Surviving the Storm: Hope Beyond the Hurt is a heartfelt podcast for anyone navigating grief, loss, or life after cancer. Hosted by grief and crisis coach Cyndi “LadyFavor” McKoy, each episode offers real talk, practical tools, and gentle encouragement to help you heal at your own pace. Because even in life’s hardest storms, hope still lives.
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Episode 12: You Are Not Alone: Speaking Life While You’re Still Hurting
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10:42If you found this today, it’s not by accident. This episode is for the ones who are hurting right now. Not later. Not after healing. Right now. You might be listening with tears sitting close. With exhaustion in your bones. With questions that don’t have answers yet. I’ve come to let you know something simple and true. You are not alone. I am your …
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Most people think grief is sadness. It is not. Grief is love with nowhere to go. Grief is shock that lasts longer than anyone warns you. Grief is your body trying to make sense of a new reality it did not agree to. Grief shows up as anger. Brain fog. Exhaustion. Isolation. Guilt. Relief mixed with shame for feeling relieved. If you were abandoned, …
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And today, we arrive at the final episode 10 of this series: New Beginnings. This is not about pretending the hurt is gone. It’s not about forgetting. This is about weaving sorrow and love, tears and memories, into something new — something beautiful. So, take a deep breath with me. Inhale hope… and exhale heaviness. Let’s step into what it means t…
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, we’ve arrived at Episode Nine: Learning Yourself. Grief changes you. It reshapes how you see the world, how you show up in relationships, and even how you see yourself. The person you were before the loss will never fully return— and that’s not a bad thing. It means you are evolving. When we talk about ‘learning yourself, we’re really talking abo…
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Today, we step into the tender but necessary process of recovery. Recovery isn’t about forgetting or ‘getting over it.’ It’s about learning to breathe again, to take small steps, and to give yourself grace in the rebuilding.
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Episode 7: Episode 7 – When the Calls Stop
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11:27In the beginning, people show up. The phone rings, the texts arrive, cards fill your mailbox. You may even get so much food dropped off you don’t know what to do with it. For a while, it feels like you’re being carried by a community of people who care. But then, almost without warning… it changes. The calls slow down. The meals stop coming. The te…
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Today we are stepping into a season that many don’t talk enough about — The Aftershock. The flowers have wilted. The guests have gone home. The phone calls slow down. And suddenly, the quiet is louder than ever. This is the time when the weight of grief truly settles in. It’s the space after the event, when the world seems to keep moving, but your …
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Today we are stepping into one of the hardest moments in the journey of grief — The Event. The day when friends and family gather. The day when we honor the life of the one we’ve lost. The day that feels like both a blur and an eternity. This moment carries so much weight — sorrow, love, memories, and the reality of goodbye. But it also carries the…
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“In those first days, the practical realities hit like waves. Paperwork, signatures, phone calls. Someone asks about flowers. Another about clothing. The funeral home wants to know about the service time.
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“When you are grieving, you are tender. Words hit deeper. Silence feels louder. Your emotions are raw, and sometimes even a small comment can feel like a wound.
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“When the time comes to prepare for a service or a memorial, the weight can feel unbearable. Planning something so final for someone you love… it’s one of the hardest responsibilities to carry.
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Episode 1: Episode One: The First 24 Hours of a 10 part series
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8:41Episode One: The First 24 Hours “The very first 24 hours after loss… it feels unreal. Your body goes into shock. Your mind almost refuses to process what has just happened. Some describe it as numbness, others say it feels like they’re walking in a dream—or a nightmare.
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Surviving the Storm Intro of a 10 part Healing Series
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3:00Surviving the Storm hasn't been easy, But there is Hope Beyond the Hurt Cyndi “LadyFavor” McKoy knows firsthand the raw weight of grief. As a young mother in 1985, she lost her one-month-old daughter to crib death — a heartbreak that forever changed her life. Years later, she became a full-time caregiver to her husband during his 14-month decline i…
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