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Hello everyone! I'm Jason Fisher, your host for the Be Better Tomorrow podcast. I'm truly grateful for each of you who tune in, whether it's your first time with us or you're a returning listener. Your support means the world to me.
Today, we're wrapping up our fascinating series on quitting. We've delved deep into the psychology of quitting, how to know if it's the right time, and the impacts it can have on your identity. If you're just catching up, I highly recommend revisiting our past four episodes to get the full picture.
Now, let's dive into some questions from you, our listeners, which have been accumulating over the series.

• Re-Identifying Yourself After Quitting

A challenging question we received was how to re-identify oneself after quitting something significant. This hits home for many, whether you're quitting a long-term job, a hobby like marathon running due to health issues, or undergoing any significant change. Though there's no easy answer, considering **identity is ever-evolving**, understanding this constant state of flux is crucial. I discussed how life's changes, much like the stages of grief, require us to adapt and reframe our identities. For more on this, referring to **Bill Burnett and Dave Evans' "Designing Your Life"** might offer some insightful strategies.

• Balancing Opportunity Costs and Personal Fulfillment

Another listener brought up the struggle of juggling hobbies that bring joy against activities that might offer more towards career advancement. I shared how, in my personal life, seemingly unrelated activities like mountain biking and painting miniatures enrich my life and surprisingly benefit my career in unexpected ways. It's about **finding balance** and allowing yourself to enjoy life while not neglecting your ambitions.

• Quirring Criteria for Hobbies and Career Shifts

We also touched upon knowing when to quit a hobby and confronting career shifts. It's essential to **analyze personal tendencies towards discomfort** and assess whether you're seeking growth or running from challenges. Self-awareness is key, and sometimes, getting outside perspectives can provide clarity.

• Connecting with Us

We love hearing your thoughts, questions, and stories. For those looking deeper into topics like career shifts or identity changes, don't hesitate to reach out for a more personal consultation at **[e-mail]**. Remember, the journey towards understanding and improvement is ongoing, and you're not alone in it.

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