On today’s episode, we’re joined by Lynnette Sheppard from the "Stand with Lynnette" podcast. We get her wisdom as a mother of 5 on how we can raise Gen Z to seek Christ. We discuss the issues we see in Gen Z, the strengths they possess, and offer ideas for raising them to rise above modern standards of morality. Lynnette's Instagram: https://www.i…

We're back for a new season! On today’s episode, why do some church members think the doctrine is unclear when it comes to gay dating? Is it unclear? How can we know, what can we do about it, and how can we move forward? Also, how can a "maybe the doctrine will change" narrative negatively affect church members who experience same-sex attraction? W…

On today’s episode, how do we wish church members would handle LGBTQ issues within the church? What does being an "ally" mean, and is there a better alternative to that term? Why do so many adopt a relativistic approach to morality when dealing with LGBTQ issues? And how can we combat that approach? We’ll also be taking questions at the end. On thi…

How can we disagree without disparaging each other? What are best practices for meaningful conversations, both online and in person? How should we handle divisive media spreading lies and half-truths? Plus, we take your questions at the end of the episode! On this podcast, we are faith-affirming first. This means before anything else, we affirm and…

What is a woman? And why is that a controversial question? In today's episode, we're tackling womanhood and motherhood. How does the world see them, vs how does God define them? In what ways does our society devalue motherhood in the pursuit of equity? Also, why are roles so important, and why has that word lost favor? We also take your questions a…

With Father’s Day here, how does the world define masculinity and fatherhood, and how does God define them? What are the differences and where does the world get it wrong? Also, we’ll be taking some of your questions at the end. On this podcast, we are faith-affirming first. This means before anything else, we affirm and support the doctrine of Jes…

On today’s episode, how do we handle pride month, and why don’t we celebrate it? We’ll also be taking some of your questions at the end of the episode! On this podcast, we are faith-affirming first. This means before anything else, we affirm and support the doctrine of Jesus Christ as found in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. If you…

On today’s episode, how can we be kind and graceful when advocating for truth? And how can we do so while not watering down the truth? We’ll also be taking some of your questions at the end of the episode. On this podcast, we are faith-affirming first. This means before anything else, we affirm and support the doctrine of Jesus Christ as found in t…

On today’s episode, with the rise of transgenderism among teens, what worries us and what brings us hope? What do we know, what do we not know, and what clarity does the gospel and our Savior bring to this hard topic? Also, what is the most compassionate, gospel-centered approach to the issue? All that and more on today’s episode of Sit Down with S…

On today’s episode, we’ll be seeking to answer the question, “are mixed-orientation marriages for every gay church member?” We’ll also be covering a couple of talks from General Conference that have received backlash, and what we think of the backlash. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whate…

On our first episode as husband and wife, we give a brief overview of our progression as a couple—from dating to marriage—to give context for the rest of the episodes. We also tackle the question of identity. How does God define it? How does man define it? How can we align our self-perception with God’s Plan of Salvation? If you enjoyed this episod…

On today's episode, what leads LGBTQ teens to suicide, and how can we help? We look at this question through the lens of David Archuleta's recent announcement of leaving the church. Plus, stay tuned until the end for an exciting announcement about the future of the podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podca…

On today's episode, we recount mission experiences, including hard ones like Preston's sexual assault, and provide advice for new missionaries entering the field—gay or straight. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use. Buy Preston's book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B59H…

On today's episode, we're introducing a new opening segment. We also give our brief thoughts on General Conference, the changes to the FSY pamphlet, and what people are missing in regard to the changes. Plus, would God ever inspire you to break the commandments or a covenant? All that and more on today's episode of Sit Down with Sky and Preston. If…

On today's episode, we're reviewing President Oak's devotional from a couple of weeks ago. We'll discuss the importance of being unique by worldly standards. All that and more on today's episode of Sit Down with Sky and Preston. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use. Bu…

On today’s episode, what are common tactics of the adversary? And what can we learn about them from the BYU pamphlet controversy? Preston shares some insider info from a friend in the New Student Orientation BYU department. All that and more on today’s episode of Sit Down with Sky and Preston. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star r…

On today's episode, Preston and Sky are joined by their wives! We answer your questions about our relationships, dealing with opposition online, and how we've each cultivated a loving marriage centered around Christ. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use. Buy Preston's …

On today’s episode, how on earth are you supposed to raise kids surrounded by modern sexual morality? Also, a special announcement about next week’s episode. All that and more on today’s episode of Sit Down with Sky and Preston. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use. Bu…

On today’s episode, why do we use the term “gay” if we’re married to women? Also, we’ll discuss other common questions we're asked as gay Latter-day Saints. All that and more on this episode of Sit Down with Sky and Preston. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you use. Buy Pr…

On today’s episode, why should we prioritize our spirituality over our sexuality? Plus, what is compassion from a gospel perspective, and how is it sometimes misused? All that and more on this episode of Sit Down with Sky and Preston. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you u…

On his first mission in Asia, Preston experienced the unthinkable: he was sexually and emotionally abused by a companion. Returning home early, he dealt with clinical PTSD, depression, and was understandably bitter toward God. Preston wrote about his experience of healing through Christ's atonement in his new book, "This Boy and His Mother"—the tit…

Tired of being called a hateful bigot because of your religious beliefs? Feeling a little burnt out from Pride month? We are. Especially during times like Pride month, how can we get along with those who differ in our beliefs? Plus, how can we have arguments without being contentious? All that and more today on this episode of Sit Down with Sky and…

On today’s episode, what do we think about pride month? And why is the answer that we kind of hate it? Plus, how would “going against” our sexuality be in our best interest? And we’ll end by answering your questions. All that and more on today’s episode of Sit Down with Sky and Preston. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review o…

On today's episode, what are "cultural Saints", and how can we avoid being one? Also, what is the "Gospel of Niceness" they so often subscribe to, and what harm does it do to impressionable church members? Plus, we end with a short Q&A. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whatever platform you…

There's an increasingly prevalent narrative that LGBTQ have a pressing incentive to distance themselves from the church and its teachings. In this episode, we discuss the reasons we believe this assumption is ill-founded and ultimately damaging to LGBTQ people. Consider sharing this episode with someone you think would find it helpful. And be sure …

On today’s episode, what does the Family Proclamation say about gender roles? And how are those principles twisted in pop culture? Plus, we’ll end the episode answering questions submitted by listeners. All of that and more on this episode of Sit Down with Sky and Preston. Want to start your own podcast? Following the link below gets you a $20 Amaz…

On today’s episode, we give our brief thoughts on President Oak’s talk and go through common themes we noticed in General Conference. Also, what parallels do we see between ancient antichrists and ones today? And how can we recognize them in ideologies today? Want to start your own podcast? Following the link below gets you a $20 Amazon gift card i…

In today's episode, we explore what it means to be a "peculiar people". Spoiler: there are more than one definitions. We discuss some hard things we've been through and how we were able to get through them with Christ's help. Consider sharing this episode with someone you think would benefit from it. You can follow us on our social media pages here…

WE'RE BACK! And we're discussing how LGBTQ / LDS controversies affect us now, how they would've affected us growing up, and how they likely affect young, impressionable, LGBTQ members of the church today. Examples of these controversies would be David Archuleta's recent video about his desire to date men, LDS author and podcaster Charlie Bird's adm…

**LAST EPISODE BEOFRE HOLIDAY BREAK** As ubiquitous as pornography is, it's still often misunderstood. In this episode, we attempt to make sense of one of the most difficult and pervasive issues plaguing our culture. And we do it while still trying to have a little fun. We'll be back in Early Spring! Follow us on TikTok, Twitter, or Instagram, wher…

As a believing member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, what is the best approach to take if your child comes out to you? How can you balance the doctrinal truths of the gospel with your child's situation? How can you help your child navigate the complicating and contrasting messages of our society? Sky and Preston discuss these q…

Preston and Sky tackle the question as to whether or not they'll be "straight" in the next life and if it's even the right question to ask. They also discuss how to not overcomplicate the gospel and our honest questions. Consider sharing this episode with someone you think would find it helpful! https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky On this podcast, we …

How do you balance your political beliefs with gospel truths? What do you if your political beliefs don't align with the gospel? In this episode, we explore some answers to these questions. Consider sharing this episode with someone you think would benefit from it! https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky On this podcast, we are faith-affirming first. This…

Why is it so easy to sell your salvation for such inconsequential things? Sky and Preston discuss their favorite insights from October 2021 General Conference and major themes they noticed. Chief among them was the parallel from the Biblical story of Esau giving up his birthright for a "mess of pottage". Consider sharing this episode or following u…

Preston and Sky have heard many times that they aren't being their "authentic" selves, because they are gay and in relationships with women. What does our culture classify as "authentic", and should we prioritize, even at the expense of repenting? We discuss our experience finding our truly authentic selves through repentance and faith in Jesus Chr…

Would God ever give you personal revelation that goes contrary to His commandments? We certainly don't think so. Like many of you, we've noticed the rise of the "live your truth" crowd within the church who pushes the idea of a subjective, buffet-style approach to living the gospel. We're here to fight against that perversion of truth and advocate …

Is being offended a choice? Short answer--absolutely. Sky and Preston explore how we can choose not to be offended--especially by eternal truths--and what to do when we find ourselves with that choice. Please consider sharing this episode with someone who would benefit from it! https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky On this podcast, we are faith-affirmin…

Sky and Preston address what has been on everyone's mind: Elder Holland's talk at BYU's Leadership Conference and the reaction to it. Preston shares his personal interactions with Elder Holland, and we discuss more broadly what the overreaction to his message means for our culture and church. The talk Preston was mentioned in: https://www.churchofj…

Sky and Preston respond to the common claim that our beliefs, as members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, cause harm to young people and especially LGBTQ individuals. Please consider sharing this episode with someone who might find it helpful! https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky On this podcast, we are faith-affirming first. This me…

Richard Ostler (known broadly as "Papa Ostler" on social media) sits down with Sky to discuss his approach to help LGBTQ members of the church. They discuss their disagreements, their common ground, and criticism Richard has received from both sides of the debate. If you think this episode will resonate with someone you know, please consider sharin…

Sky and Preston tackle the age-old question: "Why are young people rejecting traditional religion and finding other 'religions' in media and pop culture?" They also discuss how we can help these young people in a positive, productive, and non-judgmental way. If you think this episode will resonate with someone you know, please consider sharing it w…

Katie Whitehead is a BYU pre-law student, active LDS member, politically liberal, and Skyler's sister-in-law. She sits down with Skyler--a gay, conservative LDS member--to discuss how they've been able to maintain a good relationship while disagreeing so fundamentally on political issues. They discuss their disagreements in politics, specifically t…

Sky and Preston dissect the increasingly popular idea that "you can't disagree with my life decisions and still love me." I'm sure we've all seen this idea growing in popularity, especially when applied to LGBTQ issues, e.g. "If you believe homosexuality is a sin, you're homophobic." We discuss the flawed nature of this idea and how we can fight ag…

In today's episode, Preston and Sky tackle the hot topic on LDS social media: can you disagree with the prophets and apostles and still claim to sustain them? Follow along with us at https://linktr.ee/Sitdownwithsky On this podcast, we are faith-affirming first. This means before anything else, we affirm and support the doctrine of Jesus Christ as …

Travis and Margaret Steward sit down with Skyler and Amanda to discuss how they've maintained their happy marriage throughout life and as Travis came to terms with being gay. They are parents to 6 children, and they served as Mission President in Houston, Texas from 2005–2008. If you'd like to reach out to them, you can email them at margaretstewar…

We sit down with lifelong Latter-day Saint, Preston Jenkins, as he shares how he has kept the gospel of Jesus Christ at the center of his life during his journey coming out as gay. He shares some experiences from serving a partial mission abroad, coming home, and serving the rest of his mission in the states. Stay tuned until the end for a special …