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Black iNQueery is your home for all things Black and Queer. Listen along each week as your hosts, Raymond Wise, Randy Nygel, and BoDaBaddie, discuss the ups and downs of the human experience from a Black Queer perspective with a whole lotta laughter! Nothing is off limits; dating, the church, chosen family, and of course whatever mess is making headlines each week. These three friends are happy to add you to the group chat. So kick off your shoes, throw on your bonnet, and welcome home! New ...
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This week your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie share their thoughts on the relationship between fathers and their queer children. Listen along as they unpack memories they have with their fathers, and share the lessons that still impact them most today. Word on the curb is Don Lemmon missed the mark in a major way, and RocNation is …
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Coming Out, Pulling Out, and Going In
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Happy Pride! This week your host Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie reflect on and share their coming out stories. Listen along as they discuss the impact that coming out can have on yourself, and those around you. This week's word on the curb: Black face booksellers, Carlton Banks is lashing out online, and the rap girlies are fighting! Fol…
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WOTC: Denouncements, Giuseppe Boots, & Kelly Price’s Prayers
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This week's special episode is strictly word on the curb! Your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDabaddie discuss headlines that didn't make it into previous episodes. From Red Lobster to Cam'ron on CNN, the BnQ hosts have thoughts! Listen along and share some of your thoughts by tagging us on IG! Follow Black iNQueery on Instagram…
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This week, your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie get into the nitty gritty of what it looks like to forgive. From forgiving friends, family, and even ourselves this introspective episode dissects the feelings and challenges of working to forgive. Word on the curb is Anita Baker is canceling shows with little notice and teachers are g…
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Mother's Day is right around the corner and this week your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie take time to give their flowers to all the mutha figures in the queer community. Muthahood isn't about biology, it's about community and celebrates chosen family. Word on the Curb is Drew Barrymore is asking Kamala Harris to be a Mamala and Ke…
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Love & War: Fighting With Your Partner
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While this episode is about fighting with your partner, it's a ki over here at Black iNQueery! Fighting styles, rules of fighting, and how to apologize are all covered on this week's episode. Your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie share how they fight with their significant others and what they learn about themselves, and their partne…
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And I Oop- The Appropriation (and Assimilation) of Queer Culture
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What exactly is appropriation and what does it have to do with assimilation? Do the two impact the other? & when is it officially doing too much? This week your host Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie discuss the nuances of appropriation and share their thoughts on appropriation vs assimilation. Word on the curb is Ne-Yo got two girlfriends …
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This week your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie navigate the complex culture of DL (down low) men. They take a deeper look into the origins of the term and discuss navigating in the queer community that often includes DL men. Word on the curb is Robyn Dixon lost her job- but Serena Williams might be getting a new one?! Tap in! [TW: S…
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Can you date a friend's ex? Do you honor the "dibs" system? If your friend cheats on a partner are you snitching? This week your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie do their best to come up with a clear set of rules and boundaries for queer friend groups. Word on the curb is Todrick Hall is asking for money and Jerrod Carmichael is on T…
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Chewing with your mouth open? Ick! Clapping when the plane lands? Ick! Can't parallel Park? ICK! This week your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie dive into their list of icks and turn offs, as well as toxic traits that turn them on maybe just a little. Yee, and we cannot stress this enough... HAW! Beyoncé is back with act ii, prepare …
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Bust out the gator tail shoes and Blue Magic hair grease! Memorize your speech and figure out who's making the mac and cheese, QUICKLY! Easter is here! This week your Black and Queer hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie are hitting the pews and giving an in depth look at the Black church experience from the perspective of the "Preacher's…
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What's the procedure for conflict within the community? Are we putting too much pressure on Black owned businesses? Did Bruno owe them folks some money or not?! This week your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie discuss conflict resolution and holding folks accountable. [TW: Suicide//Grief] This episode has brief mention of suicide when…
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This week your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie discuss their journey with navigating mental health and wellness. Listen along as they share their struggles, wins, and how they check in on one another. ...also, WHERE IS KATE MIDDLETON??? Follow Black iNQueery on InstagramBy Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie
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Who's picking up the tab? Who's keeping up with the Joneses? And who TF did I marry?! This week your host Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie discuss finance & dating. Follow Black iNQueery on InstagramBy Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie
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This week your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie discuss the complex feelings that come along with desirability. Listen along as they share their personal experience with beauty standards, their journey to accepting their bodies, and how they navigate the messy webs of desirability. Follow Black iNQueery on Instagram…
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This week your hosts Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie go back down memory lane to share formative memories from their queer youth! From first relationships to classroom shenanigans, this episode is filled with insight as to why your hosts are the way they are! Follow Black iNQueery on Instagram…
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This week your hosts Raymond Wise, Randy Nygel, and BoDaBaddie discuss the impact Black women have on society. This conversation centers around ways we as a society can show up for Black women and highlights the beauty of womanhood and the many gifts women bring to our lives. Follow Black iNQueery on Instagram…
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This week Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie address the many nuances of navigating intersectional identity. Listen along as your hosts ponder the definition of "Pro-Black" and challenge stale and harmful stereotypes. [TW: SA, r*pe] Follow Black iNQueery on InstagramBy Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie
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This week's episode comes with a side of nostalgia as your hosts, Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie discuss the shows that kept them glued to their televisions. Follow Black iNQueery on InstagramBy Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie
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This week your hosts, Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie, reflect on the origin story of their friendship! Listen along as they discuss the ups and downs of navigating and maintaining a community. [TW: SA, r*pe] Follow Black iNQueery on InstagramBy Randy Nygel, Raymond Wise, and BoDaBaddie
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