The Family Captain podcast

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How do you lead your wife when she doesn't even know how to follow or submit to your leadership? First, hold up, gentlemen... Everything starts with you and your self-leadership. So, don't think we're here to blame your wife. But... This is a common thing we see in marriages, and we're here to unpack it and help you lead, even if she doesn't know how to follow. 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ --- In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 2:44 Your Wife's Flesh Naturally Opposes Being Led 6:34 How Our Upbringing Impacts Our Marriage Dynamics 11:05 If You Think Marriage is 50/50... 19:00 Giving Your Wife Veto Power 24:42 Domineering and Passivity 30:53 How To Respond If Your Wife Says, "You Hurt My Feelings" 39:51 Reclaiming Your Leadership --- 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.…

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How to Handle In Laws, Parents, Boundaries & Biblical Unity for Christian Husbands 55:51

10 days ago55:51

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This episode is all about how a family leader should navigate in-law dynamics. Whether you're being a nice guy and siding with your mom, or your wife is venting to her parents about things in your marriage, we cover a wide range of common in-law issues and how a godly, mature, masculine husband should deal with them in order to build a deeply satisfying marriage. Remember, it's you and your wife vs. the world...EVEN if that means your parents and in laws are on "the world" side. 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ --- In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 1:40 HUGE Win From A Brother 3:03 What Leaving and Cleaving Actually Means 6:09 If Your Wife Is Still More Connected With Her Parents 14:18 The Damage Of Sharing Spousal Grievances With Your Parents 19:50 How To Lead Your Wife Into No Longer Venting To Her Parents 27:27 The Phrase Every Couple Should Agree On 32:26 Defending Your Wife From Your Own Parents 39:12 How To Build A Marriage Where It's TRULY You and Your Wife vs. The World 42:11 How To Tell If It's You and Your Wife vs. The World 48:01 Getting Help With YOUR Unique Scenario Mentioned: Little Women by Louisa May Alcott: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0147514010/ Little Men by Louisa May Alcott: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0141366087/ 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.…

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Beyond Dave Ramsey: How Family Leaders Provide 55:25

17 days ago55:25

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Most men are surviving — few are truly providing. In this episode, we dig into what it means to be a real provider, why your family needs more than just a paycheck, and how stepping into this role brings peace, safety, and softness to your home. Get ready to have your assumptions about financial responsibility challenged, and get the encouragement you need to take the next step to Kingdom-building wealth. --- 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ --- In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 2:13 Fear of Being The Sole Provider 7:01 The Shift From Thinking About Finances The Way Your Parents Did 17:44 Faith To Thrive (and...the time I didn't tell my wife I got laid off) 30:03 The Peace of God versus Pro-and-Con Lists 31:50 If You're Making Good Money Now... 39:03 Generosity At Every Level 41:47 It's Ultra Masculine To Provide 46:18 The Power of Vision (and Bringing Your Wife Home) --- 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: ⁠https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/⁠ --- Mentioned: The Four-Hour Workweek by Tim Ferriss: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B002WE46UW/ --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.…

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How Dads Should React To "Lazy" Kids 44:28

24 days ago44:28

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Man, it can rile a guy up if he's a hard-working guy with an amazing work ethic to see his kids acting lazy. "You don't get that from ME!" But what's really going on here? Is your kid lazy? Or is there something going on under the surface that has to do with you...as the father? Find out in this episode, and figure out how to navigate the feeling of seeing your kids being lazy or slacking off. (Plus, wait till the end for the wimpy Pastor Melvin rant from JM 😂) --- 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ --- In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 0:52 HUGE Win From The Family Captain Elite Program 3:58 Lazy, Unmotivated Kids...and Our Reactions 7:56 Anger From Seeing Laziness Because Dad Has A Good Work Ethic 12:51 What Labels Are You Putting On Your Kid? 17:26 How To Correct Kids Without Crushing Them 30:10 Where Do You Turn If You Didn't Learn This From Your Dad? 33:37 What Your Kids Are Probably Missing If They're "Off" 37:33 The Pastor Melvin Rant 42:08 The Family Captain Elite 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: ⁠https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/⁠ --- Mentioned: Vid Angel: https://www.vidangel.com/ Wild at Heart by John Eldredge: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1400225264/ 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.…

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Raising Sons To Be Strong Men In Hard Times 1:00:19

4 weeks ago1:00:19

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It's hard to captain your ship when you're not training your boys to be captains themselves. You can sort things out with your wife, but if your house is still run by disrespectful kids that you aren't training, life can't be sweet and joyful. Thankfully, the answer is straightforward (if not easy)... The answer is fatherhood. In this episode, we'll break down how to raise your boys into strong men. We discuss both ditches that dads can fall into - both passivity and being too harsh - and give a lot of ways that you can start training and leading well, wherever you are along the way. --- 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ --- 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ --- In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 1:47 Boys Are Wild 5:15 How To Raise Strong Men In A World That Loves Passivity And Weakness 8:12 The Two Things To Teach Your Boys To Help Them Mature Well 12:21 Are Your Boys "Behind"? 15:17 If You're Coddling Your Son... 20:04 Kids Are Not A Burden 35:03 If You're Too hard On Your Son... 38:51 Loving Them The Way They Need To Be Loved 40:38 If Men Are Left Unchecked, Women Don't Flourish 44:16 The Solution If You're Not Where You Want To Be 49:40 The Jonathan Edwards Family Legacy Blueprint --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.…

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Re-Thinking Anger (for Frustrated Dads and Husbands) 51:10

5 weeks ago51:10

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Anger is one of the most common issues husbands and fathers face. Some of it is justified and normal. Kids are chaotic and you can't fully control them, and sometimes our love for them even comes out in anger if they're being unsafe. But what if you're living with a constant underlying anger? You're 2 degrees away from boiling at all times. It's destructive...but what can you do? This episode is all about anger, understanding how to start taking control of your life in a way that brings peace and joy and gratitude and love, and restores the peace of Christ in your life. 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ --- In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 1:40 Chris' Anger Story 4:57 Why Does Anger Feel So Automatic, Yet Justified In These Situations? 8:12 How To React Properly If You're Always Almost Boiling Over 12:52 If You're Flying Off The Handle... 15:38 How Your Anger Impacts Your Marriage 18:10 Repent in the Moment? 22:07 Repentance for Nice Guys 24:28 Anger When Your Kids Sin Against Your Wife 30:07 When Mom Gets Between You Disciplining Your Kids 40:29 Negative Motivation --- 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: ⁠https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/⁠ --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.…

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Why You're Still Being Rejected In The Bedroom 52:16

6 weeks ago52:16

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It is one of the worst feelings in the world when it feels like your wife doesn't want you. Especially when you've started doing some work, started growing, started leveling up... And you still get nothing. In this episode, we're going to cover what might be going on here, how you can navigate this as a godly family leader, and most importantly... What to do to become the man she wants to have more sex with. 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ --- 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ --- In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 1:21 I Want To Have More Intimacy With My Wife...Where Do I Start? 6:12 The Mental Toll This Takes On Men 10:05 What Can Happen If You're Feeling Rejected 12:57 When You're In A "Standoff" 18:42 When Lack of Sex Leads To Temptation And Lust 21:20 How Lack of Intimacy Hurts Your Leadership 25:16 How To Find Accountability When It Can Get Awkward With Friends 29:31 How To Start Stacking Wins 36:20 Should You Just Show Your Wife The Scriptures? 41:08 When You've Started Growing But Nothing's Happening 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.…

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Is Your Brotherhood Building You Up or Breaking You Down? 1:01:19

7 weeks ago1:01:19

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Brotherhood and strong male friendships are like jet fuel to a man's development in self leadership. Yet most guys don't have a solid group of men around them, often because they've never heard of the insane benefits, or because they've bought the "lone wolf" lie.Guys, consider this the episode you need to fast track your success in leadership, marriage, and manhood. Brotherhood changes lives. We're not designed to do this alone. 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain---In This Episode:0:00 Intro1:25 Why Do Dudes Choose Isolation Over Brotherhood?4:31 The Pitch for Brotherhood7:41 Why Not Join Brotherhood?15:20 Healthy Masculinity Exposes27:11 Don't Let This Be What They Say At Your Funeral34:00 Skin In The Game37:52 How To Audit Your Current Brotherhood45:08 You Get What You Tolerate51:18 How To Start Building Your Brotherhood and Friendships55:28 Accountability 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain--- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptainWebsite: https://thefamilycaptain.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain--- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.…

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How To Lead Your Wife So She's Not Begging John Delony for Help 48:50

8 weeks ago48:50

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Men, your wife wants you to lead. Are you willing to step up to the plate? Or are you going to risk your entire marriage, as your passivity gets the best of you, and your wife starts making plans to leave? In this episode, we talk about the weight of responsibility, the first steps into family leadership, the bad advice out there by so-called Christian influencers, and why the solution to your marriage problems are actually really simple. In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 1:20 First Time Feeling Weight of Leadership 6:47 How To Identify Your First Step Into Leadership 9:41 Why Men Hesitate To Lead 13:23 Where You Might Be Perverting Your Desires 17:30 Is Leadership A "Personality Trait"? 18:23 When Your Wife Is "More Spiritually Mature" 22:36 John Delony's Bogus Marriage Advice and What To REALLY Do 35:16 Why Start Small 45:42 Imperfect Action (Don't Be A Podcast Bro) 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@thefamilyleader725 --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.…

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How To Stop Being Passive and Start Leading Your Family 1:00:02

9 weeks ago1:00:02

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Passivity is one of the biggest killers of intimacy and leadership in marriage. If you let life happen to you, or find yourself making excuses... Chances are, you're going to benefit from listening to this episode. Learn where passivity stems from so you can cut it off at the root, plus hear a ton of real-life example so you can start to take action immediately. In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 2:03 The Root of Passivity 5:27 The Levels of Passivity 12:23 Fearful Motivation 17:15 The Difference Between Passivity and Delegation 22:14 You...Or Your Wife? 35:29 The Difference Between Passivity and Gentleness 38:49 You Can Still Be Passive If You're Angry 41:26 Good Cop vs. Bad Cop Parenting Dynamics 52:59 The Cost Of Inaction 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@thefamilyleader725 --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.…

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5 Keys To Go From Happily to ECSTATICALLY Married 52:53

10 weeks ago52:53

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A "good" marriage is fine. But wouldn't you rather be ECSTATICALLY married? Most "good" marriages are really just getting a C+. In this episode, you'll learn the 5 keys required to level your marriage up to an A+. --- 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ --- In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 2:17 Is Happily Married The Enemy of Ecstatically Married? 5:28 Lack of Attraction 10:02 What If Your Upbringing Set The Bar Low? 13:51 Submission In An Ecstatic Marriage 19:39 Joyful Provision 25:05 Raising Sons as Sons 28:00 Vision 37:50 Frequent and Passionate Sex 46:19 The ONE Thing That Takes A Marriage From Good To Great --- ⁠ 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: ⁠https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ --- Mentioned: Good To Great by Jim Collins: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0712676090 --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@thefamilyleader725 --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.…

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Leadership Capital: How To Have More Influence At Home 45:31

11 weeks ago45:31

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How much influence do you REALLY have at home? And more importantly...do you know WHY you have that amount, and how to increase it? Leadership capital, baby. Being a great family leader means your family actually has to follow you. Do you have the leadership capital required for your wife to follow your lead? Listen to this episode to learn what fosters trust, submission, and engagement. --- 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ --- In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 1:25 What Do You Mean "Leadership Capital"? 5:36 Bonus Masterclass on Submission and Leadership Capital 18:14 The Silent Killer of Your Leadership 22:13 Destructive Media 28:19 How To Build Leadership Capital From The Ground Up 34:25 Public Leadership vs. Private Leadership --- 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: ⁠https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/⁠ --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@thefamilyleader725 --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.…

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Why Marriage Counseling Doesn't Work 44:12

12 weeks ago44:12

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Marriage counseling doesn't usually work... But it's not for the reason you think. Before you make your marriage even worse by going to a marriage counselor who isn't going to help you become the man the Bible directly tells you to become, listen to this episode. Then, start taking REAL steps to build an amazing, godly marriage. 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 0:50 The Ridiculous Realities of Posting Online 5:46 The Disappointment of Most Marriage Counseling 9:24 Where Should The Bar Be For Your Marriage? 14:25 The Lie of Marriage Counseling 22:04 Common Problems Guys Face 29:15 How To Choose The Right Next Step In Your Marriage 39:49 What To Do Next 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@thefamilyleader725 --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.…

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How to Build Masculine Confidence 1:08:20

13 weeks ago1:08:20

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Building masculine confidence is important to lead your family well. BUT...there's a huge risk in putting your confidence in the wrong thing. There's also a huge risk in destroying your kids' confidence if you don't build some of your own. You're going to get the full meal deal with this episode, because John Michael and Chris discuss everything from the CORE of confidence, to practical ways to build it, to showing up as the father who raises confident and faithful kids, to the stumbling blocks laying in wait for you. If you want to confidently become the greatest man your wife and kids have ever known, hit that play button. 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ --- In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 4:00 Where Confidence Comes From 7:56 Building Confidence In Your Kids The RIGHT Way 11:47 How To Build Confidence If Your Didn't Get It From Your Dad 15:57 How To ACTUALLY Raise A Strong Christian Boy (Without Crushing Their Confidence) 23:14 Overcoming An Imperfect Dad and Finding Joy In Christ 34:01 Raising Boys Who Surpass You 36:25 The Right Order Of Skill and Mastery in Confidence 48:51 The Slippery Slope of Accomplishments 56:00 How To Actually Build Skill and Mastery (And Business) --- 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: ⁠https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/⁠ --- Mentioned: The Art Of Manliness: https://www.artofmanliness.com/ The Only Skill That Matters by Jonathan Levi: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1544504349/ --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@thefamilyleader725 --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.…

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Never Fight With Your Wife Again: How To Bring True Peace Into Your Home 43:25

14 weeks ago43:25

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If your home is more like a war zone than a sanctuary, listen up. In this episode, you'll learn how to become the type of husband who never gets drawn into fights, who brings peace, conviction, and leadership into the home, and who can withstand his wife's strongest emotional hurricanes. That all leads into the bigger picture, though, which is how you go from suffering as Husband 1.0 to Husband 2.0 and eventually crushing life as Husband 3.0. --- 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ --- In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 1:00 Fighting Less At Home 6:00 How To Lead During Conflict 12:30 How To Recover When You Blow It 16:20 How Long Does It Take To Rebuild Leadership In Marriage? 23:02 Becoming The Best Husband Ever (HUSBAND 3.0) 38:14 Why You Have To Take This In Stages 40:55 90 Second Review Mentioned: JM's Homeschool Example of Leadership Without Fighting --- 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@thefamilyleader725 --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.…

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The Dream You Stopped Dreaming 29:24

2 years ago29:24

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God’s vision and plan for you and your family is very good. You used to have high hopes and expectations for what was possible, and you need to revive that vision. In this episode we’ll fan the flame, and pour on fuel so your heart is full of courage and your hands are ready for action.

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Help Your Wife Thrive 39:33

2 years ago39:33

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JM is joined by his thriving wife (the lovely Natalie Clark) and they talk about what you can do to lead your wife into the blessed life. They discuss provision, flirting, and more.

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Be the Captain, Not a Cabin Boy 32:58

2 years ago32:58

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There’s a difference between a captain and a cabin boy. The captain won’t blame others, circumstances, their upbringing, or anything else. The cabin boy will find excuses and reasons for why he can’t be more or do more. This episode will help you crucify the cabin boy and step more fully into the leg of responsibility that every captain must have.…

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Finally Enjoy Your Wife’s Sexual Best 45:05

2 years ago45:05

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If you’re frustrated by lack of frequency or freedom in your bedroom, if you’ve convinced yourself that your wife just “has a low drive,” and if you’ve “tried everything” to change the situation – with no results, this episode will point you in the right direction.

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The Biblical Alpha 42:19

2 years ago42:19

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“Alpha” is a flawed term, but we redeem it here and use it to help you see examples of strong masculinity in Scripture. We also talk about what’s better than being “Alpha” or “Beta” and how you can be like Jesus: the right thing at the right time.

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Talent Beats Tactics 24:18

2 years ago24:18

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You might think you need better tactics. But you probably need to be a better man. In all honesty... you might need both. BUT- most guys assume they're missing out on the tactic that's going to get them better results. It's easier to believe that "I just need to know the hack" - instead of admitting - "I am a hack… and that's why there's bad fruit in this area of my life." This one’s spicy, but JM serves as the faithful friend who tells you the truth, helps you move forward, and gets you unstuck.…

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Music, Movies, Nice Guys, and Feminists (with Natalie) 47:23

2 years ago47:23

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Natalie joins JM for this one as they laugh at the moronic messages in songs and movies that culture has given men and women over the years. It will help you to see what's always been in plain sight, as well as help you guard yourself and your kids from ungodly ideas about the masculine and feminine.…

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Play Offense, Not Defense 32:58

2 years ago32:58

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When we stop captaining our ship, the ship begins drifting and it never drifts anywhere we want it to. In this episode we talk about how to stop living a reactive life, and how to become a deliberate man with a plan.

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Interview with a Real Family Captain 52:28

2 years ago52:28

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Kristian Kelly came into The Family Captain program hoping for some progress, but ended up being blown away at what God did. Listen to him explain how he has “complete satisfaction in all areas of life” now

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The Compassionate Husband 32:57

2 years ago32:57

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Husbands have a temptation to harshness. This is why God specifically commands us to love and be gentle with our wives. Compassion is one of the Three Legs of Leadership here at The Family Captain so we take a closer look at this important command from the Lord and how our obedience brings good fruit.…

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What If My Wife Won’t Let Me Lead? 41:48

2 years ago41:48

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This is a common question for guys who say they’ve “tried” to lead before. The truth is the question is flawed from the start. You don’t need permission from your wife to lead. Come find out how to move forward with conviction, love, and wisdom- even if your wife is less than supportive at the moment.…

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Building Leadership Capital 45:58

2 years ago45:58

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You can’t make a purchase if you don’t have enough money in the bank. When it comes to relationships, (and marriage in particular) the same principle applies. If you don’t have enough “leadership capital” you’ll have a hard time creating an incredible family culture. Here’s how to get out of debt and start stacking “cash” in your marriage.…

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Who Is the Husband's Head? 32:41

2 years ago32:41

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Children are blessed to have a multi-layered covering of love, protection, provision, leadership. So are wives. But what about husbands? Do we have a covering and head who cares for us like that? Of course we do. The LORD is your Shepherd.

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Stop Working on Your Marriage 38:46

2 years ago38:46

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If you’re waiting on your wife to join you for a mission of growth, you might never get started. Here’s what to do instead.

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Our Journey from “Happily Married” to “Ecstatically Married” 44:38

2 years ago44:38

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Natalie joins John Michael in this episode as they share their struggles and story in God’s ideal.

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The Simple Exercise To Build Your Family Vision (From Scratch) 45:35

15 weeks ago45:35

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How do you create a family vision and leave a legacy...especially if you never had this passed down to you? That's what this episode aims to answer. It all starts with finding bedrock truth and building on a firm foundation. At the end of the episode, we walk through 2 examples of the 7 Layer Exercise to build your family vision, so make sure to listen to the end! 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage : https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 1:47 How Far To Cast Your Family Vision 5:08 How To Start Building Your Vision (From Scratch) 9:31 From Dream To Reality 13:40 Should You Like Your Job? 18:35 Fatherhood Goals For Raising Kids 25:05 What's Distracting You From Building Your Family Culture 32:20 The 7 Layer Exercise Mentioned: Previous Episode on Letting Your Kids Date: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eEFYfIME5jw --- 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here : https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@thefamilyleader725 --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.…

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This Will DESTROY A Father's Legacy | EP. 8 57:01

16 weeks ago57:01

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What does letting your kids date have to do with your legacy?! Pretty much everything. OK maybe not EVERYTHING, but it sure is a microcosm of your values, and if you play this one issue out over the course of your life, chances are you're going to miss your one shot at leaving a legacy for the Lord. Come for a Christian definition of legacy... Stay for John Michael yelling about parents who let their kids date... Leave with a deep conviction that this legacy stuff matters way more than you thought...PLUS some practical steps to get started righting the course of your family ship. In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 0:57 Legacy Isn't What You Think It Is (A Christian's Definition) 7:26 What To Do Now, To Prepare Future Generations 13:19 Parenting For A Kingdom Legacy 15:35 Interlude: Letting Your Kids Date Is Dumb 27:33 Conviction Leads To Legacy 40:22 How To Parent Toward Legacy If You're Just Surviving The Chaos of Your Family Life 54:40 Prayer 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@thefamilyleader725 --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.…

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Leading Your Family Well When Life Sucks | EP. 7 1:04:02

17 weeks ago1:04:02

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Going through something difficult? Here's how to lead through it. We live in a fallen world, brothers. Life gets hard. We go through seasons of suck...getting fired, challenges with the kids, health complications, you name it. But here's the reality for us men as Family Captains. We still have to lead. You still have to lead. You're the head of your wife. Your kids are looking to you for guidance. You don't have the luxury of packing it in and moping forever. So, how do you lead through the most difficult seasons of life? We'll answer that today with practical, tactical advice in today's episode. In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 1:53 Real Life Example of Leading Through A Rough Season 11:29 To the Guy Who's IN IT Right Now 18:05 When You're In A "Dry Season" With God 26:20 How To Still Show Up For Your Wife and Kids During The Suckfest 34:32 Navigating Stress Without Burdening Your Wife With It 46:35 The Second Time I Got Fired 52:50 How Chris Led His Wife Through Investing In The Family Captain Program 1:01:04 Prayer For The Man Battling 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@thefamilyleader725 --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.…

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Why Distraction is DESTROYING Your Family (And What Husbands Can Do About It) | EP. 6 52:19

18 weeks ago52:19

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There are a TON of things that get in the way of you leading your family well. One of the biggest threats is wasted time, especially in the culture of distraction we live in. From scrolling to working too long to sports...there are a lot of ways to waste your time, get distracted, and completely miss your own life. If this is happening to you, we've got to start asking the tough questions... As the captain of your family ship, don't you have a big enough vision to keep you from being distracted? Isn't your responsibility so big and so joyous that you have no room for anything else? This is not a fairy tale, gentlemen. This is reality for intentional Christian husbands who are done with a mediocre family and sex life. In this episode, we talk common threats and distractions, what to do about them, and why this simple values framework could solve all these problems. In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 3:15 The threat of wasting time as a family captain 4:57 What if you're exhausted? 9:23 How to rest responsibly and avoid distraction 14:19 Navigating life in seasons 23:59 Learn this lesson about values from JM's "you're a psycho" homeschool story 34:01 How to escape distraction and become intentional 37:54 Managing distraction and scheduling intentional refreshment 43:04 For the dad who isn't present 48:27 What if you are NOT pumped up to be spending time with your family? Mentioned: Choosing To Cheat by Andy Stanley Alpha vs Beta Episode ScreenZen Men Are Like Waffles, Women Are Like Spaghetti by Bill & Pam Farrel 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@thefamilyleader725 --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.…

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How To Get Your Wife To Want You Again (The END of Pity Sex) | EP. 5 53:23

19 weeks ago53:23

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Don't feel too bad about hitting the play button on this episode, brother. There are many, many thousands of men stuck in the same position you are. You settle for infrequent pity sex, you feel bad about it, you start becoming resentful, and you have absolutely no idea how to get yourself out of this mess. You may even have an excuse or two in your back pocket, ready to justify the fact that your sex life is mediocre. But... We believe Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives, and if you can handle the initial discomfort of owning up to WHY you're here in the first place...we can help you get unstuck and turn your marriage bed back into a place of desire, passion, and deep connection. Get ready to learn how to toss the pity sex and have your wife deeply attracted to you again. In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 2:14 How couples end up having "pity sex" 11:35 How to lead your wife through periods where sex might start to feel (or become) transactional 14:33 Prayer to improve your sex life? 22:26 The Martha Stewart Interlude (men's vs. women's egos) 29:00 How to reconcile with the fact that you're responsible for the current state of your sex life 32:23 Stop putting limitations on God 37:11 Dealing with your victim mentality 40:37 Beating p*rn addiction with an aggressive offense 46:00 Getting off the couch and into the arena Mentioned: Extreme Ownership by Jocko 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@thefamilyleader725 --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.…

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How to Serve Your Family Without Getting Walked On | EP. 4 41:42

20 weeks ago41:42

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"Servant Leadership" is redundant. A leader IS a servant. So, why are so many men obsessed with making sure everyone knows that they are specifically a SERVANT leadership? Because we have collectively believed the Satanic lie that leadership is bad, authority is bad, husbands shouldn't be the head of their wife...the list goes on. We think the only way to lead in our families is to be a lap dog. To say "yes, wife". To ask, "how high?" when your wife says "jump!". Whether you're too scared to call her out for being lazy and selfish, or whether you're the one acted lazy and selfish by abdicating leadership to her, it's time to start giving a rip about your family and about the fact that you're accountable to God for your household. This episode tears down the reasons why you might find yourself in this situation, AND gives you practical tools and advice for righting past wrongs and starting to captain your ship. In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 1:08 What guys get wrong about servant leadership 3:45 Should "Leaders Eat Last"? 7:15 The consequences of taking "servant leader" way too far 10:31 How to show servant leadership without losing strength 15:26 What to do if your wife is walking all over you 25:19 The solution to your emasculation problem 31:17 The secret hack... 33:53 What sales training can teach you about being a man worth following Mentioned: Leaders Eat Last by Simon Sinek 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@thefamilyleader725 --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.…

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Was Jesus Alpha or Beta? | EP. 3 53:15

21 weeks ago53:15

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Was Jesus alpha or beta when he was letting people spit in His face and punch Him? Was He alpha or beta when He was rebuking the Pharisees? Gentlemen...Jesus shows us so clearly that He was the right thing at the right time. And if we're going to be following King Jesus as godly family leaders...we've got to be the same: The right thing at the right time. There's a ton of nuance in the alpha/beta conversation that gets lost amidst childish emotions and immaturity. This episode will help you avoid ditches on either side of the debate, while also giving you a way out of toxic tendencies to operate in one extreme or the other. In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 2:33 Antarctic explorers and captaining your ship 7:20 Alpha vs. Beta 11:26 Should I lean into being an Alpha to be more like Jesus? 18:53 But what if my wife is a "strong woman"? 24:11 Don't be self-centered 26:48 What to do if you're a "nice guy" 38:23 Is the extreme Alpha a Beta in disguise? 42:41 Is it wise to give your wife "the little things" to decide, while everyone understands you make the big decisions? Mentioned: Endurance: Shackleton's Incredible Voyage 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@thefamilyleader725 --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.…

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How To Lead Your Family As A Masculine Family Captain And Stop Being So Passive | EP. 2 41:01

22 weeks ago41:01

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This is Biblical Masculinity 101. What is it? What are the lies most men believe about masculinity? What does it look like applied to married husbands? How do you leave passivity behind and start leading confidently? This is a MUST listen if you want to get value out of anything else we talk about. Without the basic revelation about what God says about a man and husband, nothing else will make sense, and you'll never have the confidence or tools to lead your family well. In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 1:10 True Biblical masculinity 5:00 What lies about masculinity do Christian men need to look out for? 8:34 What does it mean to be a Family Captain? 11:40 Common ways most men fall into passivity 18:58 How to stop abdicating leadership 24:15 Coaching through a real time example of passivity 30:57 How to pray for and start living with Biblical masculinity and leadership 39:29 Closing prayer 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@thefamilyleader725 --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.…

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Become The Greatest Man She's Ever Known | EP. 1 38:30

22 weeks ago38:30

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Welcome to The Family Captain Podcast...relaunched and revamped. This podcast is designed to help Christian husbands grow in family leadership and sex in marriage. Today's episode will frame what you can expect from the show moving forward, introduce you to your host John Michael Clark and his co-host, Chris Farrell, and start to tease out a few pillars we'll be unpacking over the coming months that'll change your family's life. In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 2:54 How I'd start to fix your marriage 7:20 Are you honest enough to admit you want your wife to respect you? 13:05 What to expect when you "get" what we're teaching here 14:32 The Family Captain origin story 20:38 Turn your masculinity back online 28:36 The biggest excuses men make to justify their crappy sex life 31:12 Why am I being walked over by my wife and kids? 32:57 I feel lack of purpose...why? 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@thefamilyleader725 --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.…

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The Three Dragons You Must Slay 43:30

2 years ago43:30

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There are three obvious enemies that keep men from leading in a way that causes families to thrive. In this episode JM reveals them and shows you how to beat each one.

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Niceness is Ruining Your Marriage and Masculinity 51:47

2 years ago51:47

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“Nice” guys defer to others- not because of their deep love for others, but because of their fear of the displeasure of others. “Nice” guys have no standards. “Nice” guys submit to their wives and make themselves and their wives miserable in the process. They seek comfort in the moment at the expense of real satisfaction and health long-term. Learn to be a good guy who does what’s best, instead of a nice guy who does what comfortable.…

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Rites of Passage (with guest - Brock Clark) 34:46

2 years ago34:46

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John Michael’s son Brock joined him for this episode where they talk about rites of passage and JM tells you how to create “catapult” moments to move your kids (and especially your sons) through meaningful and maturing moments.

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Building a Family Culture 33:24

2 years ago33:24

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You owe your family a clear mission and vision. A leader must do the hard work of figuring out where they are, and where they want to go. And once you’ve got a clear purpose, you’ll have the fuel to move forward that will give you and your family courage and passion for the future. In this episode, you’ll get help with zooming out, and getting significant clarity for the future.…

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Make Your Wife Feminine Again 29:57

2 years ago29:57

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Husbands should be masculine. Wives should be feminine. We can only control ourselves, but can we help our wife to embrace the gift of her God-given femininity? Absolutely. In this episode, JM tells you how.

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Margin and Rhythms of Rest 37:45

2 years ago37:45

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We weren't meant to live at 100mph, but many of us act like there's nothing we can do to slow down. You and your family are supposed to have rhythms of rest - and room to breathe. Many of us make the same mistakes all the time and it's costing us in ways we don't realize. In this episode you’ll hear about JM’s failures in this area, and you’ll learn how to take control of your schedule for the good of yourself and your family.…

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Stop Reacting, Start Leading 36:49

2 years ago36:49

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Drifting and hoping isn’t a good strategy. Here’s how to chart your course.

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Live a Bingeworthy Life 42:09

2 years ago42:09

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Be the story you’re most interested in. You are the hero on an epic journey. Act accordingly.

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Christians Should Have the Best Sex 48:00

2 years ago48:00

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God invented sex and called it "good." We should pursue and enjoy this physical, emotional, and spiritual gift that God has given to marriage.

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Become A Man of Action 33:34

2 years ago33:34

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Deeds, not words. This is how we get things done. The Lord has given you His "yes" to tend, keep, fill, and subdue. Captain your ship by taking action.

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Headship Without the "Biblical Gymnastics" 38:42

2 years ago38:42

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This is a plain look a the Scriptures to give you clarity and confidence in God's plan to help husbands, wives, and children, to truly thrive.

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Fire In Your Belly and Lies You've Believed 32:21

2 years ago32:21

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Crucify your inner "Melvin" and live into the bigness of God's design as it applies to leadership and sex.

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Becoming the man your wife wants to have sex with. 1:47:00

4 years ago1:47:00

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We sift through The Mindful Attraction Plan by Athol Kay to find practical ways to build sexual attraction.

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Patriarchy and God's good design for men, women, and children. 1:11:43

4 years ago1:11:43

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Author Zach Garris joins us to discuss his book "Masculine Christianity" and the authority that God has assigned to husbands.

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Staying in the fight and the high calling of family leadership. 2:14:12

4 years ago2:14:12

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We finish "Endurance" as we continue to learn from Shackleton's incredible Antarctic voyage, and his wise, compassionate leadership.

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"The greatest leader that ever came on God's earth, bar none." 2:24:08

4 years ago2:24:08

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Ernest Shackleton's Antarctic ship was crushed in the ice. Now we learn family leadership lessons from him as we watch him work to save his 27 men. Book: Endurance

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Owning the outcomes as the family leader. The leg of responsibility. 1:26:18

4 years ago1:26:18