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#80 - Self-Awareness, Adaptation, Autonomy

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Unfortunately, most have very little self-awareness.

ASK: Who are you?

Beyond what you do

Beyond what you have or own

If everything was taken away from you: friends, family, colleagues, business, finances… who would you be?

Most people have little to no understanding of who they are.

I’m an entrepreneur, parent, man/woman, engineer, architect…

Those are all things you do, or a role you play. They don’t qualify for who you are.

Why do you do what you do?

Why do you like certain things and not others?

Why do you have certain habits and traits?

Do you ever promise yourself you’re going to change and then you don’t? Why is that?

Do you ever do things and then wonder why?

Ever do things that are disempowering, maybe harmful even though you know it’s not good for you?

Why is that?

Unless you can answer these questions, you’ll have little to no ability to influence yourself—much less be able to discipline yourself—to do something different.

You’re flying on UC autopilot.

95% UCM

It’s not about just changing your thinking.

Make the UC/C

Your results are a reflection of you. If you want your external results to change you must change...

Alchemy of Influence:

https://harmonicwealthglobal.com/mastering-communication-and-influence/

  continue reading

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Unfortunately, most have very little self-awareness.

ASK: Who are you?

Beyond what you do

Beyond what you have or own

If everything was taken away from you: friends, family, colleagues, business, finances… who would you be?

Most people have little to no understanding of who they are.

I’m an entrepreneur, parent, man/woman, engineer, architect…

Those are all things you do, or a role you play. They don’t qualify for who you are.

Why do you do what you do?

Why do you like certain things and not others?

Why do you have certain habits and traits?

Do you ever promise yourself you’re going to change and then you don’t? Why is that?

Do you ever do things and then wonder why?

Ever do things that are disempowering, maybe harmful even though you know it’s not good for you?

Why is that?

Unless you can answer these questions, you’ll have little to no ability to influence yourself—much less be able to discipline yourself—to do something different.

You’re flying on UC autopilot.

95% UCM

It’s not about just changing your thinking.

Make the UC/C

Your results are a reflection of you. If you want your external results to change you must change...

Alchemy of Influence:

https://harmonicwealthglobal.com/mastering-communication-and-influence/

  continue reading

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