#19 - Overcoming Emotional Disconnection: The Power of Men's Groups & Healthy Masculinity w/ Jason Lange

Rebuilding The Village

Welcome to Rebuilding the Village with your host, Michael Read. Today, we're joined by Jason, a men's group facilitator and coach, who shares his personal journey of overcoming emotional disconnection and how it shaped his relationships. We explore the challenges that lead to dysfunctional behaviors in men, like the 'nice guy' syndrome and the absence of steady masculine role models.

Together, we discuss the concept of the healthy masculine—grounded, present, and sensitive—and the importance of cultivating these energies alongside the healthy feminine, which embodies radical devotion to love. The conversation highlights the power of accountability, mentorship, and community in men's development, dispelling the myth of the lone wolf. Jason also offers insights on finding or creating a transformative men's group and the role of shadow work in fostering growth and connection.

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Website: https://evolutionary.men/about-jason-lange/

00:00 Introduction and Background

03:04 The Importance of Men's Work

10:06 Understanding Dysfunctional Men

19:56 Defining the Healthy Masculine and Healthy Feminine

27:00 The Role of Accountability and Mentorship

42:59 The Challenge of Working Out for Oneself

44:27 The Power of Accountability and Expectations

45:23 The Importance of Circumstance and Being on the Right Track

48:40 Finding or Creating a Men's Group

54:07 Creating and Owning Your Own Group

57:21 Men Guiding Men Deeper into Their Experience

01:02:00 The Power of Feedback and Self-Reflection

01:06:59 The Myth of the Lone Wolf and the Importance of Community

01:09:27 The Need for Connection and Support