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Non-Monogamy Help is a relationship advice podcast for people in non-monogamous or polyamorous relationships. With the help of a therapist with over a decade of experience, your host Lola Phoenix, answers the questions your questions about rules, hierarchies, unicorns and more.
 
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What happens when your mutual partner ghosts you, but not your partner? Rejection sucks, but this feels a bit different. That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on our website. Discussion Topic - What happens when your partner and your best friend don’t get along? Music for this p…
 
If you’ve given a partner 10 years in monogamy, but they expect you to be happy and feel compersion after deciding to be polyamorous, you might be self-sacrificing a little too much. That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on our website. Discussion Topic - What’s one major way yo…
 
If your partner is polyamorous but you are non-monogamous is your relationship doomed? That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on our website. Discussion Topic - What is your ideal polyamory or non-monogamy set-up? Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at …
 
Can an aversion to non-monogamy come from relationship anxiety and trauma? That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on our website. Discussion Topic - What have you changed your mind about in terms of how you want to live your life? Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris…
 
Even if you have confusing boundaries and you’re not “official”, lying by omission can still feel like cheating. That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on our website. Discussion Topic - What is a non-monogamous setup that wouldn’t work for you? Music for this podcast has been pr…
 
How do you force yourself out of apathy if you feel the partner you want to settle down with is slipping away? That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on our website. Discussion Topic - How has your ideal lifestyle changed over time? Music for this podcast has been provided by Chr…
 
Will the rules you want to put in place prevent what you think they will prevent? That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on our website. Discussion Topic - If you could pick to either read your partner’s mind or have them read yours, which would you pick? Music for this podcast h…
 
What if you can’t see your partner with someone else in your head without feeling terrible? That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on our website. Discussion Topic - Was is one thing that you didn’t get as a child that you want to now have as an adult? Music for this podcast has …
 
Your partner’s partner’s partner doesn’t seem like they’re good for your metamour, but what can you actually do? That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on our website. Discussion Topic - How many of your friends know each other? Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris A…
 
A previous abusive experience of a polyam relationship is causing floods of emotions on your second try. Should you stop? That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on our website. Discussion Topic - If I knew I couldn’t fail in my professional life, I would like to try to… Music for…
 
This episode features a conversation with Master Talos, Sir Phoenix Black, Devyn Stone and Princess presenters and moderators for the Leather Solidarity Collective's Virtual Leather Run, UPRISE taking place July 9-11, 2021. For more information about this groundbreaking event and how to purchase tickets, please visit http://leathersolidarity.com/up…
 
This episode features a conversation with Sir Khiki, Lady Steele and Lord Havoc, 3 of the 21 presenters at Leather Solidarity Collective's Virtual Leather Run, UPRISE taking place July 9-11, 2021. For more information about this ground breaking event and how to purchase tickets, please visit http://leathersolidarity.com/uprise-conference…
 
Can opening your relationship temporarily work to address an incompatibility? That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on our website. Discussion Topic - How do you prefer to be broken up with? Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and t…
 
This episode features a conversation with Sir Guy, boy glovez (aka boy randall), bad school girl and Meeka. 4 of the 21 presenters at Leather Solidarity Collective's Virtual Leather Run, UPRISE taking place July 9-11, 2021. For more information about this ground breaking event and how to purchase tickets, please visit http://leathersolidarity.com/u…
 
This week we featuring Daesha and Master Wrath Daddy! Daesha identifies as a Fem Leathergirl activist. She is a munch host and event organizer in LA/OC California, Member of SAKE's (SoCal Asian Kink Education) Big Sister Mentoring Program, Former Event Coordinator, Operations, & Staff Manager for Club Revelation OC 2017-2019. Daesha is biracial, Me…
 
This week's episode features a conversation with Master Lola Smiles! Master Lola Smiles is a Latina Femdom Fatale from Long Island, NY who has been in the lifestyle for over 25 years - a BDSM educator & presenter and event promoter for 8 years. On January 17, 2021, Ms Lola Smiles was honored and humbled to have received her Cover and earned the tit…
 
If COVID caught a relationship when it was just forming, is it worth picking back up again if you’re feeling disconnected? That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on our website. Discussion Topic - How do you prefer to end a relationship? We always assume that in-person is better,…
 
This week's episode features part two of our conversations with Leather Redux and Just Rob! Leather Redux (LR) is just your friendly, neighborhood leather woman who started in the scene in the late 80s. She left and came back, hence her name “redux” which means a return or rebirth. She has returned to leather and kink and is not going back. As part…
 
After more than a decade, your partner wants to open up because he’s not happy, but you think things are going too fast. What do you do? That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on our website. Discussion Topic - How much detail do you want to know? Music for this podcast has been …
 
This week's episode features part one of our conversations with Leather Redux and Just Rob! Leather Redux (LR) is just your friendly, neighborhood leather woman who started in the scene in the late 80s. She left and came back, hence her name “redux” which means a return or rebirth. She has returned to leather and kink and is not going back. As part…
 
You’ve started in a new triad but you’re feeling like the third wheel and no one is spending time with you. What do you do? That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on our website. Discussion Topic - What is a gift you've been given that's made you cry? Music for this podcast has b…
 
This week's episode features part two of our conversations with Isabella Cross and Sir Phoenix Black! Isabella Cross is a Latinx queer ethical non-monogamous Leather femme switch. Her journey into BDSM/Leather began circa 2015 at the CSPC during Sexploration. It took her three tries to get through the door, but once in, she never looked back! ​Her …
 
Your partner is escalating your relationship and it’s making your metamour jealous. What can you do? That's what's on this week's episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on our website. Discussion Topic - What does an “escalation” in a relationship mean to you? Music for this podcast has been provided by Chri…
 
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