Best Stepparenting Co Podcasts (2024)

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Emotional IQ 33:24

1d ago33:24

33:24

With special guest and influencer, Minnie James, we discuss Minnie's friendship with her "baby mama" and social media backlash and praise.By Shannon Brazil

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195. Connecting with Kim's HARD Child — Facing the Challenges of Parental Alienation 36:19

4d ago36:19

36:19

Do you ever stop to think about what it will be like 15 years from now? What will your relationship with each of your children be like? Maybe you've got a HARD kid (Hurt, Angry, Rejecting, Distant) who's putting up walls and seems to have turned against you - and it feels like this painful season will never end. The tension in your relationship wit…

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When Your Spouse Puts The Kids First: Reclaim Your Blended Family Marriage 18:29

5d ago18:29

18:29

In this episode of the BKF Podcast, When Your Spouse Puts The Kids First: Reclaim Your Blended Family Marriage, Scott and Vanessa tackle a common issue faced by blended families: when one partner feels like their spouse is choosing their children over them. Learn how to set healthy boundaries, communicate openly, and maintain a strong marriage whil…

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Unexpected Victim 34:24

9d ago34:24

34:24

We discuss various forms of abuse and how some people don't recognize mental and emotional harm.By Shannon Brazil

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Simple Step: Responding to Your Child's Complaints & Accusations 10:27

11d ago10:27

10:27

Resources: Episode 194. Powerful Tips for Effectively Connecting with Your Angry or Distant Child [with Dr. Amy J.L. Baker] Book by Amy J.L. Baker: and Paul R. Fine Parenting Under Fire Article by Amy J.L. Baker: Five Things to Never Say to an Alienated Child Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answe…

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Navigating Legal Issues and Going Back to Court in Blended Families 16:51

12d ago16:51

16:51

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Family podcast, Scott and Vanessa explore the complex legal challenges faced by blended families, including child custody modifications, visitation rights, co-parenting struggles and more. Whether you are going through or preparing for a legal dispute, this practical advice, rooted in both faith and profession…

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Speak My Language 32:54

16d ago32:54

32:54

Shannon and Shun discuss speaking king and queen to your spouse even when you don't feel like it or times are rough. We must present good representation for our children, biological or blended.By Shannon Brazil

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194. Powerful Tips for Effectively Connecting with Your Angry or Distant Child [with Dr. Amy J.L. Baker] 1:06:19

18d ago1:06:19

1:06:19

Children of divorce who are hurt, angry, rejecting, and distant (HARD) are challenging to parent. They can be rude, uncooperative, and disagreeable. It's difficult to relate to or connect with them, and they can appear hardened against the love and guidance you want to provide. When conflict between two homes intensifies, children often become enta…

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Marriage After Addiction: Blended Family Success with Eric Kennedy 31:34

19d ago31:34

31:34

In this powerful episode, we sit down with Eric Kennedy, author of Marriage After Addiction: Take Back Your Life Together. Eric shares his inspiring journey from battling addiction to finding faith, recovery, and building a blended family. Learn how he overcame addiction, rebuilt his life through faith, and now helps others navigate the challenges …

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Loud Love 31:41

23d ago31:41

31:41

Shun and Shannon discuss how people should see your love in some form or fashion. Love isn't supposed to be hidden.By Shannon Brazil

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Simple Step: Preparing to Blend 7:42

25d ago7:42

7:42

Resources: Episode 193. The Advantage of Learning The Basics BEFORE You Blend CLICK HERE to receive a curated podcast list to help you learn the Basics of Blending Episode 109. Preparing to Blend: The Couples Guide to Becoming a Smart Stepfamily [with Ron Deal] Book by Ron Deal: Preparing to Blend: The Couple's Guide to Becoming a Smart Stepfamily …

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How to Effectively Lead Your Blended Family with Dr. Jon Chasteen 26:35

26d ago26:35

26:35

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott Martindale is joined by friend and special guest Dr. Jon Chasteen, Senior Pastor of Victory Church. Together, they discuss leadership and how to be a "Re-Leader" in your blended family. Learn how to navigate the complexities of trust, patience, and leadership when you’re tasked with fix…

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Welcome To Season 4! 21:39

30d ago21:39

21:39

Shun and Shannon are back! Welcome back to our faithful listeners and get ready for changes in season 4.By Shannon Brazil

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193. The Advantage of Learning The Basics BEFORE You Blend 1:01:05

1M ago1:01:05

1:01:05

Most of us start off on the blending journey with some ambiguity about how to deal with the complex dynamics that will come as families merge. It usually doesn't take long before you're blindsided by the reality that there's SO MUCH MORE to blending than first anticipated. Feelings of overwhelm, frustration, and disappointment might hit and you rea…

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How to Teach Core Christian Values in Blended Families 21:33

1M ago21:33

21:33

Welcome back to another exciting episode of the Blended Family Podcast! On this episode, How to Teach Core Christian Values in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa Martindale dive deep into one of the biggest challenges in blended families: How to teach values to both biological and stepchildren. Are you struggling to integrate different backgrounds…

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Simple Step: Building Trust in Parenting 10:05

1M ago10:05

10:05

Resources: Episode 172. 2 Key Elements to Resolve Your Parenting Style Differences - And Get United Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We …

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Strengthening Church Communities in Blended Families with Pastor Wade Smith 26:25

1M ago26:25

26:25

In this episode of the BKF Podcast, Strengthening Church Communities in Blended Families, Scott is joined by Pastor Wade Smith, the Executive Pastor at Victory Church, to discuss the critical role of community within the church. They dive deep into why small groups are essential for growth, especially in today's content-driven world, and how intent…

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192. A Simple Process to Navigate Sensitive Conversations About Each Other's Kids 39:05

2M ago39:05

39:05

What's one of THE most challenging "feats" for blended couples to successfully master? Building a healthy, collaborative parenting partnership! What makes this so difficult? The sensitive topic of parenting can naturally kick off an emotionally-charged conversation, ending in disagreement, conflict, and disconnection. If you're anything like us, yo…

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How to Overcome Social Stigma in Blended Families 18:38

2M ago18:38

18:38

Navigating life in a blended family comes with its own set of challenges, from connecting with children to overcoming the social stigma that often surrounds these unique family dynamics. In this powerful episode, How to Overcome Social Stigma in Blended Families, we explore the keys to building strong, lasting bonds with your children while address…

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Simple Step: Money Matters 8:52

2M ago8:52

8:52

Resources Episode 191. Achieve Financial Harmony: Expert Guidance for Blending Your Finances [with special guests Ron Deal & Greg Pettys] Book by Ron Deal, Greg Pettys & David Edwards: The Smart Stepfamily's Guide to Financial Planning: Money Management Before and After You Blend a Family Click here to connect with Greg Pettys for a FREE consult re…

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What is Parental Role Confusion in Blended Families and How to Overcome It 19:20

2M ago19:20

19:20

Welcome to the BKF Podcast! In this episode, What is Parental Role Confusion in Blended Families and How to Overcome It, Scott and Vanessa dive into the challenges of defining parental roles within blended families. Discover how to tackle role confusion between biological and stepparents, address inconsistencies across households, navigate loyalty …

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191. Achieve Financial Harmony: Expert Guidance for Blending Your Finances [with Ron Deal & Greg Pettys] 1:10:40

2M ago1:10:40

1:10:40

Money is emotional. That's why it can be a touchy subject for couples — whether they're preparing to blend or if they've been blending for a while. Discussing finances can lead to very real challenges. The process of "merging money" can easily become complicated and overwhelming for blended family couples. The complexities tap into deeper emotions …

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Top 4 Co-Parenting Tips for Blended Families 31:28

2M ago31:28

31:28

Join us in this insightful episode of the BKF Podcast, Top 4 Co-parenting Tips for Blended Families. In this episode we welcome back Blended Kingdom Teens (BKT) Ambassador Sidney Chaplin to discuss her top 4 tips for effective co-parenting in blended families. Sidney shares personal experiences relate to fostering healthy blended family communicati…

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Simple Step: Facing Difficult Emotions that Come with Blending 10:01

2M ago10:01

10:01

Resources: Episode 139. The Most Common, Challenging Pain Point Every Blended Couple Experiences (Stranded Stranger / Trapped Teammate Dynamic) Episode 5. How to Get Over the Hurts and Triggers From Your Past Dr. Patricia L. Papernow - Stepfamily Relationships Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answ…

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Mastering Co-Parenting: The Power of Discernment 21:06

2M ago21:06

21:06

In this episode of the BKF Podcast, Mastering Co-Parenting: The Power of Discernment , Scott and Vanessa Martindale explain the vital role of discernment in co-parenting. Discover how the Holy Spirit guides us to make wise decisions, maintain healthy relationships, and avoid common pitfalls in blended families. Whether you're struggling with commun…

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190. Where can you turn for help? Understand the Difference Between Counseling and Coaching 42:20

2M ago42:20

42:20

I (Mike) have had so many moments of just feeling stuck. I wondered how we would ever move forward and I figured out pretty early on that I wouldn't be able to sort out all the complex chaos without some support. The problem was, I had no idea what kind of support we needed. And when we were stuck in unhealthy patterns that kept leading to disconne…

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Unhealthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective 18:35

3M ago18:35

18:35

In this episode, Unhealthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective, Vanessa Martindale interviews Blended Kingdom Teens (BKT) ambassador Sidney Chaplin. Enjoy this encouraging discussion about common toxic co-parenting behaviors and how to avoid them. Sidney shares her experiences and offers practical tips for maintaining a healthy co-parenting rela…

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#6.12 Men are from Mars, Women from Venus Part 2 31:12

3M ago31:12

31:12

On the latest episode of "Where's The Lemonade?", hosts Darren and Paige found themselves delving into the intricate terrain of gender differences, specifically relating to cognitive and behavioral attributes. Armed with a curious spirit and armed with an engaging quiz, they navigated the topic like explorers charting unknown waters. Tackling the T…

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Simple Step: How to Respond to a Child's Grief 9:53

3M ago9:53

9:53

Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us…

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Healthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective 16:34

3M ago16:34

16:34

Join us in this insightful episode of the BKF Podcast, Healthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective as Vanessa interviews Sidney Chaplin, a Blended Kingdom Teens ambassador, about healthy co-parenting from a teen’s perspective. Sidney shares her experiences and offers valuable advice for parents navigating co-parenting relationships. From setting…

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189. Bringing Hope to the Realities of Grief: A Path to Understanding and Healing [with Krista St-Germain] 1:12:09

3M ago1:12:09

1:12:09

It's hard to accept that grief is simply a part of every blended family's journey. But that's your reality because everyone in your family has experienced some kind of loss along the way. If you aren't able to acknowledge grief and create a safe space to process through it, you'll miss out on valuable opportunities that lead to healing. In this epi…

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Are you Co-Parenting with a Narcissist? 20:28

3M ago20:28

20:28

Join us on this episode, Are you Co-Parenting with a Narcissist, as Scott and Vanessa discuss the complexities co-parenting relationships can have with a narcissist in blended families. They also provide insights into understanding narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and the impact it can have on co-parenting dynamics. They offer practical advi…

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Simple Step: Managing "Rule Rage" 10:24

3M ago10:24

10:24

Resources: Episode 20. 4 Big Myths About Parenting When an Ex Has Different Rules Episode 187. Basics for Blending: How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress (Part 1) Episode 188. Basics for Blending: How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress (Part 2) Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specifi…

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How to Handle a Toxic Co-Parent: Practical Advice 18:28

3M ago18:28

18:28

Welcome back to the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast! In this episode, How to Handle a Toxic Co-Parent: Practical Advice, we dive deep into the challenging world of co-parenting and discuss how to avoid toxic behaviors that can harm your blended family's dynamic. Join Scott and Vanessa as they share practical tips to help you navigate co-parenting …

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#6.11 Men are from Mars. Women from Venus Part 1 35:14

3M ago35:14

35:14

Paige finds a Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus quiz online and Darren and Paige take the quiz and reveal some interesting differences between men and women. Revealing Our Distinctiveness Through A Lighthearted Lens It is often hard to understand what your wife or husband really wants, thinks, needs, feels or does. This quiz is light-hearted …

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188. Basics for Blending: How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress (Part 2) 41:14

3M ago41:14

41:14

Discomfort and distress are common experiences for those of us navigating blended dynamics. One key to learning to manage discomfort and distress well is practicing some simple strategies that acknowledge what you're actually experiencing and then choosing clear, healthy responses. Now, we know what you're probably thinking… …"I've done everything …

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Master Co-Parenting: Transform Conflicts into Cooperation with These Tips 19:27

3M ago19:27

19:27

Discover the transformative power of effective co-parenting in our latest episode, Master Co-Parenting: Transform Conflicts into Cooperation with These Tips! Join us as we delve into practical strategies and encouraging truths for navigating the complexities of co-parenting with love and respect. Whether newly separated or looking to improve your c…

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187. Basics for Blending: How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress (Part 1) 41:35

4M ago41:35

41:35

What if every moment of blended family life felt fun, connected, and peaceful? It's pretty hard to imagine. We all know the struggles and challenges that barrage us each day. It might seem like there's way more discomfort and distress than there is fun and connection. We've navigated countless seasons of discomfort over the past couple of decades a…

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Co-Parenting with Love as a Verb: Strategies for Harmonious Parenting 20:38

4M ago20:38

20:38

Unlock the secrets to successful co-parenting in our latest episode, Co-Parenting with Love as a Verb: Strategies for Harmonious Parenting! Learn practical strategies to foster a loving, supportive environment for your children and bonus children, even after separation or divorce. Scott and Vanessa discuss the importance of viewing love as an actio…

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#6.10 Having kids now vs 20 years ago 38:52

4M ago38:52

38:52

Darren and Paige have 4 grandkids. 8, 5, 3 and 6 months. They are so fun to be around and it is so fun to see our kids be parents. They were just talking about how so much has changed since they had babies. From childbirth, what to feed your babies, how to raise them, parent involvement etc.. Let’s explore the differences and see if these differenc…

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Simple Step: A Formula for Trust Building 9:04

4M ago9:04

9:04

Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us…

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Summer Transitions and Best Practices for Blended Families 12:04

4M ago12:04

12:04

Summer can bring new challenges for blended families as routines change and kids move between households. In this episode, Summer Transitions and Best Practices for Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa share valuable strategies and tips to help families navigate summer transitions smoothly. From planning quality time with all children to nurturing y…

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186. How to Build an Atmosphere of Trust and Influence as a Stepfather [with Gil Stuart] 1:00:06

4M ago1:00:06

1:00:06

Hey Stepdads — ever wonder if you're "winning or losing" in your role at home? Most stepdads I meet genuinely want to build trust with their stepkids and influence them toward success in life. But sometimes it feels like there's a bit too much chaos in the home — or you're not quite on the same page with your wife. The typical challenges of blendin…

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Finding Hope in the Storm 16:21

4M ago16:21

16:21

In this episode, Finding Hope in the Storm, Vanessa, Kristen, and Dan have an inspiring roundtable discussion about finding hope and joy in the midst of life's challenges. They share powerful Bible verses that have encouraged them during difficult seasons and provide practical tips for staying grounded in God's truth. Whether you are facing a diffi…

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#6.9 It's summer time with teenagers 27:29

4M ago27:29

27:29

Darren and Paige celebrate summer with a house full of teenagers and young adults, which makes the summer busy and fun. As their kids transition into adulthood, scheduling and managing expectations can be difficult. Listen to their approach to this tricky time for parents and children. Paige and Darren just graduated, Sam. He will be headed off to …

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#6.8 Have fun on your work cruise!!! Without me!! 23:39

4M ago23:39

23:39

Darren recently returned from a “work cruise” while Paige was left at home to hold down the fort. Darren frequently travels for work and, when not traveling, works from home, so it is all or nothing. How does this impact their relationship? How do they handle the separation? Does Paige party and look forward to Darren being gone?? Does Darren party…

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Simple Step: Where do you get sound advice? 11:35

4M ago11:35

11:35

Join our Blending Together Community https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogether Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all …

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3 Tips for Better Stress Management in Blended Families 16:03

4M ago16:03

16:03

Stress is a common challenge in blended families, but it doesn't have to control your life. In this podcast episode, 3 Tips for Better Stress Management in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa share 3 practical tips for managing stress through spiritual intimacy, physical activity, and setting healthy boundaries. Enjoy this discussion as you learn h…

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185. Overcome Isolation and Loneliness By Plugging Into a Supportive Community 29:12

5M ago29:12

29:12

Have the challenges of blending a family ever left you feeling alone? Maybe you've felt like you're the only one experiencing the unique realities of blended family life. Maybe you're struggling with parenting complexities and your friends just don't get it. Or communication is tense in your couple relationship and your extended family can't seem t…

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Sex and Intimacy - An Honest Discussion 21:04

5M ago21:04

21:04

In this podcast episode, Sex and Intimacy - An Honest Discussion, Scott and Vanessa discuss the importance of physical intimacy in marriage and how to navigate challenges that can arise, such as stress, life transitions, and physical or emotional barriers. They encourage couples in blended families to prioritize open communication, cultivate intent…

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