Fatherhood Field Notes is where we hear real stories from real men living real lives every week. Fatherhood is not only about being a dad, it incorporates providing and serving a home, loving and serving a spouse, engaging and serving in a community, as well as intentionally serving your children. Fatherhood is an adventure, one full of fun, wild, and messy stories. In this podcast, we will hear stories from real men who have found themselves living the Adventure of Fatherhood. The Craft of ...
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EP 454 Sergio Duarte: Becoming a Better Father - Health, Family, and Breaking Generational Habits
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Sergio Duarte shares how he lost 100 pounds, not just for himself but for the sake of his family. He talks about the challenges he faced with his health, balancing work, and being present for his two daughters. Sergio also opens up about his marriage, the struggle to conceive, and how his faith grew stronger through a seven-year waiting period. His…
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EP. 456 Dr. Michael Diamond: Seeing Each Other New - Revitalizing Your Marriage and Family
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Michael Diamond joins Ned to discuss the role of a father beyond just providing for the family. Michael talks about how fathers are meant to be grounding forces, bringing order and protection to their homes. He encourages all you dads out there to break out of the routine that often traps men in a life of mediocrity and embrace your responsibility …
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EP 455: Stop Criticizing and Start Witnessing | Craft of Fatherhood
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Ned is talking about how important it is to witness the small moments in fatherhood. He shares a recent experience where there was tension between coaching and criticizing his teenage son. By choosing not to correct in the moment, he found out the value of giving his child space to reflect and learn on his own. Ned encourages dads to balance their …
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EP 453: The Power of ‘No’: Teaching Kids to Set Boundaries | Craft of Fatherhood
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Ned is discussing insights from the book Lovable by Kelly Flanagan, focusing on the importance of teaching kids how to set boundaries and say no. Ned talks about his own experiences as a father and explores how giving children the space to say no helps them develop confidence and healthy relationships. He discusses the balance between discipline an…
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EP 452 Gary Cucchi: Why Being There for Your Kids Matters More Than Anything Else
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In this episode, Gary Cucchi shares his personal experiences and hard-earned wisdom on what it means to be a father. He talks about the importance of making time for your family, being fully present, and showing love through both words and actions. Gary also dives into the challenges of balancing work and family life, the value of setting a strong …
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EP 451: The Power of Blessing Your Kiddos | Craft of Fatherhood
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Ned is discussing the practice of blessing your children, drawing from both his own experiences and traditions like Shabbat. He shares how simple, intentional words from a dad can deeply shape a child's sense of identity and confidence. Ned encourages fathers to create regular moments—whether at bedtime, during family dinners, or on car rides—to sp…
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EP 450 Dale Alexander: “The Talk” (about money) You must have with your Kiddos!
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Dale Alexander is an employee benefits broker, Certified Financial Planner®, and founder of Alexander and Company. He and Ned talk about the very important role fathers play in teaching their kids about money and building lasting trust, even after they move out. Dale shares advice on how to become a trusted advisor to your children, why financial e…
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EP 449: Training your Son to be a Man | Craft of Fatherhood
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Ned shares how he’s teaching his teenage son responsibility and discipline. He talks about the tension between giving his son more freedom while also preparing him for the challenges of adulthood. Ned discusses the steps he’s taking, like assigning his son stewardship of the backyard and involving him in daily routines that encourage independence. …
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EP. 448 Kevin Baker: Do You Know Your Kids?
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Kevin Baker, a life coach for teens and tweens, shares advice for parents on how to better connect with their kids and guide them toward independence. Kevin talks about the importance of understanding who your kids are, rather than focusing on whether you're a "good" parent. He breaks down the difference between helicopter and lighthouse parenting …
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EP 447: When You Have the Opportunity to Be the HERO | Craft of Fatherhood
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The focus of this episode is on what it truly means to be a father beyond the spotlight moments. While society often celebrates the hero dad who swoops in to save the day, Ned goes into the real impact which he says comes from consistently showing up in the small, everyday tasks that go unnoticed. Dads, you are encouraged to think about how you can…
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EP 446 David Bonnet: A Father's Role, A Father's Love, & Effective Discipline
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In this episode, David Bonnet shares his thoughts about the importance of being emotionally available and how fathers can better connect with their children, especially as they grow into adulthood. David discusses the challenges of earning the trust of adult children, the balance between guiding and allowing natural consequences, and the impact of …
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EP 445: Sending your First Born to College | Craft of Fatherhood
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Ned opens up about a deeply personal experience as he prepares to send his eldest daughter off to college. Through a heartfelt letter, he reflects on the significant role fathers play in guiding their children into adulthood, explaining the importance of intentional moments and honest communication. Ned touches on the emotional challenges and respo…
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EP 444 Joey Hahn: From 50+ Foster Homes to Navy Seal to Loving Father of Four Sons
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Ned sits down with Joey Hahn, a former Navy SEAL and father of four boys. Joey shares his unique perspective on fatherhood, shaped by his challenging upbringing in foster care and his intense military career. He gets into the concept of fatherhood as both a duty and a choice, emphasizing the importance of working oneself out of a job as a parent. J…
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EP 443 Week 4: Schools Back, Why Family Meetings are Key to Intentional Parenting
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Ned dives into the power of intentional fatherhood and the transformative impact of family meetings. As summer comes to a close, he shares practical tips on how fathers can use this transitional time to establish meaningful routines that shape their family's culture. From creating a family mission to implementing monthly meetings, Ned emphasizes th…
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EP 442 Mondoe Davis: Raising 11 Kids with Purpose, Love, and Joy
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Mondoe Davis, former NFL player, speaker, author, coach, pastor, and entrepreneur, discusses changing the traditional role of dads from providers to stewards. Mondoe talks about his journey as a father of 11, and the importance of training children for life, helping them find their purpose, and guiding them through the stages of growth. He goes int…
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Ep. 441 Week 3: Schools Back, Why Family Devotions Matter More Than You Think
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Ned challenges dads to take ownership of their role in guiding their families, particularly when it comes to spiritual leadership. He shares advice on how to incorporate family devotions into everyday life, and the importance of setting standards and routines at home. By reflecting on his own experiences and the struggles many dads face, Ned talks …
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EP 440 Bryan Kelley: Tampons, Boxing, and Killing the Lies
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Bryan Kelley pushes back against the idea that a dad’s primary role is to provide financially. Instead, he talks about the importance of being truly present and engaged in the lives of your kiddos. Bryan and Ned also discuss the significance of showing genuine care, understanding, and being a source of emotional support. They’re urging dads to shif…
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Ep. 439 Week 2: Schools Back, Re-Establish the Evening and Morning Routine
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Ned explores the profound impact of fatherhood by sharing insights from historical figures like Jonathan Edwards, who left an enduring multi-generational legacy. Drawing parallels to modern fatherhood, Ned discusses the significance of establishing meaningful morning and evening routines, highlighting how these practices can set positive standards …
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EP 438 What It Means to be a Good Dude and a Good Dad with Benjamin Briggs and Jordan Adent
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In this episode, Ned sits down with Ben Briggs and Jordan Adent of "Good Dude Good Dad" to discuss the challenges and rewards of fatherhood. They share personal stories about the importance of being present, setting priorities, and maintaining integrity. The conversation touches on how to balance the demands of work and family life, the role of vul…
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EP 437 Week 1: Schools Back, Re-Establish the Family Dinner
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Ned is challenging all you dads out there to reset family standards as the new school year approaches. He discusses creating a balanced home environment, and the importance of setting consistent routines without becoming overbearing. Ned provides strategies for fathers to take an active role in daily family life, from morning routines to family din…
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EP 436: Why Your Wife Should Be Your Best Friend(Part 2)
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Ned talks about the lessons learned from 20 years of marriage, and shares 20 key thoughts that have shaped a strong and enduring relationship. Ned discusses the importance of preserving memories through photos and journals, the danger of comparing oneself to others, and the necessity of accountability in a healthy marriage. He expresses the value o…
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EP 435 Week 4 of 4: Summer Fitness Series: Become an Asset for your Family!
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Ned shares transformative insights on the powerful connection between physical fitness, disciplined eating, and personal identity. Drawing from his own fatherhood journey, Ned explores the profound impact of training your body and mastering your diet on mental and spiritual well-being. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing one's inherent powe…
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EP 434: Why Your Wife Should Be Your Best Friend(Part 1)
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Ned reflects on 20 years of marriage, offering 10 impactful thoughts on what makes a marriage thrive. Ned zeroes in on empathy, spontaneity, faith, and the role of a husband in nurturing a loving and supportive relationship. Plus the importance of seeing marriage as an opportunity for growth and connection. He urges men to consider how they can cre…
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EP 433 Week 3 of 4: Summer Fitness Series: How to define Health and Fitness for you!
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Ned is addressing the topic of health and fitness for fathers, pushing back against the unrealistic standards set by social media. He shares his perspective of what it truly means to be a fit and healthy dad, and the importance of being prepared for any situation to support and protect your family. Ned focuses on realistic and achievable fitness go…
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EP 432 Sean Post: Rites of Passage, Faith + Fitness, and Knowing your Kiddos
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In this episode, Ned welcomes Sean Post to discuss the intersection of physical fitness and spiritual well-being for fathers. Sean shares his journey from struggling with physical pain to embracing a healthier lifestyle, and how this transformation has deepened his capacity to serve his family and community. They tackle the tough question of how fi…
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EP 431 Week 2 of 4: Summer Fitness Series: How To Eat Healthy as a Family!
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Ned discusses the critical connection between fitness and fatherhood. He talks about his personal fitness journey and how maintaining a healthy body directly impacts a father's ability to engage fully with his children. He shares tips on nutrition, stressing the importance of eating according to one’s activity level and choosing whole foods. Ned al…
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EP 430 George Dadas Jr.: Cultivate Deep Connection With Your Kiddos and Know What’s Really Going On With Them
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Ned welcomes George Dadas Jr. and he shares his experience of creating a trusting relationship with his children, the importance of cultivating a close-knit family, and the timeless truth that it's never too late to become the father you aspire to be. He also talks about the significance of being present in the small moments and the role of faith i…
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EP 429 Week 1 of 4: Summer Fitness Series: How To Get Outside With the Family!
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Ned talks about how important being active and fit is for dads because it has a great impact on family life. Ned explains how being active sets an example for children and makes bonds with your kids much stronger. He challenges all you dads to shift your mindset from motivation to discipline and ultimately to identity. He also gives you a lot of op…
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EP 428 Kenji Sanders: Responding to Mistakes, Being Yourself, and Preparing for Graduation
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Kenji Sanders joins Ned to discuss the impact of fatherhood on both individual families and society at large. Kenji opens up about the challenges and rewards of being an involved dad, sharing how he’s kept open communication with children and the importance of being a present, loving figure. He addresses the often-overlooked role of empathy in pare…
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EP 427: 13 Week Series on the Character Traits and Identity of a Father: Week 13: The Joyous Father | Craft of Fatherhood
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Ned talks about how dads have the ability to set the tone in their homes, especially during life's inevitable storms. He discusses how important it is to choose joy over fleeting happiness and the impact this choice has on your family. Ned is challenging all you dads to become the dependable, joyful leaders your families need, capable of bringing l…
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EP 426 Otis Amey: Is Your Parenting Style Making Your Child Weak?
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Former NFL player Otis Amey is here to share his journey from professional sports to a fulfilling life centered around faith, family, and personal growth. Otis dives into the importance of setting intentions for fatherhood, the life-changing power of faith, and the lessons learned from his own upbringing and career. This conversation will give you …
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EP 425: 13 Week Series on the Character Traits and Identity of a Father: Week 12: The Curious Father | Craft of Fatherhood
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Ned Schaut dives into the importance of curiosity in fatherhood, emphasizing how staying curious about yourself, your spouse, and your children can deeply enrich family life. He shares personal stories and reflections on how trying new things and maintaining a curious mindset can lead to personal growth and stronger relationships. This episode chal…
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Ep. 424 Bryan Crow: Faith and Fitness: Connecting Spirituality and Strength
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Ned welcomes Bryan Crow, a father who has undergone a remarkable journey of personal transformation. Bryan shares his powerful story of losing 100 pounds, overcoming alcoholism, and finding a new sense of purpose through fitness and faith. He discusses the importance of discipline, the impact of community support, and the challenges of balancing fa…
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EP 423: 13 Week Series on the Character Traits and Identity of a Father: Week 11: The Tribal Father | Craft of Fatherhood
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Ned discusses the crucial role of community in fatherhood. He talks about the concept of the "tribal father," explaining the importance of not going through the parenting journey alone. He stresses how important it is to have a supportive network, not only for personal growth but also for the benefit of children. ---------- Transform Your Body with…
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EP 422 Coach Mike Harvey: Embracing Failures and Victories
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Ned sits down with Coach Mike Harvey to discuss the vital role fathers play in both their kids’ lives and sports development. They talk about the importance of character-building through athletics, the impact of effective coaching, and the challenges of balancing being a dad and coaching duties. Mike offers advice on leadership, resilience, and why…
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EP 421: 13 Week Series on the Character Traits and Identity of a Father: Week 10: The Graceful Father | Craft of Fatherhood
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Ned is digging deep into the heart of what it means to be a father filled with grace. He shares his personal stories and insights on how dads can show their kids understanding and empathy without letting go of discipline and standards. Let’s tackle the common misconception that anger is necessary for effective parenting and explore how grace and ac…
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EP 420 Cynthia Monteleone: Championing Fairness in Girls and Women’s Sports
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For this episode we welcome Cynthia Monteleone, a world champion athlete and advocate for fairness in women's sports. Ned and Cynthia discuss the complex issues surrounding transgender athletes' participation in female sports categories. The conversation highlights Cynthia's personal experiences and the broader implications for female athletes, emp…
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EP 419: 13 Week Series on the Character Traits and Identity of a Father: Week 9: The Empowering Father | Craft of Fatherhood
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Ned discusses the difference between empowering children and exerting control over them. Telling stories about his own experiences, he encourages fathers to really think about their parenting approach, focusing on teaching and guiding with love rather than authority. Ned talks about the delicate balance between giving children the tools to succeed …
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EP 418 Matthew Toole: Creating Space for Sons to Thrive
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Ned welcomes Matthew Toole to discuss how fathers can be a huge influence, for better or worse, in their sons' lives. Matthew shares his approach to parenting, focusing on the importance of resilience, work ethic, and thoughtful conversations about future partners. Ned and Matthew also explore balancing business and family, and the important role f…
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EP 417: 13 Week Series on the Character Traits and Identity of a Father: Week 8: The Intentional Father | Craft of Fatherhood
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Ned talks about the significant impact of being an intentional father, emphasizing how being actively present can positively affect your children's lives. He shares personal experiences and practical tips on handling the different stages of parenting, stressing the importance of recognizing and responding to your child’s unique needs as they grow. …
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EP 416 Ashish Rampal: Raising Kids with Love and Structure
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Ashish Rampal is here to bring his unique perspective on fatherhood to the forefront, sharing both the challenges and joys he's encountered. He talks about the importance of delighting in your children, he reveals the significance of modeling a healthy family life. Ashish opens up about his journey from the initial struggles of becoming a father to…
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EP 415: 13 Week Series on the Character Traits and Identity of a Father: Week 7: The Peaceful Father | Craft of Fatherhood
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Ned talks about the critical role fathers play in creating a peaceful and stable home. Through personal stories and practical advice, he challenges dads to think about whether they truly bring peace and stability to their households. Ned discusses the fine line between control and order, emphasizing the importance of discipline, character, and know…
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EP 414 Nick Dadas: Is Fatherhood the Ultimate Entrepreneurship?
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Nick Dadas is here sharing his vibrant journey through the realms of fatherhood and entrepreneurship. Reflecting on his experiences as a father of twins and a young son, Nick discusses how his family dynamics have shaped his life's ventures—from launching businesses that mirror his passions to redefining his roles as a provider, protector, and play…
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EP 413: 13 Week Series on the Character Traits and Identity of a Father: Week 6: The Grateful Father | Craft of Fatherhood
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Ned’s discussing the profound impact of gratitude in a father's life. He explores how embodying and modeling gratitude can profoundly influence our children, teaching them to find joy and appreciation as they experience life's chaos. Ned opens up about his brother Nick's unwavering positivity, as an example of how gratitude can turn challenges into…
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EP 412 Luke Johnson: Impacting Generations through Grace and Peace
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Ned has a discussion with Luke Johnson, exploring the profound influence fathers have within the home. Having conversations about grace, peace, and the enduring impact of paternal generosity, Luke shares personal stories and professional insights that highlight the power of leading with a gentle hand. From creating a peaceful household to the finan…
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EP 411: 13 Week Series on the Character Traits and Identity of a Father: Week 5: The Loving Father | Craft of Fatherhood
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Ned is taking us on a heartfelt exploration of the profound identity and role of a father. Through a 13-week series discussing character traits that define fatherhood, Ned is reflecting on the boundless nature of love and its very important role in the fatherhood journey. He challenges the conventional biases of fatherly love, letting us know its e…
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EP 410 David McDonald: Father Figures or Fear Mongers: What Are Dads Really Teaching Us?
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David McDonald is the Founder and President of the Fossores Chapter House, storyteller, team builder, and coach. He invites us to have a look into the profound impact fatherhood has had in his life through his personal growth and resilience. David shares how overcoming failures, from repeated driving tests to navigating the complexities of parentin…
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EP 409: 13 Week Series on the Character Traits and Identity of a Father: Week 4: The Serving Father | Craft of Fatherhood
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Today Ned discusses the evolving landscape of fatherhood, exploring the delicate balance between service and self-care that modern dads navigate. As Ned dissects the societal expectations and personal identities that fathers grapple with, he explains the profound impact these roles have on their relationships and self-perception. This episode chall…
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EP 408 Phillip McMillan: Raising Boys with Character, and How to Create Meaningful Connection with your Kids
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Phillip McMillan is here today to explore with Ned the delicate balance between career ambitions and family life. As Phillip shares his personal experiences—from overcoming corporate challenges to attending baseball games and making sure he's present for his children—he explains why it’s so important to be there for your kids, physically present. P…
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