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Episode 43: Sexual desire: how to cultivate in long-term relationships & why we do silent days
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Imagine a couple sleeping apart. Not touching. Not even talking! You'd imagine that they're fighting right? Well, that's what we do in our relationship two days per week.
Igniting sexual desire in long-term partnership is one of the biggest mysteries for modern couples, especially when they're not only sharing a household together but also working from home. You know how easy it is to get lost in logistics, casual touch, just hanging out together, small talk etc.
One of our core values as a couple is to cultivate deep sexual chemistry, sacred sexuality being a core pillar of our relationship. Contrary to popular belief, sometimes desire needs not only more quality time together.. But also SPACE.
Silent days help us create that space which beautifully resets our relationship.
This means that we don’t engage in verbal communication for a couple of days and usually sleep apart that night too. If we need to arrange things, we’ll text each other or “talk” on the notes app. We will not touch each other either, but will make playful sounds, flirt and make "air kisses" ;)
One of the biggest lies we have been fed is that sexual chemistry is meant to wane away and it is the ill fate of all long-term couples to eventually end up as roommates. The truth is, sexual desire will decrease if you do not cultivate it intentionally.
SEXUAL DESIRE IS A CHOICE.
If you're devoted to increasing your libido and sexual polarity in your intimate life, this episode will give you lots of epic, creative ideas that go beyond your usual advice on "spending more quality time together".
HIGHLIGHTS
- How intentional separation contributes to a deeper level of intimacy and passion in relationships.
- Physical closeness doesn't necessarily equate to intimacy.
- Through sounds, movement, and touch, we can discover new dimensions of connection
- How to navigate practical and logistical barriers to intimacy
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