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He’s Cheating. Now What?
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Everything changed with a ding, with a click on a tab; that’s all it took to discover the man you love has been cheating on you.
Now what?
That’s just one of the questions we’ll walk through on this episode of “Sacred by Design.”
Anne joins Andrea to discuss the ways infidelity leaves you with more than just a broken heart. Together, let’s Learn to name the symptoms your body is experiencing, to give words to the screaming questions in your head, to validate your response to a devastating discovery.
This is a heavy episode. Grab a cup of cold water and take a deep breath.
Let’s begin.
Highlights
D-Day is also known as Discovery Day: You’re caught off guard. You didn’t know there was something going on with somebody. And then you start connecting the dots and panic sets in.
Name what your body is feeling. Symptoms may include: confusion, irritability, headaches, lack of appetite, intrusive thoughts. This can be expected. You think your life looks one way and all of a sudden it looks completely different.
Be aware of getting the right support. The wrong support can almost be re-traumatizing.
Healing is possible. It can look like symptoms being reduced. The offending spouse is able to say, “What do you need today? What is this like? I’m here. I’m trying to walk in recovery.” And then, that builds trust because trust has been broken. Safety’s been broken in the relationship. Long term observable actions make the biggest impact. And that is what helps the wife begin to heal.
Resources
The Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists
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Sacred By Design Retreat
Are you a woman who loves Jesus & and you're doing the hard work to break free from unwanted sexual behaviors?
We would be honored for you to join us for our first Sacred by Design Retreat to be held on Saturday, November 2, 2024. This special time has been crafted for you to receive and relax, to create and connect. We pray you’ll join us as we slow down long enough to be caught up by our Creator.
Register today as this event is open to only 10 attendees.
For more information and to register click here.
Wives Betrayal Basics Webinar
Has your heart been crushed recently by sexual betrayal? You may feel confused, terrified, and traumatized and not sure where to turn or what to do. This crisis necessitates support. This 55-minute free webinar is an opportunity to receive basic information on healing from betrayal trauma. It is also a good place to start getting to know our Wives Care Community.
For more information and to register click here.
Want Andrea to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We would love your feedback on Sacred by Design.
48 episodes
Manage episode 343005418 series 3384740
Everything changed with a ding, with a click on a tab; that’s all it took to discover the man you love has been cheating on you.
Now what?
That’s just one of the questions we’ll walk through on this episode of “Sacred by Design.”
Anne joins Andrea to discuss the ways infidelity leaves you with more than just a broken heart. Together, let’s Learn to name the symptoms your body is experiencing, to give words to the screaming questions in your head, to validate your response to a devastating discovery.
This is a heavy episode. Grab a cup of cold water and take a deep breath.
Let’s begin.
Highlights
D-Day is also known as Discovery Day: You’re caught off guard. You didn’t know there was something going on with somebody. And then you start connecting the dots and panic sets in.
Name what your body is feeling. Symptoms may include: confusion, irritability, headaches, lack of appetite, intrusive thoughts. This can be expected. You think your life looks one way and all of a sudden it looks completely different.
Be aware of getting the right support. The wrong support can almost be re-traumatizing.
Healing is possible. It can look like symptoms being reduced. The offending spouse is able to say, “What do you need today? What is this like? I’m here. I’m trying to walk in recovery.” And then, that builds trust because trust has been broken. Safety’s been broken in the relationship. Long term observable actions make the biggest impact. And that is what helps the wife begin to heal.
Resources
The Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists
Help the show
- Support the show
- Ask a question by emailing us
- Leave a review
- Subscribe wherever you get your podcasts
- Follow us on YouTube for behind the scenes and more
Sacred By Design Retreat
Are you a woman who loves Jesus & and you're doing the hard work to break free from unwanted sexual behaviors?
We would be honored for you to join us for our first Sacred by Design Retreat to be held on Saturday, November 2, 2024. This special time has been crafted for you to receive and relax, to create and connect. We pray you’ll join us as we slow down long enough to be caught up by our Creator.
Register today as this event is open to only 10 attendees.
For more information and to register click here.
Wives Betrayal Basics Webinar
Has your heart been crushed recently by sexual betrayal? You may feel confused, terrified, and traumatized and not sure where to turn or what to do. This crisis necessitates support. This 55-minute free webinar is an opportunity to receive basic information on healing from betrayal trauma. It is also a good place to start getting to know our Wives Care Community.
For more information and to register click here.
Want Andrea to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We would love your feedback on Sacred by Design.
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