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Free The African First-Born Child From The Burden of Parentification

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Have you ever noticed how some firstborns tend to put a lot of pressure on themselves and others? Have you ever witnessed (or been in the shoes of) a daughter or son taking the role of a caretaker for younger and older relatives? Have you ever been encouraged to carry your family's legacy? or This could be linked to a relationship dynamic called parentification. Listen to this episode to this episode if you want to know:

  • What parentification is and the way it impacts your professional and personal adult life
  • Why some "responsible" children struggle to know what they want later in life
  • Why Miriam decided not to pursue a career in medicine
  • The mental shift that led Candace to decide to take Kizomba classes
  • The meaning and negative impact of compulsive caregiving
  • William Shakespeare's child and the pressure of carrying the family legacy
  • The unhealthy dynamics behind trying to be the "pride"of the family
  • Tips to free your future from the consequences of parentification

...And so much more!

If You want to send some feedback or just say hello, simply email us at hello@freeyourpeople.net!

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References:


  • Self-awareness tests:

- https://www.16personalities.com/

- https://myquestionlife.com/self-awareness-test/

Website: https://www.freeyourpeople.net/

Instagram: www.instagram.com/freeyourpeople

  continue reading

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Have you ever noticed how some firstborns tend to put a lot of pressure on themselves and others? Have you ever witnessed (or been in the shoes of) a daughter or son taking the role of a caretaker for younger and older relatives? Have you ever been encouraged to carry your family's legacy? or This could be linked to a relationship dynamic called parentification. Listen to this episode to this episode if you want to know:

  • What parentification is and the way it impacts your professional and personal adult life
  • Why some "responsible" children struggle to know what they want later in life
  • Why Miriam decided not to pursue a career in medicine
  • The mental shift that led Candace to decide to take Kizomba classes
  • The meaning and negative impact of compulsive caregiving
  • William Shakespeare's child and the pressure of carrying the family legacy
  • The unhealthy dynamics behind trying to be the "pride"of the family
  • Tips to free your future from the consequences of parentification

...And so much more!

If You want to send some feedback or just say hello, simply email us at hello@freeyourpeople.net!

----

References:


  • Self-awareness tests:

- https://www.16personalities.com/

- https://myquestionlife.com/self-awareness-test/

Website: https://www.freeyourpeople.net/

Instagram: www.instagram.com/freeyourpeople

  continue reading

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