Recognizing unhealthy relationships in youth

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In our parenting hub this month Min Irene Alexander-Farris teaches about Recognizing unhealthy relationships in youth. This is crucial for the well-being and safety of our children. Here are some signs that may indicate an unhealthy relationships in youth.
1.Controlling behavior: One partner tries to control the other’s actions, decisions, or social interactions. This can include monitoring their whereabouts, demanding constant contact, or isolating them from friends and family.
2.Lack of respect: Disrespectful behavior, such as name-calling, belittling, or insulting, is a red flag. Respect is the foundation of any healthy relationship, and when it is absent, it can lead to emotional harm.
3.Jealousy and possessiveness: Constant jealousy or possessiveness can be a sign of an unhealthy relationship. It may include accusations of infidelity without evidence, extreme jealousy over harmless interactions, or attempts to control who the partner spends time with.
4.Physical, verbal, or emotional abuse: Any form of abuse is unacceptable. Physical abuse includes hitting, slapping, or any form of physical harm. Verbal and emotional abuse can involve constant criticism, humiliation, or manipulation. These behaviors are never okay and should be taken seriously.
5.Lack of communication or constant arguing: Healthy relationships involve open and honest communication. If there is a lack of communication or constant arguing without resolution, it can be a sign of an unhealthy dynamic.
6.Disregard for boundaries: Respecting boundaries is crucial in any relationship. If one partner consistently disregards the other’s boundaries, whether physical, emotional, or personal, it can indicate an unhealthy relationship.
7.Pressure or coercion: If one partner consistently pressures or coerces the other into engaging in activities they are uncomfortable with, whether sexually or otherwise, it is a sign of an unhealthy relationship.
It is essential for youth to be aware of these signs and to seek help if they find themselves in an unhealthy relationship. Trusted adults, such as parents, teachers, or counselors, can provide support and guidance in navigating these situations. Additionally, organizations and hotlines dedicated to relationship abuse can offer valuable resources and assistance.