#18 It’s rant time!How do you handle hearing gossip about you? Listen in on our experiences on this!

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How do we handle hearing someone say their ill thoughts about us? This is coming from someone who used to lose sleep over this. I cared so much that I lost focus on what the truth really was. Is it truth when someone make shit up about us? Obviously not! But we do get more upset about the ‘why’ they would do such a thing... But let’s face this fact: Hurt people hurt people. You’re someone feeling on top of the world and confident in your own skin you are not likely to sit in a space that would really judge anyone. You’re definitely not going to spit venom to others that’s for sure! So if you are feeling ill feelings about other women or people that you don’t really truly know, maybe you need to look in the mirror. Is it all really fake if you get your lashes done, lips injected, hair dyed, nails done, brows tattooed? Hells no! That’s just surface shit. But we really have going on runs so much deeper. Hearing what negative people say about us or others doesn’t actually make us feel confident they are not talking shit about us. So create those healthy boundaries for yourself so when this stuff does come up it won’t be affecting you as much as they would hoped to. Since we are on the topic of the ability of creating what we see as beauty with make up and surgery, we want to teach our daughters to be confident with who they really are. Where do we draw the line? Listen in on Tiffany’s experience with her 9 year old daughter on this topic! I’ve heard this many times, focus on what you have control over. This is us! Focus on yourself. Worrying about what others think distracts us from dealing with what is really important. Isn’t that the truth? Be true to who we really are. Or looks really mean nothing when it comes to the meat and potatoes. Beauty stems right down to the soul. But when we are judged based on our looks it really says everything about the person making the comments. Never know what’s happening behind closed doors and even though it seems to look so perfect it really isn’t. If you’re human you have ups and downs like the rest of us. So watch your dialogue, have compassion and know there is more to meats the eye especially behind closed doors. Excited for you to hear this rant! Sending much love and appreciation. Thank you for all your loving support: Tiff and Jill 💕 BOXTALK PODCAST Instagram: Boxtalk Podcast #boxtalkpodcast