The theme of the festival this year is ‘Sexual Utopia: Here, Now and Beyond’. This year we invite you to imagine and co-create with us, a utopia made out of your most pleasurable fantasies. We invite you to imagine the desires that make you feel safe, happy, and free. In this panel, some of the question we set to answer were; what are the moments o…

In today’s episode, I get to chat with my life partner Majic and we discuss digital intimacy from the perspective of my relationship with my romantic partners.We discuss how we met online and conducted a relationship entirely online for over 3 years.We give tips and tricks on how to navigate online relationships touching on communication, sex and a…

IIn this episode of The Spread, Tapiwa a sex educator and rope tying generalist and myself get to answer all your question on sexuality. Some of the topics we are able to cover today are kink and consent, sex work, how to be a good LGBTQ+ ally, the different components of aromantisism .. One of the things I love about a LIVE audience is the fact th…

In this episode of The Spread, we talk to two members of our audience as they share how their coming out stories shaped their lives. I am joined by Kendi, Eric and the lovely Tapiwa who came in from South Africa. Some of the topics we cover are polyamory, as the curiosity around this topic grows, homophobia in the work place what it’s like living i…

On this episode we’ll be joined by Dr. Carolyne Chakua.She is a psychotherapist, lecturer, intentional parenting coach and author of the book, “Parenting With Your Heart in Mind”We have previously sat down with King Noire & Jasmine discussing the ways in which they teach their children consent (episode 42)In this episode we speak with Dr. Carol on …

On this episode we’ll be joined by Jules from Over 25 and Daniella from Shakti studios.In this episode we’ll be discussing all kinds of relationship breakups from work partnerships to romantic relationships to friendships. Everything in this episode is completely relatable so I urge you to stick around till the very end. Grab a cup of tea or a glas…

On this episode we’ll be joined by the brilliant Dr. Claire Kinuthia aka @theycallmedaktariDr. Claire is a Specialist Obstetrician/ Gynecologist with several years experience in women's and reproductive health care service provision in Kenya. She is passionate about projects focused on facilitating access to quality healthcare, improved quality of …

In today’s podcast we visit the wonderful Xerlina! You may know her from the content I have created on my IG about the Dom/sub dynamic with Jetsetting Jasmine and King noire. If you haven’t seen it, please go to our IG we are @thespreadpod across the board. Xerlina has for a while been the a service sub for the power couple and I haven’t actually h…

The conversations on polyamory are far from over. This week we have Tiff Mugo, co-founder of Hollaa Africa and host of the podcast basically life once again grace us with her presence here on the spread! Tiff and I discuss the different elements on how we deal with our versions of polyamory. Please be sure to share your thoughts with me when you ge…

In today’s podcast episode I sit with 2 of my partners on what feels like a triad date as we get to know each other better with an online game of 21 questions.We learn so much from one another here and candidly discuss our most intimate moments both together and apart. It was lovely re-listening to this podcast and falling in love with the way my p…

In today’s podcast episode I sit with a group of brilliant young minds one of which is my boo and we delve into conversations around girls on girl sex and the safety around it.One question hat has been weighing on my mind is ‘What do you consider sex’What do you consider sex? Have you ever asked yourself this question?We talk about same sex safety,…

In this episode; we talk to sex workers and get their take on experiences during this quarantine period. How has their work been affected? In what ways are they transitioning to this new ‘normal’ and if adapting to more digital content is the way forward for sex work.Including some tips and tricks on how to succeed in the online world of creating e…

In this episode we discuss the desire to critique and attack a person or community on social media platforms and how it has grown in prominence today.Are there any repercussions for this one sided culture? Can we verify the facts? How do we hold people accountable? Njeri, Samira and Silas sit and discuss all the different aspects of cancel culture …

Even though sexual violence is predominantly targeted at women, there are a lot of stories that go untold where the victims to this heinous crimes are men. And because of the patterns created by the patriarchy, a lot of men would rather die with this secret causing them a lot of shame which can then lead to a myriad of mental health issues. We are …

Today’s topic is one that will hit home with some very hard truths. I am so grateful for everyone who chose to take part in this panel discussion. Now despite religion in its current state having been hijacked, there is an emerging movement towards inclusivity. We unpack the taboo of sex and sexual pleasure in the backdrop of conservatism and relig…

I am joined by the worlds finest sexperts and educators from around the world to answer your questions. Please forgive me but I feel like my microphone was the worst sounding of the groups so I apologise if the sound offends you.To start, allow me to introduce you to the panel. We have:Nana writes across genres including creative non-fiction, short…

From myths, body shaming, bullying straight down to sex positions, this panel seeks to redefine what it means to be ‘fat’ and have a healthy, happy and fulfilling sex life. I haven’t got much else to add, this podcast episode says it all. Featuring Shazz as our moderator and Sarah and Njeri as our panelists.----------A L L C O N T E N Thttps://link…

COVID 19 has birthed, unearthed, and aggravated social and mental health issues at an unprecedented level. We seek to discuss the impact ‘lockdown’ and its ripple effects have had on us. Hello everyone, welcome to the Spread podcast, here we discuss all things sexuality with no judgement. I am your host Kaz and this is The Spread `fest 2020 series.…

On todays podcast episode we are jumping into more queer conversations with Njeri and Akani a beautiful queer couple currently spending their quarantine days in Nairobi.We learn a little about the families that raised them and what being queer, trans and coming out means to both of them. This episode is full of laughs, love and a lot of introspecti…

Tapiwa is back on the podcast!! I figured you enjoyed our content from the last time we were on here, so I decided it would be nice to touch on a few more intimate conversations. Like anal!Tapiwa is very comfortable with his sexuality and open to speaking about all things sex in all their different aspects. So a couple of weeks ago Tapiwa got on ou…

This is a crossover podcast episode with Pro Hoe podcast!Hello Spreaders and welcome to the Spread!How’s everyone hanging on this millionth day of quarantine? I hope you are staying home! Penda started ‘Pro Hoe’ after her mom gave her her first vibrator for Christmas which sparked a conversation on the lack of sexual dialogue in Black communities. …

I do hope everyone is doing well and is staying home. These are some really hard and trying times for many of us. But the year broke. That’s how it feels, broken and it hasn’t been easy for many people myself included. My mental health has been fluctuating and finding my balance has been a walk on a high rope. So this week I decided to create a new…

Hello Spreaders, welcome to the spread I’m your host Kaz! Welcome to Season 4!Today there is a podcast takeover by the ever so wonderful Shazz nderitu!! She is a creator of such wonderful and positive content and a great advocate for body positivity even without knowing it! An amazing soul and someone that has grown to become a good friend!So it’s …

Hello spreaders and welcome to the first episode of the Spread in 2020.This is season 4!!!!I have Soni and Kaluhi, very famous foodies in Nairobi!! And I really wanted to talk about Dating in Nairobi so I figured we would combine dining and dating.I usually like to take the first 2 months of the year off to think about what kind of content I need t…

This podcast was made possible by HIVOS, the co-implementer of the Women@Work programe, and Leitepian and associates advocates.Dear Law is a women-led project focused on using storytelling and survivor-centred approaches. This project was inspired by the #MeToo movement, that prompted critical conversations towards accountability for sexual harassm…

Spreaders!!! It’s our last episode of 2019!!! And no better episode to end with than a conversation I was so glad to be a part of while I was in Ghana. I was invited to sit on a panel at a sex positive festival, a first of it’s kind in that area and definitely not a last. Follow adventure TV everywhere to see the unfolding of my time in Accra.. and…

This episode of the spread is very near and dear to me. If you listen to the progression of the episode, we get to go through the journey of Mel discovering more about her sexuality with the help of sex therapist Cathy. If is literally the epitome of un learning or as I like to call it ‘Un-fucking yourself’. It’s a beautiful journey to listen to yo…

Is this your first time listening to the spread? Welcome!! We are all the way sex positive running straight outta the motherland!! Kenya to specific. If this is the first episode of the spread , keep listening but please be sure to go back to the begging and enjoy the lovely content we have been creating for years.It’s holiday season!! And as much …

First off, to those of you already following Dear Law, thank you. If this is the first time you are hearing about it, it’s a female led project set on creating narratives around survivors of sexual harassment. We are calling out and reaching out to people in the legal profession who have had any experience with sexual harassment and using this cont…

To everyone who made it to the last The Spread LIVE!! Much love to you!! As you well know, you are loved and appreciated! We had such a great time as always and you were such a bomb ass crowd! The introvert in me, loves these types of outings. It really feeds my soul. Today’s episode is off the last LIVE recording and I was really honoured to have …

Once again on the podcast today we have my favorite guests; Jetsetting jasmine and King noire and we are discussing all things ethical non monogamy which is a code we all live by. It’s our lifestyle and this is just a glimpse into the poly life style, or as King likes to put it, the Poly sutra lifestyle.Jasmine and King came to Kenya all the way fr…

So let me tell you why I’m in completely awe of SAFE Kenya. They are out there doing God’s work!!! There is a particular community in Masaii land where girls are no longer being genitaly mutilated because of the intervention of SAFE Maa. They are educating young people on the dangers of practicing unsafe sex and are also education people on the ple…

Hello and welcome to the spread. A safe and loving space where we get to express our sexuality with absolutely NO judgement.This is Season 3 and I am your host Kaz.Todays episode features Majik Dyke. A drag king performer currently living in the United States but who’s roots are deeply planted in Kenya. I met them on Instagram and was completely bl…

On today’s LIVE episode, we talk to a return guest Mathew Nakitare about his experience with gender free orgasms as well as some chimed in views from our guests. Mathew is always a treat to have on the show as well as a sight for sore eyes.---------P R O D U C E D B YKaren kaz Lucas---------B U S I N E S S I N Q U I R I E SFor business inquiries, E…

Hello and welcome to the spread. A safe and loving space where we get to express our sexuality with absolutely NO judgement.This is Season 3 and I am your host Kaz.On today’s episode we focus on the new abortion laws in Kenya. I’m going to try explain to you some of the key points that may be relevant to you and some fascinating facts I bet you nev…

Hello and welcome to the spread. A safe and loving space where we get to express our sexuality with absolutely NO judgement.This is Season 3 and I am your host Kaz.This season I want to focus on the decolonization of sexualities. What’s that you might ask? Well, here’s a short description I put together to help you understand better. Prior to Europ…

First off I am extremely happy to announce that I am now working with DWTV to produce content for their station. If you don’t know, they are the German international news channel and are now focusing on African content. So my segment of the spread will be shown on a show hosted by my super friend Edith Kimani and the show is called 77% specifically…

Guys! Since landing back home, I have literally not had a self day! Like I hit the ground running hard and I’ve been so busy putting together a ton of different things, including: THE SPREAD LIVE!!!! OMG! We are celebrating our third year already!! And so I’m just gonna call this event and the next one, our anniversary. The details are in the descr…

Sincere apologies from the Kaz entertainment team, I realized that my last podcast episode came out without condolences to the Riverside attack victims. Tragedy befell us at the beginning of the year and people lost their lives, lost loved ones, were in fear of their lives inside 14 riverside. It’s all terrible and we are deeply sorry for anyone wh…

Hello spreaders and welcome to the spread! I’m your host Kaz.Happy new year! And as always I’d like to begin this episode by giving gratitude!!Thank you to everyone who has followed us thus far, we are who we are and where we are because of you. Never forget that. Without you, we would be nothing! Thank you 100 times thank you and I wish you abunda…

This week we are gonna jump right in to our podcast. Not too many stories in the intro like I usually do. But real quick, it’s Christmas! And I really need your help Spreaders. For the last 6 years, my family and I have spent Christmas Day with this family, cooking, playing and having a great time. As always we need your help to make all these thin…

Hello spreaders and welcome to the spread! I’m your host Kaz.Trying to stick to my promises this last month of 2018 and delivering 2 podcast episodes a week, here is the second one of week one.Our episode today was recorded a earlier this year during my US tour with The spread. I am so over the moon for this episode!!! I was literally just sitting …

Hello Spreaders!!! This episode couldn’t possibly be gayer. We have joined Kenya, Uganda, South Africa, England and Germany together to answer your questions.I met the most wonderful group of people who had come in to Nairobi for the OUT film festival recently and we got the opportunity to join and discuss such an array of wonderful things around s…

Hello spreaders!!!!I just wanted to say a quick thank you for still being here even after my pretty long hiatus. This week we will be doing things a little differently. It’s a two in one episode just to completely wrap up all the things from Sex Down South in Atlanta. We start off with Sex educator Andy and he shares with us his story of how he acc…

As you all know, I love and admire the work of Jetsetting Jasmine and King Noire. I have for a few years now am so grateful that I got the opportunity to work with them and continue to pursue that relationship. They recently had a beautiful baby boy Majesty and if you are following them on social media, they constantly post pictures of the handsome…

Earlier this year while I was in Miami, Fl attending Exxxotica, I had the opportunity to meet and become friends with a group of some of the most wonderful people every. One of those people that stood out in particular was King Heff of the pink heff and black heff pills. A wonderful dirty old man with a heart the size of the African continent. I ha…

On to today’s episode:I don’t have much to say to intro today’s guest. Steven Penta and I met like pen pals 2 years ago when we began emailing each other back and forth about podcasting and production/tech stuff. I remember eagerly awaiting his long descriptive emails like a kid in a candy store. I didn’t know that 2 years later I would not only fe…

Chiki, commonly known as @chikikuruka from her Instagram page was my guest host at the last ‘The Spread Live’ show we had in Nairobi a few months ago. I thought she’d be the ideal guest host seeing as she does like to argue quite a bit and her view on sexual expression are sometimes very left of mine. Not to say that either one of us in right or wr…

A short interlude to explain the space I’m in right now and what my short tour in the US has done to expand my sexuality. I have learnt everything from creating boundaries that work, learning to love and respect myself in all situations and the safe spaces that people in the sex industry provide for me.We are also opening the ‘Your questions answer…

Marla Stewart, a jack of all trades in the sex work community was in charge of all the fun I had the one weekend we spent in New Orleans. She’s responsible for the hurricane I had, the walks on bourbon street, the karaoke nights, the absolute excitement of being in the kink BDSM dungeon and is very responsible for the hangovers thereafter.But she i…