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Dysfunctional Families
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We hear a lot of talk about dysfunctional families these days. Apparently, they are bad, and can cause some real damage to those who find themselves in one. But is my family dysfunctional? Did I come from one? How do I make sure my family doesn’t become one? I’m glad you asked!! Join the fellas this week and they discussion what dysfunctional families are, how to prevent them, and what to do if you fear you’re in one.
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Problem with dysfunction:
- Long lasting impact. Consistent, Frequent, Duration, changes the brain
- Dysfunctional families rack up tons of little “t” traumas.
- We tend to absorb both healthy and unhealthy behavioral/relationship patterns from our FOO
Solution: (Psychology Today; Julie Hall)
Here’s several “Signs” of dysfunction…make sure you do the opposite!
- Acceptance/Love is conditional
- Someone must always be blamed/scapegoat
- Vulnerability is dangerous, therefore, no intimacy
- The family has “Teams”
- Appearance not authenticity is ALL IMPORTANT
- Rage is normalized
- Denial & Defensiveness are the norm
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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers
Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast
How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast
The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com
265 episodes
Archived series ("Inactive feed" status)
When? This feed was archived on April 27, 2024 19:07 (). Last successful fetch was on March 01, 2024 05:18 ()
Why? Inactive feed status. Our servers were unable to retrieve a valid podcast feed for a sustained period.
What now? You might be able to find a more up-to-date version using the search function. This series will no longer be checked for updates. If you believe this to be in error, please check if the publisher's feed link below is valid and contact support to request the feed be restored or if you have any other concerns about this.
Manage episode 276989974 series 1136442
We hear a lot of talk about dysfunctional families these days. Apparently, they are bad, and can cause some real damage to those who find themselves in one. But is my family dysfunctional? Did I come from one? How do I make sure my family doesn’t become one? I’m glad you asked!! Join the fellas this week and they discussion what dysfunctional families are, how to prevent them, and what to do if you fear you’re in one.
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Problem with dysfunction:
- Long lasting impact. Consistent, Frequent, Duration, changes the brain
- Dysfunctional families rack up tons of little “t” traumas.
- We tend to absorb both healthy and unhealthy behavioral/relationship patterns from our FOO
Solution: (Psychology Today; Julie Hall)
Here’s several “Signs” of dysfunction…make sure you do the opposite!
- Acceptance/Love is conditional
- Someone must always be blamed/scapegoat
- Vulnerability is dangerous, therefore, no intimacy
- The family has “Teams”
- Appearance not authenticity is ALL IMPORTANT
- Rage is normalized
- Denial & Defensiveness are the norm
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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers
Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast
How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast
The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com
265 episodes
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