The one with the normal bloke

Single Sounds

This week's episode is a self-proclaimed "normal bloke" who verifies his physical attractiveness by often experiencing gay men hitting on him on nights out. He has many varied interests ranging from Star Wars to yoga on his balcony, plus has too many friendship groups to keep track of each quarter! He explains why he wants to find someone driven and extroverted and admits his toxic trait of disliking small talk with new people. He is looking for a long-term partner who is carefree and won't need validation from others, for example, will be up for singing at a karaoke night.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• As an adult, it's hard to make new friends when you already have established social circles. New people must really impress to be able to break through that.
• Being extremely busy and doing too much is a toxic trait of his that stems from over-committing.
• He used to be very extroverted and social but now dislikes small talk and getting to know new people.
• His ideal partner would be an extrovert to balance him out as he's become more introverted.
• Good communication involves listening twice as much as you speak to let others feel heard.
• He'd give a TED talk on communication as it relates to all aspects of his life from work to relationships.
• Yoga and activities like karaoke that require not caring what others think attract him to a potential partner.

BEST MOMENTS

"I literally have to know the laws of the game inside out. I have to know context about all the leagues that I'm refereeing in."

"Everyone needs to vent every now and again. Just let them."

"I'm a popular man in the gay community. They hit on me all the time. I love it."

"I'm clean. I'm not a rotter"

VALUABLE RESOURCES

To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/

Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/

ABOUT THE HOST

Katie McNamara - London.

I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.

As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.

CONTACT METHOD -

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/

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Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/

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