cest, addiction, cucking yourself with yourself, how 'it' is actually the first pronoun used for most people, the "dead wife experience," clowning, and more. Check out all of Ichor's links here: https://linktr.ee/duckykw Project LETS is the organization Ichor mentions towards t…
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Craig and David give advice on how to take your first steps into your local community video copy available for patreons here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/82-getting-video-90546967 Good boy patrons Zero Stuart John N. Jim Thiktool Dom J. splemb Orsetto Christian C. Kelly Biers MARK G. Daniel M. Silas S. Ergo Juha N. Off Knotty Texan paul f. Patric…
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An episode where Jolene is joined by Talia to discuss some fun animal facts! Tune in to learn about mourning geckos, barnacles, mole salamanders, and more! Talking about biology gets fascistic fast. Content warning for some discussion of sexual violence. (There will be another normal episode soon! I promise). Here's Talia's twitter account: https:/…
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My guest described this episode thusly: "one boygirls quest to liberate sexy hunky trans men from the "my only sexual value js my fronthole" industrial complex & get them phalloplasty in an attempt to fulfill a long held deep seated fantasy of bottoming for an all post op no loads refused ftm gangbang. This is she/theys story....... DunDun" This is…
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My guest described this episode thusly: "one boygirls quest to liberate sexy hunky trans men from the "my only sexual value js my fronthole" industrial complex & get them phalloplasty in an attempt to fulfill a long held deep seated fantasy of bottoming for an all post op no loads refused ftm gangbang. This is she/theys story....... DunDun" This is…
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Jolene is joined by Amelie to talk about dissociative identity disorder, autophilias/paraphilias, erotic investments in transition, and more! The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can listen to more of her music at: https://tinytachyon.bandcamp.com/ Follow the pod on twitter: https://twitter.com/WhenAGuyHas Check out our website: https://w…
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Content warning: discussion of needles, piercings and discussions that touch on fatalities and abuse. We go into an element of edge play where Rugger joins us to talk about using body mods in play and power dynamics. Thanks to our Goodboy Patrons: Liam Jim Thiktool Dom J. Splemb Orsetto AspiringDom Brian R. Kelly B. Nicholas B. Abc1c2 Mark G. Danie…
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Content Note: This episode includes a brief mention of a suicide attempt and subsequent hospitalization. Jolene is joined by Luca for a conversation about a lot of things, including: trans children and trans childhood, the continuity between trans childhood and the rest of the community, ballet and gender norms within it, movement, playful and sill…
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