Breakups. Makeups. Self blaming and body shaming. The power of She. Race. Childhood traumas. Spirituality and understanding yourself. This is the podcast where shit gets real and sometimes real uncomfortable. We hope to challenge ourselves, each other and YOU, through these conversations. We are grateful you are here. If there are any comments, concerns or conversations that you'd like for us to have, don't hesitate to reach out at thisshitjustgotrealpodcast@gmail.com PLEASE rate and review ...
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This is The Rojak Show, the podcast about everything but well, nothing at all. Every week, hosts Dinie and Noah from Singapore shoot the breeze about things that interest them, news that bothers them, or anything that pissed them off. Warning: Heavy use of Singlish! If you don't know what that is, Google it. Enjoy the show!
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Check-In Chicken Dinner: Prioritizing Self-Care, Reflection, and Mental Well-being
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Welcome back!! In today's episode, Check in Chicken Dinner, your hosts Alina Gutierrez and Taylor Dini dive deep into the power of words and affirmations. They discuss the delicate balance between sincere compliments and excessive praise, sharing their personal preferences when it comes to receiving validation. Vulnerability and the importance of f…
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From Anti-Dependency to our Soft Girl Era: Redefining our Relationship Mindsets
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Welcome back to another captivating episode of "Shit Just Got Real". Hosts Alina Gutierrez and Taylor Dini dive into the intricacies of embracing a new mindset in relationships, the soft girl era. Get ready for an enlightening conversation as they share recent experiences and offer valuable insights on self-reflection, vulnerability, and the import…
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Embracing Empathy: Recognizing the Humanity in Others Despite Our Differences
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Welcome back to another episode of Shit Just Got Real. In this episode, hosts Alina Gutierrez and Taylor Dini delve deep into the essential topic of our shared humanity. With thought-provoking conversations and personal reflections, they remind us all of the importance of empathy, understanding, and kindness in our interactions with others. As they…
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Overcoming Imposter Syndrome, Perfectionism, and Letting Go of Control
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Hi everyone! Taylor and Alina here, bringing you another episode of Shit Just Got Real. We know it's been a while, and trust us, we feel your abandonment fears (we’re annoyed with our own bulls*** too), but we're back and ready to dive deep into why we took a hiatus from the podcast. In this episode, we tackle the reasons behind our big break. From…
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Let's Talk About Love... (you want it but are you ready?)
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Happy Valentine's Day!!!! The Shit Just Got Real team loves love. We root for it, we crave it, we embrace it, sometimes we even fear it...How do I know when that someone is THE one? How do I know if I really am ready for love? How the heck do I even get started? This week's episode we cover all things love. Past relationships, successes, failures, …
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Setting Friendship Boundaries for your Mental Health
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Ever felt like the weight of your friendships was all on you? When does your friends seeking advice turn into constant complaining? Has setting boundaries made you feel like a "bad friend"? We've been there guys - Alina is currently going through it actually! Listen to us talk about the mental toll it can take when you forget to put yourself and yo…
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Welcome the heck back to season 3 of SHIT JUST GOT REAL!!! Join hosts Alina and Taylor for another wild season, where life gets real and shit gets even realer. If you've been here before (love that), you've probably noticed our near year hiatus. It means the world to us to see you all back and listening! In our first episode back, we tackle a rolle…
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WOW, 2021. As we kick off the new year a SPIRAL of reflections come rushing in on all that has happened over the last year. We are thrilled to be back in 2022 with our nonsense turned up!!! This week's episode we really dive into reflecting on our last 365 days as we begin navigating the blueprint we've created for the next year. We identify the ex…
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Self-Sabotage. Why is it hard for us to believe we're deserving in our pursuit of happiness?
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"Who do I think I am to pursue this opportunity?" "This is too good to be true" These thoughts have one thing in common, they're a form of how we self-sabotage while on our journey towards happiness. In this week's episode, we talk about the many ways that self-sabotage shows up in our minds + lives. The fear of failure, procrastination, and feelin…
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Do you know what it truly means to forgive? In this episode, we're talking about all things forgiveness. Listen to us chat about how forgiveness is ultimately for your own peace of mind, understanding that "hurt people, hurt people", learning to move gently with yourself + others during turbulent situations, and some of Alinas most recent experienc…
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Thanksgiving Past, Present and Future?...
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Welcome back to Shit Just Got Real! In this week's episode we discuss all that we a grateful for (and not so grateful for), holiday traditions, uncomfortable conversations and even more uncomfortable family members, relationships during the holidays, and MORE. We love hearing from you! XO A + T @alinaa.gutierrez @taylordini @shitjustgotrealpodcast …
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YOU GUYS!!!! We miss you. Shit Just Got Real is back! We are navigating a new season of growth (along with a bunch of other sh*t) and we are bringing you along for the ride. We are kicking off this new series, a new episode, and a major reset on 11.11; and it is fitting. Our goal is to resonate and engage with all of you whom are listening and we r…
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We're back with an episode on us women & how we make our first move or don't in some cases! Listen to our personal experiences as of late as well as tips on how to be okay with the possibility of rejection because if we're being realistic, we won't always make 100% of the shots we take. BUT we'll never know unless we try it in the first place. We a…
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Cultivating Confidence. Financial Literacy. Getting that Money!
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Financial literacy is the ability to understand and use various financial skills, including personal financial management, budgeting, and investing. Welcome back to Shit's Just Got Real. This week we are talking about that MONEYYY!! Why is that we get so uncomfortable with this subject? This episode dives into our first hand experiences navigating …
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Why does that one thing I thought I wanted not fulfill me?
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Hi yaaa'll ! We're back this week for an episode on Happiness! You know when you really really want something and then you get it, but it doesn't fulfill you the way you thought it would? That's what we're talking about. One of us just went through this so we're dissecting how it all went down and what the next steps are! Listen to us chat about ti…
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Nobody told us breaking up with a friend would be easy but sis, it can be worth it + necessary. In this week's episode, we cover friendship breakups, our personal experiences, and how to navigate them. Some people come into your life for a limited time or even for a lesson. Your gut will let you know when it's time to let that shit go. Take a liste…
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Welcome to Our Quarter Life Crisis: Accept. Regroup. Center. Navigate.
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Shit Just Got Real is back! We appreciate all of the continued support thus far. For those who reached out about where we were, it meant the world. This podcast is a home for us to express our thoughts, feelings and experiences and I guess you could say we were going through a bit of a quarter life crisis? Yea..we will talk about that. This week's …
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Mental Health. The Pain. The Process. The Recovery. The Growth.
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Welcome back to SHIT JUST GOT REAL! Exiting Mental Health week we wanted to dive deeper into what mental health means to us. We cover our experiences both personally and with loved ones; and how we have dealt/are dealing with these struggles. This week's episode aims to normalize the conversations surrounding mental health. Check on your loved ones…
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The journey to self discovery is not always achieved the moment we look to understand ourselves more. Rome wasn't built in a day. We decided to prioritize this topic this week because we've realized just how many women do not not know their own bodies; What does your vagina (vulva*) look like? Where is the anatomy of it located? What makes you feel…
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Spring Cleaning AKA Sweeping the B.S. out of Our Lives
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We're back with an episode on Spring cleaning! No, we don't mean the literal form, more of the sweeping away negative relationships, saying adios to bad habits, and making room for all of the good to enter our lives type of Spring cleaning! TIPS ON: Journaling Dropping bad habits Letting go Planning ahead Practicing more Gratitude Building more pos…
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HELLO! And welcome back. If you are new here, this is where shit gets real and lucky for you, this week's episode is all about getting to know your hosts better! We talk all things childhood, our personal stories, what inspired to us to start this podcast AND we close it out with 73 rapid fire questions (we suck at rapid fire). Our last few episode…
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This men protecting men shit just got real. We have been trained at a young age to disregard the actions of men... we've heard it all before “boys will be boys” "oh, he pushed you because he likes you, sweetie" IM SORRY, WHAT!? In this episode, we discuss the uproar of recent events and how they were handled (or mishandled). We discuss how we are w…
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Getting to Know Yourself through Your Birthchart
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YES, in this week's episode we're talking about our birth charts! Not sure what a birth chart is but you read your daily horoscope (LOL, stop that sis)! Get to know us through our zodiac signs, birth charts, and allow us to break down what astrology really is + what it can do to guide you & how you should actually be using these tools! Apps mention…
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What you guys wanted? A drunk podcast... What did we give you? A drunk podcast... Shit most DEFINITELY gets real (or hits the fan...not sure yet) in this week's episode. Join in the conversation! Listen to us talk all things savage love, relationship respect (or lack there of), the BREAK UP, familial trials and tribulations + so much more. We have …
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Listen to us have a conversation about the modern-day damsel in distress. We chat about our own experiences with it, the infamous "bottle rats" YES we went there! Plus we dig deep into how both men and women are responsible for keeping that cycle going and even touch on how Disney has brainwashed us, women, to think that we need some kind of prince…
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We're back with an episode on the pressure to settle down! We've all heard it before, "oh you're single...Well, that's okay!" WE KNOW IT'S OKAY BECKY. Listen to us talk about different factors that go into feeling the pressure, how gender roles have personally influenced us to either stick it to the man or maybe get sucked in a little. Plus we're g…
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Childhood Trauma and Bodyshaming go Hand in Hand
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"You're too skinny" "You look like you've gained some weight" "women shouldn't be so muscular" "WHAT ARE THOOOSEEEE" *Points at stretchmarks Yeah, we've heard it all! From moms who are body shamed by other moms, to little girls who are instilled with hurtful comments at a young age by their family members (generational trauma, yes that's a thing!) …
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Hi everyone! We're Taylor & Alina, your hosts for our brand-spankin' new baby, THE Shit Just Got Real Podcast! This is just a quick little intro on who we are and what topics you can expect on the show! We're really glad you're here & if there are any conversations that you'd like for us to have, don't hesitate to reach out to us at thisshitjustgot…
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EP 21 (Part 2) - Catching up, USS & The Frantic Man
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The guys are back for Episode 21 (part 2)! Anders and Dinie continues catching up on their time apart. Dinie shares his trip to USS with his family while Anders can't stop talking about New Zealand. Anders also had a memorable flight with an eccentric man. All these and more on the latest episode of The Rojak Show! Find us on social media @therojak…
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EP 21 (Part 1) - Travel stories, Best Man speech & The Hike of his life
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The guys are back for Episode 21 (part 1)! Anders and Dinie catch up on everything that happened since the last episode. Stories from Dinie's trip to Melbourne and Anders's adventures in New Zealand. Dinie finally gave his speech at his best friend's wedding and got emotional. All these and more on the latest episode of The Rojak Show! Find us on s…
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EP 20 - Taylor-Scooter, Photo Scam & the Vainpot
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The guys are back for Episode 20! Anders and Dinie discuss the Taylor Swift incident involving Scooter Braun. The pair moved on to another incident involving Anders, where he almost got tempted into a scam. Dinie interrogates on Anders's past due to a recent photo. All these and more on the latest episode of The Rojak Show! Find us on social media …
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EP 19 - 'Depression', Working Hard & Papa Mckinnon
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The guys are back for Episode 19! Anders just got out of a pretty dark period of his life and shared his thoughts. Dinie chimed in with his experience before a discussion of whether there's a reason to work hard at all. On a lighter note, Dinie talks about parenthood before Anders shares his latest Youtube addiction. All these and more on the lates…
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EP 18 - Ramadan, Fake News Bill & Champions League
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The guys are back for Episode 18! Anders finds out how Dinie is doing for Ramadan before the pair talks about the Geylang Serai Bazaar. They go on to discuss the 'Fake News Bill' that has been passed in Singapore. Lastly, some Champions League talk about the most epic semi-finals and of course, Game of Thrones. All these and more on the latest epis…
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The guys are back for Episode 17! Anders shares about his recent trip to Taiwan! It is also Avengers week! No worries, no spoilers here! Anders & Dinie discusses their predictions for the movie and thoughts of the whole franchise. The pair goes on to the local news of the week surrounding the Monica Baey incident before having a look at the Sri Lan…
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EP 16 - WWE, Inspiration & a Non-Chinese PM
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The guys are back for Episode 16! Anders & Dinie are doing some shopping during the episode! A discussion between the two on the claims made by Minister Heng Swee Keat regarding a non-chinese Prime Minister in Singapore. The pair also talks about WWE after John Oliver mentioned it recently, before diving into the topic of inspiration. All these and…
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EP 15 - Haze, Kampung Living & Christchurch Attack
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The guys are back for Episode 15! Anders & Dinie are coughing because of the haze, but still powering through! A lot of talk about dumping as the pair shares their morning routines. They went on to talk about their liking for smaller towns aka 'Kampung Living', before a deep dive into the terrible news that came out of Christchurch, New Zealand. Fi…
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EP 14 - Watain, Shark's fin & the Pineapple with legs
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The guys are back for Episode 14! Anders & Dinie talks about the Watain show in Singapore being cancelled hours before the show. A fan also gave his thoughts on the situation. Dinie loses his wallet on his way to a wedding, Creative & more on this new episode! Find us on social media @therojakshow and join in the conversation with #TheRojakShow…
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EP 13 - Chinese New Year, Racism & Liam Neeson
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The guys are back for Episode 13! Anders & Dinie caught up on how they spent their time during the Chinese New Year before discussing the Liam Neeson case. The boys also debut a bedtime story segment, which is definitely going to make you laugh or turn the show off. Reservist, Dinie's best man speech & more on this new episode! Find us on social me…
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Call it the new season or a reboot, but after a 6 months hiatus, Anders & Dinie are finally back! Major events have happened over the course of the past few months and the boys get down to catching up on everything. From their new homes to what they're watching on Netflix. All these and more on this episode! Find us on most social media @therojaksh…
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EP 11 - Ben Davies, Durians & Differences
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The guys are back for Episode 11! Anders is overjoyed after he heard the news about Sir Alex Ferguson and speaking of football, the duo discussed the Ben Davies situation. They also cover the Singhealth security breach, pet peeves and even Durians! Lastly, a deep dive into what the pair thinks about 'differences'. All these and more on this episode…
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EP 10 - Bathroom Talks, Happiness & the Thai Cave Rescue
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The guys are back for Episode 10! This time, Dinie's the one with the pet peeve! And for no reason at all, they started talking about bathroom habits and routines. Discussion on finding inspiration, the education system and a deeper dive into what happiness really is. The duo also goes through the Thai Cave Rescue, which has swept the region emotio…
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EP 9 - Triad Skate, The Stranger & Getting Egged
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The guys are back for Episode 9 and this time, they are not alone! Suwaidi, co-founder of Triad Skate Shop joins Anders and Dinie in the first ever interview on the show! Don't expect your typical interview though! Dinie meets a stranger who gave him life advice and shares some with us! South Korean players getting egged on return from World Cup, d…
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EP 8 - World Cup, Giraffe hunters & hung up on the past
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The duo from Singapore is back for Episode 8! World Cup fever is ON! Anders is feeling the fatigue from the lack of sleep, as he gives a quick review of the first week of the World Cup. He goes on to rant about trophy animal hunters and Dinie talks God of War! Lastly, an intimate discussion on being hung up on the past in this week's Kambing Soup f…
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EP 7 - #TrumpKimSummit, Depression & Miss USA Pageant!
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The duo from Singapore is back for Episode 7! Just two days since the Trump Kim Summit, Dinie and Anders talk about the major world event that took place right in their hometown! It's also the last week of the fasting month, as we learn more about the cultures and traditions behind Ramadan. The pair discusses the news surrounding Miss USA Pageant a…
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EP 6 - Fasting, Tasmania & Emilia Clarke!?
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The duo from Singapore is back for Episode 6! Ramadan has started and we learn more about fasting from Dinie, who just came back from a trip to Tasmania. Malaysia has a new PM while Singapore has a 'new' NDP song! All this and more on this new episode! Join in the conversation with #TheRojakShow
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EP 5 - Robots, Work Life Balance & Kambing Soup
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The duo from Singapore is back for Episode 5! Crispy Rendang, e-Scooters (again) and a live request for a topic! Dinie is excited about his upcoming trip while Anders shares what he learnt recently about work life balance. Also, the weekly "deep dive" segments is now officially named "Kambing Soup for the Soul"! This time, they go from AI & Robots …
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EP 4 - Puppy Love, Halal Subway & being a good person
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The duo from Singapore is back! After a couple of weeks of hassles and horsecrap, the duo shares about their secret projects and how they work creatively. It quickly strays into everyday topics like the Grab monopoly and Subway becoming Halal! Brief chat about childhood love stories with a tinge of bitterness. As usual, the duo goes on a deep dive …
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EP 3 - Vietnam, Being happy at work & Flag the Bus!!
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The duo from Singapore is back after a week of absence! Dinie talks about his work trip to Vietnam before the two jumps into the weekly pet peeves. This time, it's about the Straits Times paywall and people who don't flag the buses! A serious discussion on how a job should serve our lives and not the other way round. All these and more in this week…
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EP 2 - Stereotypes, ‘Crazy’ stories & $12 million!
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The duo from Singapore are back with Episode 2 of The Rojak Show! Dinie shares some 'crazy' stories about his school days in Melbourne that involves 'Speed'?! The duo talks about the recent news on Masterchef Singapore, the $12million lottery and stereotypes! The show also takes a serious turn as Anders and Dinie discuss how much we really need to …
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In the first episode of The Rojak Show, Dinie & Anders shoot the breeze on the week they had, and goes off on current issues such as the Eden Ang scandal and traffic accidents that should not have happened. The duo also discuss their pet peeves such as time-wasting meetings and fast-travelling e-scooters! Come share the angst or just kick back and …
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