In this episode I give a life update on my recent trip to Turkey with Blondie, and meeting his family for the first time. I talk about the CRAZY culture shock that comes with being exposed to EXPERT levels of tarof and how I was not prepared. I then talk about a couple of new dates I've been on and answer questions of the week. Walking in on your m…

In this episode I talk to you about a recent research experiment I conducted for the podcast where I went on a date with a TYPICAL PERSIAN GUY *gasp* Listen in as I talk to you about his NDA’s he makes people sign and my new found kink of shitting on egos of men like him.By Sahar Golshani

After a 3 month break from the podcast to kickstart 2024 the right way... I'm back to share updates on my life, tell you about a potential MFM threesome and talk about friendship breakups.By Sahar Golshani

In this episode I give you a life update and then talk about the INS and OUTS of 2024 as we go into the new year. I also talk about when it's okay to start sex chatting and give you a detailed 4 step guide on how to dominate your partner and be a BOSS in the bedroom!By Sahar Golshani

I had a wild week with TWO new escapades to tell you about. Listen in as I talk about men’s egos, eye contact during sex, foot fetishes, edging your partner and my new favourite sex toyBy Sahar Golshani

After taking a few weeks off to deal with some craziness, I'm back with another life update to fill ya'll in on what went down. I talk about dating apps, new kinks I've found, open relationships, attachment styles, going to couples therapy and the biggest persian dick I've ever seen. Buckle up because it's a wild one!…

In this episode I got the chance to sit down with the one and only Maryam Keshavarz. She is a bad-ass trailblazing Iranian female director who is responsible for some of the best diaspora made movies ever! From "Circumstance" to her newest release "The Persian Version" we talk about how she got into movie making, her inspiration behind her latest f…

In this episode I fill you all in on: what Blondie had planned for my birthday // how I'm feeling about turning 33 // when someone you hate dies // people who use ADHD as an excuse // tips for teenagers // how to get over a breakup // when the right time is to be in a relationshipBy Sahar Golshani

In this episode I talk about my opinions about the Barbie movie, the new term we are using instead of saying "FOB", some drama I had with a random EERAN (and a video that is apparently circulating of me) and curved dicks and why they are underrated.By Sahar Golshani

In this episode I answer a few questions, rant about instagram fake fuckery, change my mind about some things and share my tips on how to suck dick.By Sahar Golshani

In this episode I talk about: Guys liking girls photos on instagram -- Handling rejection -- How to motivate ourselves -- How some people ABUSE therapy -- My current self-image issues And after a year and a half of waiting, I finally share with you the details of my last break-up and the dark events that surrounded why I ultimately left the relatio…

In this episode I sit down with Yaz, a beautiful human who is active within the polyamorous, sex positive and kink community. I ask them about themselves, their relationship structure, and how they became and now work as a dominatrix (Or domme as they prefer to be called) Listen in and learn more about Yaz, gain some insight into the community and …

In this episode I give a life update of what I did in the 4 months that I took off. From making a sex painting to organizing the first protest in Downtown Toronto and cutting out toxic people from my life, it's been a very eventful few months.By Sahar Golshani

I'm back! After a hiatus due to whats going on in Iran right now, I'm back to fill you guys in on something pretty toxic that was happening in my life that I had kept from sharing on the podcast until now. Are you dealing with a narcissist? Have you ever dealt with one? What is a narcissist? Let's talk about them and how you'll have clearer skin an…

Inconsistency is my middle name... I know. BUT you know that when I'm gone for a minute, it just means that my stories are going to be FUEGO... SPICY... like burning asshole the next day kinda vibes. I talk about my recent trip to a sex club, transcendental orgasms, going on a date with another couple and our first experience swinging. (with blondi…

Hello... I'm back from a small crazy hiatus. I got up to a lot the past few weeks and I'm here to spill all the tea for you guys. Getting back on dating apps? A threesome? A foursome? Spin the bottle? A new crush on a girl? There's LOTS to uncover.By Sahar Golshani

In this episode I am back with another solo after taking a month off to be in the moment and tend to my own mental health. I give you guys an update on Blondie, now that you've all HALF seen him, and fill you in on where I am mentally. emotionally and hormonally. Questions of the week are back and we cover topics from types of protection, sexual li…

In this episode I sit down with my friend Raam to catch up after a long time. We update each other on our lives, talk about kinks, hook-ups on tour and eating ass. Listen in to us ramble and shoot the shit like we are known to do! Follow Raam: @kingraamBy Sahar Golshani

In this episode I give you guys a life update about a recent "hubby material" date I went on that turned into a fifty shades of grey experience and consequent wake up call to ask myself the question of "What do I even want?". It also forced me to rethink many emotions and take a few steps back and come back to reality. Hot Sahar Summer is a mindset…

In this episodes life update I talk about the problems I've been having recently with the shit storm of emotions that are being thrown my way and how I'm trying to navigate through them to the best of my ability within an open, ethically non monogamous partnership. I talk about a newly created term "JAGH AND JAVAB" and I answer your questions rangi…

In this episode I give you guys a tumultuous life update after a brief 2 week hiatus. It includes: Sex on molly, emotional connections, deep stares into the others eyes, flowers at 1am, post period orgasms and the question that has had my mind at odds for weeks... "What does I love you even mean?" As usual I also answer some questions on the week s…

In this episode I start off with a long held in rant about haters and how they can suck my D. A life update about a date night with blondie and what the rollercoaster of my feelings is at now. I then go on to share some of YOUR crazy date/sex stories and comment on them in true Sahar style. Using a cucumber? Sleeping with a Pablo Escobar type gangs…

In this episode I give you guys another life update after taking two weeks off for Norooz... and let me tell you, it will NOT disappoint. --- What started as a friends night out at a drag show turned into a sexual experience I still can't get over. In conclusion, everyone should have sex positive friends who want to play together. --- Update on las…

In this episode I bring on my friend Armin to have a chat together about all things related to gender, sex and what it means to be non-binary. We talk about their journey to their identity, polyamory, GHEYRATI men and they teach me about "cruising" and sex parties. I also give you guys a life update. What is the line between a FWB and a relationshi…

This episode makes up for the dryness of last week. This week I talk about a recent Blondie success story. (No more fails this time) and what it feels like to be in a more dominant headspace in bed as a woman. (Ps: Have you ever gotten fucked while making breakfast?) I share two funny sex stories from my early 20s that literally made me cringe thin…

This weeks life update is pretty dry and pretty awkward... kinda like the first time you had sex. I did however realize that I am capable of feeling butterflies and shedding the boss bitch guards I have up if I genuinely like the guy. Ugh... call the exterminator, this bitch felt a feeling. As usual I also cover topics you've sent in like: - Squirt…

In this episode I talk about what the equivalent to lingerie would be for men, why being a girl is SO FUCKING EXPENSIVE and how 69-ing is the worst position in the world. I answer questions of the week about how to communicate better in bed, how women should ALWAYS orgasm BEFORE the guy and I finally give you my tips on how to successfully SDT it u…

In this episode I talk about a recent disastrous fail I had with a toy which leads to a rant on social stigma around mens sexuality and exploration. I then talk get into questions of the week and talk about the daunting "what are we" question that comes in early on in dating, whether or not you should fuck with a married man and what I miss about c…

In this episode the GIRLS ARE IN TOWN! Yasi, Sahar and Melieka came to Toronto to visit me and we all went to Atoussa's house one night to drink, bond and record this podcast for you. We cover lots of deep topics and open up to each other about our upbringings, our culture, our grievances and our best memories of 2021 ALL WHILE getting progressivel…

In this episode I give you guys yet another single sahar life update where I teach you the meaning of what it means to be YOBS and then rant about YOBS kissers who ultimately give you YOBS orgasms. I literally did research for this episode so ya'll better appreciate me taking one for the team. I then go on to talk about sexting, the different style…

In this episode I finally spill two stories from my LA trip this summer and then dive into talking about kinks, your sexual bucket list and what your sexual partner body count should be! Song used: Double Dosing by Nicole GlazunovBy Sahar Golshani

In this episode I bring back Atoussa as we sit down and go over the SHIT STORM of a week I had in my current dating life. We RAGE, RANT AND VENT over the misogyny that still exists to this day, the sexualization, mixed signals and "DICKY BRAIN" of Persian men and their obliviousness to it all. I have a couple of epiphanies and we both agree that I …

In this episode I answer questions sent in from the listeners. TURN OFFS DURING SEX? Should you move to another city/country for someone you love? How to not feel shy to ask a guy to LICK THE KITTY. My thoughts on having anal sex AAAAAND finally some dating app profile horror stories.By Sahar Golshani

In this episode I was inspired by my girl Atoussa saying that I'm a "professional dater" and so I thought I'd come and give you guys my strategies and tricks that I've picked up in the past month since being back in Toronto. I also answer your questions about masturbation stigma, sending nudes and the age old question of "when is a good time to fin…

In this episode I answer some questions sent in from the listeners: Do I want kids? What turns me on? What advice would I give my 18 year old self? What is DICK AND DEKLAMEH? I also give yet another #SingleSahar life update about how I got ghosted and how you should deal with being ghosted by someone.…

In this episode I talk about body positivity and being a confident bad bitch no matter what size you are. I also bring on my friend Dan who gives his take as a male and why he proudly says he is attracted to plus sized girls. I then give you bitches an update on my single life so far (I almost became a dominatrix) and talk about why I am polyamorou…

I'm back from LA with tons of vlog style podcasts from my birthday weekend and an update on my newly SINGLE STATUS BABYYYYYYY! SEASON 2 BEGINS NOW!By Sahar Golshani

On this episode I sit down with my sister in LA to talk about our childhood and give you guys an official introduction into what people call "the mini me version of Sahar but worse" (in a good way)By Sahar Golshani

No words... the title speaks for itselfBy Sahar Golshani

In this episode I sit down and talk about running into an ex-friends-with-benefits and being an assertive Bad Bitch and going after what you want. Getting a glimpse into the dating world and re-learning who I would be in this world has opened up my eyes to how I work and I thought I'd share to gain some insight and see if you guys feel the same way…

In this episode I get to talk to one of my cool friends Raam, who is fresh out of a digital detox and back better than ever. We talk about everything from NFT's to polyamory to potential porn videos and the usual vents about things that annoy us about society. Love talking to Raam, even though sometime he won't let me get a word in hahaha. Follow h…

Aftahill is back! We sat in his studio, pressed record and had a organic unfiltered chat about anything and everything. We get high (literally) and low, covering topics like my first porn experience, weddings and if humans are truly monogamous. Follow @aftahill on Instagram AND don't forget to rate the podcast and leave a review!…

In this episode I sit down with Fared after connecting on clubhouse. I get to know more about him, a Texas born Iranian who both sings and plays sonati music. We talk about Iranians on clubhouse, 9/11 theories, living in Iran, the styles of sonati music and growing up with two cultures. Follow him on IG @faredshafinury ... and don't forget to rate …

Eydetoon Mobarak! It's the first day of the new year and it wouldn't be complete if I didn't rant and vent and let off some steam in order to clear my mind and be at peace. :D I talk about the Sasy and pornstar fiasco, my recent fail at doing a paid advertisement and how to love yourself and use your time more wisely. Thank you for listening and su…

If you're on Tiktok chances are you've come across Mahboobeh and her hilarious sketch videos. Based on the stereotypical blonde haired, thick eyeliner wearing, hairdresser and part time realtor, Athena (her real name) uses her character work to perfectly portray someone we ALL know too well! Listen in as we talk, hear her origin story and get into …

In this episode I talk about my upbringing and the not so picture perfect past that I went through that made me who I am today. As a survivor of constant physical, verbal and emotional abuse for the first decade of my life, I feel that my story should be shared so that I can help as many people out there who might be going or have gone through the …

In this episode I have Melieka Fathi, a professional Iranian dancer from California on the show. Not many people know this but I was an active dancer up to the age of 21 and have many years of training and research under my belt. We sit and talk about all things dance in order to do some "farhang sazi" and inject more knowledge about this art form …

SAHAR'S FOR THE WIN! In this episode I sit down with the amazingly creative, forward thinking and all around bad ass Sahar Ghorishi. Having been Insta friends for years, we talk about iranian culture, beauty standards, dor-dor in iran and what it means to be culturally "woke" in 2021. This was definitely one of my favourite conversations as it left…

In this episode I sit down with the ARYA aka AFTAHILL. You know him from our sex podcast, but ya'll don't even KNOWWWWW him. He's an amazing up and coming artist with a beautiful mind and soul to match and I sit down with him to uncover his upbringing, what led him to music AND most important of all we dissect his new album "Tehranto" coming out on…

In this episode i talk to Erfan about our current world situation and the covid virus that has fucked the world up in the past year. We also cover popular conspiracy theories and give our opinions on things like, Elon Musk, vaccinations, moon landings, hollow earth and ALIENS! (Obviously we don't claim to be scholars or anything but it's just a fun…