Best Courtship Code Podcasts (2024)

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LoveMe Love Loop Relationship Pattern 101 S7E26 35:55

2d ago35:55

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LoveMes are hopeless romantics, codependents, who seek validation through feeling needed. LoveMes love the idea of love, and find themselves swept into romantic fantasies with little required from a potential partner in order to feel committed or valued. LoveMes love a relationship project, a partner they believe they can improve and make better, s…

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|EP 221| From Masculine Era to Soft Feminine Era 1:04:30

5h ago1:04:30

1:04:30

0:00 Welcome! Hosts Nikki and L discuss their weekly highlights TECHNICALLY SPEAKING: 6:44 Terms of Service Agreements are changing to make room for A.I. training 10:23 Time Magazine partners with OpenAI to train AI using its current and historical content 12:42 Social platform X decides to hide 'likes' LOW VIBRATION: 15:55 Florida Karen f*cks arou…

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| Ep 220 | Purpose and Passion 57:37

7d ago57:37

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Nikki and L chop it up (00:00), then discuss Amazon's alleged retaliation against worker leading employee protest to return-to-office policy (3:11), Google paying $20B to be the default search engine on Apple devices (6:33), Hundreds of heat-related fatalities during the annual Islamic Hajj pilgrimage to Mecca (10:20), Kaywanda Lamb's mission to he…

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Avoider Love Loop relationship pattern 101 S7E25 45:14

10d ago45:14

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Avoiders are committed to their independence, fear of rejection, and the belief that their must authentic selves would never be fully valued or loved. They uphold a shell of their identity in order to protect themselves from judgment and avoid their discomfort with their full truth, not from a place of arrogance but from fear of rejection. Avoiders…

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Sexual Love Loop relationship pattern 101 S7E24 42:26

19d ago42:26

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The Sexual Love Loop relationship pattern has an anxious attachment style and is a pattern type that oftentimes uses sexual attraction and desirability as a way to leverage power and validation during the dating and courtship process. While this may seem common for some, the guilt, shame and abandonment cycle that someone with the Sexual Love Loop …

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| Ep 219 | Friendship Before Courtship 59:23

24d ago59:23

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Nikki and L chop it up, then discuss tablets for prisoners leading to disconnectedness (01:54), Android's text messaging enhancements (07:00), internet for remote Amazonian tribes (10:20), end of bad-breath rapist's decade in hiding (15:55), Black San Francisco family targeted by racism losing their home in mysterious fire (18:40), Mexico's electio…

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Adapter Love Loop relationship pattern 101 S7E23 33:34

26d ago33:34

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Most adapters toggle between anxious and avoidant behaviors and think of relationships like reality shows, full of drama and better to watch and observe than to participate. They are students of relationships (romantic, friendships, social activities) more than actively engaging in them. If you’re an adapter, you may have a tendency to take on othe…

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| Ep 218 | The Power of Black Twitter 1:14:31

1M ago1:14:31

1:14:31

(0:00) WELCOME and WEEK(END) HIGHLIGHTS -------------- TECHNICALLY SPEAKING: (5:51) Prisoners are using VR to prepare them for life after release (7:55) Amazon gets FAA approval allowing it to expand drone deliveries for online orders (10:44) Scarlett Johansson says she is 'shocked, angered' over new ChatGPT voice (13:15) OpenAI has stopped five at…

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Too Good Love Loop relationship pattern 101 S7E22 49:33

1M ago49:33

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Those with the Too Good Love Loop relationship pattern tend to be very confident on the surface, while deep down inside secretly struggling with low self-worth particularly when it comes to getting emotional needs met. Vulnerability, empathy and communicating relationship needs are some of the core wounds and challenges a Too Good must face while n…

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| Ep 217 | Toxic-Level FOMO 1:11:06

1M ago1:11:06

1:11:06

Nikki and L chop it up (00:00), then discuss alleged human rights abuses in the EV industry (02:21), OpenAI disbanding its safety team focused on risks AI poses to human extinction (10:56), nap pods and hustle culture in the Silicon Valley startup community (16:36), Ryan Babcock shooting at a pizza delivery driver for accidently pulling into his dr…

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Trophy Chaser Love Loop Testimonial: Owning Your Unique Fairytale to Marriage S7E21 51:17

1M ago51:17

51:17

In this episode we have a deep dive conversation with a CCC alum who shares her unique journey to love and marriage. She shares how the knowing who your person is doesn't mean you won't have to do the inner work to align with your journey to love and marriage. You will learn how this couple turned their breakup into a major breakthrough and learned…

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| EP 216 | Black Women and Friendships 1:21:52

1M ago1:21:52

1:21:52

Join L and Nikki as they discuss their personal weekly highlights, news in the technologhy space, low vibration news, people and business highlights and trending internet/pop culture news. (0:00) WELCOME and WEEK(END) HIGHLIGHTS TECHNICALLY SPEAKING (11:20) Investigation into child exploitation on Meta platforms leads to arrests (15:03) Neuralink’s…

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Burnout Loop 101: Dating and Courtship S7E20 44:22

2M ago44:22

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If you have been feeling unmotivated with dating and courtship, been ghosted, or not getting past 4-6 weeks of the dating and courtship process you may be in the courtship Burnout loop.When you are in a dating and courtship burnout loop you will find yourself consistently having to start over from short-lived dating experiences, feeling not good en…

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| Ep 215 | Put Me In, Coach! 1:10:51

2M ago1:10:51

1:10:51

Nikki and L chop it up about the two Boeing whistleblowers dying under mysterious circumstances (02:46), Microsoft exec proclaims AI a digital species (07:05), babyboomers losing thier life savings through computer scams, and related Beekeeper movie starring Jason Statham and Phylicia Rashad (10:35), technology's role in Kendrick-Drake rap battle (…

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Finding the Beauty in Breakups, Divorce & Your Next Chapter S7E19 46:58

2M ago46:58

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One of the biggest relationship challenges you may face in life is learning how to process emotions and move on from a breakup or divorce. Breakups are painful, eye-opening and freeing. They effortlessly challenge who you think you are and who you have been in life and to another person. For some, the amount of vulnerability and grief that comes fr…

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| Ep 214 | Toxic Positivity... 1:06:11

2M ago1:06:11

1:06:11

0:00 Welcome and Week(end) highlights TECHNICALLY SPEAKING: 3:07 FCC fines wireless carriers millions for sharing user locations without consent. 6:15 When grief and AI collide: These people are communicating with the dead. 10:07 Tractor-trailers with no one aboard? Self-driving trucks on US roads 17:22 Amazon’s Twitch Starts Rival to TikTok in Sho…

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| Ep 213 | Ditch the Code Switch 1:23:23

2M ago1:23:23

1:23:23

Nikki and L chop it up then discuss the side effects of taking Amanda Seales in small doses (03:45), all-hearing Limitless AI pendant (20:30), Change Healthcare data breach (24:58), FBI scam warning about public USB phone charging ports (28:39), Vegas to L.A. Brightline bullet train (31:05), deranged client lashing out against her lash tech (34:52)…

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| Ep 212 | Risky Business... 1:13:40

2M ago1:13:40

1:13:40

(0:00) L and Nikki Chop it up (6:25) Maryland passes law regulating facial recognition use by law enforcement (8:40) Heineken, the beer company, launches the “Boring Phone” (12:54) TrueMedia.org releases AI deepfake detector to identify fake content (14:54) Amazon Music’s Maestro lets listeners make AI playlists based on emojis (17:21) Airchat is a…

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How to navigate Courtship Loops Questions Answered S7E18 51:06

3M ago51:06

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This question and answer episode provides insight into your courtship loops with specific instructions on how you can break your current courtship patterns with the key steps. 12 week ⁠Private Coaching Consultation⁠ FREE 6 Step Courtship Loop Code Roadmap https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/courtshiplooproadmap FREE Courtship Loops download ⁠https…

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| Ep 211 | Main Character Energy or Syndrome? 1:01:51

3M ago1:01:51

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Nikki and L discuss Oreanthal James (OJ) Simpson's death at 76 from prostate cancer (05:50), the upcoming Black Effect Podcast Festival (07:46), Tennessee's controversial CGI fetus-development video (10:31), Amazon's abandonment of its Just Walk Out cashierless grocery store technology (14:30), truths about Google's not-so-ingonito internet browser…

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Stress and Nervous system regulation with Meredith Segan Sarason S7E17 1:15:49

3M ago1:15:49

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Health and wellness coach, Meredith Seagan Sarason, joins the episode to discuss the impact of stress on the nervous system and how this can be triggered during dating, courtship and in relationships. Meredith provides tips to help manage emotions and triggers so that you can come back into your body and clear mental state with more ease.FREE 6 Ste…

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| Ep 210 | Respectful Cheating... Is That a Thing? 1:16:46

3M ago1:16:46

1:16:46

L and Nikki discuss the eat right for your blood type diet (00:35), experiencing the eclipse (04:25), Alba the AI influencer hosting a segment on "Survivor"(09:27), Google plans to charge for AI powered search engine (11:47), NYC's AI chatbot caught telling businesses to break the law and other bad advice (16:40), Meta's AI image generator struggle…

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Courtship: Trust, Shadows and Sabotaging Relationships S7E16 53:44

3M ago53:44

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If you have been attracting partners and navigating courtship and dating yet once you are invested in the relationship or find yourself attached to the possibility anxiety or avoidance creeps in and sabotages the relationship, this episode is for you. We will explore how to regain trust, integrate your shadow, and stop letting past wounds ruin your…

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| Ep 209 | Health Scare to Self Care 1:08:49

3M ago1:08:49

1:08:49

Nikki and L discuss Florida's ban of 14 and under social media account holders (01:55), Laugh Factory's bid to buy Tik Tok (08:25), Parler app's comeback(12:20), Truth Social SPAC aligning to pay Trump's legal bills, pregnant Nigerian entrepreneur arrest for writing scathing review of tomato puree (19:40), Ohio toddler's death after mother abandons…

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Courtship 101: The Captivating Courtship Code Process Basics S7E15 1:01:38

3M ago1:01:38

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Are you curious how your relationship patterns are formed and how you can use relationships as a spiritual journey to partnership and greater self discovery? At the core of all your relationship experiences is the foundation of trust, healing wounds, and having unshakeable self-worth. Rebuilding these three elements of your inner-self will have a d…

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| Ep 208 | The Power of Courage 1:15:30

3M ago1:15:30

1:15:30

Please join us for a new episode of Spontaneous disruption, where L and Nikki discuss the Freaknik Documentary on Hulu (00:32); the US suing Apple in an antitrust lawsuit (5:19) ; a judge's ruling regarding YouTube, Facebook and Reddit (10:21); DoorDash piloting drone deliveries (17:45); Tennessee passes law to protect music artists from unauthoriz…

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Captivating Testimonial: Adapter Love Loop, Engagement & Doing the Inner Work S7E14 54:28

3M ago54:28

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In this episode we have a chat with CCC client Amirah about having the courage to dive into the challenges of the inner work in order to quickly transform her Adapter Love Loop pattern and attract her relationship. We discuss healing from past relationships, trust, and fully opening your heart to receive love after trauma and disappointments. Amira…

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| Ep 207 | May December 1:07:55

4M ago1:07:55

1:07:55

Nikki and L discuss the UK’s tagging of migrants with GPS trackers, new InDrive ride share app that lets you negotiate your rate, Vegas’ Zoox robotaxi upgrades, hyper intelligence of AI software engineer Devin, former college athlete mistakenly shooting and killing his mother, cult leader Nature Boy’s crimes and sentencing, woman ejected and killed…

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Courtship for Anxiously attached High Achieving women S7E13 37:08

4M ago37:08

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If you are a high achieving woman that's anxiously attached you may find yourself overthinking interactions with men, having a hard time balancing your career and love life, or attracting emotionally unavailable men. You may find yourself subconsciously trying to control the outcome of the relationship and rushing the courtship process whenever rel…

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| Ep 206 | Black Love? 1:19:04

4M ago1:19:04

1:19:04

Please join us for a new episode where L and Nikki discuss the US House vote on Bill to crackdown on TikTok (6:36); Orlando, Florida, debuts self-driving shuttle that will whisk passengers around downtown (10:27) Some Like it Bot: Realistic Digital Marilyn Monroe to Make Debut at Tech Conference (12:49); L experiments with Inflection AI's Chatbot, …

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Setting Boundaries and Uncovering Blindspots S7E12 36:46

4M ago36:46

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What are your courtship blindspots? Are a lack of boundaries holding you back from the relationship you deserve? In this episode you will learn about how your courtship and dating blindspots are keeping you frustrated and from the relationship you want and how you can turn them around. Links mentioned in this episode: Apply to The Captivating Court…

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| Ep 205 | Waking from the American Dream 1:00:09

4M ago1:00:09

1:00:09

Nikki and L discuss an AI dating coach, Pornhub's efforts to stop child abuse video searches, Tyler Perry's warning about OpenAI's Sora, the AI copyright infringement case against Amazon, the long list of allegations around Sean "Diddy" Combs and Meek Mill's response to being referenced in the latest lawsuit against him, a Georgia woman arrest for …

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| Ep 204 | What TF Did you Expect? 1:29:31

4M ago1:29:31

1:29:31

In this week's episode of Spontaneous Disruption, L and Nikki discuss their respective weekend activities, "Are you blacker than ChatGPT" (4:06), Facial recognition coming to an airport near you (7:27), AI and suicide prevention (11:33), the "Low Vibration" news of a Mom allowing her 5 year old daughter to assist with waxing customers private areas…

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Captivating Weekend - Self Worth Sarah S7E11 28:40

4M ago28:40

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If you have achieved success in her career but struggle with feelings of inadequacy in your personal life, you may be a Self-Worth Sarah. When it comes to Self-Worth Sarahs, despite your accomplishments, you battle with low self-worth and often attract emotionally unavailable partners who reinforce your negative beliefs about yourself. This may lea…

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Captivating Weekend - Anxious Ava S7E10 20:25

4M ago20:25

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Are you an Anxious Ava? If you are a woman who values your spiritual beliefs and is actively seeking a long-term committed relationship, however, your anxious attachment style leads you to overthink every interaction with potential partners, then you may be an Anxious Ava. Your anxiety causes you to appear clingy or needy. Despite your desire to fi…

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Captivating Weekend - Are you an Overwhelmed Olivia? Story time S7E9 30:06

4M ago30:06

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Are you an overwhelmed Olivia? If you are successful with a demanding career, balancing life and love can feel very overwhelming, and your romantic life may even take a backseat to your career. Despite your professional achievements, you struggle with relationship anxiety and constantly finds yourself emotionally attached to men who are unavailable…

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A Sneak Peek into Our Captivating Weekend Virtual Event S7E8 9:16

5M ago9:16

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🌟 Ready to break free from relationship anxiety and find lasting love? Join me for the Captivating Weekend virtual event! 🌟 If you're a high-achieving woman who's tired of feeling overwhelmed and burnt out in your dating life, this workshop is for you. Discover proven strategies to overcome self-sabotaging relationship patterns, cultivate confidenc…

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| Ep 203 | Anything, Everything! 1:00:06

5M ago1:00:06

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Nikki and L talk about the USPTO's denial of OpenAI's ChatGPT trademark application, Sora text to video AI tech, election risks posed by AI, startups in the $18 billion menopause market, ex-Expedia employee voyeurism flying under the radar, Oklahoma judge caught texting while judicating, Fani Willis and Nathan Wade getting hot and collared, Beyonce…

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How to use Courtship Loops to Attract Better Relationships S7E7 26:56

5M ago26:56

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Are you stuck in a courtship loop? If you have been meeting men and it feels like you are attracting the same experiences over and over again or if you feel clueless about why you feel stuck in your love life, you may be in a courtship loop. Courtship Loops are a connecting pattern in your relationship experiences that shows where you have been set…

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| Ep 202 | Mindfulness 53:02

5M ago53:02

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L and Nikki discuss NBA All-Star Weekend, Super Bowl highlights, AI smart glasses, Joby Aviation's air taxi service, a daycare director being sentenced for giving children melatonin, an alarming statistic about Black women, an employee and customer beefing at Wendy's and mindfulness. >> Follow the show on YouTube, IG and Tik Tok spontaneousdisrupti…

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No Journey to Love is the Same S7E6 33:07

5M ago33:07

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Over the years of working with clients and helping them o shift their patterns and find love, one thing that's for certain: No journey to love is the same. Every client success story has come with their own path and ups and downs. By understanding that no journey to love is the same you will be able to better embrace your unique circumstance. You w…

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Why insecurity stops men from pursuing you and what to do about it S7E5 50:26

5M ago50:26

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If you often feel weighed down with anxious thoughts, fears and doubts when it comes to relationships this episode is for you. Feeling insecure and anxious is one of the most common sabotaging behaviors that breaks promising relationships. Although it's totally normal to feel insecure at times during dating and courtship, when insecurities become a…

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| EP 201 | More in 2024! 1:10:12

5M ago1:10:12

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This week, L and Nikki discuss the arrest of an elderly grandfather due to the misidentification of AI facial recognition software, Elon Musk’s first Neuralink brain chip has been implanted, emergency responders mistakenly pronounce someone deceased, the stunning verdict in the trial against the mother of the Michigan school shooter, Issa Rae Is ta…

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Overcoming Uncertainty for Anxious Attachers S7E4 43:41

5M ago43:41

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When you start your journey to partnership you may think you should focus on where to meet men, how to create emotional connection, or how to allow a man to pursue you so that you go from single to committed. You may think your biggest challenge is avoiding men who are time wasters so that you don’t fall into the situationship trap or get emotional…

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How to Use Marriage Mentors to Improve your Love Life S7E3 59:21

6M ago59:21

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For many high achieving women, despite how confident you may be on the outside, you may feel very indecisive and uncertain when it comes to dating and relationships. This uncertainty creates major insecurity. Insecurity leads to feeling very hesitant to make decisions in your love life that actually creates the outcome you desire. Then, your go to …

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Captivating Courtship 2024 S7E2 47:19

6M ago47:19

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In this episode we reflect on courtship lessons of 2023, what to expect from Captivating Courtship, and new services and programs in 2024. To get the 2024 service guide, email or DM "MORE" @zarajcaptivatingcourtship on Instagram or book a consultation. Book a 30 minute consultation: www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching Links mentioned in this epis…

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Stop trying to change him & do this instead S7E1 1:01:37

6M ago1:01:37

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Oftentimes when I'm working with clients who find themselves repeating relationship patterns, anxiously attached, or fearful of getting hurt their main focus during dating & courtship is to change the man. Your love lens is so intensely focused on him that you may not realize your subconscious fears are causing you to show up as controlling, needy,…

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How to stop being the problem in your love life S6E51 35:33

6M ago35:33

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One of the biggest triggers you may face on your path to partnership is the concept that you are the problem in your love life. When you embrace the idea that you may be PART of the problem, you open the door to change your current relationship status that no longer serves you. You will now have the opportunity to explore aspects of yourself that m…

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Why you struggle to trust men during dating & courtship and how to trust S6E50 51:26

7M ago51:26

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One of the scarier aspects of dating & courtship is opening yourself up to making new connections, feeling excited about the relationship, then fearing disappointment. When you finally meet a new man that you share a connection with, you so badly want the relationship to work that you subconsciously begin looking for all the reasons why it won't. T…

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| Ep 112 | His/Her Love Is Tha Shhh...Tha Bomb Baby! 1:03:07

8M ago1:03:07

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In this final episode of Season 1 of Spontaneous Disruption, Nikki and L unpack a variety of topics, including Humane's AI pin, Jetson-like flying cars, the Hatched dating app, six formerly homeless sisters overcoming their odds, Lori Harvey and Damson Idris split, a new development in Young Thug's RICO case, Jidenna's master manipulation or major …

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