24. Do You Pee In The Shower? and more questions for Monica

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Get to know your host Monica this episode. Amanda asks Monica such riveting questions as:

How often do you shower?

Do you pee in the Shower?

What else do you do in the Shower?

How often do you really wash your hands, you filthy animal?

If you had a time machine, would you travel back in time to meet your ancestors, or ahead in time to meet your descendants?

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WTF AITA for not allowing my best friend to the wedding because of her dog?

Hi Reddit I'm M28 and I will be getting married next year. We will be holding a pretty grand wedding with over 100 people. My best friend is Tara and she is blind. Has been blind since she moved into my neighborhood. She has a support dog who she uses and is very independent.

My fiancé and her parents are allergic to dogs. My fiancé doesn't want the dog to be allowed at the wedding because this is her special day and she should be able to choose who comes and goes to the wedding. This dog is also not hypoallergenic and has a lot of fur which would most likely worsen the problem. My fiancé and her parents won't budge and everyone agrees with it. This dog is a certified service dog and is well trained but it can't control its dander and if I am being honest, this day belongs to my fiancé and she should be 100%.

I told my best friend that she could come but no dog. We would escort her through the party and she could just stay for the ceremony and we could escort her away. She was very upset and through a massive fit and even cried at the end. She doesn't have a lot of friends and was really looking forward to my wedding but now couldn't attend. She called my wife an ableist and that taking tablets wouldn't hurt her. I agree, but a lot of her family have this problem and it's quite frankly more of a hassle to make everyone take medications than have her escorted. Also, I think the bride has a lot more say than a guest. She is still very hysterical and is blaming my fiancé. She called me an AH for supporting my fiancé and abandoning her. I do understand it's tough and independence is very important but she is not compromising, so she cannot attend. AITA?

Edit: Seems like I missed out on something crucial. I saw a lot of YTA and I thought it was wrong that my wife would not allow her to come and it was indeed ablest. So when talking to her (she had no idea about the post) she told me another important factor was her cousins and uncles were not willing and able to come because they are deathly allergic to dogs. Seems like her cousin can get hives and that he is an important part of the wedding planning. Also, grandma is coming and she is in her nineties and they don't want to take a chance with the dog. So to me, it seems like a done deal, but I'll leave this thread open for any more comments.