Trying to breathe new life into your relationship? Confused by the dating world? Frustrated with your marriage constantly going off the rails? Couples Therapist and Relationship Coach Dr. Jon Dabach uncovers the secrets to making love easy again. Join him and occasional relationship expert guests as they explore what makes some couples stay together and others drift apart.
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Stop being her hero if you want your marriage to last
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In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach tackles the detrimental impact of playing the hero in relationships. He explains how taking on excessive responsibilities with the best intentions can lead to resentment and ultimately harm the relationship. By examining the concept of the hero's journey and its emphasis on sacrifice, Dr. Jon highlights the common pi…
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In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach addresses the critical issue of financial double standards in relationships. He defines financial double standards as differing attitudes and expectations towards money that can significantly impact a couple's life. Dr. Jon outlines six key areas where these discrepancies commonly arise: spending habits, earning expe…
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How much sex is normal to have in a marriage?
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In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach delves into the often-asked question of what constitutes a "normal" amount of sex in a relationship. Addressing both the straightforward and complex aspects, he explains that while once a week is statistically average, several factors such as physical health, emotional connection, the relationship's age, and life str…
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Why you should learn how to manipulate your husband
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In this provocative and insightful episode, Dr. Jon Dabach delves into the controversial yet powerful concept of women learning to manipulate their husbands for the benefit of their relationships. Drawing from personal anecdotes and professional experiences, Dr. Jon explores how subtle manipulation can maintain harmony, reduce conflict, and strengt…
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In this insightful episode, Dr. Jon Dabach addresses a common issue many wives face: handling their husband's explosive outbursts. Dr. Jon explains the underlying causes of such behavior, likening these outbursts to adult tantrums. He provides practical strategies for managing these situations, including staying calm, maintaining non-reactive body …
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In this insightful episode, Dr. Jon Dabach discusses practical strategies for husbands to stop their wives from nagging. He begins by defining nagging and emphasizes that understanding and addressing the underlying concerns behind repetitive requests is crucial. Dr. Jon offers actionable advice such as simply completing the tasks being nagged about…
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What to Do When Your Husband Wants a Threesome: 4 Crucial Steps
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In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach delves into the delicate and often contentious topic of what to do if your husband or boyfriend expresses a desire for a threesome. Dr. Jon provides a comprehensive guide for handling this conversation, whether you're open to the idea, completely against it, or somewhere in between. He outlines essential steps for cl…
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Never talk about sex Dating and marriage advice for men
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In this enlightening episode, Dr. Jon Dabach addresses a common dating misstep: talking about sex too soon. Dr. Dabach shares his insights on why men should avoid bringing up sex early in the dating process and instead focus on building a genuine connection. Highlighting the pressures and negative repercussions that premature sex talk can bring, he…
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In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach dives into the intricate concept of love, exploring whether it's rooted in science, art, or something beyond. He begins by examining love from a scientific perspective, discussing the roles of oxytocin, dopamine, and serotonin in fostering emotional connections. Dr. Jon then transitions into the art of love, emphasiz…
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Will AI replace therapists? | ChatGPT as a psychologist
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In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach explores the potential for AI, including ChatGPT, to replace counselors, psychologists, and coaches. He provides a balanced view by presenting three reasons why AI might replace human therapists and three reasons why it might not. Dr. Jon discusses the efficiency, accessibility, and consistency of AI, highlighting it…
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In this insightful podcast episode, Dr. Jon Dabach delves into the art of letting go in relationships. Whether you're navigating the aftermath of a breakup, struggling with ongoing marital issues, or dealing with unresolved traumas, Dr. Jon provides practical tools and techniques to help you move forward. He emphasizes the importance of being in th…
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Why we love the olympics | psychological impact of watching sports
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In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach delves into the psychological reasons why people enjoy watching the Olympics and sports in general. He identifies three main factors that contribute to the excitement and enjoyment of sporting events: connectedness, escapism, and hope. Dr. Jon explains how sports foster a sense of community and belonging, allowing fa…
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In this episode Dr. Jon dives into the thorny issue of dealing with a partner's friends who are less than desirable. Drawing on his extensive experience, Dr. Jon shares practical advice on how to communicate your discomfort without sparking defensiveness and offers strategies for setting boundaries that respect both partners. He highlights the impo…
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How not to lose your own identity in your marriage
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In this insightful episode, Dr. Jon Dabach dives into the critical issue of maintaining one's identity in marriage. He explores the different ways men and women can lose their sense of self, whether it's due to compromising personal goals, societal pressures, or navigating family dynamics. Dr. Jon highlights the importance of balancing personal asp…
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How to Make a Man Fall Deeply in Love with You in 5 Simple Steps
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In this enlightening podcast, Dr. Jon Dabach delves into the five essential steps for women to make any man fall deeply in love with them. Dr. Jon emphasizes the importance of harnessing confidence, not as a constant state of being, but as a skill to project a fulfilling and happy life regardless of one's daily mood. He explains how playing hard to…
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Why men adopt their new family a lot slower than women do
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In this insightful episode, Dr. Jon Dabach delves into the intricacies of why men are often slower to adapt to their roles as husbands and fathers compared to women. He explores the biological, social, and emotional factors that contribute to this discrepancy, offering valuable insights for both men and women. By understanding these underlying reas…
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In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach explores why married men often have few or no friends. He delves into societal expectations and personal priorities that contribute to this phenomenon, emphasizing the additional responsibilities men face in modern marriages. Dr. Jon highlights how time constraints, prioritization of family, shifting interests, emoti…
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The One Phrase That Makes Any Man Obsessed with You
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In this enlightening episode, Dr. Jon Dabach delves into the powerful impact of a single phrase that can profoundly influence a man's feelings towards you. Dr. Dabach emphasizes the significance of expressing feelings of safety and gratitude towards your partner, highlighting how these sentiments can foster a deeper emotional connection and enhance…
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5 Secrets to Make Him Crave You More Than Ever
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In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach delves into five essential strategies to enhance a man's desire for you, regardless of whether you're in the dating phase or have been married for decades. He emphasizes the importance of being fully present, offering genuine compliments, and the power of physical touch in building a deep, emotional connection. Dr. J…
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Does your job as a husband ever stop in today’s modern world?
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In this insightful episode, Dr. Jon Dabach delves into the intricacies of why men are often slower to adapt to their roles as husbands and fathers compared to women. He explores the biological, social, and emotional factors that contribute to this discrepancy, offering valuable insights for both men and women. By understanding these underlying reas…
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How to deal with a husband who is never home
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In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach tackles the issue of dealing with a husband who is never home. Whether it's due to work commitments, socializing, or simply not feeling a connection at home, Dr. Dabach provides insightful advice on how to address and improve the situation. He emphasizes the importance of clear communication, setting boundaries, and …
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Secrets to Great Sex: What Men Wish You Knew About Their Bodies
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In this enlightening podcast episode, Dr. Jon Dabach shares the secrets to great sex from a male perspective, focusing on what men wish their partners knew about their bodies. Dr. Jon delves into the physical and emotional aspects of male sexuality, offering practical tips for enhancing intimacy and connection in relationships. From exploring eroge…
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In this insightful episode, Dr. Jon Dabach delves into the complexities of living with a partner who has Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). Dr. Dabach differentiates between true OCD and simple anal-retentive cleanliness, emphasizing the importance of understanding the disorder's roots and manifestations. He provides practical advice on how to su…
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How to shed the old version of yourself for good
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In this insightful episode, Dr. Jon Dabach delves into the complexities of living with a partner who has Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). Dr. Dabach differentiates between true OCD and simple anal-retentive cleanliness, emphasizing the importance of understanding the disorder's roots and manifestations. He provides practical advice on how to su…
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In this insightful episode, Dr. Jon Dabach tackles the often overlooked issue of dealing with a messy partner. He acknowledges that while men are statistically more likely to be the messy ones, there are still many relationships where the woman is the one creating chaos. Dr. Dabach shares practical advice for men who find themselves living with a p…
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What to do when your spouse doesn’t want sex
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In this episode Dr. Jon tackles the delicate issue of sexual rejection within relationships. With his characteristic wit and straightforward advice, Dr. Jon offers practical strategies to address and overcome sexual dry spells, emphasizing the importance of patience, communication, and understanding. He discusses the common emotional pitfalls that …
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Embarrassment is like death to a relationship
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In this enlightening episode, Dr. Jon Dabach dives into the damaging effects of embarrassment in romantic relationships. He explains how embarrassment can be akin to a small death, as it erodes trust, fosters resentment, and ultimately leads to contempt. Drawing from his extensive experience in private practice, Dr. Dabach discusses why some indivi…
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Secrets Revealed: Ugly Men dating Beautiful Women
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Ever wondered how some not-so-handsome guys manage to land stunning women? In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach dives deep into the intriguing dynamics of attraction, revealing five key reasons why seemingly average or unattractive men often find themselves with gorgeous partners. From the undeniable power of confidence and the art of seeing women for w…
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Why your partner's parenting style feels like crap
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In this episode, Dr. Jon dives into the complex world of parenting styles within marriages, highlighting how differing approaches can cause tension and stress. He outlines four major areas where parenting styles often clash: drill sergeant vs. Zen master, helicopter vs. free-range parenting, pleaser vs. enforcer, and old school vs. new school paren…
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Why you need to start scheduling sex in your relationship
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In this podcast episode, Dr. Jon Dabach dives into the often-overlooked importance of scheduling sex in a relationship. He challenges the misconception that spontaneity is the hallmark of a healthy sex life, arguing instead that prioritizing and planning intimate moments can enhance romance and strengthen the bond between partners. Through candid a…
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Why your wife can show your kids affection but not you
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In this podcast episode, we explore the frustrating dynamic where a wife showers affection on her children but appears emotionally distant from her husband. As a couples counselor, I delve into various reasons behind this behavior, from emotional exhaustion to unresolved resentment, and offer insights into how understanding these reasons can help m…
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In this episode, we explore the reasons why men often feel that their wives are driving them nuts and how to address these issues effectively. We dive into five key areas that commonly cause friction in marriages from the male perspective. These include differences in communication styles, unrealistic expectations, constant criticism, emotional rea…
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So your wife thinks you're cheating...now what?
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In this insightful podcast episode, Dr. Jon Dabach addresses a common and challenging issue: what to do when your wife suspects you of cheating, even when you're innocent. He outlines five key steps to help alleviate her suspicions and rebuild trust in the relationship. By emphasizing the importance of open communication, transparency, reassuring a…
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In this episode, I explore the common perception among men that women are "crazy," focusing on the root causes of this belief. As a couples counselor, I've identified five key areas where men and women differ significantly: comfort with expressing emotions, verbal communication styles, stress responses, risk aversion, and multitasking abilities. Un…
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You're giving your partner too much space
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In this episode, we dive into the concept of giving your partner too much space and the effects it can have on a relationship. Many people either suffocate their partner by not providing enough space or create a void by giving too much. We explore how attachment styles play a role in this dynamic and identify the critical differences between needin…
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In this podcast episode, Dr. Jon Dabach dives deep into common misconceptions surrounding sex in long-term relationships, dismantling myths around performance pressure and unrealistic expectations often perpetuated by media. He emphasizes the importance of mutual communication, understanding, and quality over quantity to foster intimacy and connect…
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In this insightful podcast episode, Dr. Jon Dabach explores the importance of honest friendships and how they play a vital role in fostering personal growth. He emphasizes the value of having friends who ruffle your feathers and challenge you constructively, pushing you to be the best version of yourself. Dr. Jon discusses the concept of "echo cham…
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Discover how building emotional support through active listening and empathy can foster trust and intimacy in your marriage. Learn essential strategies to become a supportive husband who understands the changing roles in relationships and effectively navigates problem-solving while strengthening emotional resilience for a healthier partnership Inte…
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In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach dives deep into one of the most pervasive yet underestimated relationship destroyers: mobile devices. He explores how our constant attachment to phones affects intimacy, undermines connections, and distracts us from meaningful interactions with our partners and children. Social media envy, emotional disconnect, and t…
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You're Smothering Her and You Need to Stop
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In this insightful episode, Dr. Jon Dabach explores the dynamics of smothering behavior in relationships, particularly how men are increasingly exhibiting an anxious attachment style. He identifies three main signs: over-checking, over-planning, and over-inquiring. These actions can lead to emotional strain and a loss of individuality for partners,…
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Dealing with the Passive Aggression of In-Laws
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In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach addresses the complex dynamics of dealing with in-laws, particularly focusing on the common issue of passive aggression within these relationships. He explains what passive aggression truly involves—appearing compliant or non-confrontational on the surface while subtly undermining or sabotaging behind the scenes. Dr.…
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In this enlightening episode, Dr. Jon Dabach explores the profound impact of letting go of unnecessary desires on personal happiness and relationship quality. He discusses how clinging to desires that won't matter in the long run—like acquiring lavish material possessions—can detract from what truly brings joy and meaning to life, such as family, h…
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9 Double Standards that Men Face in Relationships
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In this episode Dr. Jon Dabach delves into nine common double standards that men encounter in romantic relationships. It highlights issues like emotional expression, communication initiation, and financial responsibility, pointing out the societal expectations that often pressure men to conform to specific roles. Particularly, it discusses how men …
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10 romantic gestures to boost your relationship
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This episode features Dr. Jon Dabach discussing romantic gestures to enhance relationships. He emphasizes the importance of surprise and delight in maintaining romance, suggesting gestures like surprise date nights and thoughtful gift-giving. Each gesture, he argues, should incorporate an element of surprise and be tailored to the partner's prefere…
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Tracy Taris is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. She is president and owner of Healing The Mind & Spirit, Inc. where she leads a team of counselors. Her group practice is located here in the Santa Clarita Valley where psychotherapy services are provided in the form of couples, family, individual, adolescent and child therapy as well as coachi…
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Clair White, MA applies her clinical psychology training and personal experience to help adults and kids move toward whole health. Through her coaching practice, she offers group presentations and workshops, as well as individual, parent, and family coaching that focuses on improving emotional, mental, physical, relational, and spiritual health. Be…
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KAREN MCMAHON is a Certified Relationship and Divorce Coach and Founder of Journey Beyond Divorce. She began divorce coaching in 2010 after recognizing that the pain of her divorce led her on a transformational journey into an incredible new life. Karen leads a team of divorce coaches in supporting men and women around the world to become calm, cle…
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Author Lisa Skinner is a behavioral specialist in the field of Alzheimer’s disease and related dementia. In her 30+ year career as a community counselor, private adviser, Regional Director of senior care facilities, and certified dementia care trainer through the Alzheimer's Association, she has helped thousands of families and caregivers understan…
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Keith Wilson is a licensed mental health counselor and former certified substance abuse counselor in private practice in Rochester, NY. He’s had more than thirty years of experience with a diverse population ranging from: troubled youth, troubled marriages; domestic violence victims and perpetrators; addicts and alcoholics; sexual abuse offenders, …
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Doctor of Divinity, Ontario Licensed Clergy, Spiritual Wellness Coach and Reiki Master Teacher. Featured author in Reiki Rays and Universal Life Magazines. Rev. Dr. Tracy has been working spiritually with clients worldwide for over 25 years. She uses research from her doctoral dissertation to help them overcome challenges and understand how to impr…
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