Best Steven Ing Podcasts (2024)

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Episode 41: Stuck in Relationship Inertia 1:00:20

6h ago1:00:20

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Today's episode was inspired by The New York Times Guest Essay by Hillary Kelly titled “Welcome to Stucktopia.” The essay opens by discussing some popular TV shows, such as Fallout, Severance, and Silo, and how these shows capture the way life feels right now, which is that we are stuck. We read through the essay and apply this idea of being "stuck…

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EP 21: Girl, I Ain't No Groupie! | Charles Manson and The Downtown Posse 1:20:25

2d ago1:20:25

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This episode brings a sinister twist to groupthink. What do you mean you and your friend band together to off people!? Girl, get a hobby! Think you know all about the "Manson Family"? Think again. And buckle up for Christmas in July with four teenagers who went on a killing spree to... deck the halls. Rude. Brandon wants to escape the heat so he's …

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Episode 40: How Verbal Abuse Destroys Relationships 1:04:08

9h ago1:04:08

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It's a fundamental thinking error to think that verbal abuse in relationships is normal. We all deserve to be treated with respect, courtesy, and dignity. Listen to today's episode to learn more! For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has been a Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty in forensic work. He is a contributing writer to Psychology …

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Episode 39: Boundaries Are Your Friend 54:52

20d ago54:52

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Learn how setting, defending, and acting on your boundaries empowers your life. For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has been a Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty in forensic work. He is a contributing writer to Psychology Today and the author of two books on sexuality: We're All Like This and Get Busy Living. He is the creator and host …

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Episode 38: How Withholding Stifles Intimacy 1:00:45

11d ago1:00:45

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When it comes to our fantasy about what marriage can be like, our fantasy is that we wouldn't have to keep things from our spouse at all. The question is “How can I make the relationship safe enough for my mate to be as honest as humanly possible.” For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has been a Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty in fore…

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Episode 37: The Sacred Bubble 47:56

20d ago47:56

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Understanding the Sacred Bubble allows you and your partner to form a sacred connection or bubble, where all of life's problems are outside of the bubble. This allows couples to resolve any conflicts in a safe, effective, and abuse-free manner, so they can get back to producing the only thing worth producing in a relationship: happiness. For over 3…

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Episode 36: Learning to Embrace Rejection 1:03:32

29d ago1:03:32

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We don't need a girlfriend or boyfriend; we need the RIGHT girlfriend or boyfriend. If someone rejects us, they are not the RIGHT girlfriend or boyfriend. None of us crave to be with someone who doesn't love us. Listen to learn more! For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has been a Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty in forensic work. He i…

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Episode 35: Integrating Spirituality and Sexuality 57:08

1M ago57:08

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Some people have sexuality in one compartment of their brain and spirituality in another compartment. Therefore, the two compartments never talk to each other. Integrating spirituality and sexuality, gets these two compartments talking to each other. Listen to today's episode to learn more. For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has been a Marriage an…

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Episode 34: Gender Roles in Relationships 1:00:03

1M ago1:00:03

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Today's episode discusses gender roles in relationships. It was inspired by the NBC News article "Some dating coaches online are pushing women to seek more traditional gender roles" by Angela Yang. For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has been a Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty in forensic work. He is a contributing writer to Psycholog…

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Episode 33: A Message from Alone 56:15

2M ago56:15

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Steve responds to a message from a person calling themselves "Alone." Note: the message was in response to Steve's Psychology Today article "How to Keep an Incel from Becoming a Sex Offender." For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has been a Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty in forensic work. He is a contributing writer to Psychology Tod…

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Episode 32: The Fallacy of "Love Conquers All" 1:00:15

2M ago1:00:15

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The belief that "love conquers all" is an unfortunate and harmful fallacy. We cannot love our partners into wellness; we cannot love our partners into sobriety; we cannot love our partners into no longer being emotionally, physically, or spiritually abusive. For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has been a Marriage and Family Therapist with a special…

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#111 | Aston Villa Join The Elite | Champions League Baby! #AVFC #AstonVilla 53:03

2M ago53:03

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Aston Villa have finally done it...Top 4 secured. The boys discuss how it happened, the reaction, the social media posts, the awards dinner outfits and what happens next Host: Omar Guests: AJ, Carl and Jaro X: https://twitter.com/villapodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thevillatalks/ Check out our previous episodes: https://podfhttps://po…

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Episode 31: What's Your Magic Sex Number? 1:07:35

2M ago1:07:35

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Your magic sex number is the ideal number of sexual encounters you require on a weekly basis to feel your best. Listen to learn more and how knowing your magic sex number can help you manage love intelligently. For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has been a Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty in forensic work. He is a contributing writer…

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Minisode EP 03: Homotown Murders | Splattered Pants and Splattered Walls | Steven Lorenzo 47:12

2M ago47:12

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Today's Homotown Murder was submitted by Julius Vaughn. Not only is he an avid Homocide listener and follower, he is also a friend of hosts Kevin and Brandon. His energy is addicting, and his storytelling - is on point, henny! In his Homotown murder, Julius tells the tale of sleazeball shitbag, Steven Lorenzo. Taking his fantasies to an extremely u…

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Episode 30: Can Men and Women Be Friends? 56:33

2M ago56:33

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Join us for an open discussion on whether men and women can be friends. For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has been a Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty in forensic work. He is a contributing writer to Psychology Today and the author of two books on sexuality: We're All Like This and Get Busy Living. He is the creator and host of the t…

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#110 | The Post Match Rant | Brighton Review | Olympiacos and Liverpool #avfc #astonvilla 1:03:00

2M ago1:03:00

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From the Stands of Villa Park - Hermoso Linked Hero and Villain of the week - Brighton and Olympiacos Dissected Vital Statistics - Can Villa overturn a 2 goal deficit? Can Villa secure Champions League football on Monday night against Liverpool? The Villa Vault - a look back, trivia style Host: Omar Guests: Sam and Alec X: https://twitter.com/villa…

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Episode 29: Why Authenticity Matters 1:00:43

3M ago1:00:43

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If you want real love, let your partner know who you really are and what you really think. For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has been a Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty in forensic work. He is a contributing writer to Psychology Today and the author of two books on sexuality: We're All Like This and Get Busy Living. He is the creato…

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EP 20: Are You Kid-ing Me!? | Daniel Bartlam and Mary Bell 1:09:54

3M ago1:09:54

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Leave the murdering to the adults, kids! God, these murderous children have no manners! Today is part two of kids who kill so BUCKLE UP. This episode will have you looking sideways at that creepy kid whose always making disturbing comments. Turns out, you actually can’t always chalk it up to a wild imagination. Brandon is taking us to England where…

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#109 The Post-Match Rant | Chelsea Review | Olympiacos and Brighton Preview #avfc 1:15:00

3M ago1:15:00

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The boys are back with the usual format: - Point gained or two lost? - Can we wrap up top 4 this week? - Olympiacos and Brighton Preview - The Villa Vault returns Host: Omar Guests: AJ and Carl X: https://twitter.com/villapodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thevillatalks/ Check out our previous episodes: https://podfhttps://podfollow.com/t…

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#108 | We've got our Villa Talks back #AVFC #AstonVilla 1:10:00

3M ago1:10:00

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We are back on a short term basis to a job ala Robbie Keane. Join us as we discuss what's changed since we were last on, the week that was and the run-in! Host: Omar Guests: AJ, Sam, Carl and Jaro X: https://twitter.com/villapodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thevillatalks/ Check out our previous episodes: https://podfhttps://podfollow.co…

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Episode 28: Why Steve Dislikes Online Dating 59:56

3M ago59:56

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If you dislike online dating as much as Steve and are interested in shifting your approach to meeting potential partners, this episode is for you. For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has been a Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty in forensic work. He is a contributing writer to Psychology Today and the author of two books on sexuality: W…

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Episode 27: Sexual Intimacy: If You Want to Have Better Sex, Listen Up 1:01:05

3M ago1:01:05

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The subject of "sexual intimacy" is so much bigger than just "doing it” with our partners. True sexual intimacy allows couples to safely share and express the full spectrum of their sexuality with one another. Listen to learn more. For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has been a Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty in forensic work. He is …

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Episode 26: 120 Days of Narcissistic Love 1:00:17

4M ago1:00:17

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The main idea behind "120 Days of Narcissistic Love" is that when you fall in love with a new lover, the things that you love about this person are the things you love about yourself. Tune in to learn more and how becoming aware of this phenomenon can help you manage love intelligently. For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has been a Marriage and Fa…

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EP 19. Open Water is Scary Enough | Richard Parker and Oba Chandler 1:36:13

3M ago1:36:13

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95% of our ocean is unexplored. If that doesn’t make you sh*t your pants a little… we don’t know what will! There are so many “lost at sea” tales out there. But, what is it actually like to be lost at sea? How desperate would you actually get? Well, today we’ve have a special guest, Hillary Burtnett, Kevin’s long time friend from his high school ye…

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Episode 25: How to Resolve Conflicts That Are Keeping Us Apart 1:06:32

4M ago1:06:32

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Learning how to resolve the conflicts that are keeping us apart is one of the best ways to develop intimacy. Conflict, after all, is an essential and inevitable part of every intimate relationship. In today's episode, you will learn how to engage in conflict in an intelligent, healthy, and abuse-free manner. For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has …

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EP 18: F*ck Satan, Eat a Banana | Christa Pike and Moises Meraz-Espinoza | Homocide True Crime Podcast 1:07:45

4M ago1:07:45

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Satanic Panic - a phrase you may have heard a few times in the past. From people like Richard Ramirez to the Son of Sam, satanic murders are nothing rare... unfortunately. Today's episode is about two lesser-known teen killers who were inspired by Satan and had one thing in common... the urge to participate in a human sacrifice. Ew. Also... Not tod…

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Episode 24: Divorce Is the Solution to a Problem 1:06:14

4M ago1:06:14

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If we're committed to “Managing Love Intelligently,” we have to be open to the possibility that (1) we might make mistakes and (2) intelligent people learn from their mistakes. One of the biggest mistakes we can make is in the area of mate selection, the most disastrous of which is marrying the wrong person. Thankfully, there's a remedy for marital…

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Episode 23: Is Porn an Intelligent Way to Manage Your Sexuality? 1:09:03

4M ago1:09:03

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Porn is not just one thing. For some, porn is a wonderful part of their bedroom activities; for others, porn brings up all types of body issues; and for others, it's distasteful and uncomfortable. Join us as we discuss porn from a variety of different angles and examine if it's an intelligent way to manage your sexuality. For over 30 years, Steven …

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EP 17: Welcome to Colorado | John Gilbert Graham and Alex Ewing | Homocide True Crime Podcast 1:21:45

4M ago1:21:45

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Welcome to Colorado! From the vastness of the Rocky Mountains to the 300 days of annual sunshine, and the diverse cities to some of the most fu*ked-up murderers, this state has something for everyone. With stories like JonBenét Ramsy, Columbine High School, Tedd Bundy, and the Aurora Theater shooting, Kevin and Brandon found two stories that are ju…

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Episode 22: The Epidemic of Lonely Men 1:09:15

5M ago1:09:15

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In 2023, the U.S. Surgeon General, Dr. Vivek Murthy, said America is suffering from an epidemic of loneliness, and that men are the number one demographic most affected by that loneliness. Steve explains why he agrees with the Surgeon General's assessment and offers some advice to remedy the situation. For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has been a…

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Episode 21: Acknowledging and Understanding Your Sexual Needs 59:19

5M ago59:19

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Ordinary human sexual needs are the one kind of human need our species hasn't learned how to discuss. Tune in to learn how acknowledging and understanding these needs can result in healthier choices for us all. For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has been a Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty in forensic work. He is a contributing writer…

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EP 16: Forgetaboutit - New York City Murders | Joel Rifkin and Paul Bateson | Homocide True Crime Podcast 1:44:16

4M ago1:44:16

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New York, New York, what a helluva town! From the buildings that seem to touch the skies to the majestic Statue of Liberty, New York is known for so much. One of our favorites - the murders! This week we take a deep dive into the 2nd part of our New York Murders with some chilling stories based right in the heart of the Big Apple. CONTENT WARNING: …

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Episode 20: Moving Beyond the Five Love Languages 57:31

5M ago57:31

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Steve explains why the five love languages are a vague and bygone notion. For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has been a Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty in forensic work. He is a contributing writer to Psychology Today and the author of two books on sexuality: We're All Like This and Get Busy Living. He is the creator and host of the…

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EP 15: The Serialist of Serial Killers | David Parker Ray and Ahmad Suradji | Homocide True Crime Podcast 1:23:56

5M ago1:23:56

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You actually only have to murder three people to be considered a serial killer. But today's killers? They're overachievers in the worst way possible. We're talking double-digit murders...😨 Kevin kicks us off by taking us to New Mexico... you know, The Land of Enchantment... or so they say. We've got a naked woman running through rural New Mexico, r…

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Episode 19: Building Equality Into Your Relationship 1:05:15

5M ago1:05:15

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Equality, for couples, means the end of loneliness. We have a partner of equal value in the relationship. And we each have a vital part to play and an opinion worth listening to. For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has been a Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty in forensic work. He is a contributing writer to Psychology Today and the aut…

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EP 14: California Murders | Marion Parker and Ashley Hall (Atherley) 1:18:42

5M ago1:18:42

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California girls ARE undeniable, fine, fresh, fierce, and they’ve got in on lock! But it seems like California men are a little bit (ahem... lottle bit) f$cked up. If you’ve been following us for a while, you’ve probably seen or heard Mardy in our recordings. She was the sweetest girl who loved to warm up our legs as we recorded. We had to put our …

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Episode 18: The Intentional Debriefing: Why Examining Expired Relationships Matters 1:04:52

6M ago1:04:52

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The Intentional Debriefing is an individual journey, where you look in the mirror, examine what went wrong in your last relationship, and learn everything you need to learn in order to move on and avoid making the same mistakes in the future. For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has been a Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty in forensic w…

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Episode 17: Monogamy and Polyamory 1:07:31

6M ago1:07:31

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Steve and Jason have an unbiased conversation about monogamy and polyamory. For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has been a Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty in forensic work. He is a contributing writer to Psychology Today and the author of two books on sexuality: We're All Like This and Get Busy Living. He is the creator and host of t…

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Episode 16: 30 Dates 1:07:19

6M ago1:07:19

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Steve explains why he believes people should go on at least 30 dates prior to settling down. For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has been a Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty in forensic work. He is a contributing writer to Psychology Today and the author of two books on sexuality: We're All Like This and Get Busy Living. He is the crea…

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EP 13: Avoid Murder, Just Dump His Ass | Lavetta Langdon & Sarah Gonzales-McLinn 1:44:12

6M ago1:44:12

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We're diggin' in real deep this episode with special guest, and TikTok's favorite online bestie, Luke Franchina! After some much needed fabulous gay banter, Kevin, Brandon and Luke dive deep into the stories of two women who took control of their destiny, after experiencing years of torture, manipulation, control, and abuse. Did they do the right t…

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Something About Sleep Part 2 45:00

6M ago45:00

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Most living creatures sleep. It’s natures way of saying it’s time to chill. But perhaps no other species beyond humans think about it so much. And study it. Ok, maybe not all. Most of us take it for granted. Until that night we’re tossing and turning and our minds won’t shut off. That’s when we turn to experts like Dr. Michael Grandner as Lifeslice…

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Episode 15: What Sex Offenders Can Teach Us 1:07:21

6M ago1:07:21

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Steve debunks some of the myths surrounding sex offenders and explains what they can teach us about managing our sexuality intelligently. For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has been a Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty in forensic work. He is a contributing writer to Psychology Today and the author of two books on sexuality: We're All …

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EP 12: Bizarre Murder Weapons | Christina Eubanks & Reginald Hemsley-Doddingdale 1:09:29

6M ago1:09:29

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One thing we know about murder is that people will work with what they’ve got! It’s not all guns and knives, sometimes seemingly harmless everyday objects can be turned into a murder weapon. But unconventional weapons does add a layer of mystery and confusion to a case. And in some cases, inevitable puns and jokester headlines. But it’s not all shi…

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Lifeslices: What's in Store for Tech 2024 30:34

6M ago30:34

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Technology. Love it or hate it, it’s here to stay. And evolve. Each year, creators, sellers and buyers gather in Las Vegas to share what’s new, what’s better and what’s different at the Consumer Electronics Show or CES. Return guest Marc Saltzman covers the tech industry and chats with host Steve Fisher about What's in Store for 2024.…

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Episode 14: Marriage: What's the Rush? 1:09:31

7M ago1:09:31

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Steve talks marriage and examines the benefits of slowing down, becoming more intentional, and learning more about your partner prior to tying the knot. For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has been a Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty in forensic work. He is a contributing writer to Psychology Today and the author of two books on sexual…

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EP 11: Marsha P. Johnson and Rita Hester | Black Trans Lives Matter, Homocide True Crime Podcast 1:27:40

6M ago1:27:40

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According to Human Rights Watch, black trans women are at heightened risk of violence at the hands of strangers, partners, family members, and law enforcement. From 2016 to 2021, at least 88% of the transgender people killed in Florida, 91% in Ohio, and 90% in Texas, were all people of color. Today's episode is a bit more serious and is one we trul…

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Something About Sleep 31:30

7M ago31:30

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Sleep. As humans, we know we need it and we know that when we don’t get enough, it can affect us all day long, if not longer. But what do we really know about it? What happens to our bodies and brains when we sleep, perchance to dream. Thankfully, there are scientists around the world studying all the things about it the rest of us don’t even think…

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Minisode EP 02: Homotown Murders | Not All Vegans Are Bad, But This One Was A Real Piece Of Shit 54:17

6M ago54:17

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Today's Homotown Murder was submitted by Maddie, a listener from Colorado, who also happens to be one of our BEST FRIENDS! We love her. A lot. You will too! This is the story of Anthony Milan Ross, a shit*y vegan who murdered his wife and two kids in cold blood. And, although these murders happened in Phoenix, Arizona, this story hit way too close …

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Episode 13: The Abuse-Free Life 1:06:39

7M ago1:06:39

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The Abuse-Free Life is a powerful tool that can positively transform your relationships and your life. Listen to learn more and start living an Abuse-Free Life today! For over 30 years, Steven Ing, MFT, has been a Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialty in forensic work. He is a contributing writer to Psychology Today and the author of two b…

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EP 10: Hey Kid, Stay Away! | Homocide True Crime Podcast 1:01:05

6M ago1:01:05

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Children shouldn’t kill people. It just feels like it breaks the laws of the Universe, right!? Not that adults should kill people either…but you know what I mean! Today’s episode is focused on children who kill and it’s spine chilling to say the least. Because let’s be real, a child with a knife is giving Chucky. We've got one kid who has a weird t…

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