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Ask a Sub is an advice podcast for the kink-curious to take themselves from dreaming to doing. Our host Lina Dune is bringing wellness kink to the masses, and equipping every would-be kinkster with the tools to become their own BDSM BFF.
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Evolving Love Podcast

Evolving Love Project

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Conversations exploring Non-Monogamy, Conscious Relationships & Sexuality. Join Abbey and her husband Liam, as they share from their own lived experiences, and chat with special guests. evolvingloveproject.substack.com
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Bad in Bed

Gabrielle Kassel and Bobby Box

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Bad in Bed: The Queer Sex Podcast is a sex-positive podcast hosted by sex educators and journalists Bobby Box (he/him) and Gabrielle Kassel (she/her). Every week, the two tackle a topic near and dear to their hearts and loins, sharing their (s)experiences and chatting with industry experts. From sex toys, strap-on sex, and fisting, to sexual identity, painful sex, and loose genitals, Bad in Bed is the (queer) sex ed you never had, but always wanted and deserved!
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Lina Dune is a 24/7 collared submissive, kink writer, podcast host and a fairy sub-mother to all who seek her advice. She is the voice, writer, and Meme-Queen behind the wildly popular “Ask A Sub” - an online platform and community that explores mindful and consensual kink. In this conversation we talk about her journey into Kink, Subspace, fake do…
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Bae Leche dropped by the pod to talk about being a non-monogamous mom, dating while pregnant, and new corners of her sexuality she’s discovering in the midst of parenting. Come for the fire pregnancy nudes, stay for the warm-hearted acceptance for wherever you are in your journey. Get the full interview on Patreon for $11/month. To sign up to be no…
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Kink arrives in your life looking like a problem, but it’s really a solution. In this episode, Lina leads a listener through the daunting moment of taking stock of your submissive fantasies with the empathy of somebody a little further down the road. Get your Sub Survival Guide for 20% off at http://www.askasub.com/courses with code AWAKENING To su…
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This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com On today’s Premium episode Abbey and Liam asked for anonymous questions to be submitted on Instagram. Question topics include non-monogamy and parenting, partners and vetoes, balancing different desires within the relationship, advice for broaching non-mo…
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Andrew Gurza is an award winning Disability Awareness Consultant whose written work has been featured on BBC, CBC, Daily Xtra, Gay Times UK & Huffington Post As a host, Andrew presents the award winning “Disability After Dark” which shines a light on Disability stories and sexuality. He was nominated for a Canadian Podcast Award, a Queerty Award an…
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A listener asks the age-old question of where the line is with public humiliation kinks and involving bystanders, and Lina dives in with things to consider before you go to the grocery store with the f-word written across your forehead. Listen to Lina address the Erewhon incident on Dan Savage’s podcast here. To support the pod and join our thrivin…
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This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com On today’s Premium episode Abbey and Liam reflect on their nine year wedding anniversary, the emergence of “podcast bros”, the concept of “body counts” and more! www.evolvingloveproject.com InstagramBy Abbey Mackay
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How can you date again after a D/s relationship turns abusive? You start by dating your intuition. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $6/month! Subscribe to the subby substack here. See the paid post archive here. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@…
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A listener calls in after someone told them saying they are kinky means they are probably not looking for anything serious. Obviously this is not true, but Lina also had some thoughts on the relationship escalator, community care, and how to see people as individuals in a sex positive context. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub comm…
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In today’s episode we talk with Tyson Yunkaporta. Tyson is an Indigenous scholar who belongs to the Apalech Clan from Far North Queensland. He is the founder of the Indigenous Knowledge Systems Lab at Deakin University in Melbourne, and author of the acclaimed book “Sand Talk – How Indigenous Thinking Can Save The World”, and most recently “Right S…
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I’ve been through some shit lately and wanted to share the ways people have supported me so you can support those in your life who are also going through shit. We will be back to our regular format next week. Love you all. Get my essay about the miscarriage on Patreon or Substack. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kink…
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This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com On today’s Premium episode Abbey and Liam discuss whether non-monogamy is “hard work”, open phone policies and secrative monogamous behaviours, Abbey accepting a role starring opposite Theo James, Liam touring with Emily Ratajkowski, and much more!…
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Kyron Kruger is a fetish model and kinkster. He is known widely for his creative work that explores latex fetish wear, and he is seen collaborating with Australia’s best photographers & creatives. In this episode we talk to Kyron about how he found his way into the world of BDSM, his ability to honour his fetishes alongside his masculinity, assumed…
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Disability advocate, sex toy creator, and host of Disability After Dark Andrew Gurza joins us to talk all about non-binary identity, dating while disabled, and how we can improve accessibility in kinky and queer spaces. To get this full episode, go to Patreon or Substack. For that piece of writing I was talking about get it on Patreon or Substack. …
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A sub is concerned that her Dom’s wife is going to veto their dynamic and wonders how she can modify her behavior to make the wife more comfortable. Lina talks about which feelings we have control over (only our own) and how to give yourself grace during liminal times. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket fri…
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In this episode we talk with Intimacy Coordinator Elle McAlpine. Elle is fresh from working on the 11 x Oscar-nominated film “Poor Things” which stars Emma Stone in the leading role. We discuss how she became an intimacy coordinator, all things consent, boundaries and holding space for actors, cast and crew on Movie and Television sets. You can fin…
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So you've got somebody to do 24/7 with - great! Now how the hell do you narrow down all the options and create a bespoke practice just for you? Lina walks a listener through the buffet of options, and helps guide the process of assembling a satisfying D/s plate covered in consent gravy. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community o…
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This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com On today’s Premium episode we asked the Evolving Love Project community to submit anonymous questions to Instagram. Premium Episodes: To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe at: https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/ Con…
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In this episode we talk with New York Times Best-Selling Author Dr. Christopher Ryan. We discuss "Sex at Dawn", "Civilized To Death", psychedelics, the current state of Polyamorous discourse, Ryan's appearance on Australian TV & being invited to the 100th Birthday of the creator of LSD. Guest Links: https://chrisryan.substack.com/ https://chrisryan…
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This week a caller on the autism spectrum and his partner with ADD wonder if there is a link between kink and neurodivergence. Let's talk about it! To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $6/month! Subscribe to the subby substack here. See the paid post archive here. Submit ques…
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In this episode we discuss Evolving Love Project, reminisce and look ahead to the exciting things on the horizon for Evolving Love. Premium Episodes: To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe at: https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/ Contact Us: To get in contact, reach out to us at evolvingloveproject@gmail.com Th…
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Due to unforeseen circumstances (we got COVID), in lieu of this week’s scheduled episode please enjoy this rerun of a season 2 favorite. Lina interviews a listener who got in touch to share the story of her custody battle with her sex-negative ex-husband, and the unexpected win that arrived at the end of her story. To support the pod and join our t…
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First Lina delivers a hot take about how women who sleep with men can become marginalized within kink, then teases out the difference between humiliation and degradation kinks while making fun of dating app bing bongs (as usual). To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $6/month!…
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This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com On today’s Premium episode we recount one of our wildest stories from our journey in non-monogamy. A wild adventure of catfishing, travels, trust and non-monogamy. To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe at: https://evolvin…
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We’re back! And we’re kicking purity culture in the pants!! Get info about the Friday 1/26 Deep Dive here! To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month! Subscribe to the subby substack here. See the paid post archive here. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to …
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In this episode we talk with New York Times Best-Selling Author Molly Roden Winter We cover a wide range of topics including non-monogamy and motherhood, writing her acclaimed polyamorous memoir “More”, “stealthing”, Ashley Madison and so much “More”… Premium Episodes: To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe at: http…
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This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com On today’s Premium episode we play a game, drawing inspiration from the New York Times article “36 Questions That Lead To Love”. Will we fall deeper and more madly in love? What does the perfect non-monogamous day look like? Who is Abbey’s dream Scientist…
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“Can you be a Christian and also be Non-Monogamous?” In this episode we talk with Biblical Scholar Dr. Constantine R. Campbell. We cover a wide range of topics including Non-Monogamy & The Bible, sin and morality, moving away from Evangelical Christianity & Christian hedonism. To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe …
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This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com On today’s Premium episode we discuss Premenstrual Syndrome (PMS) and how it shows up in our Non-Monogamy and relationship. We share about our frustrations when compersion is absent and discuss how we navigate the tensions that arise. To gain access to th…
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On today’s episode we plot, scheme, dream what Non-Monogamy will look like for us in 2024. We discuss Poly cheerleaders, the taboo of infidelity in Non-Monogamy, the joys of dating Non-Monogamous mothers, online dating, reconnecting with old flames and more! evolvingloveproject.substack.com @evolvingloveproject This is a public episode. If you’d li…
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A sub calls in asking how to make amends for past mistakes. Spoiler alert: you do not have to walk on your knees for a hundred miles through the desert repenting. Unless you're into that. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month! Get a year of Patreon for $50 (that's two…
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The words filth and perversion barely begin to scratch the surface of what's on offer in this interview with Empress Wu and her singular penchant for scenes that expand into systems that fuck gender, the body, notions of inside and outside, as well as existence itself. Here in the free preview, we discuss Wu’s journey into pro-Domme work as well as…
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A sub is concerned about sending the wrong message when telling Doms she doesn't have hard limits. What to do? To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month! Subscribe to the subby substack here. See the paid post archive here. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos…
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Bisexual polyamorous writer Gab Alexa joins me to discuss bi-erasure, queer baiting, and her spicy time at the infamous swinger’s retreat Hedonism. Join Patreon at $11/month or Substack at $8/month to get the complete interview, as well as access to the archives of interviews with discussions ranging from how to find a sex positive therapist, to ho…
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On today’s episode we discuss our recent appearance on national television in Australia. We talk about the process of filming our short documentary for Channel 10's "The Project", and unpack the reactions and comments that we have received since the show aired. To get in contact, reach out to us at evolvingloveproject@gmail.com @evolvingloveproject…
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Hey, it's your real life calling! The one where you're not sleeping on an air mattress in a musty basement bracing yourself to hear your Uncle Jim's conspiracy theories at the dinner table! You -- yes you! -- used to be kinky, and that kinkiness is a superpower! Get 25% off on both Ask A Sub courses with code BOUNDARIES25 at askasub.com/courses. Of…
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A listener wants to know the answer to a so-called googleable question - what the heck is a play party, exactly? Lina answers & gives tips on navigating these experiences once you find the right one. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month! Submit questions for this pod…
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Get more Folsom info from this pamphlet. Special thanks to Cactus Cult Leather, BunnyLeather.com, Sylvan and Milton, SF K9 Unit, Bay Area Open Minds, The Satanic Temple and everyone who spoke to me at Folsom! Get my full discussion with Alex Kacha on Patreon or Substack. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket f…
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Are you or a loved one affected by Goodest Girl Syndrome, aka the desire to be the absolute best in comparison to all your partner’s other partners past, present & future? Tune in for solace, solidarity, and strategies to tend your tender heart. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon start…
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This month’s Deep Dive was with boudoir photographer and all around artiste Alex Kacha. We discussed self care, the healing gaze of the camera, and of course the kinkiest shoots they’ve ever done! Deep Dive is a monthly series where I'll bring you deep conversations with luminaries in the kink and alternative sexuality communities, always with the …
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In this episode we talk with Megan Bhatia from the popular Amory Podcast. Megan is a Self-Love and Relationship Coach living in Costa Rica with her husband and children. Megan shares her story of being featured in American Vogue, polyamorous living arrangements, learning how to date again after monogamy & metamour relationships. To get in contact, …
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A sub loves the play parties she attends with her Dom, but is struggling with watching him play with his primary partner. Can this cozy polycule find a way forward that honors her boundaries? Alex Kacha Deep Dive Interview - Live Event on 10/24 at 5pm PT To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patr…
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Follow KD: Instagram | Website Follow Kink Out: Instagram | Website Get KD’s bootblacking starter kit recs here. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month! Subscribe to the subby substack here. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com Go her…
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What do you do when a very special dynamic leaves your life? This week a broken-hearted brat wants to know how to move on in the wake of a great love lost. Join us for our next Deep Dive with photographer Alex Kacha on Tuesday, 10/20 at 5 pacific. Join patreon to attend live for just $5/month, or get the replay at the $11/month Patreon or $8/month …
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In today’s episode we discuss how the TV Show White Lotus relates to non-monogamy, we invite an anti-polyamorous Instagram commenter onto our podcast, infidelity, our recent dating experiences and Abbey’s run in with the “Milf Hunter”. To get in contact, reach out to us at evolvingloveproject@gmail.com @evolvingloveproject evolvingloveproject.com R…
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Cue up some disco and put on your finest assless chaps, because we’re reviewing the history of The Folsom Street Fair, then we’re taking a walking tour of the heart of leather culture in the 1970’s - San Francisco’s South of Market neighborhood and the many bars, clubs, and bathhouses that made it famous. Check out my substack piece on the walking …
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If you’re reading this, you have a pelvic floor! And Dr. Rachel McCarthy-Moya is here to tell you all about it. Listen for her take on kegels (do less of them), your pelvic floor's relationship to capitalism (burn it down), and her lovely guided exercise for pelvic floor lengthening. Get the complete interview here. Follow Dr. Rachel here. Recommen…
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A refresher on red flags and the radical notion that you don’t have to put up with assholes to get your kink needs met. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month! Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com Go here for information on how to rec…
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Jessica Fern is the author of "Polysecure". She is a psychotherapist, public speaker, and trauma and relationship expert. With David Cooley, Jessica co-authored her new book "Polywise". David Cooley is a professional restorative justice facilitator, diversity and privilege awareness trainer, and bilingual cultural broker. In this episode Jessica an…
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