Best Courtship Code Podcasts (2024)

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Forgiveness and Gratitude: Finding the Gifts in Your Breakup 20:40

4h ago20:40

20:40

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Understanding Breakups: The First Step to Healing S7E27 28:55

6h ago28:55

28:55

Whether you saw it coming or it hit you out of nowhere, the end of a relationship can leave you feeling lost and in pain.Understanding why breakups happen and how to navigate them can be the first step towards healing and personal growth.Today, we'll explore the psychological and emotional aspects of breakups, why they happen, and how you can start…

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LoveMe Love Loop Relationship Pattern 101 S7E26 35:55

12d ago35:55

35:55

LoveMes are hopeless romantics, codependents, who seek validation through feeling needed. LoveMes love the idea of love, and find themselves swept into romantic fantasies with little required from a potential partner in order to feel committed or valued. LoveMes love a relationship project, a partner they believe they can improve and make better, s…

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Avoider Love Loop relationship pattern 101 S7E25 45:14

1M ago45:14

45:14

Avoiders are committed to their independence, fear of rejection, and the belief that their must authentic selves would never be fully valued or loved. They uphold a shell of their identity in order to protect themselves from judgment and avoid their discomfort with their full truth, not from a place of arrogance but from fear of rejection. Avoiders…

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Sexual Love Loop relationship pattern 101 S7E24 42:26

1M ago42:26

42:26

The Sexual Love Loop relationship pattern has an anxious attachment style and is a pattern type that oftentimes uses sexual attraction and desirability as a way to leverage power and validation during the dating and courtship process. While this may seem common for some, the guilt, shame and abandonment cycle that someone with the Sexual Love Loop …

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Adapter Love Loop relationship pattern 101 S7E23 33:34

2M ago33:34

33:34

Most adapters toggle between anxious and avoidant behaviors and think of relationships like reality shows, full of drama and better to watch and observe than to participate. They are students of relationships (romantic, friendships, social activities) more than actively engaging in them. If you’re an adapter, you may have a tendency to take on othe…

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Too Good Love Loop relationship pattern 101 S7E22 49:33

2M ago49:33

49:33

Those with the Too Good Love Loop relationship pattern tend to be very confident on the surface, while deep down inside secretly struggling with low self-worth particularly when it comes to getting emotional needs met. Vulnerability, empathy and communicating relationship needs are some of the core wounds and challenges a Too Good must face while n…

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Trophy Chaser Love Loop Testimonial: Owning Your Unique Fairytale to Marriage S7E21 51:17

2M ago51:17

51:17

In this episode we have a deep dive conversation with a CCC alum who shares her unique journey to love and marriage. She shares how the knowing who your person is doesn't mean you won't have to do the inner work to align with your journey to love and marriage. You will learn how this couple turned their breakup into a major breakthrough and learned…

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Burnout Loop 101: Dating and Courtship S7E20 44:22

2M ago44:22

44:22

If you have been feeling unmotivated with dating and courtship, been ghosted, or not getting past 4-6 weeks of the dating and courtship process you may be in the courtship Burnout loop.When you are in a dating and courtship burnout loop you will find yourself consistently having to start over from short-lived dating experiences, feeling not good en…

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Finding the Beauty in Breakups, Divorce & Your Next Chapter S7E19 46:58

3M ago46:58

46:58

One of the biggest relationship challenges you may face in life is learning how to process emotions and move on from a breakup or divorce. Breakups are painful, eye-opening and freeing. They effortlessly challenge who you think you are and who you have been in life and to another person. For some, the amount of vulnerability and grief that comes fr…

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How to navigate Courtship Loops Questions Answered S7E18 51:06

3M ago51:06

51:06

This question and answer episode provides insight into your courtship loops with specific instructions on how you can break your current courtship patterns with the key steps. 12 week ⁠Private Coaching Consultation⁠ FREE 6 Step Courtship Loop Code Roadmap https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/courtshiplooproadmap FREE Courtship Loops download ⁠https…

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Stress and Nervous system regulation with Meredith Segan Sarason S7E17 1:15:49

3M ago1:15:49

1:15:49

Health and wellness coach, Meredith Seagan Sarason, joins the episode to discuss the impact of stress on the nervous system and how this can be triggered during dating, courtship and in relationships. Meredith provides tips to help manage emotions and triggers so that you can come back into your body and clear mental state with more ease.FREE 6 Ste…

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Courtship: Trust, Shadows and Sabotaging Relationships S7E16 53:44

4M ago53:44

53:44

If you have been attracting partners and navigating courtship and dating yet once you are invested in the relationship or find yourself attached to the possibility anxiety or avoidance creeps in and sabotages the relationship, this episode is for you. We will explore how to regain trust, integrate your shadow, and stop letting past wounds ruin your…

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Courtship 101: The Captivating Courtship Code Process Basics S7E15 1:01:38

4M ago1:01:38

1:01:38

Are you curious how your relationship patterns are formed and how you can use relationships as a spiritual journey to partnership and greater self discovery? At the core of all your relationship experiences is the foundation of trust, healing wounds, and having unshakeable self-worth. Rebuilding these three elements of your inner-self will have a d…

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Captivating Testimonial: Adapter Love Loop, Engagement & Doing the Inner Work S7E14 54:28

4M ago54:28

54:28

In this episode we have a chat with CCC client Amirah about having the courage to dive into the challenges of the inner work in order to quickly transform her Adapter Love Loop pattern and attract her relationship. We discuss healing from past relationships, trust, and fully opening your heart to receive love after trauma and disappointments. Amira…

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Courtship for Anxiously attached High Achieving women S7E13 37:08

4M ago37:08

37:08

If you are a high achieving woman that's anxiously attached you may find yourself overthinking interactions with men, having a hard time balancing your career and love life, or attracting emotionally unavailable men. You may find yourself subconsciously trying to control the outcome of the relationship and rushing the courtship process whenever rel…

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Setting Boundaries and Uncovering Blindspots S7E12 36:46

5M ago36:46

36:46

What are your courtship blindspots? Are a lack of boundaries holding you back from the relationship you deserve? In this episode you will learn about how your courtship and dating blindspots are keeping you frustrated and from the relationship you want and how you can turn them around. Links mentioned in this episode: Apply to The Captivating Court…

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Captivating Weekend - Self Worth Sarah S7E11 28:40

5M ago28:40

28:40

If you have achieved success in her career but struggle with feelings of inadequacy in your personal life, you may be a Self-Worth Sarah. When it comes to Self-Worth Sarahs, despite your accomplishments, you battle with low self-worth and often attract emotionally unavailable partners who reinforce your negative beliefs about yourself. This may lea…

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Captivating Weekend - Anxious Ava S7E10 20:25

5M ago20:25

20:25

Are you an Anxious Ava? If you are a woman who values your spiritual beliefs and is actively seeking a long-term committed relationship, however, your anxious attachment style leads you to overthink every interaction with potential partners, then you may be an Anxious Ava. Your anxiety causes you to appear clingy or needy. Despite your desire to fi…

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Captivating Weekend - Are you an Overwhelmed Olivia? Story time S7E9 30:06

5M ago30:06

30:06

Are you an overwhelmed Olivia? If you are successful with a demanding career, balancing life and love can feel very overwhelming, and your romantic life may even take a backseat to your career. Despite your professional achievements, you struggle with relationship anxiety and constantly finds yourself emotionally attached to men who are unavailable…

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A Sneak Peek into Our Captivating Weekend Virtual Event S7E8 9:16

5M ago9:16

9:16

🌟 Ready to break free from relationship anxiety and find lasting love? Join me for the Captivating Weekend virtual event! 🌟 If you're a high-achieving woman who's tired of feeling overwhelmed and burnt out in your dating life, this workshop is for you. Discover proven strategies to overcome self-sabotaging relationship patterns, cultivate confidenc…

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How to use Courtship Loops to Attract Better Relationships S7E7 26:56

5M ago26:56

26:56

Are you stuck in a courtship loop? If you have been meeting men and it feels like you are attracting the same experiences over and over again or if you feel clueless about why you feel stuck in your love life, you may be in a courtship loop. Courtship Loops are a connecting pattern in your relationship experiences that shows where you have been set…

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No Journey to Love is the Same S7E6 33:07

6M ago33:07

33:07

Over the years of working with clients and helping them o shift their patterns and find love, one thing that's for certain: No journey to love is the same. Every client success story has come with their own path and ups and downs. By understanding that no journey to love is the same you will be able to better embrace your unique circumstance. You w…

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Why insecurity stops men from pursuing you and what to do about it S7E5 50:26

6M ago50:26

50:26

If you often feel weighed down with anxious thoughts, fears and doubts when it comes to relationships this episode is for you. Feeling insecure and anxious is one of the most common sabotaging behaviors that breaks promising relationships. Although it's totally normal to feel insecure at times during dating and courtship, when insecurities become a…

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Overcoming Uncertainty for Anxious Attachers S7E4 43:41

6M ago43:41

43:41

When you start your journey to partnership you may think you should focus on where to meet men, how to create emotional connection, or how to allow a man to pursue you so that you go from single to committed. You may think your biggest challenge is avoiding men who are time wasters so that you don’t fall into the situationship trap or get emotional…

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How to Use Marriage Mentors to Improve your Love Life S7E3 59:21

7M ago59:21

59:21

For many high achieving women, despite how confident you may be on the outside, you may feel very indecisive and uncertain when it comes to dating and relationships. This uncertainty creates major insecurity. Insecurity leads to feeling very hesitant to make decisions in your love life that actually creates the outcome you desire. Then, your go to …

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Captivating Courtship 2024 S7E2 47:19

7M ago47:19

47:19

In this episode we reflect on courtship lessons of 2023, what to expect from Captivating Courtship, and new services and programs in 2024. To get the 2024 service guide, email or DM "MORE" @zarajcaptivatingcourtship on Instagram or book a consultation. Book a 30 minute consultation: www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching Links mentioned in this epis…

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Stop trying to change him & do this instead S7E1 1:01:37

7M ago1:01:37

1:01:37

Oftentimes when I'm working with clients who find themselves repeating relationship patterns, anxiously attached, or fearful of getting hurt their main focus during dating & courtship is to change the man. Your love lens is so intensely focused on him that you may not realize your subconscious fears are causing you to show up as controlling, needy,…

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How to stop being the problem in your love life S6E51 35:33

7M ago35:33

35:33

One of the biggest triggers you may face on your path to partnership is the concept that you are the problem in your love life. When you embrace the idea that you may be PART of the problem, you open the door to change your current relationship status that no longer serves you. You will now have the opportunity to explore aspects of yourself that m…

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Why you struggle to trust men during dating & courtship and how to trust S6E50 51:26

7M ago51:26

51:26

One of the scarier aspects of dating & courtship is opening yourself up to making new connections, feeling excited about the relationship, then fearing disappointment. When you finally meet a new man that you share a connection with, you so badly want the relationship to work that you subconsciously begin looking for all the reasons why it won't. T…

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Hot Cold Relationship Burnout S6E49 49:53

9M ago49:53

49:53

Are you feeling burnout from hot-cold relationships, situationships, and feeling like you are always on the edge of commitment? If so, there's a secret you are missing in dating and courtship that took me years to discover. In today's episode you will learn how anxiously attached women can get off the hot-cold relationship treadmill and finally att…

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Anxious Overthinking & Sabotaging Relationship Patterns S6E48 39:16

10M ago39:16

39:16

Want to attract commitment yet find yourself feeling burnout, in situationships or breakups? If you find yourself anxiously overthinking then your relationship patterns are sabotaging your relationship success. In this episode we explore the biggest gap in your courtship and dating process, the commitment bridge. You will learn why you have a diffi…

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From anxiously attached to trusting the Courtship Process and Letting Go of Control S6E47 28:28

10M ago28:28

28:28

Do you find it difficult to stop anxious overthinking during the courtship process? If you find yourself getting deeply emotionally attached whenever the need for security and validation surface and it's sabotaging your love life, this episode is for you. Oftentimes, when you find yourself feeling fear and other emotions around a potential relation…

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How to Communicate to Connect from the Heart S6E46 51:17

11M ago51:17

51:17

Do you have difficulty allowing yourself to be fully authentic, vulnerable, and feel safe connecting with a man's heart? When you are attempting to attract commitment from sabotaging relationship patterns, child trauma, or unhealed wounds you will have a hard time communicating from your heart without fear of rejection, disappointment, or being jud…

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Selling Yourself on Settling S6E45 49:06

11M ago49:06

49:06

Have you been selling yourself on settling? In this episode we discuss what it actually means to sell yourself on settling, why you do it, and how to stop so that you can attract the healthy relationship you deserve. Too often, women confuse settling with status, accolades, or even ego driven desires. However, actual settling is much deeper and has…

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Feeling Burnt Out w/ Courtship & Dating S6E44 55:31

11M ago55:31

55:31

Have you been feeling burnt out with courtship and dating? The feeling of "burnout" is often linked to deeper emotions that's causing you to want to shutdown, avoid or simply do nothing with your love life. While it's understandable to feel frustrated or disappointed at times, being burnout is typically the result of managing your beliefs, emotions…

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Where to meet quality men: Simple 5 step Love Links Strategy S6E43 52:41

11M ago52:41

52:41

If you haven't felt sure about what steps to take to meet new men this episode is for you. Today, we're discussing Captivating Courtship's signature 5 step Love Links strategy and how you can use it to self-assess what actionable steps you can take to meet quality men and attract an authentically aligned partner. The Love Links strategy is a simple…

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LoveMe Love Loop: Self Sacrificing and Shrinking w/courtship & relationships S6E42 43:26

12M ago43:26

43:26

The relationship pattern known as the LoveMe Love Loop is known for self-sacrificing during courtship, dating and relationships in order to people please and meet their potential partner's needs. The hopeless romantics of the 8 Love Loops, their willingness to prove their worth through people pleasing and shrinking their voice is their strongest fo…

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Trophy Love Loop: Boundaries and Fear of Missing Out S6E41 31:20

12M ago31:20

31:20

Do you have the Trophy Love Loop? One of the biggest challenges with the Trophy Love Loop is having difficult keeping boundaries due to a fear of missing out. This fear is rooted in survival emotions that not only causes low value behaviors in relationships and your personal life, but it also causes you to attract and work to keep relationships tha…

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Love Loops 101: Uncovering Relationship Patterns S6E40 59:31

12M ago59:31

59:31

If you have been single for years or find yourself experiencing the same types of relationships, men, or courtship and dating experiences you may be in a Love Loop. Love Loops are the signature 8 sabotaging relationship patterns that makes it difficult to build a happy, healthy relationship that leads to long-term commitment or marriage. Each of th…

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Captivating Courtship in 2023 S6E39 43:40

1y ago43:40

43:40

In this episode we discuss how you can take the leap to captivating courtship this year. Zara opens up about challenges, pivots, and changes needed in order to create the most aligned vision and ways to assist women transform their relationship patterns so they can improve the quality of their love life and attract a healthy relationship. You will …

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Do you need to heal to attract a healthy relationship? S6E38 52:49

1y ago52:49

52:49

Do you need to heal to attract a healthy relationship? This episode is a special live coaching episode that dives into questions about making the decision to heal and prepare for marriage instead of waiting until you are in the marriage and working with your spouse to heal from past trauma. We discuss the impact itself -esteem and self-worth on you…

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Practical steps to find a spouse S5E37 41:59

1y ago41:59

41:59

This episode is from Captivating Courtship's monthly live training hosted by Zara J. Come join live and learn with us about the latest tools, tips, and information in the dating and relationship industry. In this episode, we discuss practical steps to find a spouse, blocks that may be holding you back, and the main focus to increase potential optio…

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Unmasking Courtship & Dating Mistakes: What went wrong? S5E36 48:17

1y ago48:17

48:17

In this episode, we dive deep into the world of courtship and dating, focusing on successful women aged 28-43 who have a burning desire to find love and get married within the next 12 months. Join us as we unmask the most common courtship and dating mistakes that may be hindering their path to marriage and provide a roadmap for success. We begin by…

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Monday Coffee Chat: Survival Mode and Authentic Values during dating, courtship and relationships S6E35 18:55

1y ago18:55

18:55

When you are in survival mode being in your authenticity and attracting a man who shares your authentic values in courtship is a challenge. This is because when you are anxious, fearful of getting hurt, or trying to control the outcome of the relationship you aren't focused on building meaningful connections. Instead, you will simply focus on secur…

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Getting over ex and interfaith relationships coaching S6E33 39:21

1y ago39:21

39:21

How do you push past an ex and deal with interfaith relationships? In today's coaching episode, we'll have an insightful conversation about how to do just that. In relationships and specifically interfaith relationships, it's important to understand why we feel the way we do and process our emotions. In this episode, she admits that she still misse…

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How to stop wasting time with a relationship that's going nowhere S6E32 48:59

1y ago48:59

48:59

You don’t need to go through pain and relationship issues for months or years on end to find a valuable man who is worthy of you. Today’s episode brings to you freshly brewed stories for the Captivating Courtship Code which are examples to tell you How and why to stop wasting time with a relationship that’s going nowhere. Many high-achieving women …

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Why humility does not serve successful women during dating and courtship S6E31 55:26

1y ago55:26

55:26

Humility in your spirit is a beautiful virtue to have but it can make you shrink in your courtship process in a way that is unhealthy for both your partner and most importantly, you. Take a deep dive into this episode to know why humility does not serve successful women during dating and courtship. Since time immemorial women have been taught to be…

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Courtship Mistake 3&4- Not knowing how to meet, qualify, and get courted by valuable men S6E30 36:40

1y ago36:40

36:40

If you have been dedicating 10-15 years of your life to education, growth, and self-development, you deserve a partner who understands you and is authentically aligned with your values. Today’s episode brings you an in-depth dive into the 3rd and 4th mistakes of the Courtship Mistakes series of episodes in our podcast! If you find yourself jumping …

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Courtship Mistake #2 Not Understanding Commitment Readiness Levels S6E29 25:28

1y ago25:28

25:28

Being committed is defined as being devoted to seeing it through. It means when you know you’re in it to win it. Today’s episode works through understanding commitment readiness levels, in not just your potential partner but also yourself. A relationship starts with you looking inward first. Before questioning if the man is commitment ready, it is …

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