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All right.
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Hello.
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Hello everyone.
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How are you guys doing?
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Hope you guys are having a fabulous day.
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Hope you had a fabulous day
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I know I did my arm is
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still a little bit messed up.
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I went in yesterday I think
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I guys told you guys that I
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went to the va got my shot
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and my arm was banging
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yesterday It is still yet banging now
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But it's okay because that's
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not going to stop me My arm
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is just going to do what it
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does and it will eventually
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of course come around to
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being back to normal so for now,
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it's just a little bit sore,
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but Before we get into all
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the good stuff and juicy
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stuff about what we're
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talking about Which is
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talking about friendship
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and I love talking about friendship Uh,
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but before we do that,
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we are going to do what
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what we always do So I'm
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not even going to tell you guys
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because I'm just going to do
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my Q and I'll be back.
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All right, so I am back.
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Hello.
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Hello Okay,
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so we are going to talk about
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friendship and friendship
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is a gift It's a gift and I
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said friendship is a gift
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do not abuse it and I've been uh,
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I guess this has been a
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thing For me and I have
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always really Enjoyed
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having good friends solid friends
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But it's when you have those
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friends that you thought
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were friends and they
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really turned out to not be friends.
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Oh, my.
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It turns out to be something else.
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So I was just watching a
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couple of clips that were on Instagram.
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One was one of these actresses was saying,
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if you want to if you want
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to have a friendship,
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if you want to have friends, guess what?
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The great verse.
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And I'm going to quote the
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verse that she said and
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read the whole thing.
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KJV, it says a man.
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that hath friends, show himself friendly.
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And there is a friend that
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sticketh closer than a brother.
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So basically you got to be
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friendly in order to have friends.
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And sometimes people are not friendly,
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but they want friends,
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but then they don't act accordingly,
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which is strange to me.
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And I have always loved to
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show myself friendly.
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I do that and I kind of give
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that off wherever I go.
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So if people randomly talk
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to me in the store and they
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just start a conversation with me,
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it doesn't matter.
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I can try to avoid them all I want,
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but I really just,
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it comes out of me like, hey,
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she looks like a nice person to talk to.
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Let me talk to her about my life,
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even though I don't even know her.
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Hashtag like what?
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But before I used to really uh years ago,
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I think I've shared this
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before I used to really not
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like that I would not like
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people coming up and
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telling me their business.
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I don't know them They don't know me,
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but they felt comfortable
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enough to share really
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really important and very
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Detailed personal things of
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their life to me this random person
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And it always happened in
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the grocery store.
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Now it could have happened other places,
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but the grocery store is
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the place where I get it the most.
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I don't know.
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It's the grocery store.
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I could go to other stores too.
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And I might get a couple of conversations,
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but the grocery store says, there she is.
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She needs to talk to you.
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This is her counseling place.
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It wouldn't matter what
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grocery store I'm in.
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It happens everywhere I go.
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So, um, not as much as at Sprouts, but, uh,
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other, other grocery stores.
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But so there was a few
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different occasions and I
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remember them very well
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because I was looking for
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that conversation.
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And there was a woman and
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I'm minding my business, mind y'all.
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I'm going and I'm walking
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and I go in the cracker
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aisle and there was nobody
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there but this older lady.
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And I'm looking at these crackers,
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like if I should get red saltines,
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I don't know.
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And I'm just like debating
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in my head if I should get
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Cheez-Its because I know I
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have a lactose problem.
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I'm like doing all this
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debating in my head about crackers.
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And she comes up to me and says, you know,
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my son passed away.
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I'm like, oh my gosh, I'm so sorry.
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My condolences.
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And she's like, yeah.
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And I haven't changed his
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room since he's passed.
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And it's been a long time in his room.
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It just it just stays the
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same and I've never Changed
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anything in his room.
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It's still left the same
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exact way Now I'm in the
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cracker aisle this is in
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the grocery store I didn't
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warrant this because I
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wasn't looking at her but
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she came and she talked to
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me about something very
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very personal that's
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personal I don't care what
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people say like
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You know,
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people could talk about death all
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the time.
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Yes and no, right?
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If they don't care, they'll tell you, yeah,
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someone so-and-so hurt and
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then they pass away.
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Okay, but this is someone that they love,
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that they know intimately.
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This is their child.
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She does not know me in
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order to open up with
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something so vulnerable and
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transparent of something like that,
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right?
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Manage episode 424744156 series 2085819
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All right.
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Hello.
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Hello everyone.
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How are you guys doing?
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Hope you guys are having a fabulous day.
00:00:07.976 --> 00:00:09.276
Hope you had a fabulous day
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I know I did my arm is
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still a little bit messed up.
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I went in yesterday I think
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I guys told you guys that I
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went to the va got my shot
00:00:19.422 --> 00:00:20.824
and my arm was banging
00:00:20.884 --> 00:00:23.425
yesterday It is still yet banging now
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But it's okay because that's
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not going to stop me My arm
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is just going to do what it
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does and it will eventually
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of course come around to
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being back to normal so for now,
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it's just a little bit sore,
00:00:35.209 --> 00:00:37.389
but Before we get into all
00:00:37.450 --> 00:00:38.649
the good stuff and juicy
00:00:38.689 --> 00:00:40.310
stuff about what we're
00:00:40.350 --> 00:00:41.811
talking about Which is
00:00:41.831 --> 00:00:42.752
talking about friendship
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and I love talking about friendship Uh,
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but before we do that,
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we are going to do what
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what we always do So I'm
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not even going to tell you guys
00:00:50.969 --> 00:00:52.375
because I'm just going to do
00:00:52.435 --> 00:00:53.899
my Q and I'll be back.
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All right, so I am back.
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Hello.
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Hello Okay,
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so we are going to talk about
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friendship and friendship
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is a gift It's a gift and I
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said friendship is a gift
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do not abuse it and I've been uh,
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I guess this has been a
00:01:45.775 --> 00:01:48.957
thing For me and I have
00:01:49.117 --> 00:01:51.920
always really Enjoyed
00:01:51.959 --> 00:01:54.021
having good friends solid friends
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But it's when you have those
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friends that you thought
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were friends and they
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really turned out to not be friends.
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Oh, my.
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It turns out to be something else.
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So I was just watching a
00:02:06.021 --> 00:02:08.103
couple of clips that were on Instagram.
00:02:08.242 --> 00:02:12.126
One was one of these actresses was saying,
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if you want to if you want
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to have a friendship,
00:02:14.668 --> 00:02:16.649
if you want to have friends, guess what?
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The great verse.
00:02:17.610 --> 00:02:18.730
And I'm going to quote the
00:02:18.751 --> 00:02:19.572
verse that she said and
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read the whole thing.
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KJV, it says a man.
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that hath friends, show himself friendly.
00:02:27.056 --> 00:02:28.337
And there is a friend that
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sticketh closer than a brother.
00:02:31.259 --> 00:02:32.461
So basically you got to be
00:02:32.600 --> 00:02:34.181
friendly in order to have friends.
00:02:34.762 --> 00:02:36.902
And sometimes people are not friendly,
00:02:37.743 --> 00:02:38.745
but they want friends,
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but then they don't act accordingly,
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which is strange to me.
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And I have always loved to
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show myself friendly.
00:02:47.389 --> 00:02:49.991
I do that and I kind of give
00:02:50.070 --> 00:02:51.491
that off wherever I go.
00:02:51.891 --> 00:02:53.171
So if people randomly talk
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to me in the store and they
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just start a conversation with me,
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it doesn't matter.
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I can try to avoid them all I want,
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but I really just,
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it comes out of me like, hey,
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she looks like a nice person to talk to.
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Let me talk to her about my life,
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even though I don't even know her.
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Hashtag like what?
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But before I used to really uh years ago,
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I think I've shared this
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before I used to really not
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like that I would not like
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people coming up and
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telling me their business.
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I don't know them They don't know me,
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but they felt comfortable
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enough to share really
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really important and very
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Detailed personal things of
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their life to me this random person
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And it always happened in
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the grocery store.
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Now it could have happened other places,
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but the grocery store is
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the place where I get it the most.
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I don't know.
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It's the grocery store.
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I could go to other stores too.
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And I might get a couple of conversations,
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but the grocery store says, there she is.
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She needs to talk to you.
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This is her counseling place.
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It wouldn't matter what
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grocery store I'm in.
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It happens everywhere I go.
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So, um, not as much as at Sprouts, but, uh,
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other, other grocery stores.
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But so there was a few
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different occasions and I
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remember them very well
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because I was looking for
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that conversation.
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And there was a woman and
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I'm minding my business, mind y'all.
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I'm going and I'm walking
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and I go in the cracker
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aisle and there was nobody
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there but this older lady.
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And I'm looking at these crackers,
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like if I should get red saltines,
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I don't know.
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And I'm just like debating
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in my head if I should get
00:04:33.903 --> 00:04:34.622
Cheez-Its because I know I
00:04:34.642 --> 00:04:35.382
have a lactose problem.
00:04:35.423 --> 00:04:36.584
I'm like doing all this
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debating in my head about crackers.
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And she comes up to me and says, you know,
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my son passed away.
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I'm like, oh my gosh, I'm so sorry.
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My condolences.
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And she's like, yeah.
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And I haven't changed his
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room since he's passed.
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And it's been a long time in his room.
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It just it just stays the
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same and I've never Changed
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anything in his room.
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It's still left the same
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exact way Now I'm in the
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cracker aisle this is in
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the grocery store I didn't
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warrant this because I
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wasn't looking at her but
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she came and she talked to
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me about something very
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very personal that's
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personal I don't care what
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people say like
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You know,
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people could talk about death all
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the time.
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Yes and no, right?
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If they don't care, they'll tell you, yeah,
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someone so-and-so hurt and
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then they pass away.
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Okay, but this is someone that they love,
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that they know intimately.
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This is their child.
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She does not know me in
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order to open up with
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something so vulnerable and
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transparent of something like that,
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right?
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