In this episode, we speak with special guest Hope Ray on the dynamics of power and control in relationships affected by addiction and betrayal. We discuss how withholding essential information creates a power imbalance and restricts a partner's agency, ultimately leading to exploitation and harm. The conversation emphasizes the importance of transp…

In this episode of Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships, we discuss the topic of dating for partners after a relationship ends. We explore the challenges faced by partners when relationships don't work out, emphasizing the lack of conversation and support for those navigating life after a breakup or divorce.…

In this discussion, we delve into offering guidance for betrayed partners re-entering the dating scene post-recovery. We emphasize the importance of building a supportive social network before diving into dating. Self-exploration and identity formation are key steps to feeling confident and secure before seeking new relationships. Instead of viewin…

In this discussion, we explore the challenges of readiness and intimacy for betrayed partners entering the dating scene post-recovery. We challenge the cultural pressure to rush into sexual encounters and advocate for a more deliberate approach to building emotional connections. By reframing the question to focus on compatibility and emotional safe…

In this heartfelt discussion, we delve into the challenges partners face when deciding to end a relationship affected by addiction and trauma. We explore the complex emotions of sadness, relief, fear, and excitement that accompany this decision, highlighting the importance of acknowledging and processing grief and loss. The conversation emphasizes …

Today, we're discussing the impact of sexual betrayal on families and children, a vital but often overlooked topic. We're excited to have Casey Allison, a certified partner coach, who has created a unique children's book addressing this issue. Her book provides age-appropriate explanations about betrayal and recovery, featuring beautiful illustrati…

In this insightful discussion, we explore the nuanced dynamics of trauma within relationships affected by addiction. We consider the possibility that partners' behaviors, both before and after discovery, can contribute to the addict's experience of trauma. By examining the interplay between autonomy, codependency, and unconscious coping mechanisms,…

In this thought-provoking discussion, we delve into the concept of abandonment wounds in relationships affected by addiction. We explore the idea that partners' actions, such as focusing on personal goals or life changes, may inadvertently exacerbate these wounds, potentially contributing to addictive behaviors in the addict.…

In this discussion, we explore whether partners enable addictive behaviors in relationships affected by addiction. We note that while some partners may engage in behaviors to stay connected to the addict, we hesitate to label it as enabling. Our conversation highlights the complexity of addressing both addiction and underlying issues in therapy, em…

In this episode of Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships, we discuss seeking treatment for sex addiction and betrayal trauma with Dr. Rob Weiss. We will breakdown his insights on when to seek treatment, different treatment centers, and affordability.By Timzi9

In this episode of Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships, we delve into the topic of healthy masturbation. We explore the nuances of what constitutes healthy self-pleasuring versus addictive behaviors within the context of addiction recovery and relationships. Our discussion navigates various perspectives, including the role of masturb…

Join us as we dive into the topic of healthy masturbation and what it means in the context of sexuality and addiction recovery. We want to emphasize the importance of changing one's relationship with masturbation rather than simply stopping the behavior altogether.By Timzi9

We want to tackle the sensitive topic of healthy masturbation within the context of relationships affected by betrayal and addiction. Listen to our quick conversation to address the concerns and fears partners may have about their addicted spouse considering a new approach to masturbation. Our conversation delves into the complexity of individual s…

In the episode, we discuss the answers you sent in for your mailbag questions. You all asked: Could a sexless long term marriage be a reason for sex addiction? Is it possible to enable the sex addicts behavior? What's the best role a partner can take towards the addicted spouse?By Timzi9

Join us for a deep dive into the complexities of change within relationships impacted by betrayal and addiction. In this thought-provoking discussion, our panel delves into the intricacies of transformation, highlighting the pivotal role of discomfort in catalyzing meaningful shifts.By Timzi9

Join us for a thought-provoking discussion as we delve into the complex interplay between sexlessness and sex addiction within marriages. In this candid conversation, our panelists offer insights and perspectives on whether a sexless long-term marriage could be a reason for sex addiction.By Timzi9

Today, we're thrilled to welcome authors Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith, to discuss their book 'Building True Intimacy'. Let's explore the layers of trust, vulnerability, and connection that form the foundation of lasting relationships.By Timzi9

Join us in today's Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships as we dive into the intriguing topic of secrets. Wendy Conquest, Tim Stein, and Dan Drake explore the nuances between secrets and lying, discussing the impact on individuals and relationships. Are secrets rooted in shame, or can they sometimes be necessary boundaries?…

Have you ever wondered about the correlation between relationship investment and the tolerance partners have for waiting during the recovery process? In this insightful discussion, our expert delves into the complex dynamics of trust, trauma, and the role they play in addiction recovery. Join us as we explore real-life scenarios and hear from indiv…

In this episode, we are speaking on secrets. Navigating secrets and boundaries is tricky. Some are about managing stigma, others about respecting boundaries. It's crucial to distinguish between rigorous and brutal honesty. What are your thoughts on this delicate balance?By Timzi9

In this episode, we are speaking with the brilliant Michelle Mays, a seasoned expert in sex addiction, trauma, and relationships. Her new book, "The Betrayal Bind," is a must-read! Tune in as we dive into various topics, including Michelle's coaching program, her impactful work in the field, and the complexities of betrayal trauma.…

In the episode, we discuss when there is betrayal trauma in sex addiction relationships and feature guests Allan Katz & Michelle Saffier, who wrote the book "Ambushed by Betrayal."By Timzi9

In the episode, we discuss when sex addicts or partner of a sex addict decide to end a relationship and what are their next steps including the right time to open up about sex addiction, recovery, etc.By Timzi9

This is a clip from the Conversations Episode Opening Up About Sex Addiction To A Potential Partner, coming soon. We discuss when is the right time to tell a potential partner that you are a sex addict.By Timzi9

This is a clip from the Conversations Episode Opening Up About Sex Addiction To A Potential Partner, coming soon. We discuss when is the right time to start dating as a sex addict.By Timzi9

In the episode, we discuss the answers you sent in for your mailbag questions. You all asked: Can you gaslight your partner? Is sex addiction curable? How do I struggle to say that a relationship is over?By Timzi9

This is a clip from the Conversations Episode You Asked & We Answered, coming soon. We discussed the questions that you sent in via our mailbag.By Timzi9

This is a clip from the Conversations Episode You Asked & We Answered, coming soon. We discussed the questions that you sent in via our mailbag.By Timzi9

In the episode, we discuss how addicts with their partners can change dynamics of their relationships with couples therapy. Couples therapy can bridge the gap between addicts and their partners.By Timzi9

In the episode, we discuss how addicts can handle their emotions during their recovery stage and what does mindfulness look like from an emotional, physical and mental standpoint.By Timzi9

In the episode, we discuss what our listeners are interested in hearing from our podcast and questions sent in via our mailbag.By Timzi9

This is a clip from the Conversations Episode Conversations: What Is Eroticized Rage? coming soon. We discuss how we define eroticized rage.By Timzi9

In the episode, we discuss what our listeners are interested in hearing from our podcast and questions sent in via our mailbag.By Timzi9

This is a clip from the Conversations Episode Questions Everyone Wants Answered, coming soon. We discuss what the difference is between a sex addict in recovery and a sex addict that is white-knuckling.By Timzi9

This is a clip from the Conversations Episode Questions Everyone Wants Answered, coming soon. We discuss what the difference is between a sex addict and a sexually active person.By Timzi9

In the episode, we discuss how addicts can deal with forgiveness when they are going through recovery and what partners may notice during their addict's journey.By Timzi9

This is a clip from the Conversations Episode Conversations: How Does Forgiveness Play Into The Addicts Journey, coming soon. We discuss why how addicts process forgiveness and what does it mean at different stages of recovery.By Timzi9

This is a clip from the Conversations Episode Conversations: How Does Forgiveness Play Into The Addicts Journey, coming soon. We discuss why addicts ask for forgiveness and what does it mean at different stages of recovery.By Timzi9

In the episode, we discuss how addicts can handle their emotions during their recovery stage and what does mindfulness look like from an emotional, physical and mental standpoint.By Timzi9

This is a clip from the Conversations Episode Mindfulness, coming soon. We discuss what mindfulness is and how sex addicts can benefit from being present with their emotions during their recovery.By Timzi9

This is a clip from the Conversations Episode Mindfulness, coming soon. We discuss what mindfulness is and how sex addicts can benefit from mindfulness during their recovery.By Timzi9

In the episode, we discuss what abstinence is, what occurs during abstinence, and how sex addicts view abstinence during their recovery.By Timzi9

This is a clip from the Conversations Episode Sex Addicts & Abstinence, coming soon. We discuss what abstinence is, what occurs during abstinence, and how sex addicts view abstinence during their recovery.By Timzi9

This is a clip from the Conversations Episode Sex Addicts & Abstinence, coming soon. We discuss what abstinence is, what occurs during abstinence, and how sex addicts view abstinence during their recovery.By Timzi9

In the episode, we discuss the behaviors, personality traits, and more of sex addicts. We will break down what recovery can look like from multiple angles of someone with sex addiction as well as recommend books that can help understand what sex addicts are going through.By Timzi9

This is a clip from the Conversations Episode Behaviors Of Sex Addicts, coming soon. We discuss what personality traits sex addicts have and books that can help understand what sex addicts are going through.By Timzi9

This is a clip from the Conversations Episode Behaviors Of Sex Addicts, coming soon. We discuss what personality traits sex addicts have and books that can help understand what sex addicts are going through.By Timzi9

In the episode, we discuss how partners can deal with forgiveness when they have partners that have a sex addiction and our thoughts on what forgiveness looks like from both sides.By Timzi9

This is a clip from the Conversations Episode Forgiveness coming soon. We discuss how we handle forgiveness in different situations.By Timzi9

This is a clip from the Conversations Episode Forgiveness coming soon. We discuss how what forgiveness means to us and what that might look like with different experiences.By Timzi9