Best A Jaded Gay Podcasts (2024)

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111. Opening Doors: Navigate the Real Estate Rainbow (with Ryan Windt) 47:50

1h ago47:50

47:50

In today's challenging real estate market, aspiring home buyers grapple with rising prices, limited inventory, and intense competition, making the pursuit of homeownership more difficult than ever. To add a layer of complexity, gay home buyers may encounter challenges such as discrimination, limited representation, and concerns about acceptance in …

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Inside Out Collective - Monday, July 15, 2024 1:00:12

3h ago1:00:12

1:00:12

with Bianca Humady Rey, Gregory Allan Datu Cendana, Jay Barber, Lee Levingston Perine, Morgen "MiMi" Hunt, Samantha G, Dappho, Jade Flower FosterBy Maria Leonard Olsen, Kathyrn Boxill, Michael Sharp, Sam Parks, Matt Thorn, Jade Salazar, Denisha Davenport, Bianca Humady Rey, etc.

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110. Where Have All the Rainbows Gone? 20:02

4d ago20:02

20:02

During Pride month, many corporations and "allies" enthusiastically showcase their support, donning rainbows and sponsoring LGBTQ+ events. But once July 1st rolls around, the vibrant displays of pro-LGBTQ+ sentiments often fade from their workplaces, leaving questions about the depth of their commitment to inclusivity. In this episode, we’re addres…

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Inside Out Collective - Monday, July 8, 2024 1:00:12

5d ago1:00:12

1:00:12

with Bianca Humady Rey, Gregory Allan Datu Cendana, Jay Barber, Lee Levingston Perine, Morgen "MiMi" Hunt, Samantha G, Dappho, Jade Flower FosterBy Maria Leonard Olsen, Kathyrn Boxill, Michael Sharp, Sam Parks, Matt Thorn, Jade Salazar, Denisha Davenport, Bianca Humady Rey, etc.

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109. Queens Slayin', Haters Prayin': A Drag-tacular Showcase (with Bev, Philly’s Queen of Comedy) 59:59

11d ago59:59

59:59

Throughout LGBTQ+ history, drag has held an essential role as a form of expression, resistance, and solidarity, offering a platform for self-discovery and challenging societal norms. From fighting back in the Stonewall Riots to raising funds for research during the AIDS crisis, it has been instrumental in fostering community, amplifying voices, and…

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Inside Out Collective - Monday, July 1, 2024 1:00:12

12d ago1:00:12

1:00:12

with Bianca Humady Rey, Gregory Allan Datu Cendana, Jay Barber, Lee Levingston Perine, Morgen "MiMi" Hunt, Samantha G, Dappho, Jade Flower FosterBy Maria Leonard Olsen, Kathyrn Boxill, Michael Sharp, Sam Parks, Matt Thorn, Jade Salazar, Denisha Davenport, Bianca Humady Rey, etc.

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108. Celebrate Queer Joy 17:00

18d ago17:00

17:00

Despite the rainbows and parades, Pride tends to remind the LGBTQ+ people of the systemic oppression queer communities have faced, highlighting the ongoing journey toward true equality. Amidst this struggle, it's crucial to embrace and celebrate queer joy as a testament to resilience and a beacon of hope for a more inclusive future. In this episode…

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Inside Out Collective - Monday, June 24, 2024 1:00:13

19d ago1:00:13

1:00:13

with Bianca Humady Rey, Gregory Allan Datu Cendana, Jay Barber, Lee Levingston Perine, Morgen "MiMi" Hunt, Samantha G, Dappho, Jade Flower FosterBy Maria Leonard Olsen, Kathyrn Boxill, Michael Sharp, Sam Parks, Matt Thorn, Jade Salazar, Denisha Davenport, Bianca Humady Rey, etc.

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107. Kiss & Release (with Anthony DiPietro) 46:14

26d ago46:14

46:14

Poetry serves as a rich medium where the intersecting identities of gay men, encompassing aspects of sexuality, gender, race, class, and more, intertwine to craft narratives that reflect the multifaceted experiences and perspectives within the LGBTQ+ community. In this episode, Anthony DiPietro, author of kiss & release, joins us to discuss the imp…

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Inside Out Collective - Monday, June 17, 2024 1:00:12

26d ago1:00:12

1:00:12

with Bianca Humady Rey, Gregory Allan Datu Cendana, Jay Barber, Lee Levingston Perine, Morgen "MiMi" Hunt, Samantha G, Dappho, Jade Flower FosterBy Maria Leonard Olsen, Kathyrn Boxill, Michael Sharp, Sam Parks, Matt Thorn, Jade Salazar, Denisha Davenport, Bianca Humady Rey, etc.

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Happy Pride! Storytime with Daniel Gray 10:35

1M ago10:35

10:35

We have been recording our live queer storytelling show Greetings, from Queer Mountain, and will be releasing some of our favorite live stories. This one is from Daniel Gray and was performed and recorded at our April 2023 show at the Allways Lounge in New Orleans. This was Daniel's first time on our stage and he did a fabulous job. If you are in N…

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106. Long Live Queer Nightlife (with Amin Ghaziani) 49:02

1M ago49:02

49:02

In previous episodes, we discussed how the shifting dynamics of gayborhoods and dating app culture have impacted queer nightlife. While the closure of traditional gay bars might be viewed by some as a cause for concern, it fosters a broader conversation about the organic evolution of queer social spaces. In this episode, Amin Ghaziani, Professor of…

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105. The Pride Divide (with Tyrell Brown) 1:43:01

1M ago1:43:01

1:43:01

In previous episodes, we discussed the origins of Pride and the importance of continuing to stand up for equality. However, members of the LGBTQ+ community debate the meaning, purpose, and execution of modern-day Pride celebrations, which highlights the lack of diversity within mainstream events. In this episode, Tyrell Brown, Executive Director of…

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Happy Pride! Storytime with Prin Pelletier 14:08

1M ago14:08

14:08

We have been recording our live queer storytelling show Greetings, from Queer Mountain, and will be releasing some of our favorite live stories. This one is from Prin Pelletier and was performed and recorded at our January 2023 show at the Allways Lounge in New Orleans. This was Prin's first time gracing our stage and she took the show's theme Inte…

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104. The Castro Clone Wars 20:45

2M ago20:45

20:45

Following the Stonewall Riots, San Francisco’s Castro District gained a reputation for its relative openness and soon emerged as a gay haven. During the 1970s and 1980s, a group of predominantly white, masculine-presenting gay men gained prominence for their uniform aesthetic, characterized by closely cropped hair, well-groomed mustaches, denim att…

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103. A Pulse Check on LGBTQ+ Healthcare (with Max Austin) 25:48

2M ago25:48

25:48

Healthcare promotes the wellbeing of individuals and fosters societal resilience by addressing health challenges, preventing diseases, and providing essential medical support. However, marginalized communities, such as the LGBTQ+ community, have historically encountered challenges in accessing inclusive healthcare, facing discrimination, stigmatiza…

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102. Let's Normalize Being Single and Happy 21:37

2M ago21:37

21:37

Societal pressures surrounding marriage often fuel negative perceptions of being single, creating undue stress and stigma for those who haven't followed traditional relationship paths. Meanwhile, gay men may encounter challenges in forming healthy long-term relationships due to societal prejudices, lack of legal recognition, and historical marginal…

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101. Sci-Fi: The Future is Queer (with TQ Sims) 38:31

2M ago38:31

38:31

Inclusive representation in various literary genres offers LGBTQ+ people a sense of visibility, validation, and connection as they see their experiences authentically mirrored, which fosters a more affirming narrative for readers. One such genre, sci-fi, often serves as a creative and inclusive space, intertwining with queerness to explore diverse …

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100. Best Little Boys in the World: It's Time to Grow Up 26:15

3M ago26:15

26:15

Gay men often grapple with perfectionism, navigating societal expectations and internalized standards that can intensify the pursuit of an idealized self-image. Known as the Best Little Boy in the World archetype, some gay men overcompensate in certain aspects of their lives, such as their career, appearance, and other achievements, to deflect nega…

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Storytime with Stand-Up Comedian Shep Kelly 15:20

3M ago15:20

15:20

We have been recording our live queer storytelling show Greetings, from Queer Mountain, and will be releasing some of our favorite live stories. This one is from Shep Kelly and was performed and recorded at our February 2023 show at the Allways Lounge in New Orleans. The show's theme was petty and Shep had just the story. To learn more about Shep K…

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99. Coming Out Later in Life (with Kevin O’ Connor) 1:15:38

3M ago1:15:38

1:15:38

In previous episodes, we discussed the importance of coming out, which is a deeply personal and pivotal moment for LGBTQ+ individuals. And while living openly can empower us to be our authentic selves, a number of complex factors can keep us in the closet. In this episode, author, public speaker, and former teacher Kevin O’Connor joins us to discus…

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98. Dear Netflix: Stop Cancelling Our Queer Shows 42:21

3M ago42:21

42:21

Today, authentic LGBTQ+ representation in TV is more important than ever since it reflects the community's diverse experiences, fosters a sense of inclusivity, challenges stereotypes, and provides meaningful representation that resonates with audiences to promote understanding and acceptance. However, in recent years, we’ve seen a trend where LGBTQ…

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97. Diversifying Queer Horror Cinema (with Jose Nateras) 1:34:26

3M ago1:34:26

1:34:26

In previous episodes, we discussed the history of gay representation in TV and film and roadblocks LGBTQ+ actors encounter in Hollywood, with gay characters continuing to be portrayed by straight actors. While representation is important, authentic LGBTQ+ portrayals in the media fosters inclusivity and visibility, helping to break down stereotypes …

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96. Should You Swipe Left on Gay Dating Apps? 33:34

3M ago33:34

33:34

From early chatrooms of the 90s to geolocation apps in the 2010s, gay men have been considered to be early adopters of online dating. While today's gay dating apps offer unprecedented convenience for gay men to connect within their community, their widespread use has brought about some negative impacts, including issues related to sexual racism, bo…

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95. Take a Page from #GayBookstagram (with Rod Lujano) 32:06

4M ago32:06

32:06

Inclusive representation in literature offers LGBTQ+ people a sense of visibility, validation, and connection as they see their experiences authentically mirrored, which fosters a more inclusive narrative for readers. While it was historically challenging to engage with LGBTQ+ literature, today’s social media communities actively promote and amplif…

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94. Girl, Please: Say No to People-Pleasing 19:02

4M ago19:02

19:02

The fine line between genuine kindness and people-pleasing can pose a challenge, as the latter may lead to sacrificing one's own needs, compromising authenticity, and fostering unhealthy dependencies in relationships. But gay men, in particular, tend to be influenced by societal expectations and the desire to counter stereotypes, resulting in a hig…

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93. Unlock Financial Freedom (with David & John Auten-Schneider) 1:23:04

4M ago1:23:04

1:23:04

In today's complex and rapidly changing landscape of economic uncertainty and unexpected global events, comprehensive financial planning is more crucial yet intricate than ever. But for gay men, navigating resilient financial strategies has been historically challenging due to the economic burden of increased healthcare costs during the AIDS pandem…

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92. Metrosexual Madness 24:05

4M ago24:05

24:05

The term "metrosexual" emerged in the mid-1990s, coined to describe a new wave of urban, fashion-forward men who embraced grooming, fashion, and a heightened sense of personal style, challenging traditional masculinity. However, critics argue the trend appropriates “the gay aesthetic,” reinforcing stereotypes and implying that an interest in fashio…

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91. Fat and Fabulous: Embrace Body Positivity (with Matthew Simko) 1:02:22

5M ago1:02:22

1:02:22

For years, society’s sense of body image has been negatively affected by standards that often perpetuate unrealistic ideals and contribute to the prevalence of negative body image perceptions. Some gay men grapple with an additional layer of body image issues, navigating societal expectations and stereotypes that can lead to feelings of inadequacy …

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Storytime with Jeez Loueez 14:05

5M ago14:05

14:05

This has been in the works for a while and it is finally here! We have been recording our live queer storytelling show Greetings, from Queer Mountain, and will be releasing some of our favorite live stories. This first one comes to us from Jeez Loueez (to learn more about Jeez check out our episode 83) who tells us a tale about Cardi B's birthday. …

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90. The UpStairs Lounge Arson Attack 21:43

5M ago21:43

21:43

On Sunday, June 24, 1973, a gay bar in New Orleans was intentionally set ablaze, killing 32 people and injuring another 15. Fifty years later, despite ample evidence, no arrests have ever been made. In this episode, we’re taking a look at the tragic events of the UpStairs Lounge arson attack, the pervasive discrimination and homophobia evident in t…

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89. Beyond the Brawn: Redefining Queer Masculinity (with Erick DuPree) 1:19:49

5M ago1:19:49

1:19:49

Societal perceptions of masculinity are often rooted in traditional and restrictive norms, which can pressure gay men to conform to stereotypical ideals, leading to internalized homophobia, feelings of inadequacy, and a diminished sense of self-worth. Even within the queer community, ideals of masculinity and femininity can be at odds, creating a c…

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88. Reparent Your Daddy Issues 33:34

5M ago33:34

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Daddy issues is a colloquial term often used to stigmatize psychological or emotional challenges that may arise in an individual's life due to a perceived absence, neglect, or strained relationship with their father. Some gay men may experience their fathers subtly distancing themselves as a form of rejection of their sexuality, which has the poten…

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87. Breaking the Binary (with Travis McMaster) 1:30:07

6M ago1:30:07

1:30:07

Within the many letters of the LGBTQ+ spectrum, non-binary individuals embrace identities outside the traditional binary of male or female, challenging societal norms and fostering a more diverse understanding of gender. Often overlooked, non-binary visibility is crucial in dismantling stereotypes and building a more inclusive world where individua…

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86. Turn Off Your Code-Switching 25:58

6M ago25:58

25:58

Gay men sometimes shift between different modes of expression, including language, behavior, or mannerisms, to navigate between their authentic identity and societal expectations or contexts related to their sexual orientation. Known as code-switching, this practice can reinforce societal norms that marginalize certain linguistic or cultural expres…

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85. Boundaries: How to Understand and Set Them 30:01

6M ago30:01

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Boundaries are essential guidelines, defining the limits of acceptable behavior and establishing a framework of respect and mutual understanding. But due to societal pressures, stereotypes, and the historical stigmatization of non-heteronormative relationships, some gay men may exhibit people-pleasing tendencies, which makes it challenging to imple…

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Episode 83 - Jeez Loueez 45:13

7M ago45:13

45:13

We talk with burlesque extraordinaire Jeez Loueez! We dish about our one-eyed cats (of course), how she got into burlesque, and go in deep about the meaning of queer visibility and so much more! Connect with Jeez: Insta @ItsJeezLoueez FB @JeezLoueez Social Media with us: Insta/FB @NearandQueertoMyHeart X @QueertoMyHeart Merch: https://www.teepublic…

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84. Best of Guests (So Far): Part 2 34:44

7M ago34:44

34:44

Happy Holidays, my LGBTQuties! As the end of the year approached, it’s important to take a retrospective look to appreciate the challenges overcome, goals achieved, and lessons learned. In doing so, we can use the knowledge gained to build a stronger foundation for the year ahead. In this episode, we're revisiting some of our featured guest episode…

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83. Best of Guests (So Far): Part 1 35:41

7M ago35:41

35:41

As the end of the year approached, it’s important to take a retrospective look to appreciate the challenges overcome, goals achieved, and lessons learned. In doing so, we can use the knowledge gained to build a stronger foundation for the year ahead. In this episode, we're revisiting some of our featured guest episodes, exploring topics such as all…

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82. Gay Gym Culture 41:57

8M ago41:57

41:57

Gay men tend to grapple with complex feelings about body image, influenced by societal ideals that often emphasize a lean and muscular physique. As a result, gay gym culture is often marked by a complex interplay of such body standards, which can both motivate and challenge individuals within the community to base their self-perception on chasing a…

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81. Are Mustaches Gay? 22:01

8M ago22:01

22:01

The mustache has traversed centuries, evolving from a symbol of prestige in ancient civilizations to a statement of rebellion in modern counterculture movements. In the 1960s and 1970s, it became an iconic symbol within the gay community, representing a form of self-expression, solidarity, and defiance against societal norms surrounding masculinity…

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80. Queer Haunts: Happy Halloween (with Ralph Anthony) 42:25

9M ago42:25

42:25

Happy Halloween, my LGBTQuties! Previously, we discussed how queer themes have been depicted in horror for more than 250 years and that the genre has always been queer. In this episode, Ralph Anthony, host of the Scream Queer Podcast, joins us to dish on all things horror, determine which monsters are queer, and share a very spooky true-life horror…

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79. Queer Mysticism: Gay Men & Spirituality 19:01

9M ago19:01

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Many gay men find solace and empowerment in spiritual practices like tarot, crystals, astrology, and witchcraft, as they offer a means of self-discovery and affirmation. Unlike modern organized religion, these ancient traditions provide a safe space for personal exploration, allowing individuals to connect with their inner selves and find strength …

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78. Ghosting 20:11

9M ago20:11

20:11

Ghosting has become an increasingly prevalent phenomenon in today's dating culture, reflecting a shift towards digital communication and a reluctance to confront uncomfortable conversations. For gay men, this can be attributed to the influence of hookup apps, a larger pool of potential partners, and societal pressures, leading to a higher likelihoo…

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77. Coming Out 19:08

9M ago19:08

19:08

Coming out is a deeply personal and pivotal moment for LGBTQ+ individuals, encompassing the courageous act of sharing their authentic identity with others, fostering self-acceptance, and seeking understanding and validation. In this episode, we’re taking a look at the origins of the concept of “coming out” and National Coming Out Day, the importanc…

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76. Finally Free (with Seth Showalter) 52:42

10M ago52:42

52:42

Conversion therapy is a discredited and harmful practice that attempts to change a person's sexual orientation or gender identity, often using psychological or religious methods, which can lead to severe emotional distress, trauma, and a negative impact on mental health and well-being. In this episode, Seth Showalter, a licensed clinical social wor…

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75. Sunday Dinners, Moonshine and Men (with Tate Barkley) 1:15:42

10M ago1:15:42

1:15:42

Previously, we discussed the complicated relationship gay men have with alcohol, which is shaped by diverse factors such as social acceptance, coping with discrimination, and navigating the intersection of LGBTQ+ identity and substance use. In this episode, writer and lawyer Tate Barkley joins us to talk about his new book, Sunday Dinners, Moonshin…

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74. Unmask Your Trust Issues 22:29

10M ago22:29

22:29

Previously, we talked about how many gay men have grappled with the fear of rejection, which can result in struggling with intimacy, attachment, and emotional availability. This can often be interconnected with trust issues, as past experiences of feeling abandoned or rejected can lead to difficulties in fully trusting others in future relationship…

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73. Brunch: The Most Important Gay Meal of the Day 20:43

10M ago20:43

20:43

The stereotype of brunch being gay has emerged as a playful nod to the LGBTQ+ community's affinity for this leisurely meal. But, upon deeper examination, the history of brunch has always been a bit controversial, breaking away from conventional standards. In this episode, we're discussing the history of brunch and why it’s become a cherished tradit…

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72. Recovering from Recovery (with Adam Fitzgerald) 1:06:15

11M ago1:06:15

1:06:15

Previously, we discussed the complicated relationship gay men have with alcohol, which is shaped by diverse factors such as social acceptance, coping with discrimination, and navigating the intersection of LGBTQ+ identity and substance use. In this episode, writer, director, and filmmaker Adam Fitzgerald joins us to talk about his new book, Recover…

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