Join Katie, Kara and Jake, as they dive into the extraordinary world of kinks and cocktails! In each episode, your dynamic hosts unravel the mysteries of a unique kink, from robots and trees to ghosts and beyond. With a mix of curiosity, humor, and genuine fascination, they take you on a captivating journey through the realm of human desires. Get ready to be entertained, enlightened, and engaged on the ultimate kink podcast!
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Conversations about sex—mostly between men—that might surprise you. Host Paul Rosenberg, author of the forthcoming, The Heart of Jacks: The History and Culture of Jack-Off Clubs, talks with bloggers, writers, scientists, sexologists, artists, community organizers and regular folks about the world of unexpected ideas that emerge from jack-off club and “bator” cultures, a world in which millions of men openly share and celebrate the most common—and usually private—sexual activity of our species.
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On Sex, Love, and Addiction, Dr. Rob Weiss, sex therapist and author of a dozen books on sex and relationship healing, interviews global experts like Dr’s. Sue Johnson, Harville Hendrix, Dr. Stan Tatkin, and Helen Fisher, Dr. Kenneth Adams among others. This podcast features robust discussions focused on healing from chronic infidelity, cheating, porn, and sex addiction, along with the pain of relationship betrayal. Dr. Rob is Chief Clinical Officer for Seeking integrity Treatment Centers. H ...
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Psych Attack focuses on the diversity of the domain of psychology. Join us for a relaxed conversation with experts discussing the topics they are passionate about in psychological research and/or practice. The aim is to better understand the spectrum of human experience, the methods used in psychology, and the people attracted to working within it. The conversations will be of interest and accessible to novice and experienced psychology listeners alike. Hosted by Dr Jasmine B. MacDonald (jas ...
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When A Guy Has A Really F***ed Gender: the lovechild of Magnus Hirschfield and Joe Rogan. Each week, Jolene (she) talks to a guest about their gender, using their personal experience and interests as a springboard for further conversations about gender, sex, and sexuality.
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A dialogue about film and psychoanalysis hosted by Sarah Kathryn Cleaver and Mary Wild
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Worldly metal merchants Striker take you into the mad world of what's really going on.
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Best friends Rhyan and Brittany ruminate on the atrocities of existence. The sexual tension is palpable.
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Welcome to Guilty: A True Crime Podcast! Join Colin, a recent law school graduate who is preparing to take the bar, and David, a licensed professional counselor, while they discuss some of the most disturbing and horrible crimes and criminals of the past and present. Each two part series will contain an episode focused on the facts of the case(s) and an episode focused on the psychology of the criminal(s).
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Send us a Text Message. In this special bonus episode, Katie welcomes back her husband Danny as a guest co-host to dive into some of the wildest kink confessions sent in by our adventurous listeners. Together, they explore the intriguing and sometimes hilarious stories, offering their candid reactions and thoughtful insights. From unexpected fetish…
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In this episode, I catch up with Dr Marissa Edwards to hear about her journey advocating for better academic mental health and lessons she has learned along the way. We discuss: What academic mental health advocacy is and why it is important Our own personal challenges working in academia The difference between individual characteristics and system…
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Send us a Text Message. Join Jake and Katie in this hilarious episode of "Camel Toe Chronicles" as they dive deep into the world of camel toes! From fashion faux pas to unexpected sightings, our hosts leave no stone unturned—or uninspected. Jake unravels the history behind this curious phenomenon, while Katie shares her top tips for avoiding those …
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Send us a Text Message. Join Katie and Danny on this hilarious and eye-opening episode as they dive into the world of GILF and cougar relationships! From ancient societies where younger men dated older women to today's modern romance dynamics, they'll explore how these relationships have evolved over time. Get ready for laughs, surprising facts, an…
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Femboys in the Factory: Trans Labour Beyond Abjection?
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This week, Jolene is joined by Alexis to talk about her essay in the Trans Marxism special issue of TSQ, as well as: Remy Boydell and Michelle Perez's The Pervert, Jolene's opinions on Car Seat Headrest, just what happens at furry conventions, the erotics of Finnster, and the worst cover on an academic anthology ever. Read Alexis' essay here: https…
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In this episode, I catch up with Dr Sarah Ashton to hear about her work in the area of sexual health and intimacy. In particular, we focus on kink and paraphilias, where they come from, as well how to treat a paraphilic disorder and work with clients experiencing shame. Dr Sarah Ashton is a registered psychologist, Board Approved Supervisor, traini…
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Send us a Text Message. Join hosts Katie and Kara as they embark on an unexpectedly hilarious deep dive into the world of burping kink! In this episode, they uncover the surprisingly rich history behind this unique fetish, explore the psychological factors that make some folks go gaga over gas, and share some of the most common practices among enth…
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When A Guy Writes A Really Fucked Gender #1: Herculine Barbin
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Jolene hosts a reading group for Herculine Barbin's memoir! S/o to Rhea, Harper, and Logan for joining, discussion was lovely. You can join us for the next meeting on June 23rd, at 1PM CST for a discussion of the Autobiography of Alice B Toklas by Gertrude Stein, or for the meeting after that, a discussion of Fun Home by Alison Bechdel, on July 7th…
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Jolene is joined by Judas for a conversation about the there and back again and back again that is transition, detransition, and retransition. It's also kinda sorta like transgender Fun Home but with indie rock instead of modernist literature. Check out Judas' writing here: https://nicejewishboy.neocities.org/ The intro and outro music is by Lynn J…
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What Does Female Sex and Love Addiction Look Like?
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Heather Cronemiller and Lacy Bentley join Dr. Rob to talk about female sex addiction and the damage it can cause families. Both Lacy and Heather share their personal experience with being the ‘other woman’ and how, despite it going against everything they believed in, they still continued down a path of destruction. When it comes to any form of add…
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We were wearing tails before it was cool
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Jolene is joined by Kay for a story of there and back again: detransition. Tune in for a story of wolfaboos, drag queen babysitters, colonialism, and more! Also, at the end we get excited about the upcoming WAGHARFG reading group! Join here: https://discord.gg/tDkukGxgS3?event=1229990512560443423 The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can l…
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Fucked Genders of the Past: the Byzantine Empire
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This episode was a patreon only episode, but I decided to throw it up on the main feed by way of apology for falling behind on putting out episodes. Don't worry patreons, there's another one for you coming in just another day or two (or three, apologies). Jolene is joined by repeat guest Ilya to discuss his essay, out a few weeks ago in Gender and …
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Gender is for special occasions ONLY
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Join the WAGHARFG Reading Group Discord: https://discord.gg/TTESqMNENt I'm sorry about the dog sounds in the background of my beginning spiel; I didn't think you'd be able to hear it through the mic. Jolene is joined this week by Lev, a different Lev than ever before, to talk through hir life, bouncing around the digital landscape of niche feminism…
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EP 60 - Striker Almost Ruined My Life ft. Shane Gomez
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Episode 18 • Exophilia • Alien and Human Romance
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Send us a Text Message. Discover the cosmos of love with Katie and Kara as they delve into the intricacies of alien-human romances. From ancient alien histories to the psychology of interstellar love, join us as we explore mating customs, shared experiences, and delve into captivating movies and TV shows that depict these unique relationships. Supp…
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EP 59 - Paraphilia ft. Victoria Willis
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EP 58 - Mötley Crüe Invented Speed Metal
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Part 2: Voices of Hope For, and By, Women Who Have Been Betrayed
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Annie and Melissa are two women who have experienced deep marital betrayal in their relationship. The signs weren’t always clear as to what was actually going on, but when the wool had been pulled over their eyes, the amount of emotions, judgment, and pain they experienced took a long time to recover from. This episode is part two of these two wome…
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Part 1: Voices of Hope For, and By, Women Who Have Been Betrayed
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Annie and Melissa are two women who have experienced deep marital betrayal in their relationship. The signs weren’t always clear as to what was going on, but when the wool had been pulled over their eyes, the amount of emotions, judgment, and pain they experienced took a long time to recover from. These two women share their stories and also share …
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EP 57 - FROG NOISE ft. Nicholas Bernard
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Send us a Text Message. Get ready for a dose of contagious laughter as Katie, Big Dee, and our new guest cohost Jake, gather for another episode of Kinks and Cocktails. In this session, the trio delves into a treasure trove of stories submitted by you – the listeners. From hilarious escapades to heartwarming experiences, each narrative unfolds, pai…
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EP 56 - HOW TO NASCAR ft. Tanner Shaw
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Developmental insights for investigative interviewing about maltreatment with Associate Professor Lindsay Malloy
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In this episode, I catch up with Associate Professor Lindsay Malloy to hear about her research in developmental psychology and the law. In particular, ways to improve investigative interviewing with people who have experienced maltreatment and. In this discussion, Lindsay explains some developmental differences when interviewing children, adolescen…
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Does what it says on the tin. Jolene is joined by Vanya this week to discuss woundfucking. It is exactly what it sounds like. Also some discussions of sex work, brain tumors, Ehlers-Dahnlos, the endorphin system, and more. Also: Jolene was on another podcast last week. I talk about it at the start, but here's a link to the episode: https://open.spo…
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome our new co-host Kara! We're kicking things off with a bang, digging into the quirky stories behind silicone companions. It's like a Netflix documentary, but with more laughs and less drama. Trust me, you won't look at your household objects the same way again! Cheers to Kara! Let's do the damn thing!! Support the Sho…
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Going to Therapy Doesn’t Have to Be Impossible with Jason VanRuler
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Jason VanRuler is a therapist, coach, speaker, and author dedicated to impacting those who make an impact. His first book, Get Past Your Past, is all about establishing a mindset of emotional health and resilience to find lasting wholeness. In this episode, Jason shares his personal self-development journey, why going to therapy is so difficult for…
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Part 2: Porn, What’s The Big Deal? with Dr. Sandra Shachar
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Sandra A. Shachar, Ph.D., is a Licensed Psychologist in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, and has over thirty years of clinical experience working with individuals, couples and families affected by Betrayal Trauma. She is also the author of The Porn Solution, which dives into the world of betrayal through porn use and what partners can do to navigate the…
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This week, Jolene is joined by Jay (@trans_catboy on twitter) to discuss the omegaverse. Tune in to find out what the hell is secondary sex, and how it was birthed from the inflamed libidos of sci-fi fans who got a hold of some bad wolf science, and how it fits into Jay's life and transition. The intro and outro music is by Lynn July. You can liste…
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Part 1: Porn, What’s The Big Deal? with Dr. Sandra Shachar
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Sandra A. Shachar, Ph.D., is a Licensed Psychologist in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, and has over thirty years of clinical experience working with individuals, couples and families affected by Betrayal Trauma. She is also the author of The Porn Solution, which dives into the world of betrayal through porn use and what partners can do to navigate the…
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FIRST EPISODE OF 2024!!! Jolene is joined by Lua to talk mostly about noise music, transition and blackness, and eventually, raceplay. Also featured: gossip, some censorship (sorry), and sissies. Check out Lua's music: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vlxYb3JaACE https://open.spotify.com/artist/60KplDAZ1mE9UINmtP6r3d?si=g4ScSPkjSYep-r44qpERJQ The in…
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Send us a Text Message. Join us for a jolly episode as we explore the playful side of Santa's holiday escapades. From unexpected visits to whimsical antics, we imagine the fun he spreads in unique ways. Plus, discover quirky New Year traditions . Tune in for a dose of holiday cheer and inspiration for creating your own memorable moments this festiv…
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BONUS: Why Should I Write Down All My Anger and Hurt?
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Dr. Rob and Tami talk about the healing properties a journal practice can have. A listener wrote that her therapist wants her to journal out the resentment and anger that her SA has caused her, but the mere thought of doing this gets her re-triggered and angry all over again. Is there really a point to all of this aside from re-remembering the betr…
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Guiltily listening to jordaan mason and the horse museum in a radfem way
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EDIT: There are a couple places in here where my guest says something and then says he'd prefer it omitted from the recording. We talked more off-mic, and Jamie ultimately decided he was fine with putting out what all is in here. Jolene is joined by Jamie for a discussion that ranges across: cis4pay sex work, agender lesbianism to transfaggotry, ra…
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BONUS: Am I Just Having Fun, or Is This a Full-Blown Addiction?
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Dr. Rob and Tami break down the gray area between just having fun, being “at-risk” for an addiction, and being a full-blown addict. It can be difficult to define the line fully when you’re in the middle of a “good time.” Dr. Rob offers various considerations for you to think about to determine whether you’re barely teetering the line or if you’re i…
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Send us a Text Message. Explore the enchanting world of giant women in our latest episode, "The Giantess Obsession." Discover the captivating allure that draws guys in and keeps them hooked. From mythology to modern culture, we dissect the fascination and dive into the psychology behind it. Join us for a quick journey through the realms of fantasy …
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YOooooo we took a bit of a break but we are back!By Striker
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Jolene is joined by Professor Megan Massa of Emory University to talk about neuroendocrinology! We talk about hormones, their affects on behavior, scientific narratives around this, how those narratives interact with popular narratives, and more! This is a really jam packed episode and one I'm really proud of. Enjoy! The paper Megan co-authored wit…
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Supportive Dad to Trans Mom Pipeline or "Sexemes"
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Jolene is joined by Roxana to talk about her transition, spurred in part by the transition of her daughter! Other topics include: the importance of bisexual Wiccan girls to a healthy ecosystem, how gay fighting games are, gender-neutral parenting, and more! Here's the Iranian poet Roxana mentions towards the end: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Forug…
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PREVIEW: science fiction: Joanna Russ and Samuel Delany
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Subscribe to the Patreon to hear the full episode: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85347146 Jolene is joined by Lyn of Make the Golf Course a Public Sex Forest (which you can order here: https://maitlandsystems.bigcartel.com/product/make-the-golf-course-a-public-sex-forest) to discuss some books by the great Joanna Russ and Samuel Delany! Check out …
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Discover and Connect with Your Own Inner Voice Again with Lucy Beresford
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Lucy Beresford hosts LBC Radio’s Sex and Relationships show and she’s the author of 4 books, including the global best-seller Happy Relationships. She works as a psychotherapist at The Grace Clinic, London and from time to time at The Delhi Psychiatry Centre in India under Dr. Sunil Mittal. In this episode, Lucy talks about refinding your voice aga…
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Trans motherhood, f*ggotry, fatness, etc.
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Jolene is joined by Natalie and Louane to talk about their relationship (trans motherhood), fatness, f*ggotry, weird medical stuff, abuse, trauma, extreme sex acts, and more. Jolene would also like to apologize for using the word "traumatophilia" incorrectly. This is what I get for trying to talk about a book I've never read. Just replace "traumato…
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