On this episode: Nate changed religions to pescatarian and Aaron talks about when he was vegan. They also discuss the podcast break and England long-walk. Our Guest: Leslie Vernick - host of Relationship Truth: Unfiltered podcast. They discuss the reality that new curtains don’t fix the termites in the basement of our relationships. Leslie explains…

In this last and final epsidoe of The Armor of God Series, Chelsea and Layton discuss the importance of intercession in the context of spiritual warfare and healing. They emphasize the need for community and the power of prayer in supporting and uplifting one another. They also highlight the role of prayer in bringing comfort, peace, and hope to th…

What does the Sword of the Spirit have to do with pornography? Porn is a destructive trap, but we have been given the power to fight back. In this episode Layton and Chelsea highlight the importance of the spoken word of God and the ability to use Scripture against the lies of the enemy. Every piece of armor before this has been defensive in nature…

Chelsea and Layton unpack the Helmet of Salvation as part of their Armor of God series. They explore the significance of the helmet in protecting the mind and controlling our thoughts, while emphasizing the importance of understanding our identity as children of God and the assurance of salvation. The connection between the breastplate of righteous…

The conversation explores the concept of the Shield of Faith, drawing parallels from historical references and personal experiences. It delves into the nature of faith, its challenges, and the importance of community support. The discussion also addresses the relationship between faith and fear, the significance of God's promises, and the role of f…

The Pirate Monk Podcast will be taking a break for the next several weeks to give our volunteers a much-needed rest. We plan to resume posting new episodes again in July. If you can't live without your PMpod fix in the meantime, please take advantage of the 400+ episodes in our back catalogue to listen to some that you may have skipped or would lik…

In this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss the significance of having 'sandals fitted with the Gospel of peace' as part of the Armor of God. They explore the concept of peace as an active and powerful state, the metaphor of feet for scaling mountains, and the battle against sin and brokenness. They also share personal experiences and reflections o…

On this episode: Aaron is tired and cleans the fridge. Nate talks about the dragon of our age. Our Guest: Aundi Kolber - licensed professional counselor, author, speaker, wife, and mom. She shares her journey of being raised in the Catholic church and complex trauma. She encourages us to be present, loving, honoring, and respecting ourselves along …

In the second episode of The Armor of God Series, Chelsea and Layton discuss righteousness and it's relationship with porn and healing. They contrast positional and conditional righteousness and how both are related to our walk with Jesus. The episode concludes with prayer and an encouragement to put on the Breastplate of Righteousness every day.…

On this episode: Aaron rides an exercise bike and figures out how to get paid to exercise. Nate reconsiders his gym membership. Our Guest: Michael Ayala-White, a Buffalo NY native, is a Trauma Informed Certified Coach who is located in Buffalo, NY, but his certification is global and does remote coaching with clients all over the country. He specia…

In this episode, Layton and Chelsea introduce their new series on The Armor of God. They discuss the importance of truth as the foundation of the armor and how it applies to various aspects of life, including overcoming porn addiction and betrayal. They explore the lies of the world and the flesh, and the power of God's truth to combat them. They e…

On this episode: Nate observes people starting to walk on sidewalks. Aaron shares his crush on Anne of Green Gables. Our Guest: Kim Evenson comes to us from Oslo Norway by way of Australia. He discusses the desire and need for close male relationships. Kim shares the foundation of friendship being love, and including compassion, vulnerability, comf…

On this episode: Nate and Aaron discuss ADHD, convergent and divergent thinking. How someone with ADHD isn’t broken. Our Guest: Rachel Allen has lived in Alabama and Tennessee, and now calls Utah her home. She is a CSAT who works with a lot of women and couples. She shares her fascination with human behavior and how she started explaining sexuality…

On this episode: Aaron and Nate each allow Dr. Andrew J. Bauman to lead them in some therapy work. This episode is subdivided into two parts: first with Aaron and then with Nate, where Dr. Bauman walks them through exercises to connect their mind, feelings, body, and spirit for healing. Andrew will be the lead speaker at the 2024 Samson Summit, sha…

Our Guest: Aaron interviews our guest, Dr. Tamara Rosier. Dr. Tamara is an ADHD coach, and the founder of the ADHD Center in West Michigan. She shares her knowledge and history of ADHD going back to the 1800’s. Ways to cope with the thing that gives you reoccurring anxiety, including emotionally engineering your day. The fact that ADHD people are m…

Kristen Miele, founder of Sex Ed Reclaimed, shares her personal journey into sex education and the importance of reclaiming the conversation around sex. She discusses the challenges and misconceptions surrounding sex education, while also highlighting the impact of pornography on kids and offering guidance on how to respond when they are exposed to…

On this episode: Nate and Aaron debate one day for p@rn. Nate updates us on his speaking engagements. Our Guest: Nate and Aaron interview our guests, Chelsea and Layton Boeve. Chelsea and Layton host the Liberator podcast. The Michiganders share their journey that brought them to their passion for strong and healthy relationships. Layton grew up wi…

This week's conversation explores the possibility of finding freedom and sobriety from pornography without a belief in God. Chelsea and Layton discuss their different perspectives on the topic, while emphasizing the importance of Jesus in true healing. They also address the challenge of waiting for someone to find sobriety and the power of prayer i…

On this episode: Nate and Aaron discuss 13 foot, 5 inch Oscar. Nate builds a screened-in treehouse. Our Guest: Natives of Miami, Josh and Charlene share their real-life experiences with alcoholism and substance abuse. Josh also talks about sex and work addiction and trading one addiction for another as part of his recovery in 12-step. Charlene’s jo…

In this conversation, Chelsea and Layton discuss the concept of betrayal and how Jesus can empathize with those of us who have experienced it. They explore different examples of betrayal in the Bible, including Judas, Peter, and the Pharisees. The goal of the conversation is for listeners to rely on Jesus and understand that he truly understands th…

On this episode: Pablito and Rob didn’t get fired. Rob feels different ages when he dances. Is dancing a metaphor for life? Our Guest: Nate and Aaron welcome Jeremy Morris. Jeremy is from Western Idaho and brings a majestic beard and loads of life experience. He engages the lie that if others really knew us, they wouldn’t love us. Talking about you…

In this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss the concept of strongholds, specifically focusing on Psalm 9:9 which states that the Lord is a stronghold for the oppressed in times of trouble. They explore different perspectives on strongholds, including the idea of reclaiming them and making Jesus the ultimate stronghold. They also discuss the importa…

On this episode: Pablito and Rob are impulsive. Rob shares how he engages his stories with the gospel. Our Guest: Nate welcomes this week’s guest, Ashley Chesnut. Ashley is an author, young adult minister, and PHD student in Birmingham, AL. She discusses her book: It's Not Just You, and how that helps women engage their stories and experience freed…

Our friend Scott Kedersha joins us to discuss the challenges and impact of pornography in relationships. Scott is the Marriage Pastor at Harris Creek Baptist Church. He shares his personal journey and how he became passionate about helping couples build strong marriages. Scott provides insights on how to address pornography addiction, the dangers o…

On this episode: Nate and Aaron discuss how macho and competitive Valentines Day can be. Our Guest: Nate and Aaron interview our guest, Dr. Roy Smith. Roy is a speaker, psychologist and author. He discusses his books, Inside Fatherhood for men, and The Campfire Gang Series for youth. Roy shares how his difficult and traumatic growing up years shape…

In this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss how to navigate fear in relationships, particularly when there has been a history of betrayal. They emphasize the importance of trusting in God's goodness and surrendering control. They also discuss the need to question feelings and challenge irrational thoughts. Applying biblical truth and communicating …

On this episode: Nate is rucking things up. Aaron doesn’t understand why the rucking ruckers would ruck their @sses off. Our Guest: Nate and Aaron welcome back Tullian Tchividjian to the podcast for the third time. Tullian shares the value of crashing and burning in his just released book: Carnage and Grace. Topics include giving ourselves grace fo…

In this conversation, Chelsea and Layton discuss the impact of dopamine on addictive behavior, particularly in relation to pornography and sexual addiction. They explore how engaging in addictive behavior can lead to temptation and sin, as well as the dangers of dopamine addiction. They also discuss the influence of big tech and the need to be pres…

On this episode: We catch up on sports ball roulette with Nate and Aaron. Aaron reveals that he looks sh!t in spandex. Also, updates on the Harbor House are sailing in. Our Guest: Nate and Aaron interview our guest, David Murrow. David is a preacher, coach, speaker and author. On this episode, we discuss David’s book: Why Men Hate Going to Church a…

On this episode: Pablito and Rob host. Pablito shares man cave woes. Swifties and important sports snacks are also discussed. Our Guest: Aaron interviews our guest, Ray Ortlund. Ray is a husband of over 50 years, father, grandfather, author, and minister. Discussing “Death of P0rn” and how it's like a modern-day fight against slavery. Ray encourage…

Nate Larkin shares his journey of recovery and healing from pornography and sexual addiction. Growing up in a conservative Christian home, Nate experienced trauma and shame that led him to seek solace in pornography. He struggled with guilt and shame, hiding his addiction from his wife and family. Eventually, he reached a breaking point and sought …

On this episode: Samson celebrates the 20th Anniversary of its first meeting! Nate, Aaron, and Erin host and interview this week. Erin updates us on the pillow fights at the Sarah Society (no really, its a therapeutic technique). She also discusses the meetings, members, summits and webinars of the Sarah Society. Our Guest: This week we get to know…

In this episode of Liberator, Chelsea and Layton discuss the importance of fighting fair in the context of pornography and relationships. They draw from their own experiences and share insights on how to navigate conflict without bringing up past hurts. They emphasize the need for humility, forgiveness, and taking thoughts captive. The episode high…

On this episode: Nate and Aaron are back. Aaron drives 75 hours and has technology challenges. Nate and Aaron discuss anxiety and panic attacks. Our Guest: Aaron interviews Greg Oliver after a 9-year break. Greg is executive director at Awaken, a 12-step recovery group in Birmingham Alabama. He shares his background and story of what brought him in…

In this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss how to navigate friendships of the opposite sex in the context of healing and rebuilding trust after experiencing betrayal. They emphasize the importance of being vulnerable with the right people and being cautious of oversharing. The conversation covers topics such as seeking accountability, setting boun…

On this episode: Pablito and Rob host. Pablito has a birthday and experiences connection. Our Guest: Aaron interviews our guest, Brant Hansen. Brant is an emcee, radio show host, author, hero, and philanthropist. He encourages removing the makeup from Jesus. Brant shares many stories of blessings, cures, love, and miracles. Debating the gift and bl…

Phil and Priscilla Fretwell share their journey of healing and restoration in their marriage after years of secrecy and addiction. They emphasize the importance of transparency, vulnerability, and accountability in overcoming struggles and finding healing. Their story has had a ripple effect, impacting their family and friends, and they now ministe…

On this episode: Pablito and Rob bumper. Nate and Aaron may be striking or joining SAG. Pablito considers mug shots. Our Guest: Nate and Aaron interview our guest, Chuck Degroat. His experience includes: Professor of pastoral care and Christian Spirituality and Executive Director of the Clinical Mental Health Counseling Program at Western Theologic…

On this episode: Pablito (Paul) and Rob share holiday memories, hope, and gratitude. Our Guest: Aaron Interviews our guest, George Wehby. Alabama born and raised, George has an impressive resume: Marine, police officer, air marshal, Brazilian jiu-jitsu black belt, business owner, tv show host, and tactical firearms instructor. He was basically a gu…

In this conversation Jamie Ivey discusses her book 'Why Can't I Get It Together?' and shares her personal struggles with feeling out of control and having unrealistic expectations. She emphasizes the importance of community and vulnerability in overcoming these challenges. Jamie also opens up about her experiences with pornography and the power of …

On this episode: Nate goes to a s#xy place. Nate and Aaron talk about the purity culture, damaged goods and integrity in the journey. Our Guest: Roy Wooten is the executive director of The Crucible Project, pastor, minister, coach, and counselor. He shares how his adolescence and family mental health challenges have shaped his desire to help others…

The healing process after betrayal is long and fraught with unexpected challenges. Even the smallest misunderstanding can spiral into a full-blown fight when trust is fragile or missing. In this episode we break down a common conflict that we've found ourselves in, as well as how we've learned to navigate it over the years.…

On this episode: Nate and Aaron keep you a-bosom of Harbor House renovations. Our Guest: Dr. Hilarie Cash. Her experience includes: co-founder and chief clinical officer at ReStart Life, CSAT, author, internet rehab therapist, educator, and mother. Discussions include how the internet has changed over time to become more addictive, augmented realit…

Every day seems to bring a new invention or scientific breakthrough. This episode we take a few minutes to parse through the intersection of technology and porn, as well as give our thoughts on where we see some of these trends heading.

IMPORTANT: In the original version of this episode, when our guest was discussing his suicide attempt, he stated that someone couldn't die from an overdose of Tylenol. This is inaccurate, so we removed this statement. If you are struggling with suicidal thoughts, please reach out to the National Suicide Hotline by dialing 988. On this episode: host…

Heath Lambert (M.Div, Ph.D.) joins Liberator this week! Dr. Lambert will share insights into pornography and relationships from his book research, as well as years of experience as a pastor. Our conversation delves into marriage, singleness, and Heath’s advice for those suffering the aftermath of betrayal. Heath’s Books: Finally Free and The Great …

On this episode: Pablito and Rob discuss burritos, other California food, and real estate. Our Guest: Nate Interviews our guest Sam Serio. Sam is a preacher, counselor, author, and speaker. In this episode, Sam discusses his book: Sensitive Preaching to the Sexual Hurting. He shares how he learned from his own failures. He teaches how to be invitat…

Is watching porn really that big of a deal? It seems like it's a lot better than some of the alternatives, and it feels especially harmless if I'm single. Join Chelsea and Layton as they take a closer look at one of the most common questions they receive. Fight The New Drug Truth About Porn

On this episode: Nate and Aaron discuss the cocktail approach to recovery and provide some details of the Long Walk in England in June 2024. Our Guest: Drew Boa - podcaster, YouTuber, founder of Husband Material, and coach. Defining triggers, how they work, the temptations, and the flight/fight/freeze reactions. Listening to the story the trigger i…

Our Guest: Nate and Aaron interview our guest, Blaine Eldredge. Blaine, the middle son of a mix between Elijah the prophet and Willy Wonka. He tells us about how he accidentally wrote a book on his path to understand God. Blaine shares his journey of not being “enough” and learning his identity and security. Discussing the value of being an outside…