Best Selfish Daddy Podcasts (2024)

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Ep. 51 - Life Modelling, Spicy Texts & The Art of Curiosity 23:34

4d ago23:34

23:34

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com In today’s Premium episode, we discuss our recent creative adventures, erotic texting, an evening of life modelling and much more! To listen to the full episode and watch the video become a Paid subscriber to access my complete writing archive, full podca…

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Ep. 50 - Creativity & Non-Monogamy with Multiamory 59:44

11d ago59:44

59:44

Today’s episode features Jase, Emily and Dedeker from the renowned Multiamory podcast. With hundreds of episodes, millions of downloads around the world, and a thriving community Multiamory has been featured in numerous publications, including NPR, Vice, Huffington Post, Cosmopolitan, and Elle. In today’s episode we discuss Emily’s recent transitio…

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Ep. 49 - Evolving Love Live at NFSA 57:37

14d ago57:37

57:37

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com In today’s episode we share our debut live show on the 26th July 2024 at the National Film and Sound Archives of Australia. We field questions from the audience and guests Molly Roden Winter, Marie Thouin, Lawrence (Our Secret Spot) & Fernanda (Polycuriou…

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Can Compersion Be Selfish? With Dr. Marie Thouin 56:13

25d ago56:13

56:13

Dr. Marie Thouin is a leading expert and scholar on compersion in consensual non-monogamy. She has authored two pioneering research studies, the first-ever encyclopedia entry on compersion, and has recently authored the first-ever scholarly book on compersion “What is Compersion? Wether you are new to the concept of compersion or well versed, this …

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Ep. 47 - Salsa, Non-Monogamy & Dancer Daddy Doms 18:25

1M ago18:25

18:25

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com On this weeks Premium Episode, Abbey reflects on her recent Salsa dancing night, drawing parallels between the world of dance and non-monogamy. Dancer Daddies, power dynamics, vulnerability, a dance with a lover and so much more… Evolving Love Podcast Liv…

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Ep. 46 - Alex Alberto - "Entwined" & Coming Out At Thanksgiving 1:04:18

1M ago1:04:18

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Alex Alberto is a queer and polyamorous storyteller and educator. They grew up in Montreal and currently live in upstate New York. Alex is the author of the genre-blending memoir, Entwined: Essays on Polyamory and Creating Home. They co-founded Quilted Press, a collective of independent authors who reshape traditional narratives of love, family, an…

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Ep. 45 - Would You Rather... 20:28

2M ago20:28

20:28

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com In todays episode we answer your “Would You Rather” questions that were submitted on Instagram. * “Be monogamous for the rest of your life or have to eat a bowl of worms every morning?” * “You never date someone again…. or Liam never date someone again?” …

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Ep. 44 - Casey Calvert - Adult Industry Star Gets Personal About Non-Monogamy 1:08:30

2M ago1:08:30

1:08:30

Casey Calvert is an award-winning Adult director, writer, performer, and content creator. An eleven-year veteran of the industry, she won Director of the Year and Best Screenplay at the 2023 XBiz Awards - the "Golden Globes" of porn. In today’s wide ranging conversation we discuss Casey’s own journey in non-monogamy and polyamory, porn stars’ appro…

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Ep. 43 - Bouldering Babes, Hillsong & Fantasy Scripts 26:02

2M ago26:02

26:02

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com In todays Premium “Ask Us Anything” episode we answer your questions and discuss Hillsong, “The Idea of You” and so much more. Questions include: * “Does it ever get tiring making the ENM thing your whole world?” * “Do you actively look for people to conn…

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Ep. 42 - The Love Languages Test 55:05

2M ago55:05

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This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com In todays episode we take the Love Languages Test LIVE on the podcast and discuss the questions and our answers in real time… To Unlock the Full Video episode, become a Premium subscriber! Show Links: Take The Love Languages Test! Evolving Love Podcast Li…

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Ep. 41 - Chloe Caldwell On Her Acclaimed Novella "WOMEN" 53:46

3M ago53:46

53:46

To celebrate the re-release of her cult classic Queer novel, “WOMEN”, we are overjoyed to be joined by writer Chloe Caldwell. Named one of Cosmopolitan UK's Best Erotic Novels of All Time, WOMEN intimately explores one young writer’s whirlwind and whiplash affair as she falls deeply in love with a woman for the first time. In WOMEN, Caldwell lays b…

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Ep. 40 - "Are The Kids Ok?" - Dr. Eli Sheff on Polyamorous Families & Parenting 53:12

3M ago53:12

53:12

Dr. Eli Sheff is one of a handful of global academic experts on polyamory, and the foremost academic expert on children in polyamorous families. Specializing in diversity and underserved populations, Sheff is an expert witness, relationship consultant, public speaker, and author. Her first book, The Polyamorists Next Door: Inside Multiple-Partner R…

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Ep. 39 - Cheating & Infidelities in Non-Monogamy 28:14

3M ago28:14

28:14

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com On today’s Premium Video episode, Abbey and Liam reflect on Ashley Madison, the ethics of cheating, what constitutes infidelity in a non-monogamous relationship & more. Premium Episodes are now Video Episodes!!! To Unlock the Full Video episode, become a …

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Ep. 38 - Stewart & Molly Roden Winter - The World's Most Famous Polyamorous Couple? 1:10:47

3M ago1:10:47

1:10:47

To celebrate the Australian release of her New York Time’s Best Selling Memoir “More”, we are joined once again by Molly Roden Winter. With her today, we also have the fortune of being able to speak with her husband Stewart! Since Molly joined us on Episode 23 of the Evolving Love podcast, she has quickly become a leading voice in non-monogamous di…

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Ep. 37 - Filling The Cup 13:30

3M ago13:30

13:30

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com On today’s Premium Video episode Abbey and Liam reflect on New Relationship Energy, Erotica, relationship gratitude and so much more. To Unlock the Full Video episode, become a Premium subscriber!By Abbey Mackay

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Ep. 36 - Lina Dune "Ask A Sub" on Fake Doms, Unicorn Hunting & The Ethics of Kink 1:17:12

4M ago1:17:12

1:17:12

Lina Dune is a 24/7 collared submissive, kink writer, podcast host and a fairy sub-mother to all who seek her advice. She is the voice, writer, and Meme-Queen behind the wildly popular “Ask A Sub” - an online platform and community that explores mindful and consensual kink. In this conversation we talk about her journey into Kink, Subspace, fake do…

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Ep. 35 - Ask Us Anything - Vetoes, Parenting & Therapy 16:52

4M ago16:52

16:52

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com On today’s Premium episode Abbey and Liam asked for anonymous questions to be submitted on Instagram. Question topics include non-monogamy and parenting, partners and vetoes, balancing different desires within the relationship, advice for broaching non-mo…

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Ep. 34 - Andrew Gurza on Disability, Queerness & Acceptance 54:58

4M ago54:58

54:58

Andrew Gurza is an award winning Disability Awareness Consultant whose written work has been featured on BBC, CBC, Daily Xtra, Gay Times UK & Huffington Post As a host, Andrew presents the award winning “Disability After Dark” which shines a light on Disability stories and sexuality. He was nominated for a Canadian Podcast Award, a Queerty Award an…

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Ep 33 - Body Counts, Anniversaries & Podcast Bros 20:26

4M ago20:26

20:26

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com On today’s Premium episode Abbey and Liam reflect on their nine year wedding anniversary, the emergence of “podcast bros”, the concept of “body counts” and more! www.evolvingloveproject.com InstagramBy Abbey Mackay

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Ep. 32 - Tyson Yunkaporta on "Right Story, Wrong Story" and Indigenous Approaches to Relationships 1:13:10

5M ago1:13:10

1:13:10

In today’s episode we talk with Tyson Yunkaporta. Tyson is an Indigenous scholar who belongs to the Apalech Clan from Far North Queensland. He is the founder of the Indigenous Knowledge Systems Lab at Deakin University in Melbourne, and author of the acclaimed book “Sand Talk – How Indigenous Thinking Can Save The World”, and most recently “Right S…

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Ep. 31 - Is Non-Monogamy "Hard Work"? 10:00

5M ago10:00

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This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com On today’s Premium episode Abbey and Liam discuss whether non-monogamy is “hard work”, open phone policies and secrative monogamous behaviours, Abbey accepting a role starring opposite Theo James, Liam touring with Emily Ratajkowski, and much more!…

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Ep.30 - Kyron Kruger - Fetish Wear, Masculinity & Authenticity 1:25:24

5M ago1:25:24

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Kyron Kruger is a fetish model and kinkster. He is known widely for his creative work that explores latex fetish wear, and he is seen collaborating with Australia’s best photographers & creatives. In this episode we talk to Kyron about how he found his way into the world of BDSM, his ability to honour his fetishes alongside his masculinity, assumed…

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Ep. 29 - Jealous Rage 18:08

5M ago18:08

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This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com On today’s Premium episode Abbey and Liam discuss the story featured in Abbey’s most recent article. To unlock full access to this episode you can upgrade at the link at the bottom of this post.By Abbey Mackay

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Ep.28 - Elle McAlpine - "Poor Things" Intimacy Coordinator on Consent, Boundaries & Holding Space 1:18:09

6M ago1:18:09

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In this episode we talk with Intimacy Coordinator Elle McAlpine. Elle is fresh from working on the 11 x Oscar-nominated film “Poor Things” which stars Emma Stone in the leading role. We discuss how she became an intimacy coordinator, all things consent, boundaries and holding space for actors, cast and crew on Movie and Television sets. You can fin…

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Ep. 27 - You Asked...We Answered 21:10

6M ago21:10

21:10

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com On today’s Premium episode we asked the Evolving Love Project community to submit anonymous questions to Instagram. Premium Episodes: To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe at: https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/ Con…

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Ep. 26 - Dr. Christopher Ryan on "Sex at Dawn", "Civilized to Death" and Non-Monogamy 1:16:22

6M ago1:16:22

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In this episode we talk with New York Times Best-Selling Author Dr. Christopher Ryan. We discuss "Sex at Dawn", "Civilized To Death", psychedelics, the current state of Polyamorous discourse, Ryan's appearance on Australian TV & being invited to the 100th Birthday of the creator of LSD. Guest Links: https://chrisryan.substack.com/ https://chrisryan…

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Ep. 25 - Behind The Curtain 54:35

6M ago54:35

54:35

In this episode we discuss Evolving Love Project, reminisce and look ahead to the exciting things on the horizon for Evolving Love. Premium Episodes: To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe at: https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/ Contact Us: To get in contact, reach out to us at evolvingloveproject@gmail.com Th…

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Premium: Ep. 24 - The Catfish 21:20

6M ago21:20

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This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com On today’s Premium episode we recount one of our wildest stories from our journey in non-monogamy. A wild adventure of catfishing, travels, trust and non-monogamy. To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe at: https://evolvin…

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Ep.23 - Molly Roden Winter & Her Acclaimed Polyamorous Memoir "More" 1:20:36

7M ago1:20:36

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In this episode we talk with New York Times Best-Selling Author Molly Roden Winter We cover a wide range of topics including non-monogamy and motherhood, writing her acclaimed polyamorous memoir “More”, “stealthing”, Ashley Madison and so much “More”… Premium Episodes: To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe at: http…

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Premium: Ep. 22 - Let's Play A Game 13:21

7M ago13:21

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This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com On today’s Premium episode we play a game, drawing inspiration from the New York Times article “36 Questions That Lead To Love”. Will we fall deeper and more madly in love? What does the perfect non-monogamous day look like? Who is Abbey’s dream Scientist…

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Ep. 21 - Acceptable Sins with Biblical Scholar Dr. Constantine R. Campbell 1:24:44

7M ago1:24:44

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“Can you be a Christian and also be Non-Monogamous?” In this episode we talk with Biblical Scholar Dr. Constantine R. Campbell. We cover a wide range of topics including Non-Monogamy & The Bible, sin and morality, moving away from Evangelical Christianity & Christian hedonism. To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe …

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Premium: Ep. 20 - Eye Of The Storm: PMS & Non-Monogamy 9:45

7M ago9:45

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This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com On today’s Premium episode we discuss Premenstrual Syndrome (PMS) and how it shows up in our Non-Monogamy and relationship. We share about our frustrations when compersion is absent and discuss how we navigate the tensions that arise. To gain access to th…

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Ep. 19 – Plot, Scheme & Dream: Poly Cheerleaders & Non-Monogamous Mothers 48:55

8M ago48:55

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On today’s episode we plot, scheme, dream what Non-Monogamy will look like for us in 2024. We discuss Poly cheerleaders, the taboo of infidelity in Non-Monogamy, the joys of dating Non-Monogamous mothers, online dating, reconnecting with old flames and more! evolvingloveproject.substack.com @evolvingloveproject This is a public episode. If you’d li…

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Ep. 18 - Our National TV Debut 46:51

9M ago46:51

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On today’s episode we discuss our recent appearance on national television in Australia. We talk about the process of filming our short documentary for Channel 10's "The Project", and unpack the reactions and comments that we have received since the show aired. To get in contact, reach out to us at evolvingloveproject@gmail.com @evolvingloveproject…

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Ep. 17 - Megan from "Amory Podcast" & Her Journey from Monogamy to Polyamory 53:25

10M ago53:25

53:25

In this episode we talk with Megan Bhatia from the popular Amory Podcast. Megan is a Self-Love and Relationship Coach living in Costa Rica with her husband and children. Megan shares her story of being featured in American Vogue, polyamorous living arrangements, learning how to date again after monogamy & metamour relationships. To get in contact, …

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Ep. 16 - The Milf Hunter 57:39

11M ago57:39

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In today’s episode we discuss how the TV Show White Lotus relates to non-monogamy, we invite an anti-polyamorous Instagram commenter onto our podcast, infidelity, our recent dating experiences and Abbey’s run in with the “Milf Hunter”. To get in contact, reach out to us at evolvingloveproject@gmail.com @evolvingloveproject evolvingloveproject.com R…

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Ep. 15 - Jessica Fern & David Cooley on "Polywise" 52:28

11M ago52:28

52:28

Jessica Fern is the author of "Polysecure". She is a psychotherapist, public speaker, and trauma and relationship expert. With David Cooley, Jessica co-authored her new book "Polywise". David Cooley is a professional restorative justice facilitator, diversity and privilege awareness trainer, and bilingual cultural broker. In this episode Jessica an…

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Ep. 14 - Dr Joli Hamilton - Polyamorous Stigma, Parenting & the Jealousy Triangle 58:10

12M ago58:10

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Dr. Joli Hamilton is the relationship coach for couples who color outside the lines. She is a research psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and AASECT certified sex educator. Joli also co-hosts the Playing with Fire podcast with her anchor partner, Ken. Joli’s been featured in The New York Times, The Atlantic, Vogue, and NPR. In this ep…

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Ep. 13 - Clementine Morrigan - Trauma Informed Polyamory & Breakups in the Age of Cancel Culture 39:24

1y ago39:24

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Clementine Morrigan is a controversial figure, a powerhouse, a writer, and a socialist. She’s been making zines since the year 2000 and is the author of several books including Fucking Magic, Sexting and Trauma Magic. She is also one half of the Fucking Cancelled podcast. In this episode we discuss Clementine's work focusing on Trauma Informed Poly…

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Ep. 12 - Solo Dating, Abbey's Non-Monogamous Retreat & Mainstream Dating Apps 50:21

1y ago50:21

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In today’s episode we discuss Liam solo dating in New York City, Abbey's upcoming women’s retreat, our ELP gatherings & Abbey venturing out onto mainstream dating apps. We also take some time to browse hinge together in real time! Find out more about the ELP Retreat at: https://www.evolvingloveproject.com/retreat To get in contact reach out to us a…

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11. Bonus 30:54

1y ago30:54

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In this bonus episode of People Who Knew Me, Writer and Director Daniella Isaacs revisits the series and its existential themes with cast members Rosamund Pike, Kyle Soller and Isabella Sermon. They discuss what captivated them about the story of Emily faking her own death in 9/11, their own experience with truth and lies, and how this fuelled thei…

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10. Goodbye NYC 17:00

1y ago17:00

17:00

Realising there might not be another opportunity, Connie and Claire embark on their road trip, stopping in New York to finally meet Drew. Credits Connie / Emily - ROSAMUND PIKEDrew - KYLE SOLLERClaire - ISABELLA SERMONGabe - ALFRED ENOCHJade - JESSICA DARROWMarni/Jenny - DANIELLA ISAACSDr Richter / Reporter - CHARLES HAGERTYand HUGH LAURIE as PAULA…

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9. Coward 14:11

1y ago14:11

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New episode released on Thursday. If you’re in the UK, listen first on BBC Sounds. Drew calls Connie in utter disbelief that she is alive. On confirming that Claire really is his daughter, they establish a weekly phone call getting to know each other. Feeling ever distanced, Connie starts spending more time with Paul, finally agreeing on a date. Cr…

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8. Tidal Wave 15:20

1y ago15:20

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New episodes released on Tuesday and Thursday. If you’re in the UK, listen first on BBC Sounds. Bolstered by her revelation to Paul, Connie takes Claire to the beach to tell her the truth about her Dad. Overwhelmed by the shocking discovery, Claire runs away for the night without telling Connie. Connie finds Drew on Facebook, and tells him she is a…

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7. Daddy 15:49

1y ago15:49

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New episodes released on Tuesday and Thursday. If you’re in the UK, listen first on BBC Sounds. Connie continues retelling her story to Paul, reliving the trauma of September 11th, and the events that lead up to her faking her own death. Hidden away in Gabe's apartment, watching the events of 9/11 unfold on TV, she turns off her phone and never loo…

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6. Non-Monogamy 14:38

1y ago14:38

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New episodes released on Tuesday and Thursday. If you’re in the UK, listen first on BBC Sounds. Connie starts from the very beginning, detailing all the building pressures and disappointments that drove her to run away from her life as Emily in New York, and start afresh as Connie in LA. Over a few drinks with Paul, these truths come flooding out, …

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5. Heimlich Maneuver 16:11

1y ago16:11

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New episodes released on Tuesday and Thursday. If you’re in the UK, listen first on BBC Sounds. Connie and Claire attend a cancer support session with Paul, which causes Connie to relive painful memories of her life in New York trying to balance her work life and unhappy marriage with being a care-giver to Drew's sick Mom. The pressure of Connie's …

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Ep. 11 - Ange Lavoipierre - Non-Monogamy in the Public Eye 49:17

1y ago49:17

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In today’s episode we speak with ABC Journalist and Comedian Ange Lavoipierre. We discuss Polyamory in the public eye, coming out as Non-Monogamous, ADHD and Polyamory & more! See Ange in action at: Vivid Sydney: Monogamy: The Natural Way to Love? https://www.vividsydney.com/event/ideas/monogamy-the-natural-way-to-love Schmeitgeist Podcast: https:/…

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4. Jack Daniels 16:58

1y ago16:58

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New episodes released on Tuesday and Thursday. If you’re in the UK, listen first on BBC Sounds. Claire takes Connie wig-shopping as a surprise for being halfway through her cancer treatment. Trying on a wig provokes some painful memories of Connie's life back in New York. A friendship with her sassy work colleague highlights the failings of her mar…

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3. Adult Bob 14:44

1y ago14:44

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New episodes released on Tuesday and Thursday. If you’re in the UK, listen first on BBC Sounds. Claire shaves Connie’s hair as the chemotherapy takes hold. The loss of her hair takes Connie straight back to her life in New York, to Emily's new 'work haircut' and first job, a job she was forced to take so Drew could fulfil his dream of owning his ow…

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