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12: Why Can’t He Just Listen?
Manage episode 241999945 series 2521323
A husband who shifts into "fix it" mode without taking time to truly understand, or glazes over after only 3 minutes of listening, will only frustrate his wife and make the problem worse-the opposite of what he intends. So how can you avoid this very common experience and instead create interactions that leave you feeling heard without treating him like "one of the girls"? Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins explain a process with two critical steps. If he brushes off step 1 or you neglect step 2, you both lose. Bonus: a pro tip just for wives to increase your odds of gaining his ear every time.
Show Notes and Resources
It's Not About The Nail video. (2 min. video) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg
Check out all that's available on the FamilyLife Podcast Network. https://www.familylife.com/familylife-podcast-network/
More from Shaunti Feldhahn at Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com/
54 episodes
Manage episode 241999945 series 2521323
A husband who shifts into "fix it" mode without taking time to truly understand, or glazes over after only 3 minutes of listening, will only frustrate his wife and make the problem worse-the opposite of what he intends. So how can you avoid this very common experience and instead create interactions that leave you feeling heard without treating him like "one of the girls"? Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins explain a process with two critical steps. If he brushes off step 1 or you neglect step 2, you both lose. Bonus: a pro tip just for wives to increase your odds of gaining his ear every time.
Show Notes and Resources
It's Not About The Nail video. (2 min. video) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg
Check out all that's available on the FamilyLife Podcast Network. https://www.familylife.com/familylife-podcast-network/
More from Shaunti Feldhahn at Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com/
54 episodes
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