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Why men shut down in relationships P4
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8 reasons why you shut your mouth and quit sharing your life and struggles with your woman…
And what you can do about it… this will be a series…
7 - if I share with you how I truly feel, and you feel attacked and turn it into an argument, I will typically never share with you on that topic again.
8 - you may have trauma in your life from the past, so it causes you to overreact, or read into how she responds.
i.e. you bring it up but you don’t set the tone right, so you don’t bring it up thinking its her but its actually you who cant deal with it.
How to deal with it
- Find a lightning rod
- seek spiritual counseling
- stay around strong Christian men
- Challenge negative and controlling thoughts, - embrace forgiveness
- We talked about this before, but again
- remind her, there are three types of relationships. One is healthy. What is unhealthy and one is no relationship. Challenge her to choose healthy or there will be no relationship in that area.
- realize you can build confidence in confrontation. You don't need her to respond correctly in order so that you continue to speak the truth in love. But always speak the truth in love regardless of how she might accept it. This is how you build unshakable confidence.
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