Episode 11.3: Wives of David, Bathsheba - Women of the Bible Series

Car Chat Podcast with Amy & Jamy

Welcome to Episode 11 - PART 3 Bathsheba!
We are talking about the WIVES OF DAVID!

BACKGROUND
What is the Davidic Covenant? ( found in 2 Samuel 7)

Who were David's wives? (1 Chronicles 3, 2 Samuel; 3:2-5, 5:13-15)

In this 3-part series, we will be talking about:

Part 1: Michal

Part 2: Abigail

Part 3: Bathsheba - this episode!

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>>> BATHSHEBA <<<

Scripture Text: 2 Samuel 11-12, 1 Kings 1:11-27, 2:13-22
We will discover that Bathsheba:
1. was caught in a sinful story with painful consequences
2. was redeemed (and her story)
3. had significant influence
She is one of us. Who God is to her, he is to you and me.
Her story prompts conversations about having your choice taken from you, doing the right thing but being brought into someone's wrong thing, mourning loss of loved ones in your life, continue living in what you never envisioned your life to be, standing for the truth and faithfulness when it is difficult.
I had a lot of assumptions about Bathsheba based on what I knew of her in David's story. But when seeing her for who she was as a women in those times, I am so sad for the loss that she experienced because of someone else's desire. But she kept on walking, kept on living, and God brought the Messiah through her. It blows me away how he redeems the stories that totally derail. His plans will not be uprooted!
We hope it encourages you!
Much love,
Amy and Jamy

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS: Episode 11 (Part 1, 2, 3) ~ Wives of David, all 3!
*See episode description in the show notes and biblical texts for these stories.

1. What did you learn for the first time about these women? What surprised you about their stories with God?

2. Read Deuteronomy 17:14-20. What instructions does God give to kings? Discuss how David not following this affects his wives and children.

3. In Michal’s story we talked about how her bitterness blocked God’s blessing. How do you see that in her story? How have you learned to battle bitterness?

4. Abigail’s story has such amazing leadership lessons. What did you learn about being a humble, calm leader from her?

5. What does it mean to you to cast vision? Share a time that someone has done that for you and how it encouraged you.

6. Bathsheba’s story is so rich and messy (just like our lives). What does it mean to you that God chose her to be the wife who is the mother in the line of the Messiah? What does that tell you about God?

7. In Bathsheba’s episode, Amy mentions that each wife AND David have a “fork in the road” to either follow God or not. Where do you see that choice in their stories? What about your own life today?

8. Here are the three descriptions of David’s wives from the podcast; discuss which one resonates the most with you:

Michal: (1 Samuel 18:20-29, 19:11-17, 25:44, 2 Samuel 3:13-16, 6:16-23)

· Loved
· Was a pawn
· Despised

Abigail: (1 Samuel 25)

· Aware and acted quickly
· Wise in conflict
· Stayed Calm

Bathsheba (2 Samuel 11-12, 1 Kings 1:11-27, 2:13-22)

· Caught in a painful story with painful consequences
· Was redeemed
· Had significant influence

9. “David’s wives are us. Who God is to her, He is to me.” Who was God to Michal, Abigail, and Bathsheba? What does that mean to you in your life today?

Chapters

1. Episode 11.3: Wives of David, Bathsheba - Women of the Bible Series (00:00:00)

2. Wives of David (00:00:08)

3. Redemption and Influence (00:14:13)

4. Influencing Wisely and Staying Faithful (00:23:29)