49: Inside Out Red Flags Green Flags

I AM soft Podcast

We hear so much about looking for, questioning and spotting red flags on the outside, whether that's with a person, workplace, situation or event. We tend to only allow red flags and green flags to guide us, rather than trusting our own guidance system within.

Today we introduced red flags and green flags within - on the inside. If we get to a situation where "proof" of the red flag is on the outside, then we have most likely bypassed our own inner guidance system. Our own red flags were alerting us, but we either ignored or missed them.

We can build the muscle of focus on our own green flags within our open heart, such as our own life path journey...our own joys, excitement, presence with ourselves, creativity and imagination. If we are no longer being and doing our own green flags, then that's the first sign of our own inner red flag. Something has taken us off our alignment. Our focus has gone to the other person.

Now when we go about the world, we don't have to look for "proof", question, or search for red flags in another person. The relationship with ourselves will tell us everything we need for clarity. Our body, our mind will be speaking to us clearly as to what is aligned for us or not. We then get to listen and obey our intuition, creativity and imagination with our mind now in the back seat.

Let's create a life that expresses our wholeness. A life that we don't need to escape from, holiday from, seek more or constantly have to bake more cakes on the outside to experience the icing.

That deliciousness of life is when we turn and face all of ourselves as we are that cake with the icing. We are the shiny object on our own path.

Stay soft, stay gentle, stay kind.

With an open and grateful heart,

Melissa