Best Doug Stringer Podcasts (2024)

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How To Transform Your Triggers: The F.L.O.S.S. Method (Part 2) 51:45

18m ago51:45

51:45

In this episode, I transform one of my triggers using The F.L.O.S.S. Method with help from three Certified Husband Material Coaches: Andrew Loyd, Juan Mejia, and Rocky Pisor. This episode was recorded live at the recent HMA In A Day workshop as a live demonstration of Trigger Tuesday, one of the weekly coaching calls in Husband Material Academy. Th…

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How To Transform Your Triggers: The F.L.O.S.S. Method (Part 1) 41:07

2h ago41:07

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Triggers don't have to be tyrants. In this episode, you'll learn how to transform your triggers from threats into opportunities for healing using The F.LO.S.S. Method. This episode is an excerpt from the recent HMA In A Day workshop. The F.L.O.S.S. Method: F = Fear L = Lie O = Origin Story S = Sadness S = Surrender Free resource mentioned in this e…

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How I Stopped Getting Into My Husband's Recovery Work Instead Of Doing Mine (with Tera Brown) 27:21

7d ago27:21

27:21

Tera Brown went from trying to fix her husband's sex addiction to finding herself, her emotions, her boundaries, and her sacred ground. In this episode, you'll learn what it looks like to heal from relational trauma and feel alive in your body. Tera Brown is a trauma-informed life coach trained by APSATS (Association of Partners of Sex Addiction Tr…

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Sitting In The Dirt Of Sexual Brokenness (with Jeremy Williamson) 31:20

14d ago31:20

31:20

How do I sit in the dirt with someone who is experiencing sexual brokenness? What if I don't know what to say? What if I find myself dysregulated or sexually aroused by the other person? Jeremy Williamson offers invaluable wisdom and counterintuitive clarity about how "be with" others in such a way that they experience the presence of God. Jeremy W…

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How To Do Experiential Healing Work 24:21

21d ago24:21

24:21

Have you ever been disappointed by traditional counseling or talk therapy? In this episode, you'll discover the power of a whole-brain approach to outgrowing porn. You'll learn the why, what, and how of experiential healing work. This episode is required viewing for my clients. Related episodes: How To Heal Your Inner Child Experience Healing Throu…

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Porn is a Dirty Word with Dr. Kevin Harrison 48:00

23d ago48:00

48:00

Did you know that more men at your church on Sunday are likely to have viewed pornography in the past week than to have opened their Bibles? Many churches remain silent on this issue because, unfortunately, even Christian leaders struggle with it. Men are less likely to join a church men's group that offers help with porn addiction due to the guilt…

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Restoration After Porn Relapse (with Rocky Pisor) 40:36

1M ago40:36

40:36

How do you pursue restoration after a relapse, especially in marriage or ministry leadership? Rocky Pisor tells his own story of processing a porn relapse after 17 years of sobriety. You'll learn how to notice the warning signs of impending relapse, and how to respond to relapse with curiosity and compassion rather than punishing yourself or preten…

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It's Good To Be Aroused (with Sam Jolman) 46:24

1M ago46:24

46:24

"There is nothing inherently wrong with an aroused man." What is arousal? Why is it good? Sam Jolman helps us reclaim the heart of masculine sexuality for the purpose of awe, play, and worshipping God. You'll learn how arousal always has a script, why evil hates arousal, and the difference between sexuality and sensuality. At the end, you'll receiv…

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Freedom From Gay Porn (LIVE) 1:00:44

2M ago1:00:44

1:00:44

Why do I struggle with gay porn? What does freedom look like? How can I stop using gay porn? In this episode, I answer these questions based on years of research and helping hundreds of men achieve lasting freedom from gay porn. Recommended resources (including paid links): Healing And Recovery: Perspective For Young Men With Sexualized Attachments…

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How Childhood Experiences Shape Sexual Development (with Drew, Doug, Eddie, and Matt) 30:08

2M ago30:08

30:08

What's the point of processing childhood experiences? In this special episode recorded live at the Sexual Integrity Leadership Summit, Drew, Doug, Eddie, and Matt share insights and stories about how processing childhood experiences can help you outgrow porn. Drew Boa (MA, PSAP) a Certified Unwanted Guide and Inner Child Recovery Specialist. Drew i…

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Why We Sexualize Emotions And How To Desexualize Them 26:37

2M ago26:37

26:37

Why do we sexualize emotions, and how can we desexualize them? In this episode, I explain what it looks like to "right-size" sexual energy through processing emotions and releasing trauma. Free tools to process emotions: Feelings And Needs Wheel Feelings And Needs Inventory Ready to release some trauma? Come to the Husband Material Retreat in Color…

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Overcoming Sexual Entitlement (with Noah Filipiak) 39:46

2M ago39:46

39:46

What happens when you feel entitled to sex and treat your wife like a replacement for porn? In this episode, Noah Filipiak tells his story of overcoming sexual entitlement and objectification. Along the way, he unpacks the false promises of purity culture, what love really looks like, how God's grace changes us, and the power of gratitude. Noah Fil…

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Hope And Healing For Sexless Marriage (with Adam and Karissa King) 40:45

3M ago40:45

40:45

What is the definition of sexless marriage? Why do couples experience this? Sexless marriage is often a symptom of deeper psychosomatic issues. Adam and Karissa teach practical tools to build a sexful marriage through vulnerability, intimacy, and safe touch. This episode can also help couples for whom intercourse is painful or not possible. Adam an…

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Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: How To Respond To A Story (Part 4) 1:03:04

3M ago1:03:04

1:03:04

How do you respond to someone else's story with curiosity and compassion? In part 4 of this 4 part series, Marcus Spaur shares his story: "If I Only Could Have Been..." If you love story work, you'd love Husband Material Groups. Apply to join a group at husbandmaterial.com/group Drew Boa (MA, PSAP) is a Certified Unwanted Guide and Inner Child Reco…

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Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: How To Write A Story (Part 3) 42:22

3M ago42:22

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How do you write a story about your trauma and sexual experiences? In part 3 of this 4-part series, Wendell Moss shares his story: "Sex & Sexuality" If you love story work, you'd love Husband Material Groups. Apply to join a group at husbandmaterial.com/group Drew Boa (MA, PSAP) is a Certified Unwanted Guide and Inner Child Recovery Specialist. Dre…

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Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: Why We Do Story Work (Part 2) 33:36

3M ago33:36

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Why is story work absolutely essential for men outgrowing porn? In part 2 of this 4 part series, Chris Inman shares his story: "The Lonely Walk." If you love story work, you'd love Husband Material Groups. Apply to join a group at husbandmaterial.com/group Drew Boa (MA, PSAP) is a Certified Unwanted Guide and Inner Child Recovery Specialist. Drew i…

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Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: What Is Story Work? (Part 1) 40:59

3M ago40:59

40:59

What is story work? Where did it come from? What does it look like? In part 1 of this 4-part series, Drew shares his story: "The Day I Got Braces." If you love this series, you'd love Husband Material Groups. Apply to join a group at husbandmaterial.com/group Drew Boa (MA, PSAP) is a Certified Unwanted Guide and Inner Child Recovery Specialist. Dre…

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"What Road Are You Walking? 30:19

4M ago30:19

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Summary: After the Resurrection, Jesus' followers struggled to grasp His true identity, hoping for a triumphant Messiah. They experienced a mix of expectation, perplexity and astonishment. We also face these emotions when things don’t go the way we expect them to. These expectations can cause us to miss Jesus in our midst. Yet He is in the middle o…

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Porn and Inner Healing Prayer 21:23

4M ago21:23

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What is inner healing prayer, and how can it help men outgrow porn? This episode is a preview of our new online course, "10 Ways To Heal Your Trauma: Resolving The Roots Of Porn And Sex Addiction." Get free access at healyourtrauma.com Resources for Inner Healing Prayer: Streams of Healing: Finding Your Way to Wholeness with Key Leaders in the Inne…

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Finding Hope in Turbulent Times 49:58

4M ago49:58

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Summary: God can change things in a moment! Even when things look hopeless, there is always hope with God. We see that in the book of Esther. God uses a Jewish queen married to a pagan king to save her people from destruction. What seemed to be a humanly impossible situation was turned around in a day! In a world full of challenges, where evil is c…

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Porn and Polyvagal Theory (with John Kilmer) 23:56

4M ago23:56

23:56

What is Polyvagal Theory? How can it help men outgrow porn? John Kilmer skillfully describes the autonomic nervous system and how to (re)shape it in order to experience regulation without unwanted sexual behavior. John Kilmer is a Mental Health Life Coach, Occupational Therapist, and Certified Husband Material Coach. John has completed the Foundati…

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What Is God Doing In My Trauma? (with Matt Wenger) 20:56

4M ago20:56

20:56

We need a theology of trauma. In this episode, Matt Wenger powerfully invites us to view our trauma through the lens of Jesus's life, death, and resurrection. This episode is a preview of our new online course at healyourtrauma.com Matt Wenger is the clinical director of Boulder Recovery, a 14-day intensive for Christian men struggling with sex, po…

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How To Create Connection In Any Conversation (LIVE) 37:19

4M ago37:19

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Do you long for connection, but it feels impossible? In this episode, you'll learn extremely simple tools and techniques to create connection in any conversation—using your eyes, face, voice, and words. Helpful phrases: Tell me more… What’s it like for you... How does that affect you? That makes sense (because)... It sounds like / I hear you saying…

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DEFINING MOMENTS 34:23

5M ago34:23

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SUMMARY: Be encouraged! What may seem like insignificant moments in time can become divine appointments that lead to divine destiny in the Lord. Join host Doug Stringer and special guest and friend Mike Jeffs of Goodlife Community Centre and Australian Christian Channel Television Network as they share how saying “yes” to God in those defining mome…

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Why Men Don't Talk About Their Sexual Abuse (with Mike Chapman and Dr. Doug Carpenter) 1:43:23

5M ago1:43:23

1:43:23

There are over 40 reasons why men don't talk about their sexual abuse. Let's break the silence. In this episode hosted by Mike Chapman and Doug Carpenter, survivors of sexual abuse share vulnerable stories of harm and healing. Mike Chapman is a Certified Husband Material Coach and the leader of the HM fellowship for survivors of sexual abuse. Conta…

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How To Tell Her About The Porn: Full Disclosure (with Dan Drake and Dr. Janice Caudill) 42:21

5M ago42:21

42:21

What is full disclosure? When, why, and how should I reveal sexual secrets to my wife? In this episode, disclosure experts Dan Drake and Janice Caudill walk us through the process of full therapeutic disclosure from beginning to end. You'll learn how to restore truth in your relationship in a way that is healing rather than harmful. Dan Drake and D…

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Is The Red Heifer Prophecy Being Fulfilled? 57:57

5M ago57:57

57:57

Is the red heifer prophecy being fulfilled? Listen to this message presented by Jim Garlow and Byron Stinson recently at Grace Community Church in The Woodlands TX. Learn how God is moving to prepare His people for Christ's return and how a rancher in Texas has played a role in providing some of the red heifers that will be required for the fulfill…

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Healthy Fantasy vs. Unhealthy Fantasy 15:14

5M ago15:14

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Your imagination is not bad. Learn the 4 main types of fantasies, how to evaluate the healthiness of a fantasy, and what to do with your healthy/unhealthy fantasies! Related episodes: Sexual Arousal vs. Sexual Desire How To Interpret Sexual Fantasies How To Analyze A Sexual Fantasy Introduction To Sexual Symbolism How My Sexual Fetish Shifted Over …

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A Grace-Based Approach To Sexual Recovery (with Jonathan Daugherty) 39:31

5M ago39:31

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What is grace, and how does it apply to sexual recovery? Jonathan Daugherty inspiringly explains how grace is not "soft" but the most powerful force for transformation and freedom from porn. Pride, shame, and comparison all melt away under the core truth that you are worth the life of God's son, and that can never change. Jonathan Daugherty is the …

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Singleness & Same-Sex Attraction (with Dr. Greg Coles) 36:25

6M ago36:25

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If you're single and you experience same-sex attraction, this episode is for you. Dr. Greg Coles offers insight, humor, delight, and hope that defies typical Christian categories of what a "good and beautiful life" can look like. Greg Coles is an author, speaker, and scholar at the Center for Faith, Sexuality, and Gender. Check out Greg's books (th…

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Outgrowing Porn vs. Purity Culture 1:19:55

6M ago1:19:55

1:19:55

What is the difference between outgrowing porn and purity culture? In this replay from The Porn Free Man Conference, you'll experience dramatic examples of what these two approaches look like, sound like, and feel like when you are... Reaching out to a friend after watching porn (failure vs. feedback) Sharing vulnerable parts of your story (harsh a…

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Yes, It's Worth it! - There is a New Day Dawning 33:50

6M ago33:50

33:50

Summary: Greatness comes from abiding in God's presence! There is a difference between worshipping the Lord and abiding in His Presence. Listen as Doug shares how to prepare our hearts for intimacy with the Lord. In the process we must allow Him to rid us of the weighty and unnecessary baggage we often carry. Let go of the hurts of the past and don…

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Outgrowing Porn Through Parts Work (with Dr. Gerry Crete) 47:59

6M ago47:59

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How can parts work help us outgrow porn? Dr. Gerry Crete combines Christian faith, internal family systems, attachment theory, and EMDR into a powerful approach to outgrowing porn. Learn why we need to work with parts pre-emptively, how to "break the spell" when you're in a trance state, and practical ways Jesus can meet our attachment needs. Dr. G…

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Preparing our hearts for authentic communion. 30:04

6M ago30:04

30:04

Five sins kept Israel out of their promised land. Those same five sins apply to us today. Listen as Doug shares a powerful message in English WITH Spanish translation to a group of 500 hungry and passionate young adults. You will learn how to prepare your heart for authentic communion with the Lord and enter into the promise God has given you! Clic…

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What To Do When Your Wife Is Triggered (with Tammy Gustafson) 39:46

6M ago39:46

39:46

How can a husband help his wife during a trigger? Tammy Gustafson reveals what triggers are, how they affect your wife's brain, and what she needs after a trigger tornado has passed. Discover how her triggers can become opportunities for healing! Tammy Gustafson is a trauma-informed Licensed Professional Counselor, coach, EMDR certified clinician, …

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Healing Through Artwork and Storywork (with Philip Leach and John Kilmer) 58:37

6M ago58:37

58:37

What happens when you combine storywork, artwork, and Jesus? Witness powerful healing in this live demonstration of HMA Coaching! As Drew shares a story of difficulty, chalk artisan Philip Leach creates a visual representation while coach John Kilmer offers attunement. Then we invite Jesus into the story and watch the chalk art change. The result i…

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Let Go And Move Into Your Destiny 14:44

6M ago14:44

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Summary: It’s time to move into your destiny! Every year we go through a reevaluation of the previous year. But sometimes we can allow the past to keep us from our future. Listen as host Doug Stringer shares how God is bringing us into a new season. By focusing our eyes on Jesus, we can move forward and embrace what lies ahead. Then we will be ligh…

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12 Reasons To Stop Shaming Yourself 20:59

7M ago20:59

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Learn 12 reasons why shaming yourself doesn't help, what's more powerful than shame, and what you can do instead of shaming yourself. Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-i…

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How To Help Your Partner Heal (with Carol Sheets) 35:55

7M ago35:55

35:55

How can I help my partner heal from the impact of my porn and sex addiction? Psychotherapist and author Carol Sheets reveals what sexually betrayed partners need most, and how you can "help her heal" when you create safety, practice empathy, offer validation, and take ownership without going into shame. This episode is super practical and full of g…

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Stories of Advent, Christmas and Beyond 15:24

7M ago15:24

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The holidays are hard for many. That is why we, the Church, must be a light. We have a joy and a strength beyond human comprehension. We have a peace that surpasses all understanding. It's important for us to give that hope, to let our light shine in such a way that it draws others to the Lord. In this way, we encourage others to find faith, hope, …

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Blessing vs. Cursing Yourself & The Story Behind Your Porn (with Chris Bruno) 30:42

7M ago30:42

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How do you shift from self-condemnation to self-compassion? Chris Bruno reveals how to discover the story behind your struggle with porn. You'll learn what it looks like to rediscover your true "masterpiece-ness" even in the throes of a porn relapse. Our deepest healing lies in turning to the God who knows and created us in His image. Chris Bruno l…

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How To Analyze A Sexual Fantasy (with Dr. Doug Carpenter) 1:00:17

7M ago1:00:17

1:00:17

What can sexual fantasies teach us? How should we analyze them? In this episode, Drew and Doug vulnerably share and analyze each other's sexual fantasies so you can understand what this work practically looks like and how to do it well. The best place to start is Husband Material Academy, which opens up on January 1. Learn more at joinHMA.com Take …

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On the Hinge of History - Lou Engle and Doug Stringer 58:28

7M ago58:28

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There are moments in history when a door for massive change opens. Great revolutions for good or for evil occur in the vacuum created by these openings. It is in these times that key men and women, even entire generations, risk everything to become the hinge of history, that pivotal point that determines which way the door will swing. Esther was su…

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The Reason for the Season, through the eyes of Luke 21:37

8M ago21:37

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Luke, a physician dedicates his Gospel to Theophilus, which translates “friend or beloved of God”. Luke, like a family doctor carefully and orderly lays out the birth, ancestry, earthly ministry, along with the opposition of following the Lord. As you listen to Doug delve into the Gospel of Luke, you will be challenged to count the cost of being a …

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Introduction To Sexual Symbolism 16:19

8M ago16:19

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What desires are commonly symbolized by the penis, breasts, kissing, oral sex, nudity, diapers, and feet? Find out in this short and sweet introduction! Related episodes: Theology Of The Penis Unwanted Sexual Attraction Sexual Arousal vs. Sexual Desire How To Interpret Sexual Fantasies What Should I Do With My Sexual Desires? Here is the video I me…

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Experience Healing Through The Immanuel Approach (with Cathy Little and Melinda Wilson) 48:14

8M ago48:14

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What is the Immanuel Approach? How can it help Christian men outgrow porn? Cathy Little and Melinda Wilson unpack this amazing way to change your brain and heal your heart through connecting with Jesus experientially. You'll also hear a refreshing reminder of how Jesus relates to you with unconditional love, even in your deepest shame. Cathy Little…

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God says, "You've Got this!" 21:06

8M ago21:06

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Hearing the voice of the Lord! Click here for SHOW NOTES. Share this message with a friend and subscribe for weekly encouragement and inspiration!Visit AWordInSeasonPodcast.org for a free 30-Day Devotional, Show Notes, and to see previous guests.Learn more at: SomebodyCares.org and join us to support this ministry and disaster response efforts. You…

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Can Medication Help Me Outgrow Porn? (with Adam O'Neill) 32:04

8M ago32:04

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What if certain kinds of medication can make it easier to outgrow porn? Adam O'Neill unpacks the benefits and drawbacks of supplementing your sexual recovery with medication such as naltrexone. You'll get wisdom about what to expect and how to decide what's right for you. Adam also addresses common objections and concerns about receiving psychiatri…

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Attracting God's Presence 43:33

8M ago43:33

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Summary:. Do you long for the presence of God? Do you want to go deeper in Him? His presence is real and can change circumstances in a suddenly moment. The Lord is not looking for perfect people, but those who are willing to be available. Be encouraged as you listen to Doug Stringer share four keys to attracting the presence of God to your life. Cl…

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What Is A Pornographic Approach To Recovery? 33:10

8M ago33:10

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How has porn impacted your approach to recovery? Learn 7 pornographic styles of recovery and what healthy recovery looks like instead. Pornographic recovery is: isolated escapist avoiding pain impatient passive/consuming cold and harsh. Healthy recovery is: relational embodied embracing pain resilient proactive/creative warm and kind The idea of "a…

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