This week, Em speaks with Melissa and Heather of Safe Journeys, a 501(c )(3) non-profit agency that provides supportive services to survivors of domestic and sexual violence in LaSalle and Livingston counties. Safe Journeys also provides a series of sexuality education services for youth and adults alike. This episode addresses porn and media liter…

Shauna Burns-Thomson, MSc., is a Registered Clinical Counsellor in British Columbia, Canada. As an RCC with a focus on Sex Therapy, trauma, and related disorders, Shauna works with clients virtually from all over BC and beyond in a holistic way so that they can both find healing on their journey, while also embracing all of the juicy, pleasurable m…

This week, Em speaks to Dr. Zackarina Jenny-hoe (not a doctor) about harm reduction, public health activism, queer social justice, and more! Dr. Zackarina is a Denver, CO based drag queen who sits right at the intersection of campy, Gen Z fun and public health activism. Find all of Dr. Zackarina's links here. Follow her on Instagram and Facebook. F…

WE'RE BACK with another KinkCast! In this fabulously fetishistic breakdown, Em discusses a recent study on tickling as a fetish. The more you learn, folks!By Sexistentialist Pod

This week, Em speaks with Noelle Benach, LCPC, CST, an AASECT Certified sex therapist, educator, and speaker. In this episode, the two identify and unpack myths and misconceptions associated with fatness / being larger-bodied, particularly as it pertains to sexuality. If you don't listen -- this is your reminder that all bodies are deserving of and…

In this week's episode, Em speaks with sex and intimacy coach Lauren of Oh Yeah Coaching. Together, the two touch on (pun intended) all things 1) turning ourselves on, 2) aligning our pursuit of pleasure with our values, and 3) learning to be comfy with the uncomfy. Looking for an ~intimacy audit~ with an expert? Lauren has you covered. Book a free…

Where neurospicy meets bedroom spicy!! In this week's episode, Em discusses neurodiversity and sexuality including kink/BDSM and nonmonogamy with board-certified sexologist Lilith Foxx. Lilith is an educator, a marketer, a consultant, and more. Learn from and work with her here!! Follow Lilith's Instagram and register for upcoming events. Looking f…

In this episode, Em and Azalea talk entering the swinging scene and lifestyle, navigating relationships, body image, and separating pleasure from business! To learn more about ethical non-monogamy, swinging, kink, and more, follow @azalea_bbw on Instagram. Looking for updates on our latest episodes and sex education? Follow us on Instagram @Sexiste…

In this episode, Em speaks with Tiffany Taylor -- a sex therapist, intimacy coach, and more. Tiffany not only has 15+ years in the mental health industry working with individuals and couples alike, but has lived experience navigating infertility rediscovering one's self and sexuality after. Learn more about working with Tiffany via her website. Fol…

In this episode, Em speaks with Dr. Clarissa Francis, a scholar-activist and consultant who specializes in the Hot Girl Movement, exploring its connection to Pleasure Activism and Megan Thee Stallion's Hot Girl Summer as pivotal aspects of Black women's journey toward sexual liberation. Visit Dr. Francis's website for more information on the A Real…

In this week's episode, Em connects with Nicole, host of the Modern Anarchy podcast and Psychologist in Training. Together, the two discuss psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy, the healing nature of k*nk, deeper embodiment, nonmonogamy, relationship anarchy, and more. Learn more about Modern Anarchy via Nicole's website or Instagram. Listen to Moder…

In this episode, Em chats with Alice Little. Alice is best known as America's most successful legal s*x worker, and currently works at the Chicken Ranch Brothel in Las Vegas Nevada. Her services are vast and varied, and her story demonstrates that s*x work is so much more than "in out, in out, bye!" Alice is also an advocate for s*x workers rights,…

Season 4 is on the horizon but, in the meantime, let's get a lil taste. In this episode, Em is joined by the wonderful Dr. Meghanne Bartlett-Chase, a former sex educator and sexual violence crisis counselor who recently received her PhD in education policy with a research focus on sex education policy, practice, and controversy. Together, the two t…

It's official!! Season 4 will be live in 2024. In the meantime, Em checks in and shares excitement for upcoming seasons. If you haven't already, please rate and review Sexistentialist anywhere you listen, and be sure to follow the podcast and Instagram @sexistentialistpod for all show updates. Stay tuned for more.…

The shenanigans are back, and gayer than ever in honor of PRIDE MONTH! Em chats with her podcast bestie Tim of SexEdWithTim to play games. Literally -- not in the toxic way! Tune in for laughter and, as usual, graphic imagery. Follow us on Instagram @SexistentialistPod and if you haven't already, rate us on Spotify! Visit Tim's website. Follow Tim'…

What is the difference between polyamory and swinging and open relationships? Have you ever pondered the terms "kitchen table polyamory" or "garden party polyamory?" What is the point in having multiple partners? LET'S GET INTO IT! In this episode, Em chats with friend Zach -- a close friend, member of the queer community, and happily hierarchicall…

THIS IS AN EPISODE ABOUT PEDRO PASCAL. Just kidding :) Ever wanted to call a partner Daddy? Ever actually done it? In this KinkCast, Em breaks down DDLG (Daddy Dom / Little Girl) dynamics. Let's get into it, Daddy. Clarification: DDLG dynamics are consensual and do not involve children or minors Follow @SexistentialistPod on Instagram for more.…

This week, Em and Jenae of Instagram account birdsandbeesask.me discuss consent education, sexuality education and language in academia, and dispelling myths about sexual violence. CW: Though this episode is not graphic, we discuss topics of abuse and violence from an objective and research-oriented perspective. Be sure to follow Jenae for accessib…

Em and Jonas are BACK to discuss Pornhub Insights. What searches defined 2022? Why do the British love naked wrestling? Tune in to find out.By Sexistentialist Pod

Tune in for Sploshing's cousin! What's a wetlook fetish? Why is it so hard to find things about it on mainstream internet? Idk guess you should listen :) Follow us on Instagram @SexistentialistPod Shop merch on Redbubble.comBy Sexistentialist Pod

This week, Em is joined by Javay da BAE, sex educator, content creator, writer, erotic model, and activist. In this episode, Em and Javay talk about exploring kink(s) for the first time, as well as introducing a kink or fetish to a partner. Truly just two nerd kinksters having a good time and answering meaningful, deep questions about gettin' down …

Em is joined by fellow sex podcaster and pal Jenay of My Naked Mindset, a podcast that seeks to normalize taboo topics while having fun doing it! In this episode, Em and Jenay basically just hang out! They talk about starting their podcasts, how being in the sex ed / sex coaching world informs their individual sex lives, sex bucket lists, and more!…

He's back, back, back again! Em is joined by pal Neo (see S2Ep14) to discuss the ~art~ of pulling out or the "withdrawal method." They also go on a few tangents along the way. Tune in for a statistic and anecdotally driven conversation about WHERE you should splooj! Follow us on Instagram @SexistentialistPod…

This week, Em discusses all things communication and boundary setting with Nadège! Nadège is a sex scholar who graduated from UC Berkeley as well as a professional Astrologer. In 2019, she founded Pleasure Science, an erotic wellness brand that helps you feel healthier and empowered in your sexuality. She writes articles, hosts events, and works on…

YEEHAW! Starting 2023 off right with Tyomi Morgan, a sexologist, intimacy coordinator, sex writer and blogger, creator of The Cowgirl Workout ™, and more! In our Season 3 premiere, Tyomi joins Em to discuss all things riding and -- trust us -- she knows her stuff! Follow Tyomi on Instagram @realglamazontyomi and view her links here: https://linktr.…

Coming to you LIVE! Em is joined once again by podcasting bestie Tim of @SexEdwithTim. Em and Tim record together in person from Em's home to discuss f*cking your way around the country, navigating casual sex, and, frankly, how many margaritas they had beforehand. Follow us on Instagram @SexistentialistPod Visit Tim's website. Follow Tim's social m…

It's Halloween Special time!! From Lestat to Edward Cullen to my bedroom??? We're talking fangs and nibbles and sweet sweet power play. Buckle up. Get 20% off your entire Bellesa order between now and Nov. 7th using code BBCUFFSZN Follow us on Instagram @SexistentialistPod Shop merch on Redbubble.com…

What REALLY are the sexting best practices? Em sits down with longtime pal Neo and they have one main thing in common: the both love to sext (just not with each other). Tune in for raunchy anecdotes, the genuine do's and don'ts of sexting, how to do it tastefully and artfully, fantasy exploration and more. Follow us on Instagram @SexistentialistPod…

This week, Em is joined by THE Samantha Jones of the And I Wondered podcast, a show dedicated to talking about adulthood through tough questions asked by Carrie Bradshaw herself. Tune in to hear millennial dating anecdotes, how romantic comedies of the 1990s and early 2000s still impact us today, and authenticity in a public world. Listen to And I …

Shawn of the Tough Titties podcast joins Em in talking attachment styles! Can you guess which one these two are? Hint: they're the same and they are clingy as f*ck. Listen in to hear more fuck sex and dating stories from Shawn and Em's respective pasts, as well as talking through the realities of today's dating landscape. Listen to Tough Titties an…

Leather belongs at Pride! For this especially LGBTQ+ flavored KinkCast, Em gives a brief history of the leather community and it's relationship to gay and lesbian history, activism, and more. Get 20% off your entire Bellesa order between now and 7/17/22 using code BBSEXISTENTIAL Follow us on Instagram @SexistentialistPod Shop merch on Redbubble.com…

It's a Pride Party, baby! June is Pride month, and in this week's episode, Em is joined by THREE queer sex educators (who have each been on previous episodes... check them out) to discuss lots of things, but one big question: what do you know now as a queer sex educator that you wish you knew before? The foursome talks all things bad sex ed, queer …

Cum one cum all!! It's the last weekend of Masturbation May and, in this week's episode, Em and her partner review the 2021 Pornhub Insights. Yes-- they plan to do it every May. Yes-- they know it's 5 months late. Enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @SexistentialistPod Shop merch on Redbubble.com View Pornhub 2021 Insights for Infographics and details di…

It's Masturbation May, and your podcast pal Em just popped by to talk about fapping. That's all really :) Some exciting podcast news mentioned at the end of the episode! Stay tuned for more information. Follow us @SexistentialistPodBy Sexistentialist Pod

This week, Em is joined by her day 1 (more like ep 1) pal Claire to talk about HPV! When Claire received her HPV diagnosis, it was scary as f*ck. What she'd really needed at the time, was someone who could talk with her about it like a big sister, rather than as a medical professional. To wrap up STI Awareness Month, we demystify HPV in hopes of br…

APRIL IS STI AWARENESS MONTH This week, Em is joined by Stephanie Boyd, a spiritual life coach who utilizes breathwork, subconscious and energy work to help individuals process shame, smash stigma, and live better lives! Diagnosed with Herpes (HSV) in 2017, Stephanie has worked to shed negative feelings surrounding the diagnosis in her own lives an…

This week, Em is joined by a fellow queer femme, the fabulous Arielle “Ari” Antwine, a Sex Educator, Podcaster, trauma-informed Sex Coach, Yoga Instructor, Burlesque Artist, and International Showgirl! She prefers the title Sensual Educator & Facilitator to encompass her work. In addition to discussing her background, Ari talks about bisexuality+, …

"At your age, you're going to have a lot of urges. You're going to want to take off your clothes, and touch each other. But if you do touch each other, you will get chlamydia... and die." In this week's episode, Em is joined by Embarrassed to Ask hosts and sex educators Christine and Ellie. The trio share stories of teaching sex ed to youth, and di…

Do you like n00dz? Sending or receiving? Have you ever fantasized about getting caught? Or catching someone else? In this KinkCast, Em reviews exhibitionism and voyeurism, and chats through a few easy ways to explore either and incorporate aspects of each into your routine seggs play. For more, be sure to follow and subscribe! Also, check out our I…

Jordan D'Nelle is a physician assistant by trade, and women's health educator by night. Host of the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast, she is a guru on all things health and wellness, as well as working towards self empowerment and better sex. In this week's episode, Em and Jordan dive into the difference between arousal and the physical respo…

Em and her partner use "naughty" couples conversation starters to spark conversations about love languages, turn ons, and the negative impact aging has on sex position selection. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @sexistentialistpod if you don't already :) See you next week.By Sexistentialist Pod

In this week's episode, Em is joined by sex educator and former escort Tim, host of the Sex Ed With Tim podcast. Tim and Em discuss a*s play, sex shenanigans, getting k*nky, the unexpected of sex work, and more. Buckle up for this bad boy of an episode, because Em and Tim can't resist a good d*ck joke, nor a scrumptious segue. Visit Tim's website. …

Em is joined by The Curious Girl Diaries' Layla in this funny, sexy, and insightful episode. The gals talk all things sexual discovery, GOOD casual sex, and d*ck pic-ers! Listen to and get in touch with The Curious Girl at thecuriousgirldiaries.com. Get 20% off and free shipping from Manscaped using code CURIOUSGIRL.…

We are BACK for season 2 BABIES! CW: Sexual assault / abusive relationships Enrique has returned to talk about sex and dating after a break up, loss, or heart ache. Join Em as the two of them discuss what not to do after a break up, how to avoid the unhealthy, and how to strive towards loving you for you! P.S. Take a shot every time Em uses the ter…

In this fun lil KinkCast, Em talks about the wet and messy fetish, also known as "sploshing." Tune in to see if this wets your whistle!! Instagram @SexistentialistPodBy Sexistentialist Pod

In this Sexual Health Month special, Em chats with therapist, sex coach, and orgasm expert @AwareMoma to discuss the nuances and psychology of orgasms, specifically for vulva-owners. If you've ever experienced difficulty achieving an orgasm, this one is for you! Moma is a brilliant and talented sex coach! She can be found on Instagram, Facebook, an…

In this episode, Em talks to Andy about their/his trans nonbinary identity, the basics of understanding gender and its nuances, and more! If you have questions about identity, expression, and what it's all about, check it out :)By Sexistentialist Pod

Ever thought about what sharing your partner could be like? In the first ever KinkCast, Em talks about cuckolding! What is it? Why do people enjoy it? What's a hotwife? Sexistentialist breaks it down. If you're a member of this or any kink community and would like to be on the show, DM us @sexistentialistpod on Instagram or email us at sexistential…

Em, Claire, Connor, and Dina wrap up their conversation about sex toys, talking about partnered toy use, misogyny, and more!By Sexistentialist Pod

Em, Connor, Dina, and Claire sit down to talk all things toys: From water to vibrators to food to whatever the hell you can find!By Sexistentialist Pod