In this podcast, through our stories, together we walk through our joys and our sufferings, as well as our gratefulness. We share useful tools to support you in shifting from fear, anxiety and self-destruction, to a life well-lived - full of meaning and fulfilled dreams. Through new practices, new principles and a new mindset our stories of being a victim and our attitude of self-loathing becomes one of humility and gratitude.
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Episode 29 Special Guest: Chris Lane 2 cases - 2 handles - 2 days "Oaks Recovery saved my life"
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Chris Lane, 35, was born in the small town of Rumford, Maine. At the age of five, he moved with his parents to the rural parts of Columbia and Lexington, South Carolina. Growing up, Chris witnessed most of his family either battling addiction or navigating recovery. Following this difficult family legacy, he began drinking at 14. Like many, his rel…
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Episode 28 PART 2 " It's always the Mexican restaurants! " Special Guest Ashleigh Cline
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Ashleigh Cline is a certified peer support specialist at Westview Behavioral Health. After a turbulent road filled with addiction, trauma, and significant personal loss her story has transformed dramatically from one of despair to one of resilience and post-traumatic growth. Her twelve-year battle with addiction marked the beginning of a profound j…
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This week’s conversation is with a small group of people interested in understanding my design for living. The conversation is raw and honest, and not everyone may be receptive to it. This is the beauty of choice. We no longer have to live our lives concerned about others’ opinions and expectations of us. Find your tribe, seek out mentors—more than…
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Episode 27 PART 1 " We're talking about behaviors" Special Guest: Lance Cline
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Lance Cline hails from the heart of Maryland. His childhood was shaped within the nurturing yet challenging environment of Recovery, as both of his parents have been steadfast in their Recovery journey for over 40 years. This unique upbringing instilled in Lance a deep understanding of the struggles and triumphs that come with addiction and recover…
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Episode 25 Part 2 Jamar Ryle "I was trying to fill that void" Honesty Openminded Willingness
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Jamar’s journey is a vivid illustration of the human spirit’s capacity to endure and triumph. It speaks to the courage needed to face one’s demons, the unwavering determination to reclaim one’s life, and the rediscovery of hope and purpose that fuels the path to recovery. His transformation is a beacon for others, illuminating the way forward and p…
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Episode 24 Part 1 Special Guest: Jamar Ryle "I was trying to fill that void", Honesty Open-minded Willingness
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Jamar’s odyssey to recovery commenced on March 17th, 2018, a date etched in his memory as the beginning of a profound transformation. His narrative is a harrowing tapestry woven with threads of deep-seated depression, excruciating pain, and an overwhelming sense of hopelessness and worthlessness. These emotions, intertwined with unmanageability, se…
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Episode 23 " What can I put into the stream of life" Special Guest: Roger Layne
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This week’s special guest is the returning Roger Layne from Week 2. Roger will delve into his extensive knowledge and experience with the virtues of Stoicism and the 12 principles of the twelve steps. These principles emphasize living a virtuous life, focusing on what is within our control, and accepting the natural order of things. Roger will expl…
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Episode 22 "Help Other People Everyday" H.O.P.E. Special Guest April Parker
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April Parker grew up in Indian Land, South Carolina, often escaping her tumultuous home life by playing outside, reading, and pretending to be a teacher. Despite being molested by her siblings and ignored by her parents, who were preoccupied with her father’s alcoholism, April excelled in academics and sports, earned a scholarship to Winthrop Unive…
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Epsiode 21 Special Guest: Seth Vallet "From Hallucinations to Halos"
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Seth Vallett’s life has been a rollercoaster of highs and lows, a symphony of triumphs and struggles. Born in the heart of Macon, Georgia, he emerged from a close-knit family—a tapestry woven with love and resilience. As a teenager, Seth danced on the edge of existence, drawn to mind-altering substances like a moth to a flame. These choices led him…
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Episode 19 "When we get it...We gotta keep doing it!" GOD...COUNTRY...GUNS
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Gerry Kelly: A Journey Across Oceans Gerry Kelly, a man of seasoned years and weathered spirit, traces his origins to the cobbled streets of Dublin, Ireland. Born under the watchful eyes of the Emerald Isle, he carried dreams as fragile as the morning mist. But destiny, that elusive weaver of narratives, had grander plans. In the fateful year of 19…
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Episode 18 Broken pieces: "We turned our pain into passion." Special guest: Lacy Spivey & Jesse Franklin
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Jessie Franklin and Lacy Spivey: A Journey of Redemption and Resilience Jessie Franklin and Lacy Spivey’s intertwined lives, marked by addiction and separation, ultimately led them back to each other. Their story serves as a beacon of hope for others, demonstrating that even in the darkest moments, redemption and resilience can pave the way to a ne…
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Episode 17 "I don't know how to NOT move forward" Special guest: Julie Cole
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Julie’s Journey to Authenticity INSTAGRAM: Julie_Cole_Coaching / Julie@JulieCole.org Julie Cole sat in the dimly lit room, her fingers tracing the edges of her sobriety coin. Twenty-six years. It felt like a lifetime and a heartbeat all at once. The room was filled with others—strangers who had become confidantes, their stories woven together like …
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Episode 16 "Before I knew it." Special guest: Jodi Friend
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Jodi’s Journey: From Darkness to Hope Jodi’s path through addiction, recovery, and the pain of loss has been an arduous one. The weight of shame and guilt rests heavily on her shoulders, yet she remains resolute in her quest for strength and sobriety. Despite enduring immense heartache, Jodi channels her experiences into helping others while safegu…
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Episode 14 " Then I was introduced to sub levels 1,2&3" Special guest Russell Marchese
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Russell Marchese’s story is indeed a profound narrative of hope, resilience, and the enduring power of faith and love. It’s a story that resonates with many who have faced similar battles, and it serves as a beacon of light for those still navigating the path of recovery. The journey of self-discovery and the embrace of one’s spirituality can be tr…
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Episode 15 "In my pain, I really found my purpose" Special guest Rachel Jackson
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Rachel’s profound journey to freedom is indeed a testament to the human spirit’s resilience and the transformative power of recovery. Born into a challenging environment, she faced her struggles head-on. Rachel’s journey from dealing with an eating disorder and substance abuse to becoming a pillar of support and inspiration is nothing short of rema…
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Episode 13 - 3 Pillars to a Peaceful Balance
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3 Pillars to a Peaceful Balance: Mindfulness / Meditation: Practicing mindfulness and meditation can help you cultivate awareness of the present moment, reduce stress, and enhance overall well-being. Consider incorporating mindfulness techniques such as deep breathing, body scans, or guided meditation into your daily routine. Community / Relationsh…
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Episode 12 "A Journey of Resilience & Purpose" Special Guest: Gerry Coleman
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JOURNEY OF RESILIENCE AND PURPOSE From the rolling hills of Pennsylvania to the warm embrace of the South, Gerry’s life’s journey has been anything but ordinary. At the tender age of 10, his family’s move to Irmo introduced him to a world where Gerry’s biracial heritage was as rare as it was misunderstood. The challenges were manifold: financial co…
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Episode 10 "Even when the odds are insurmountable" -Special guest William McCauley
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William A. McCauley, a Certified Peer-Support Specialist affiliated with The Courage Center, has not only embraced this title but also woven it into the very fabric of his identity. His journey is one of resilience, transformation, and unwavering commitment to recovery. For over 25 years, William grappled with the relentless grip of addiction. The …
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Episode 9 "I no longer carry the Iron Cross of shame" - Special Guest Matty I
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Matthew’s Journey: From Darkness to Light Matthew’s life was a tempest, a storm that threatened to drown him. As a child, anger clung to him like a shadow, and he struggled to find his place in a world that felt alien. But the universe had more trials in store for him. At the tender age of six, Matthew lost his closest companion—the brother who sha…
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Episiode 8 "My Defects Became My Assets" - Special Guest Amber Frazier
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Amber serves as a peer support specialist at a recovery community organization and she serves on the South Carolina Harm Reduction Coalition Political Affairs committee. Harm Reduction is a health centered approach that focuses on public health and safety. Examples of harm reduction we use in everyday life can be a seat belt, hard hat, life jacket,…
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Episode 7 "Discipline is My Foundation" - Special Guest Norman Ferris
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Norman Ferris born and raised in upstate NY, and even though he considers his childhood a good one, he found himself very self-conscious, and a very sensitive person. Norman was a good athlete in high school and loved working with horses. “My first drink qualified me as a drunk. Working with horses allowed me to drink. Drinking for oblivion, no rhy…
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Episode 6 "Peace Like No Other" - Special Guest Nansi N.
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Nansi is an outgoing person, so her soul that shines through her eyes. Without hearing her story, you would never understand the trials and tribulations she endured to make it to where she is today. Nansi was in active addiction since she was 16. She started with alcohol, which so many assume is harmless, but that led to cocaine. She soon found her…
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Episode 5 "The Arrow that Pierced My Ego" - Special Guest Jessie Franklin
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Jessie Franklin is a beacon of recovery and resilience. He embodies resilience, compassion and unwavering commitment to recovery. Jessie's journey is one of triumph over adversity, and his purpose lies in guiding others toward healing and hope. Jessie is a native of Lexington, South Carolina and the youngest of five children. He discovered his pass…
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Episode 4 "His Willingness To Walk By Faith" - Special Guest Josh Bone
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Josh Bone was born and raised by his grandparents in Dallas, NC. He attended college at UNC Chapel Hill where he studied psychology and creative writing. Working in the bar and service industry, he began to struggle with alcoholism and addiction. After navigating over a decade of active addiction, he celebrates 7 years of sobriety April 27, 2024. H…
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Episode 3 "Perception and Mindset" - Special Guest Matty I
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This is a "storytelling" episode. You will hear Matty I speaking to a group of recovering addicts and alcoholics. In this 1/2 hour show listen to some of Matty's journey, with a focus on becoming the person you were meant to be and how he has been walking that path. He says, "Never say you can't do it, remember you just haven't done it yet. Become …
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Episode 2 "What Is Your Perception" - Special Guest Roger Layne
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In this conversation, Matty, Chris and Roger share their experiences and insights on overcoming challenges and achieving personal growth through mental toughness and self-improvement. They emphasized the importance of living in the present moment, embracing emotions, and cultivating gratitude. They discuss the role of stoicism and community, and th…
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Episode 1 "I Am Responsible" - Special Guest " Big C"
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In this first episode of The Lose Control Podcast, host Matty I and good friend Chris Acciardo talk about some of their moments in life that were the lowest, yet they used those dark days as a means to turn life around. Listen in, we think you may hear your own story in ours.By Matty Isola
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