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Saying NO to ANGER: Cultivating Forgiveness | Beneath the Surface | Week 2

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The Problems with Anger.

  1. You cannot be angry and live the righteous life that God desires.
  2. Anger is a gateway to other toxic emotions.
  3. Anger is self-reinforcing.
  4. Anger is bad for your health.

Big Idea:  Cultivating forgiveness counteracts the erosion of chronic anger.

3 Heart Questions to Overcome Your Anger

1. Is this righteous or unrighteous? (4:26)

Unrighteous anger = self-centeredness.

Righteous anger = when the heart of God is being violated.

2. Am I responding or reacting? (4:27-31)

3. Will I choose forgiveness or un-forgiveness? (4:32)

Forgive = “to cancel the debt” 

What forgiveness is NOT.

  • Forgiveness is not a feeling.
  • Forgiveness isn’t pretending that what they did to you is okay.
  • Forgiveness doesn’t mean you have to trust that person.
  • Forgiveness doesn’t erase the consequences for their actions.
  • Forgiveness doesn’t mean you’ll automatically forget.
  • Forgiveness does not require and apology.

Next Step:

“here’s my chance.”

Find more series resources at www.whoisgrace.com/READ

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The Problems with Anger.

  1. You cannot be angry and live the righteous life that God desires.
  2. Anger is a gateway to other toxic emotions.
  3. Anger is self-reinforcing.
  4. Anger is bad for your health.

Big Idea:  Cultivating forgiveness counteracts the erosion of chronic anger.

3 Heart Questions to Overcome Your Anger

1. Is this righteous or unrighteous? (4:26)

Unrighteous anger = self-centeredness.

Righteous anger = when the heart of God is being violated.

2. Am I responding or reacting? (4:27-31)

3. Will I choose forgiveness or un-forgiveness? (4:32)

Forgive = “to cancel the debt” 

What forgiveness is NOT.

  • Forgiveness is not a feeling.
  • Forgiveness isn’t pretending that what they did to you is okay.
  • Forgiveness doesn’t mean you have to trust that person.
  • Forgiveness doesn’t erase the consequences for their actions.
  • Forgiveness doesn’t mean you’ll automatically forget.
  • Forgiveness does not require and apology.

Next Step:

“here’s my chance.”

Find more series resources at www.whoisgrace.com/READ

  continue reading

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